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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you
A. Live in the moment, do things at the drop of a hat, fly by the seat of your pants impulse person.
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B. Check my diary, know what I'm doing for the rest of the year, have to be organised and plan in advance type person.
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C. A mixture of the above, like to be organised/prepared but don't get my knickers in a twist if there is some spontinaity or last minute change.
Or D. Something else entirely.
I'm very much an A at heart but having to be more C like due to work/family etc.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mix of B and D. I wouldn't say I was planned up with everything miles in advance, but I don't do spontaneous at all whatsoever. It makes me feel unsettled. I have to be able to plan and prepare to a certain extent or I get panicky. If someone springs an event or something on me that I didn't know about then it can ruin the whole day or weekend for me. I suspect it makes me a bit difficult to live with, but I feel the same about people who always want to be spontaneous. |
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I'm a complete planner. If it's not on the calendar it's not happening!!!
Mainly due to a very busy household & the ex works away so need to make sure everything is covered.
I long for the day when I'm no longer needed to be taxi driver or worry that that I've missed something. I would love to just be able to jump on a train to anywhere for a day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you
A. Live in the moment, do things at the drop of a hat, fly by the seat of your pants impulse person.
Or
B. Check my diary, know what I'm doing for the rest of the year, have to be organised and plan in advance type person.
Or
C. A mixture of the above, like to be organised/prepared but don't get my knickers in a twist if there is some spontinaity or last minute change.
Or D. Something else entirely.
I'm very much an A at heart but having to be more C like due to work/family etc.
Mrs"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm C. With work and family i am forced to plan things....but i do it very begrudgingly. I'm not the world's most organised person.....i am aiming to be more B, but i hate having to plan stuff i much prefer to just do things. I drive my family mad because i leave everything to the last minute and only plan when i have to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably a bit of A, B, and C all mixed in together..
I can be very spontaneous but also because of family commitments I have to plan ahead .., sometimes months in advance ... I also like to know what I'm doing from one week to the next |
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"C - I do my homework and make plans but flexible and excellent in a crisis.
My levels of laziness and chaos require a fair amount of organisation "
Let me qualify that:
D - meticulous but poor impulse control |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
in the suffolk countryside |
D..opportunities i want to experience i pen in the diary, rest of the time im looking for the opportunities to experience..the other stuff fits in, or doesnt...according to what happens in the meantime....seems to work, for me |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
B - I like to know what I'm doing in advance. Ive always been pretty organised. I hate things sprung on me last minute and complete changes ( small changes are fine) to plans.
Mr B is more an A, which often makes it interesting in our house. |
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A. 100%. B's drive me mad as I can't wait for them to faff with planning everything to the last detail, and being totally unable to deal with anything that changes. I can tolerate C's as long as they don't spend too long deciding . (more than 15 seconds is too long) |
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