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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is anyone else picky about the other person's clothing on a meet?
I'm really picky. And I wish I wasn't! But unpredictably picky. Certain details on a shirt on a guy can make or break it for me.
I actually quite like a guy dressed casual - one guy turned up in a suit and I bet if he'd been wearing more casual clothes, I would've fancied him. As it was, I didn't. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I either wore what I was wearing to work (smart dress or shirt and trousers), or jeans and jumper/long sleeve t shirt if it was during my down time. I don't feel comfy dressing up and I don't have the motivation to either, my down time is spent relaxing and having fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I either wore what I was wearing to work (smart dress or shirt and trousers), or jeans and jumper/long sleeve t shirt if it was during my down time. I don't feel comfy dressing up and I don't have the motivation to either, my down time is spent relaxing and having fun. "
No one complained either. I reckon a lot of people like to claim they have such high standards but don't enforce them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's part of the overall mix, if anything in that mix doesn't work for you then of course it can effect attraction. "
I turned a guy down because he wore a white shirt with dark buttons on. Honestly it's like fingernails down a blackboard to me. I'm genuinely struggling to even post about it.
I saw him the next day in army uniform and was full of regret!
My husband thinks it's hilarious and constantly takes the piss out of me for it.  
See? Crazy by name... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not hugely picky. I'd be pissed off if someone turned up in tracksuit bottoms or something but anything vaguely smart or smart casual suits me.
As for what I wear, it depends where I'm meeting them from. If it's a quick drink after work, I'll be in my work stuff but that's generally a work dress or a pencil skirt anyway. If I'm meeting them on a night then it would be a dress I'd wear for a night out. I wouldn't turn up to meet anyone if I didn't feel like I was well enough dressed for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is anyone else picky about the other person's clothing on a meet?
I'm really picky. And I wish I wasn't! But unpredictably picky. Certain details on a shirt on a guy can make or break it for me.
I actually quite like a guy dressed casual - one guy turned up in a suit and I bet if he'd been wearing more casual clothes, I would've fancied him. As it was, I didn't.
Who else is mega picky about clothing? Does it make or break a meet for you? "
It sounds as though you should insist on a dress code for your meets |
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"I'm not hugely picky. I'd be pissed off if someone turned up in tracksuit bottoms or something but anything vaguely smart or smart casual suits me.
As for what I wear, it depends where I'm meeting them from. If it's a quick drink after work, I'll be in my work stuff but that's generally a work dress or a pencil skirt anyway. If I'm meeting them on a night then it would be a dress I'd wear for a night out. I wouldn't turn up to meet anyone if I didn't feel like I was well enough dressed for it. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Men in polo shirts with the buttons done up would have me edging towards the door."
This. Very, very this.
Are any men picky about what women wear to meets, or are they just excited someone turned up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men in polo shirts with the buttons done up would have me edging towards the door.
This. Very, very this.
Are any men picky about what women wear to meets, or are they just excited someone turned up?"
Personally I would like the women to wear whatever she feels comfortable in. She can turn up wearing jogging bottoms jumper and granny knickers for all I care. I always try to dress in things I'm comfortable in because it makes no sense for me to wear something uncomfortable unless its for work.
That's why I only own 1 pair of jeans, to me even the loose fit is rather uncomfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And guys with gold chain necklaces. I can't do it. "
Total turn off. 
It depends on the person. The tiniest thing can put me off but then again overall I'm generally not bothered.
I'm just fickle as fuck.  |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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It's down to personal taste.
I'm generally a smart casual dressed person (shirt jeans shoes) which can be intimidating if the woman is in trakkies, but that's just the man i am....
You should see beyond the clothes though, especially if it'll be ending up on the floor  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hold my hands up to judging a guy by their cloths/shoes...
But saying that, the guy who holds the number 1 spot was wearing fucking crocs the first time I met him  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fairly easy going regarding a gent's attire, my own would depend on when, hence a casual drink after work means i'll look quite formal, otherwise smart jeans and a blouse - always with heels. |
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