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over a year ago
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it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway. |
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway."
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you "
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days.  |
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I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.  |
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture. "
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit. 
They try to control you because they can't control themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days. "
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture. "
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves."
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out. |
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. "
your right about the next melt down and walking on eggshells she was a nightmare |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Am I bovver'd?
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You might not be but others are or could even be going through the same thing. Maybe sometimes showing some compassion could go a long way. Just saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out. "
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. your right about the next melt down and walking on eggshells she was a nightmare "
Glad you're out of it buddy, take some time to be on your own enjoy the freedom |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out.
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference. "
The only support I've got is my friends don't know what else is out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. your right about the next melt down and walking on eggshells she was a nightmare
Glad you're out of it buddy, take some time to be on your own enjoy the freedom "
To be honest I don't want another relationship right now I just want someone to hold me kiss me and tell me it's going to be all right oh and also be female lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. your right about the next melt down and walking on eggshells she was a nightmare
Glad you're out of it buddy, take some time to be on your own enjoy the freedom
To be honest I don't want another relationship right now I just want someone to hold me kiss me and tell me it's going to be all right oh and also be female lol "
Hehe that's good cos I could manage the telling you it's gonna be alright bit, I'd struggle a bit with the other stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out.
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference.
The only support I've got is my friends don't know what else is out there "
Support groups on facebook mainly, with people who have also been abused who will help you if they can. They helped a lot for me, if something didn't make sense (because abusers/sociopaths don't think like non-abusers) they explained a lot of things.
And once i understood, and also stopped concentrating on, things that didn't make sense i started concentrating on working on me.
I've got boundaries now, still not great at applying them with people who haven't done anything that bad to me but i'm working on it. Been with 2 sociopaths so far so i figured out some stuff with the first one i was with and cut him dead for my own sake, but going through it again with someone else made me realise i wasn't keeping myself safe still.
Richard Grannon i found helpful, there's loads of youtubers and you might find one who you understand what they're saying and that will help. Not sure i need to go to a doctor or anthing because i feel ok now, just got a really bad memory still. But felt like i was going mad about 10 months ago because so much of my last ex didn't make sense. I also probably have CPTSD from childhood abuse, but it helped me deal with stuff i couldn't deal with, which i found out about from Richard Grannons youtube channel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out.
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference.
The only support I've got is my friends don't know what else is out there
Support groups on facebook mainly, with people who have also been abused who will help you if they can. They helped a lot for me, if something didn't make sense (because abusers/sociopaths don't think like non-abusers) they explained a lot of things.
And once i understood, and also stopped concentrating on, things that didn't make sense i started concentrating on working on me.
I've got boundaries now, still not great at applying them with people who haven't done anything that bad to me but i'm working on it. Been with 2 sociopaths so far so i figured out some stuff with the first one i was with and cut him dead for my own sake, but going through it again with someone else made me realise i wasn't keeping myself safe still.
Richard Grannon i found helpful, there's loads of youtubers and you might find one who you understand what they're saying and that will help. Not sure i need to go to a doctor or anthing because i feel ok now, just got a really bad memory still. But felt like i was going mad about 10 months ago because so much of my last ex didn't make sense. I also probably have CPTSD from childhood abuse, but it helped me deal with stuff i couldn't deal with, which i found out about from Richard Grannons youtube channel."
Funny this was my second experience first one I ended up not in a good place. Saw the signs on this and ran I was with her for 2 years |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out.
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference.
The only support I've got is my friends don't know what else is out there
Support groups on facebook mainly, with people who have also been abused who will help you if they can. They helped a lot for me, if something didn't make sense (because abusers/sociopaths don't think like non-abusers) they explained a lot of things.
And once i understood, and also stopped concentrating on, things that didn't make sense i started concentrating on working on me.
I've got boundaries now, still not great at applying them with people who haven't done anything that bad to me but i'm working on it. Been with 2 sociopaths so far so i figured out some stuff with the first one i was with and cut him dead for my own sake, but going through it again with someone else made me realise i wasn't keeping myself safe still.
Richard Grannon i found helpful, there's loads of youtubers and you might find one who you understand what they're saying and that will help. Not sure i need to go to a doctor or anthing because i feel ok now, just got a really bad memory still. But felt like i was going mad about 10 months ago because so much of my last ex didn't make sense. I also probably have CPTSD from childhood abuse, but it helped me deal with stuff i couldn't deal with, which i found out about from Richard Grannons youtube channel.
Funny this was my second experience first one I ended up not in a good place. Saw the signs on this and ran I was with her for 2 years "
Was going to message you but your filters stop me so will say thank you here instead xx |
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting
I've been in that situation, it's insecurity on their part, and a need to control the situation. My ex made my life a living hell. I spent years walking on eggshells dreading the next melt down.
Best thing you can ever do is walk away for ever. "
Same here for me...I left everything behind and got shunned by my youngest |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.
she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out.
I've got 4 kids and they don't listen half the time, i've never got angry enough to hit them. Getting angry and violent isn't a valid option.
You got support as well? I've only just got support this past year for my shit i was trying to deal with, it makes a huge difference.
The only support I've got is my friends don't know what else is out there
Support groups on facebook mainly, with people who have also been abused who will help you if they can. They helped a lot for me, if something didn't make sense (because abusers/sociopaths don't think like non-abusers) they explained a lot of things.
And once i understood, and also stopped concentrating on, things that didn't make sense i started concentrating on working on me.
I've got boundaries now, still not great at applying them with people who haven't done anything that bad to me but i'm working on it. Been with 2 sociopaths so far so i figured out some stuff with the first one i was with and cut him dead for my own sake, but going through it again with someone else made me realise i wasn't keeping myself safe still.
Richard Grannon i found helpful, there's loads of youtubers and you might find one who you understand what they're saying and that will help. Not sure i need to go to a doctor or anthing because i feel ok now, just got a really bad memory still. But felt like i was going mad about 10 months ago because so much of my last ex didn't make sense. I also probably have CPTSD from childhood abuse, but it helped me deal with stuff i couldn't deal with, which i found out about from Richard Grannons youtube channel.
Funny this was my second experience first one I ended up not in a good place. Saw the signs on this and ran I was with her for 2 years
Was going to message you but your filters stop me so will say thank you here instead xx "
you're welcome. yeah i don't feel very inbox chatty lately. bored of people trying to sex chat me or asking me to perform for them...
These are the facebook groups, for anyone, if you think they'll help you,
These explain about personality disorders and have good links to articles & blogs:
After Narcissistic Abuse - There is Light, Life & Love
Empowerment to Survive Sociopaths and Narcissists
True Love Scam - Recognize & Survive a Relationship with a Sociopath
Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Flying Monkeys - OH MY
this one is mainly just memes. The person who made it has been in an abusive relationship, they post funny memes, inspiring memes and the occasional psychological one - Douchebag Chronicles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cant message you so will reply here...I did the same never felt good enough "
if that's to me you can't message me coz you got the big filter on me but it's cool. Glad your safe now |
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days. "
I want one of those |
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days.
I want one of those "
i got it from bondora, it's £25 right now - Thruster Rabbit Deluxe - Pink
only problem is it slows down, or even stops working, if you clench it too tight. so i have to turn the twirly bit off sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Single males outnumber the rest 10-1
Are you Shag in disguise lol good one. I would say the ratio would be much higher."
It might be higher but take out the fantasists/fakes and the ones just using the site as wanking material and the number of Men actually looking to meet will be lower |
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over a year ago
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"Is there still a demand for young single males on this site ?
i see a lot of post wanting BBC
Is it because as I've read a lot of single male let meets down last minute ?"
I'm confused, aren't BBC also single men too?
I don't understand what people wanting BBC has to do with single men letting people down at the last minute?   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days. "
But can it put up a shelf or make an Ikea wardrobe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it's coz most single guys aren't single, or they're just shit at everything. haha sorry am in one of those moods as usual.
i'm at a stage where i don't give a shit if i meet or not. i got a massive vibrator that sorts me out better than most fuck n go on here anyway.
See guys I told you
mine's not a rabbit, those things are too tame for me.
it's a giant, thick, veiny, vibrating dildo. with twirly beads in the middle. no cock can match up to it guys so you gotta have a personality now, and be decent looking. my standards are way too high these days.
But can it put up a shelf or make an Ikea wardrobe? "
i know how to do those things. 
although i am struggling with my joints so it's about time my kids learned these skills. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is there still a demand for young single males on this site ?
i see a lot of post wanting BBC
Is it because as I've read a lot of single male let meets down last minute ?"
Can a gentleman not be both young and bbc? (Not me obviously) |
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"Is there still a demand for young single males on this site ?
i see a lot of post wanting BBC
Is it because as I've read a lot of single male let meets down last minute ?
Can a gentleman not be both young and bbc? (Not me obviously)"
Doh! And there was me thinking you were a gentleman |
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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago
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"I'm single coz my ex was a psyco bitch who was violent towards me. Yes ok I was battered husband material. Funny thing was she tried to control me and the more she tried the more difficult I became. So was it my fault she was hitting me. Or hitting furniture.
Would have been your fault anyway, according to her. Psychos never blame themselves for anything.
Glad your away from her and her bullshit.
They try to control you because they can't control themselves.she could not even see hitting furniture was a problem she said she did it coz I was not listening to her and she wanted my attention.
Yes I'm out and glad to be out. "
good , but remember , you got unlucky once . Never think " they are all like that " ....they are not . I have met some fucking amazing wonderful intelligent women on here who have had my heart pounding like a randy school boy ... And have made me feel like a king . They make the world a truly wonderful place and they will make you feel this way too . Bless each and every one of 'em !!! |
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