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Monogomy as in "one wife", then yes, because who can afford more than one 
But anyone involved in swinging scene cannot truely be seen as monogomous as in "one partner for life"  |
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I'm 50. Until the age of 45 I'd only kissed two men in my life and had sex with one: my husband, I was a virgin when I married.
If we'd stayed married I'd have remained monogamous as I'd never felt the need to look elsewhere. |
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"I'm 50. Until the age of 45 I'd only kissed two men in my life and had sex with one: my husband, I was a virgin when I married.
If we'd stayed married I'd have remained monogamous as I'd never felt the need to look elsewhere."
But. What's the count at now, o holder of the gates of hell?! |
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"I'm 50. Until the age of 45 I'd only kissed two men in my life and had sex with one: my husband, I was a virgin when I married.
If we'd stayed married I'd have remained monogamous as I'd never felt the need to look elsewhere.
But. What's the count at now, o holder of the gates of hell?!"
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I had been with one man other than my husband when we got married - we have been together 20 years and until last year that was how it was always going to be.
Then we decided to dip our toes into swinging... well I dont like dipping, I have always been one to jump right in!!
Now that figure would be vastly different and at times I think of it and I am shocked at how many (in all fairness, its lots in a few nights rather than lots of meets). But then I think about it, and realise that we are both having amazing fun and a year down the line we are more in touch with each other than we ever have been.
So monogamy in an emotional sense is great - monogamy in a sexual sense is not a bad thing, but there are far more fun options out there!!! |
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I was very monogomous and fairly prim and proper I guess. I got married early, had children early, at 22 the naughtiest part of my life was watching naughty videos of Thomas the Tank Engine when he turned against Henry and decided to try a different train track and the excitement I felt when a new female engine, Daisy, appeared wearing what quite frankly looked like eye makeup.
I blame Chris for broaching the subject of swinging and god forbid sexual activity with other people and tempting me with forbidden fruit. He will blame me, as he merely mentioned the idea and now Im dragging him by the hand into situations of threesomes, foursomes, decadent parties and bi nights at Chams  |
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I think its a very outdated concept.. and while I accept for some they can not deal with the emotional issues of more than one partner..
I think its something like 70% of couples report some form of cheating these days. ( these figures are from a few years ago and of course its only from those asked.) But really look at divorce rates.
I personally do believe its outdated.. but it doesnt mean that I love or respect my Master any less.. just because we could both "love" another, but different to how we do ourselves.
We would happily welcome the right people into our family.
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