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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Local hotel meets.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or local clubs?

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Apparently it's someone who will meet locally, although buses count as travelling to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't want to give the impression they're going to jump in car taxi and see you without planning.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In the garden... obviously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't put travel, because I'm not prepared to go 1+ hour for a meet. Im not going to Scotland or Wales for anyone. I need to stay local.

And I don't accommodate.

And I still (used to) meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can accom but due to not havin a car or much of an expendible income I say I can't travel. Although I do have a pair of legs. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

Ahh, but that means you can at least travel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it depends a lot on how populated an area you live in...cant accom, cant travel', near london or in london is a very different matter to 'cant acccom, cant travel' in some rural area....i dont drive, or accom, so have to ensure i am near enough home to get there safely if i need to...its not been a problem so far...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't put travel, because I'm not prepared to go 1+ hour for a meet. Im not going to Scotland or Wales for anyone. I need to stay local.

And I don't accommodate.

And I still (used to) meet. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

Ahh, but that means you can at least travel

Yes, within my own town.

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By *acavityMan over a year ago

Redditch

My rule of thumb is the meet should last longer than the travelling.

But "can't travel, Can't accommodate" could be won't meet or accommodate. But still enjoying the chat rooms and of course the forums.

But I'm planning on accommodating tonight, and travelling Friday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"it depends a lot on how populated an area you live in...cant accom, cant travel', near london or in london is a very different matter to 'cant acccom, cant travel' in some rural area....i dont drive, or accom, so have to ensure i am near enough home to get there safely if i need to...its not been a problem so far..."

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Also, I find that having that I can travel on my profile makes people assume that I can drive or afford to travel long distances by train and so on.

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By *HaRiFMan over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

In my case I was just jokeing and wanted people to think WTF, how does that work?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't won't accom cos of my kids

And only travel local but if you tick travel people take that ti mean you travel all over the place .....simple

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also, I find that having that I can travel on my profile makes people assume that I can drive or afford to travel long distances by train and so on."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It means they won't travel for meets. For me that's that I won't go anywhere that's not accessible by public transport. Realistically I meet in the city centre where I live unless I'm travelling for work and then I meet where I'm staying.

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It means they won't travel for meets. For me that's that I won't go anywhere that's not accessible by public transport. Realistically I meet in the city centre where I live unless I'm travelling for work and then I meet where I'm staying.

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously. "

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I can't travel at the moment, my Oyster card needs topping up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Can't accommodate ????

Can't travel ????

CAN'T MEET

I can't accommodate or travel far, yet I still manage to meet.

And me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to have cant travel cant accom on my profile as I dont drive. After a while i realised that planning a meet in advance isn't a dirty phrase and so I changed it as i have the ability to catch a train

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously. "

I seem to have upset the humour police.

My sincere apologies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't travel at the moment, my Oyster card needs topping up

Have Oyster,will travel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I used to have cant travel cant accom on my profile as I dont drive. After a while i realised that planning a meet in advance isn't a dirty phrase and so I changed it as i have the ability to catch a train"

Saying can't generally means it's not going to happen. It's not really an ambiguous word. If someone messages me,who is too far,I say sorry,you're too far. I've had a few men say they will come to me and get a hotel room.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Walk

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I sometimes use my broomstick

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously.

I seem to have upset the humour police.

My sincere apologies

I'm certainly not the humour police - I just didn't see owt funny

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

Don't worry OP it's just a guideline. I once got a message from a couple who were not interested in single men. I tried to respond back but they had their filter on and even messaged me saying "so you not interested" lol People on here get so picky sometimes they forget what settings or filters they have on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously.

I seem to have upset the humour police.

My sincere apologies

In the past a lot of people have asked this as a serious question. Hence the reaction you got on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

But are they actually not interested in single men, or did they just have the filters on? I'm interested in single men - but I have filters on to block messages from anyone because I prefer to search and message people myself. As a result my profile states "not interested in single men".

I haven't forgotten or become too picky for my own good, it's just how I use the site to my own advantage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have car meets to the local woods or if a very late meet up a lane near me. At times i travel by bus

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?"

I think they turn the filters off briefly to message me but when I tried it seemed to be back on. It even said you are out of their age bracket

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I also won't accommodate. So I meet in hotels.

I never get how this is so difficult for people.l to understand. Seriously.

I seem to have upset the humour police.

My sincere apologies

In the past a lot of people have asked this as a serious question. Hence the reaction you got on here.

Ah ok fair enough. No offence intended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?"

You can. If they've messaged you then you can always reply, unless they've blocked you specifically.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?"

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters.

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I haven't forgotten or become too picky for my own good, it's just how I use the site to my own advantage. "

If you messaged me RubyWoo I would firstly look at your profile and if I saw "not interested in single men" I would think maybe it's a mistake, fake profile or its an experiment. It might be true that you're interested in single men but you know this in your mind. On paper i.e. your profile it states different and that's what people go off on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters."

Not if they have a age filter too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters.

Not if they have a age filter too"

Yes you can. The message they send is an override. I have a few friends that I am outside their age range and don't have a problem messaging them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I haven't forgotten or become too picky for my own good, it's just how I use the site to my own advantage.

But this is what I'm telling you - the site is set up such that if you have a filter to block men from messaging, it will always state "not looking for single guys", regardless of whether you also have everyone else blocked from messaging (as I do) and have men ticked in what you're looking for (as I do - that's why you can see the age of the men I'm looking for on my profile). I don't particularly like that the site does this, I think it's confusing, but it does.

Why not just trust that if people are messaging you, it's because they are, in fact, looking for single men?

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters.

Not if they have a age filter too

Yes you can. The message they send is an override. I have a few friends that I am outside their age range and don't have a problem messaging them"

Maybe was a glitch then. I'm defo gonna try it again. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters.

Not if they have a age filter too"

I message people out of my age filters & they can reply via the original message. If starting a fresh message then no you can't

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

Usually means they meet local or ok if you want to pick them up.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I haven't forgotten or become too picky for my own good, it's just how I use the site to my own advantage.

Why not just trust that if people are messaging you, it's because they are, in fact, looking for single men? "

You're trouble Ruby is that you make it too plain and straightforward. People don't always get that.

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By *ellblessMan over a year ago

Berkshire

"How does that work then?

I suppose an enterprising mind could get something sorted in the garden or the local park?

I always thought after someone had messaged you even if they have filters on you can still message them ?

I'm pretty sure if someone sends you a message you can reply, regardless of filters.

Not if they have a age filter too

Yes you can. The message they send is an override. I have a few friends that I am outside their age range and don't have a problem messaging them

Maybe was a glitch then. I'm defo gonna try it again. Thanks"

OK well if that's the way you have it set up ruby fair play to you. I love your pics by the way very curvy. The thing is there are a few fake profiles going around and a few university numbties messing around on this site so I guess it makes people question sometimes.

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