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Why is it really that hard to get a meet nowadays
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Effort in = reward out.
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's hard to answer that without knowing who you're approaching, and how you're approaching them.
Just continue to make the effort, be patient and be respectful. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay before everyone continues is this:
1. An esoteric question?
2. A request to comment on your profile?
3. A statement of swinging in its current form?
4 A strange rhetorical question?
5. A look at me post?
6. Or because the search function is bust?
If you want my opinion, its because of the rampant sarcasm....   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends where you live, some areas are more fab active than others, for example, if someone living in the shetland islands, they would have less people there than someone living in north england, which seems to be the most popular area. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was looking for a social the other day and yes im a woman but it was non existant only had offers if it ended in play and the reason for a social to me is so we can see if there is a genuine attraction xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"
You have to be more specific.
Generally I find it's a combination of factors, but if you have a deep enough well of people you're attracted to, it makes sense you're going to get with at least a few of them. My well sadly seems to be almost dry, and I can't guarantee that even the ones I want, want me in return, so perhaps it'll soon be time to move on with my life, and leave swinging behind. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays
I don't know about you but my problem is I'm too fussy  "
That's the reason I like to give as well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = reward out.
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?"
that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays
I don't know about you but my problem is I'm too fussy
That's the reason I like to give as well
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = reward out.
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?
that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway "
Shush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"
do you mean for you personally?
there is one glaringly obvious reason on your profile as to why not...but you need to figure that out yourself
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"Effort in = reward out.
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?"
Great advice. Or is that a nice way of saying go f'ck yourself?! Off to check out if I'd meet myself... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Any one know why it has become so hard to get to meet nowadays"
Even with 'not meeting' on my profile, I still get messages asking to meet. If I took that down I could get shagged from morning to night.
I'm fussy too though, so I don't. But I don't have a problem getting meets when I want them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = reward out.
I won't offer profile advice as you haven't explicitly asked for it, but would you meet yourself based purely on your profile...?
that's like saying I wont give profile advice as you haven't asked for it....but I will anyway
Shush. "
nope  |
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