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By (user no longer on site) OP
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What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ?? |
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"
I always try to reply to at least someone's first message to me, and I always try to be polite when declining their interest. But I can totally understand why recipients are rude in their replies at times.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
I always try to reply to at least someone's first message to me, and I always try to be polite when declining their interest. But I can totally
understand why recipients are rude in their replies at times.... "
Fair point and I know not everyone is everyone's cup of tea that's life and can understand if someone's bombarded with messages it maybe a bit of a joke replying to all of them so I get that x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just block them and forget it,you need to be thick skinned on here as there are lots of rude people.Its easy to be so online."
Learning that lol thanks for the advice  |
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Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.
Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck! |
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"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.
Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!"
You're so sensible, Sophie. 
I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.
Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!
You're so sensible, Sophie.
I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something."
Was tempting but didn't think they were worth retaliating to ?? |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Op - there is absolutely no reason for you to be treated with anything other than respect. This includes rejecting someone.
Please report the users to admin. And don't feel that it's normal or accepted here. If you're adhering to peoples preferences for contacting them then there's no reason for them to be even mildly bothered. Good luck!
You're so sensible, Sophie.
I'd've just written "Fuck off" or something."
They can report you if you do that though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had someone go nuts just because I fab a pictures they just put up, I just laugh and block them  "
If they don't want them fabbed then they need to adjust their settings! There's some mad people on here !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "
Would you like some? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "
Was literally hello nice profile and pics hope you're good then got abuse
Back and blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message
Was literally hello nice profile and pics hope you're good then got abuse
Back and blocked "
Maybe they were having a bad day 
No thanks is usually seen as abuse by a few thou |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We've never been rude to anyone even though we've had messages that could quite easily make us be . Not all mail from single guys comes across as very nice even so no point being rude just say nothing delete and block |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??"
After being on here for a couple of weeks with the wife, at first all we got was cock pics and one line messages, quite rude ones too!
Now I think people are reading what we are BOTH looking for, some still slip through the net, but we are getting through to the males now
If we receive a polite message from a single male, they at least get a polite decline.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message "
After several years of being him I'm surprised you're wondering how this could happen. Surely by now you have realised there are a lot of abusive women on here. I'm not going to speculate as to why he received abuse after sending a polite message; there could be any number of reasons. I've rarely received abuse from saying no thank you to men,yet women say they get it often. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are rude people in all walks of life, not just here. Its just words on a screen from a keyboard warrior, ignore, report and block them. No point lowering yourself to their level and being abusive back, I was always extra nice to anyone sending abuse. Its nice people show their true colours early so you can exit swiftly and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What's the deal with rude people on here you send a message just being friendly and get abuse back what's that about thought this was ment to be fun ??
If this is really a regular occurrence I do wonder what you are saying.
I've been here for several years and never had abuse in response to a first message
After several years of being him I'm surprised you're wondering how this could happen. Surely by now you have realised there are a lot of abusive women on here. I'm not going to speculate as to why he received abuse after sending a polite message; there could be any number of reasons. I've rarely received abuse from saying no thank you to men,yet women say they get it often. "
Thanks for the advice it's appreciated ?? X |
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