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over a year ago
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Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Her choice. Move on if you're not interested.
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So women are allowed choice?Slightly different opinion than you had for the breeding post. It's good that jesus is back to his empathetic mode  |
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"Her choice. Move on if you're not interested.
So women are allowed choice?Slightly different opinion than you had for the breeding post. It's good that jesus is back to his empathetic mode "
Meaning? |
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"Her choice. Move on if you're not interested.
So women are allowed choice?Slightly different opinion than you had for the breeding post. It's good that jesus is back to his empathetic mode
Meaning?"
you vilified a woman on the recent breeding thread for choosing what she does with her body. It was her choice and now you're condoning someone else's comment promoting the woman's right to choose. It just wonderful to know that Fab is allowing your minds to be opened further. Good work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just interested"
A woman is entitled to have sex with who she wants, when she wants. I can't see how she would damage the health of her unborn child, unless bumping it's face with the end of a penis will somehow hurt it.
It would be nice if, one day, websites such as this didn't have people who look down on women for the choices they make about their own bodies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When a woman is pregnant her girly bits are flooded with blood and nutrients such as the sex hormones this makes a woman very very horny. Playing whilst pregnant bb of not will not hurt the baby as the closing of the cervix and mucus plug is there to help keep baby safe. But certain possitions may make sex uncomfortable as the vagina shortens plus bump will get in the way.
Women will and can make their own decisions. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When a woman is pregnant her girly bits are flooded with blood and nutrients such as the sex hormones this makes a woman very very horny. Playing whilst pregnant bb of not will not hurt the baby as the closing of the cervix and mucus plug is there to help keep baby safe. But certain possitions may make sex uncomfortable as the vagina shortens plus bump will get in the way.
Women will and can make their own decisions. Xx"
That is a fair comment. When i started this thread i wasnt degrading anyone. Ye its a womens choice what they do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It always pisses me off at how judgemental people on a swinging site can be .
By all means have an opinion on anything , but it seems that sometimes a post comes up like this one where it seems the op thinks he can just come on and say pregnant women should only play with their partners ..... With no justifiable reason other than his own narrow minded principles .
So I categorically disagree - she can play with whoever she likes , whenever she likes and fair play to her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just interested"
why should it matter who is doing the sexual activity? and another thing is it doesn't do the unborn foetus any harm at all...as most women are absolutely rampant when they are pregnant I say good on her!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just interested
why should it matter who is doing the sexual activity? and another thing is it doesn't do the unborn foetus any harm at all...as most women are absolutely rampant when they are pregnant I say good on her!!"
oh and seeing as you mentioned it.....yes you are old fashioned  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just interested
why should it matter who is doing the sexual activity? and another thing is it doesn't do the unborn foetus any harm at all...as most women are absolutely rampant when they are pregnant I say good on her!!
oh and seeing as you mentioned it.....yes you are old fashioned "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Her choice. Move on if you're not interested.
So women are allowed choice?Slightly different opinion than you had for the breeding post. It's good that jesus is back to his empathetic mode
Meaning?
you vilified a woman on the recent breeding thread for choosing what she does with her body. It was her choice and now you're condoning someone else's comment promoting the woman's right to choose. It just wonderful to know that Fab is allowing your minds to be opened further. Good work! "
Did I really?? My point was/is wasn't about her choice to abort a child she had created, but why someone would deliberately not use contraception, risk pregnancy only to abort. There is absolutely no justification in getting pregnant only to kill it because you can't be bothered using contraception. I also said I understood how horny it is...don't see how having it as a fantasy is a problem, when the reality is so entirely wrong when the result isn't actually life but death.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just interested
A woman is entitled to have sex with who she wants, when she wants. I can't see how she would damage the health of her unborn child, unless bumping it's face with the end of a penis will somehow hurt it.
It would be nice if, one day, websites such as this didn't have people who look down on women for the choices they make about their own bodies."
Well said xx |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions."
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children. "
I know and understand that.
The point I was attempting to make was more related to priorities at that stage of life for mother and child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Her choice. Move on if you're not interested.
So women are allowed choice?Slightly different opinion than you had for the breeding post. It's good that jesus is back to his empathetic mode
Meaning?
you vilified a woman on the recent breeding thread for choosing what she does with her body. It was her choice and now you're condoning someone else's comment promoting the woman's right to choose. It just wonderful to know that Fab is allowing your minds to be opened further. Good work!
Did I really?? My point was/is wasn't about her choice to abort a child she had created, but why someone would deliberately not use contraception, risk pregnancy only to abort. There is absolutely no justification in getting pregnant only to kill it because you can't be bothered using contraception. I also said I understood how horny it is...don't see how having it as a fantasy is a problem, when the reality is so entirely wrong when the result isn't actually life but death.
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You called her vile but then commend another person for suggesting the woman have control her own body. Move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Her body is her body; pregnant or not. "Having sex" while pregnant will not cause any harm to the baby or mother. My ex was always more horny during her pregnancies and she called on several regulars most weeks.
If this is about sexual health regarding STIs; pregnancy doesn't come into it whatsoever. |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children.
I know and understand that.
The point I was attempting to make was more related to priorities at that stage of life for mother and child."
Oh right. I admit it doesn't sit well with me and it isn't something I would have done but I wouldn't want to infer anything about their suitability as parents. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children.
I know and understand that.
The point I was attempting to make was more related to priorities at that stage of life for mother and child.
Oh right. I admit it doesn't sit well with me and it isn't something I would have done but I wouldn't want to infer anything about their suitability as parents."
It would very hypocritical for me to do that!
But as a 'swinging parent', the idea of swinging at that particular point doesn't sit well with me. The priorities seem wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A woman is entitled to have sex with who she wants, when she wants. I can't see how she would damage the health of her unborn child, unless bumping it's face with the end of a penis will somehow hurt it.
It would be nice if, one day, websites such as this didn't have people who look down on women for the choices they make about their own bodies."
Well bloody said!!... As long as she's safe anyways whether preggers or not, like all involved are clean, so bloody what??!!..
Some women are extra horny pregnant due to extra hormones!
I find it very hypocritical of people here who look down on other peoples tendencies and especially pregnant women ...god ye all must be all so p.c ...oh wait your here so your obviously not either!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's her body,which she can do with as she wishes. However,the body inside her isn't hers,and I think she should do everything possible to keep the baby healthy. If the pregnant woman can be 100% certain the people she is having sex with have nothing contagious that can harm the baby,then I think it is ok to do it. If she can't be 100% certain she should abstain. We keep ourselves away from pregnant women when we are ill,especially with chicken pox,which is in the same family of viruses as herpes. To be on the safe side I would wait until the baby is born. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'll just leave this here:
In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
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By (user no longer on site)
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A woman is entitled to have sex with who she wants, when she wants. I can't see how she would damage the health of her unborn child, unless bumping it's face with the end of a penis will somehow hurt it.
It would be nice if, one day, websites such as this didn't have people who look down on women for the choices they make about their own bodies.
Well bloody said!!... As long as she's safe anyways whether preggers or not, like all involved are clean, so bloody what??!!..
Some women are extra horny pregnant due to extra hormones!
I find it very hypocritical of people here who look down on other peoples tendencies and especially pregnant women ...god ye all must be all so p.c ...oh wait your here so your obviously not either!! "
We should all share the same opinion because we're here?
We didn't have sex with other people when my wife was pregnant. We avoided smokers, she didn't drink and lots of other things in the interests of our unborn children.
So I see nothing hypocritical about stating my opinion here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now folks im just a guy & call me old fashioned but i dont get this at all.
Female is pregnant but yet still swinging. Been on another site where this lady was pregnant & wanted as many men to fuck her as possible.
never being pregnant myself but surely the health of unborn child should be put to the for front of any sexual activity unless its with your partner.
a close friend of mine couldnt get enough off her chap when she was pregnant but that was with her chap.
Just judging and want you all to agree with me"
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children.
I know and understand that.
The point I was attempting to make was more related to priorities at that stage of life for mother and child.
Oh right. I admit it doesn't sit well with me and it isn't something I would have done but I wouldn't want to infer anything about their suitability as parents.
It would very hypocritical for me to do that!
But as a 'swinging parent', the idea of swinging at that particular point doesn't sit well with me. The priorities seem wrong."
Then I think we probably agree |
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By *artytwoCouple
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Swinging doesn't preclude a solid, stable home life for children.
I know and understand that.
The point I was attempting to make was more related to priorities at that stage of life for mother and child.
Oh right. I admit it doesn't sit well with me and it isn't something I would have done but I wouldn't want to infer anything about their suitability as parents.
It would very hypocritical for me to do that!
But as a 'swinging parent', the idea of swinging at that particular point doesn't sit well with me. The priorities seem wrong.
Then I think we probably agree "
And us.
Still, everyone is entitled to their opinion, unless of course it differs with the plethora of self-righteous nay-sayers. |
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"I'll just leave this here:
In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
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Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife. |
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"I'll just leave this here:
In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife."
So you should know better. Do you continuously screen throughout the pregnancy? I think saying that trying to keep a baby healthy is bollocks is very unprofessional. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife."
The point made was still relevant. |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions."
It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences. |
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I think this goes more into the human primal instinct. Without sounding like I'm going over board and talking and load of nonsense
As human beings we are put on this earth for one of few reasons and like any other animal we mate and have a physical and chemical attraction to one another. Whether we wish to believe it or not we are on this earth for mating purposes.
Recycling for want of a better term. But we are human, we have needs, desires so we do what we do to accommodate those. I've heard this before with pregnant women and my views and opinions are still somewhat unknown although I've said what I've said above.
We create, we multiply and pass on from one generation to the other. My other half when she was pregnant was off the rails in terms of being horny and it was rather a handful as she would wake up and be instantly a rabbit and she was like that for months on end.
With a partner I guess it's different but with strangers. I honestly don't know. Is there a line we just don't cross?. So many questions such little time.
Talking bollocks over...... |
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"It's her body,which she can do with as she wishes. However,the body inside her isn't hers,and I think she should do everything possible to keep the baby healthy. If the pregnant woman can be 100% certain the people she is having sex with have nothing contagious that can harm the baby,then I think it is ok to do it. If she can't be 100% certain she should abstain. We keep ourselves away from pregnant women when we are ill,especially with chicken pox,which is in the same family of viruses as herpes. To be on the safe side I would wait until the baby is born. "
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"It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences."
A larger range of experiences? Like what?
An unborn baby is not a parasite. If you don't give consideration to the impact of your behaviours on your child (born or developing), you're not fit to be a parent. |
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"I'll just leave this here:
In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife.
So you should know better. Do you continuously screen throughout the pregnancy? I think saying that trying to keep a baby healthy is bollocks is very unprofessional. "
Yeah, 'cos that's what I said. Not! |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences."
A parasite that has the right to be born healthy and not have its life put at risk by its host. If people don't give a shit about their unborn baby they shouldn't bother getting pregnant.
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"I'll just leave this here:
In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife.
So you should know better. Do you continuously screen throughout the pregnancy? I think saying that trying to keep a baby healthy is bollocks is very unprofessional.
Yeah, 'cos that's what I said. Not!"
You called it bollocks. The care of an unborn baby isn't bollocks,just because it's on an American website. It may be rare for a baby to contract a disease from its mother but my view is better safe than sorry. |
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I always took a break from the sexual side of swinging during my pregnancies it just wasn't worth risk for me, though I still attended socials and participated in the sites forums, but there were a lot of people that instantly judged me for meeting just socially, because attending a social automatically means you're going to fuck everytime doesn't it  |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences.
A parasite that has the right to be born healthy and not have its life put at risk by its host. If people don't give a shit about their unborn baby they shouldn't bother getting pregnant.
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Actually, a baby has no rights by law until it is born. There is a moral duty to look after it but considering that many, many women actively REFUSE to breast feed and give it milk that in all cases is substandard and causes harm, having sex with someone other than the babies father is moot.
Before you all get shirty and start justifying your reasons not to breastfeed, I clearly stated it is mothers that CHOOSE not to. Because they don't fancy it. |
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In most hospitals, infants’ eyes are routinely treated with an antibiotic ointment shortly after birth. This is to prevent blindness due to exposure to gonorrhea or chlamydia bacteria during delivery if the pregnant woman had an undetected infection.
STDs/STIs during pregnancy can also cause2:
•Miscarriage
•Ectopic pregnancy (when the embryo implants outside of the uterus, usually in a fallopian tube)
•Preterm labor and delivery (before 37 completed weeks of pregnancy)
•Low birth weight
•Birth defects, including blindness, deafness, bone deformities, and intellectual disability
•Stillbirth
•Illness in the newborn period (first month of life)
•Newborn death
Did you get this bollocks from an American site?
Maybe in the US they routinely put antibiotic eye cream in babies eyes but they certainly don't do it in the UK!
All pregnant women are offered syphillis and HIV screening as routine and those women who are at increased risk of STI's are offered referral to the GUM clinic.
In the UK, a baby is not recognised as having legal rights until it is fully born. Up until that point, the mother can behave as she pleases, unlike the US where some mothers are charged and convicted of putting their baby at risk by smoking and drinking, amongst other things.
I'm a Midwife.
So you should know better. Do you continuously screen throughout the pregnancy? I think saying that trying to keep a baby healthy is bollocks is very unprofessional.
Yeah, 'cos that's what I said. Not!
You called it bollocks. The care of an unborn baby isn't bollocks,just because it's on an American website. It may be rare for a baby to contract a disease from its mother but my view is better safe than sorry. "
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"It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences.
A larger range of experiences? Like what?
An unborn baby is not a parasite. If you don't give consideration to the impact of your behaviours on your child (born or developing), you're not fit to be a parent."
Well technically it is a parasite. It's an organism that requires a host for life. It's not a seperate entity.
Having sex while pregnant isn't inherently dangerous for a fetus. Risky unsafe sex might me. I don't know about you, but I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different people in the last nine months and I've not caught anything from anyone. Being pregnant doesn't suddenly mean you're going to throw away your condoms and have bareback gangbang parties with HIV positive and Ebola infected people.
Also a larger range of experiences - where I know children in poly households they tend to get introduced to the hobbies and activities of the other adults. My partner taught his casual girlfriends child to swim for example, and him being in the house means that the child is exposed to things like different ideologies, political views, opinions about what to watch on the tellebox - all adults are different and will treat children differently. Having more adults in and around the home, treating the child as an extra member of their family, means that they will be exposed to more. |
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI."
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"It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences.
A larger range of experiences? Like what?
An unborn baby is not a parasite. If you don't give consideration to the impact of your behaviours on your child (born or developing), you're not fit to be a parent.
Well technically it is a parasite. It's an organism that requires a host for life. It's not a seperate entity.
Having sex while pregnant isn't inherently dangerous for a fetus. Risky unsafe sex might me. I don't know about you, but I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different people in the last nine months and I've not caught anything from anyone. Being pregnant doesn't suddenly mean you're going to throw away your condoms and have bareback gangbang parties with HIV positive and Ebola infected people.
Also a larger range of experiences - where I know children in poly households they tend to get introduced to the hobbies and activities of the other adults. My partner taught his casual girlfriends child to swim for example, and him being in the house means that the child is exposed to things like different ideologies, political views, opinions about what to watch on the tellebox - all adults are different and will treat children differently. Having more adults in and around the home, treating the child as an extra member of their family, means that they will be exposed to more."
'Technically' it's not a parasite. Basic biology is that a parasite is a one-sided relationship.
I know a lot of people who are not in poly/open relationships... and I know this may come as a shock.. but they let other adults in the house 
Some even expose their children to extended family, friends.. even neighbours! So I'm not buying into the 'extra experiences' thing. If that were true kids leaving Children's Homes would be as rounded as could be. |
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?"
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months? |
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"It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences.
A larger range of experiences? Like what?
An unborn baby is not a parasite. If you don't give consideration to the impact of your behaviours on your child (born or developing), you're not fit to be a parent.
Well technically it is a parasite. It's an organism that requires a host for life. It's not a seperate entity.
Having sex while pregnant isn't inherently dangerous for a fetus. Risky unsafe sex might me. I don't know about you, but I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different people in the last nine months and I've not caught anything from anyone. Being pregnant doesn't suddenly mean you're going to throw away your condoms and have bareback gangbang parties with HIV positive and Ebola infected people.
Also a larger range of experiences - where I know children in poly households they tend to get introduced to the hobbies and activities of the other adults. My partner taught his casual girlfriends child to swim for example, and him being in the house means that the child is exposed to things like different ideologies, political views, opinions about what to watch on the tellebox - all adults are different and will treat children differently. Having more adults in and around the home, treating the child as an extra member of their family, means that they will be exposed to more."
Whatever the risks are,I wouldn't take the chance with my unborn baby. I didn't drink or smoke and ate as healthy as I could. I would have stopped having sex with strangers,if I were doing it. I may risk my health,I don't think it's fair to risk someone else's. In the unlikely event that my baby had been affected by an sti I caught I wouldn't have been able to forgive myself. |
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I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months?"
People do catch them though don't they. Someone told us of their husband contracting Chlamydia in his eyes,from a club. You can have Chlamydia and not have any symptoms. |
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"There's something very sexy about a pregnant lady. Anyway, let's face it you can't get her pregnant can you.  "
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months?
People do catch them though don't they. Someone told us of their husband contracting Chlamydia in his eyes,from a club. You can have Chlamydia and not have any symptoms. "
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months?
People do catch them though don't they. Someone told us of their husband contracting Chlamydia in his eyes,from a club. You can have Chlamydia and not have any symptoms. "
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"It's not another entity until it's born. It's just a parasite in a human body until then.
Also, knowing some people in both open and closed poly relationships with kids, I will say that they are proberbly amongst the most well rounded and balanced kids I've ever met. Socially developed too - proberbly through exposure to more adults on a regular basis and a larger range of experiences.
A larger range of experiences? Like what?
An unborn baby is not a parasite. If you don't give consideration to the impact of your behaviours on your child (born or developing), you're not fit to be a parent.
Well technically it is a parasite. It's an organism that requires a host for life. It's not a seperate entity.
Having sex while pregnant isn't inherently dangerous for a fetus. Risky unsafe sex might me. I don't know about you, but I've had a lot of sex with a lot of different people in the last nine months and I've not caught anything from anyone. Being pregnant doesn't suddenly mean you're going to throw away your condoms and have bareback gangbang parties with HIV positive and Ebola infected people.
Also a larger range of experiences - where I know children in poly households they tend to get introduced to the hobbies and activities of the other adults. My partner taught his casual girlfriends child to swim for example, and him being in the house means that the child is exposed to things like different ideologies, political views, opinions about what to watch on the tellebox - all adults are different and will treat children differently. Having more adults in and around the home, treating the child as an extra member of their family, means that they will be exposed to more.
'Technically' it's not a parasite. Basic biology is that a parasite is a one-sided relationship.
I know a lot of people who are not in poly/open relationships... and I know this may come as a shock.. but they let other adults in the house
Some even expose their children to extended family, friends.. even neighbours! So I'm not buying into the 'extra experiences' thing. If that were true kids leaving Children's Homes would be as rounded as could be."
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"If I went up to a pregnant lady and called her baby a 'parasite' I'd get hit "
Judging by some of the responses not necessarily... they might just give you a cheeky wink and say 'nah it's not even real cos it ain't a legal human yet luv, fancy a gangbang cos I can't get pregnant again' |
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months?
People do catch them though don't they. Someone told us of their husband contracting Chlamydia in his eyes,from a club. You can have Chlamydia and not have any symptoms.
I take your point. Pregnant women should avoid heavy bukkake sessions."
And clubs. I avoid clubs. I'm paranoid about body fluids that might be deposited and not wiped up. Oh and avoid people who don't wash their hands between women. I'll probably think of something else to avoid. |
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"I called your information bollocks. Babies are at more risk of maternal Vit D deficiency, smoking and poor diet than an STI.
Could that be because most pregnant women don't fuck lots of people during pregnancy?
How many sexually transmitted infections did you catch in the last nine months?
People do catch them though don't they. Someone told us of their husband contracting Chlamydia in his eyes,from a club. You can have Chlamydia and not have any symptoms.
I take your point. Pregnant women should avoid heavy bukkake sessions.
And clubs. I avoid clubs. I'm paranoid about body fluids that might be deposited and not wiped up. Oh and avoid people who don't wash their hands between women. I'll probably think of something else to avoid. "
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Crossing roads
Walking alone after dark
Having hereditary diseases
Having a partner that cheats
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Herpes sounds like one to avoid catching during pregnancy:
"Catching herpes during pregnancy is more serious, but the right care can help to keep your baby safe.
If a baby catches herpes during or after birth, it's more worrying. Your newborn can catch herpes if you have an active outbreak in or around your vagina around the time of birth. Your baby can also catch it from people who have a cold sore or a herpes infection on their hands.
When a baby catches the virus, it’s called neonatal herpes. This is a rare but serious illness, and it can cause disability or even put a baby's life at risk." |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions."
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it? |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it? "
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result? |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X "
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it?
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result?"
The poor baby all because the mother likes having loads of different cock while pregnant |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
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What about the baby having a choice?
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It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions. |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it?
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result?
The poor baby all because the mother likes having loads of different cock while pregnant "
Proberbly no more risky than the socially acceptable practice of a man having an affair behind his pregnant wife's back. |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
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What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions."
Have you ever felt a baby kicking in the womb? |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X
What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions. Have you ever felt a baby kicking in the womb?"
I've felt a fetus kicking in a uterus. |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
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What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions."
Still a living being in the womb |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
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What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions.
Still a living being in the womb "
But one that isn't capable of making any choices. |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it?
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result?
The poor baby all because the mother likes having loads of different cock while pregnant
Proberbly no more risky than the socially acceptable practice of a man having an affair behind his pregnant wife's back."
Errrr we on about the pregnant woman having different cock. But the man don't go of the subject waspy |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X
What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions."
What I don't understand is that all your arguments suggest somebody with no interest (and no idea) of parenthood and yet you argue so strongly in a topic about parenthood.
When you become a parent you look after the child - that's the deal.
This begins during pregnancy.
Whatever the law is has no relevance at all - this is the basics of human life. Were it not so, we wouldn't be here! |
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X
What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions. Have you ever felt a baby kicking in the womb?
I've felt a fetus kicking in a uterus."
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X
What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions.
Still a living being in the womb
But one that isn't capable of making any choices."
Obviously! So it's ok for the mother to fuck about with lots of different men and not even worry about the "baby" |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it?
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result?
The poor baby all because the mother likes having loads of different cock while pregnant
Proberbly no more risky than the socially acceptable practice of a man having an affair behind his pregnant wife's back."
I'd say it was riskier if the woman is meeting multiple men,but the debate was about the woman making a choice,not cheating men. |
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What I don't understand is that all your arguments suggest somebody with no interest (and no idea) of parenthood and yet you argue so strongly in a topic about parenthood."
Actually I have experience of step-parenthood.
Mostly I just feel very strongly about women's rights, women's reproductive rights, and the right for a woman to have complete control over what she does with her own body.
I object to people telling other women how they think they should treat their own bodies.
"When you become a parent you look after the child - that's the deal."
Well no, it's not the deal. You don't sign a contract when a sperm fertilizes an egg agreeing to certain things. There's no requirement to behave in a certain way. And both abortion and adoption are legal in this country, so no - you don't have to "look after" the fetus in any specific way. |
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"Personally I think it's a bit fucked up.
I'd prefer that people were trying to prepare a solid stable environment before having a child and swinging doesn't seem ideal towards that.
The 'her body' argument is a bit tenuous too - she's carrying another life in that body & more sex with more people inevitably equals more risk - whatever the precautions.
Yes her choice she can fuck who she likes let's hope she plays safe.
If she catches a std and harms the baby then who's fault is it?
That part is obvious. The question is who suffers as a result?
The poor baby all because the mother likes having loads of different cock while pregnant
Proberbly no more risky than the socially acceptable practice of a man having an affair behind his pregnant wife's back.
I'd say it was riskier if the woman is meeting multiple men,but the debate was about the woman making a choice,not cheating men. "
Shit choice even thinking about fucking other men while pregnant.
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"I'm 32w pregnant and if I choose to play with others that my choice.but I don't and won't no matter how horny I am.yes I get frustrated as my sex drive high and hubby works most nights or sleeps in the day.but our baby comes 1st.
It's woman choice at end of the day if she does or don't .
Sam X
What about the baby having a choice?
It's not a baby until it's born.
Also children that young are incapable of making rational decisions.
Still a living being in the womb
But one that isn't capable of making any choices.
Obviously! So it's ok for the mother to fuck about with lots of different men and not even worry about the "baby""
Woah - who said that the hypothetical mother isn't worrying about the "baby"?
The hypothetical mother I'm talking about ha regular tests during her period, uses extra safe condoms, and background checks her multiple partners.
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The thought of fucking anyone apart from the baby's father whilst pregnant just would not have entered my mind.
For me it was a time to bond with my unborn baby not a time to be engaging in sexual activities with random strangers. |
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What I don't understand is that all your arguments suggest somebody with no interest (and no idea) of parenthood and yet you argue so strongly in a topic about parenthood.
Actually I have experience of step-parenthood.
Mostly I just feel very strongly about women's rights, women's reproductive rights, and the right for a woman to have complete control over what she does with her own body.
I object to people telling other women how they think they should treat their own bodies.
When you become a parent you look after the child - that's the deal.
Well no, it's not the deal. You don't sign a contract when a sperm fertilizes an egg agreeing to certain things. There's no requirement to behave in a certain way. And both abortion and adoption are legal in this country, so no - you don't have to "look after" the fetus in any specific way."
Your always ranting about the same old shit. Your very negative in the forums.
Not going to read any more of your negative comments or even reply to your post.
They proper bore me
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"The thought of fucking anyone apart from the baby's father whilst pregnant just would not have entered my mind.
For me it was a time to bond with my unborn baby not a time to be engaging in sexual activities with random strangers."
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What I don't understand is that all your arguments suggest somebody with no interest (and no idea) of parenthood and yet you argue so strongly in a topic about parenthood.
Actually I have experience of step-parenthood.
Mostly I just feel very strongly about women's rights, women's reproductive rights, and the right for a woman to have complete control over what she does with her own body.
I object to people telling other women how they think they should treat their own bodies.
When you become a parent you look after the child - that's the deal.
Well no, it's not the deal. You don't sign a contract when a sperm fertilizes an egg agreeing to certain things. There's no requirement to behave in a certain way. And both abortion and adoption are legal in this country, so no - you don't have to "look after" the fetus in any specific way."
I'm surprised at how driven you are by the superficial.
You use acts of law to validate what constitutes a life. You talk about the role of parenthood as a 'contract'. You consider a woman's 'right' to use (or abuse) her body to be more important than her responsibility to nurture and protect the new life within her (oh yes but is it only a life at 24 weeks or is at birth depending on which law suits?)
Ultimately though you are correct. And yet still so very wrong.
I doubt you will ever understand, unless perhaps you have a child yourself. If you ever do, I really hope your outlook changes. |
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Me?
If a Pregnant Girl / Couple come onto me, I'll happily play. Nothing wrong with that.
Stick to any rules and have at it, I say.
Sort of does it for me quite a bit.  |
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"The thought of fucking anyone apart from the baby's father whilst pregnant just would not have entered my mind.
For me it was a time to bond with my unborn baby not a time to be engaging in sexual activities with random strangers."
Which is exactly the same attitude that I'll take IF I get pregnant in a relationship and IF I'm in a swinging couple then. |
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I was horny as fuck when pregnant but Bradley was the only person I wanted anywhere near me.
Safe sex will never be 100% safe and, having seen what herpes can do to unborn and newborn's alike, it was not a risk I was willing to take with my little'uns.
Doesn't bother me what other people get up to though. That's their choice to make.
- Amy. x |
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"Funny how it's an "unborn baby" now when on the other thread it was a "bunch of cells", with the exception of waspy who is at least being consistent..."
I've always wondered when it stops being a bunch of cells and becomes a baby (or parasite ) ? |
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I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun. |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun. "
I dunno, the cock I played with while pregnant and it wasn't babies dad either (stone me now) was about 3ft long....he nearly broke my waters!! |
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For us, it's only oral a new sex partner would get, no matter how much begging any guy does. Took me long enough to fall pregnant with this one I'm sure as hell not chancing anything with my little bubble. Had to friends only our pictures because we still had men asking to meet, and even had a couple say because I'm pregnant bare would be fine - because you know everyone reads profiles! woman's choice at the end of the day! We are pro-choice but for us it's a special 9 months. |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun. "
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical... |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical..."
Having fun harms you? |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you? "
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you?
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others"
OK that was serious!?! Well I guess we should ban pregnant women driving cars too then... |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you?
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others
OK that was serious!?! Well I guess we should ban pregnant women driving cars too then..."
No I just made it up for some hysterics!
Now what random argument should I jump to... erm let's go with playing bongo drums on pregnant tummies gives children rhythm
or wearing green clothes during pregancy may make your baby love trees |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you?
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others
OK that was serious!?! Well I guess we should ban pregnant women driving cars too then...
No I just made it up for some hysterics!
Now what random argument should I jump to... erm let's go with playing bongo drums on pregnant tummies gives children rhythm
or wearing green clothes during pregancy may make your baby love trees"
I'll just leave this here - http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1011169/genital-herpes-in-pregnancy |
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you?
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others
OK that was serious!?! Well I guess we should ban pregnant women driving cars too then...
No I just made it up for some hysterics!
Now what random argument should I jump to... erm let's go with playing bongo drums on pregnant tummies gives children rhythm
or wearing green clothes during pregancy may make your baby love trees
I'll just leave this here - http://www.babycentre.co.uk/a1011169/genital-herpes-in-pregnancy"
OK, mind if I leave this here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Probability |
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Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women.
A bit ott perhaps, but we didn't want to take any chances.
If others feel sex with strangers during pregnancy is fine that's their choice. No skin if my nose as I won't be picking up the pieces if things go wrong.
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Tempted as I am to argue the merits of using probability to consider lifestyle choices during pregnancy...
..I'll instead add my final thought on this that if little Jemima were to be born with a mental/physical disability:
If the likely cause of that was the mother having been involved in a car accident I'd imagine that would be difficult to live with but not necessarily something she could directly blame herself for.
If instead it were because she'd decided to have risky sex (that's any sex with multiple partners), I'm thinking it would be pretty hard to live with.
That said I accept that given some of the attitudes on display there are also people who couldn't give a shit. Hopefully they're not parents or intending to be so. |
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"Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women
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Poor sprinkles!
1) I don't know anyone who let's their cat shit in the house
2) If there was cat shit in the house I wouldn't pick it up and start playing with it
3) Congenital toxoplasmosis effects 0.00003% of babies with only circumstantial evidence any of those got it from cat shit as opposed to any other form of shit. Even if all of them got it from cat shit, which they didn't, the probability is pretty much exactly the same as being in a road traffic accident from driving during those 9 months. |
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"Tempted as I am to argue the merits of using probability to consider lifestyle choices during pregnancy...
..I'll instead add my final thought on this that if little Jemima were to be born with a mental/physical disability:
If the likely cause of that was the mother having been involved in a car accident I'd imagine that would be difficult to live with but not necessarily something she could directly blame herself for.
If instead it were because she'd decided to have risky sex (that's any sex with multiple partners), I'm thinking it would be pretty hard to live with.
That said I accept that given some of the attitudes on display there are also people who couldn't give a shit. Hopefully they're not parents or intending to be so."
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"Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women
Poor sprinkles!
1) I don't know anyone who let's their cat shit in the house
2) If there was cat shit in the house I wouldn't pick it up and start playing with it
3) Congenital toxoplasmosis effects 0.00003% of babies with only circumstantial evidence any of those got it from cat shit as opposed to any other form of shit. Even if all of them got it from cat shit, which they didn't, the probability is pretty much exactly the same as being in a road traffic accident from driving during those 9 months."
Most people let them shit in litter trays/boxes they're kept in the house and some grotty soda rarely change them |
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"Tempted as I am to argue the merits of using probability to consider lifestyle choices during pregnancy...
..I'll instead add my final thought on this that if little Jemima were to be born with a mental/physical disability:
If the likely cause of that was the mother having been involved in a car accident I'd imagine that would be difficult to live with but not necessarily something she could directly blame herself for.
If instead it were because she'd decided to have risky sex (that's any sex with multiple partners), I'm thinking it would be pretty hard to live with.
That said I accept that given some of the attitudes on display there are also people who couldn't give a shit. Hopefully they're not parents or intending to be so.
And if I had wheels then I'd be a wagon "
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"I think there's a lot of hysteria about this subject. Just because a baby comes out a woman's flange it doesn't sit in there for 9 months in danger of being bobbed on the head by a dick should she dare to have a bit of fun.
The actions of a mother-to-be have no impact on a developing fetus?
Just some medical people being all hysterical...
Having fun harms you?
Already referenced the herpes info earlier (I think), among others
OK that was serious!?! Well I guess we should ban pregnant women driving cars too then...
No I just made it up for some hysterics!
Now what random argument should I jump to... erm let's go with playing bongo drums on pregnant tummies gives children rhythm
or wearing green clothes during pregancy may make your baby love trees"
Why not go the whole hog. Drink, smoke, take drugs, it's only a few cells.
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"Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women
Poor sprinkles!
1) I don't know anyone who let's their cat shit in the house
2) If there was cat shit in the house I wouldn't pick it up and start playing with it
3) Congenital toxoplasmosis effects 0.00003% of babies with only circumstantial evidence any of those got it from cat shit as opposed to any other form of shit. Even if all of them got it from cat shit, which they didn't, the probability is pretty much exactly the same as being in a road traffic accident from driving during those 9 months."
It's the dander in the litter trays that harms the unborn baby. |
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"Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women
Poor sprinkles!
1) I don't know anyone who let's their cat shit in the house
2) If there was cat shit in the house I wouldn't pick it up and start playing with it
3) Congenital toxoplasmosis effects 0.00003% of babies with only circumstantial evidence any of those got it from cat shit as opposed to any other form of shit. Even if all of them got it from cat shit, which they didn't, the probability is pretty much exactly the same as being in a road traffic accident from driving during those 9 months.
It's the dander in the litter trays that harms the unborn baby. "
Yes and that 'danger' needs 5 decimal places to be expressed properly. Other than the obvious answers like, get your husband to change the litter tray or get rid of the litter tray and tell the cat to go in the neighbours garden, I prefer to worry about things that have a greater than 1% chance of actually happening. Just personal preference. |
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Ah all these OTT counter arguments & stats make me chuckle.
People have different views on pregnancy. Some will continue as they were before with all their vices intact, others will choose to put their unborn baby 1st wherever feasibly & realistically possible.
Do what works for you. |
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"Being pregnant was a very special time for my husband and I. He even got rid of our cat because he'd read cat faeces could be harmful to pregnant women
Poor sprinkles!
1) I don't know anyone who let's their cat shit in the house
2) If there was cat shit in the house I wouldn't pick it up and start playing with it
3) Congenital toxoplasmosis effects 0.00003% of babies with only circumstantial evidence any of those got it from cat shit as opposed to any other form of shit. Even if all of them got it from cat shit, which they didn't, the probability is pretty much exactly the same as being in a road traffic accident from driving during those 9 months."
You missed the "ott" bit?
If my ex-husband could have wrapped me in cotton wool during my pregnancies he would have, he was that protective. I quite liked it truth be told.
That worked for us. If others think sex with strangers is an acceptable risk during pregnancy that's their choice as I said, it's no skin of my nose is it? |
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"Ah all these OTT counter arguments & stats make me chuckle.
People have different views on pregnancy. Some will continue as they were before with all their vices intact, others will choose to put their unborn baby 1st wherever feasibly & realistically possible.
Do what works for you."
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