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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why have i lost the Confidence to meet people ?
Once i would not think twice when meeting people for casual fun but now i just don't seem to have the confidence to meet anyone.
What is wrong with me ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most of us have been there, you get a knock to your confidence and it can snowball, take some time off, do some stuff you're good at, then come back and take it slow, chat, flirt, be cheeky, and all will fall back into place
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing is wrong with you, most people lose their mojo at some point. 
Try not to worry about it and enjoy the 'break'. "
Scarlett stars im sure thats the name of a scottish rock band? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP... If you've been out of the dating or social side of things in your life for a while?
Then it's understandable to feel apprehensive and nervous etc.
Try and get yourself back out there taking it slowly at your on pace and you'll soon be back to your old confident self I'm sure .
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As we don't know you personally; it's difficult to say;
I would suggest you sit down and go a bit if self analysis;
Have you changed recently ? Appearance, health, family matters, where you live?
Is this los of confidence just for meets? Or gave you lost confidence elsewhere? With freinds, at work, etc
Is there any incident that might have triggered it?
If you go a " then and now list", you might find a pattern or a reason |
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