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Is being a wheelchair user a turn-off?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I use a wheelchair due to an accident when I was 18 leaving me unable to walk (body looks normal, I just sit down a lot) and not really sure what people's thoughts on it are, if it's too unusual, people feel uncomfortable about it or anything like that. Feel free to be as honest as you like

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Obviously I'm not your target audience but it wouldn't matter to me. Not at a social for example.

I want my portrait drawn

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Alas you're a bit on the young side for me (and miles away!) but you're deliciously cute. Am I allowed to say cute?! Handsome then!

Your wheels wouldn't worry me at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey Michael welcome to the forum (ive not seen you post before)

Wanted to say your profile proper made me laugh and its refreshingly brilliant.

Being a large framed lass with no bedroom gymnastics experience i would be after seeking out a male who would be more of the 'do er' than myself.

Your a cracking looking gent.. and if i were a thinner lady id have no issues with how you mobilize. But for my personal situation we'd just be crap for each other haha

Wish you all the best though :D

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Tbf it wouldn't bother us at all.

It's more about whether we got on

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman over a year ago

gosport ish

It's about the person for me op. Great profile and pics btw

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I wouldn't say no....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Alas you're a bit on the young side for me (and miles away!) but you're deliciously cute. Am I allowed to say cute?! Handsome then!

Your wheels wouldn't worry me at all.

Haha thank you very much, indeed you may say cute

That's nice to hear that it wouldn't worry you! You have a really cool profile picture by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're gorgeous. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Funny profile OP.

It wouldn't put me off if I clicked with the guy. Everyone is different though so I guess there's no easy answer.

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By *iscean MaleMan over a year ago

Darlaston

Having dated someone in a wheelchair.. that would not bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would not put me off in the slightest. For me it's about the attraction/connection between two people. Not that they are disabled or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wow thank you for all the quick responses! I've never used the forum before, all your comments have made my day

You guys are amazing!

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

Wouldn't bother me. One of my x's had to use a wheelchair after a spinal injury.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Wow thank you for all the quick responses! I've never used the forum before, all your comments have made my day

You guys are amazing!"

Keep posting you are a breath of fresh air

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me

By the way... how on earth do you wrestle a goldfish?!

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By *ndymorecambeMan over a year ago

morecambe

im a wheelchair user myself,tho only outdoors,im always honest about my ms when im arranging meets,i don't have much success with getting meets but I think that's down to there being millions more men than women on the site.the problem im finding is accesable swingers clubs near me.id say if your confident and honest youl be fine if people don't want to meet you becvause of the wheelchair id say there not worth meeting

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

Being a wheelchair user would not put me off. Know it has already been said but great profile, enjoyed your humour.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Certainly wouldn't put me off your very good looking but the three flights of stairs to get up to my flat mite put you off.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you _isscheekychops, you are gorgeous by the way!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive met 2 guys off here who have been wheelchair users. One I played with a few times and went to a couple of parties with. The other I didnt play with but that was because we just didnt click.

Its a shame your so far away but I think youll get lots of interest from the ladies on here. Hope you have lots of fun xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wouldn't bother me

By the way... how on earth do you wrestle a goldfish?!"

Lots and lots of training

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

no wouldn't bother me either op and ur profile is so funny and uplifting xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I use a wheelchair due to an accident when I was 18 leaving me unable to walk (body looks normal, I just sit down a lot) and not really sure what people's thoughts on it are, if it's too unusual, people feel uncomfortable about it or anything like that. Feel free to be as honest as you like

Omg. You're gorgeous. What level are you? I'm assuming sci?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"im a wheelchair user myself,tho only outdoors,im always honest about my ms when im arranging meets,i don't have much success with getting meets but I think that's down to there being millions more men than women on the site.the problem im finding is accesable swingers clubs near me.id say if your confident and honest youl be fine if people don't want to meet you becvause of the wheelchair id say there not worth meeting "

Thanks Andy, I appreciate that

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Omg. You're gorgeous. What level are you? I'm assuming sci? "

You're very sweet thank you, you are too! T9 spinal injury, atraumatic. Was at university when my legs just stopped working. I'm currently studying neuroscience to figure out what happened and hopefully cure myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Damn OP, you're making the rest of us look bad haha

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Thank you _isscheekychops, you are gorgeous by the way!"

Thank you lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

brains and good looks... bet the males on here are shitting themselves

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

Hey hun, I sometimes use crutches after a horse riding accident when I was 15. To be truthful it does bother some ppl and I just use that as a measure of their narrow minded/twattyness. I have plenty of fun with great people. If they can't see past the chair then it's their loss.

X x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Damn OP, you're making the rest of us look bad haha

He is fuckinh clever and all...I need a lie down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now thats why I LIKE the forums.

Welcome OP, I anticipate you may be too busy to post in the future, but welcome all the same

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you? "

Oh god leave his bum hole alone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Great profile, you're gorgeous and the chair wouldn't put us off in the slightest. Hope you have a great time on fab!

Mrs rsc

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off either xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"brains and good looks... bet the males on here are shitting themselves

Wha? Fuk of!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Omg. You're gorgeous. What level are you? I'm assuming sci?

the way stem cell research is going it will not be long before ladies and gents like yourself will be leaping over fences in no time. great profile, nice to see another black belt in here.

I am sure you will have lots of people interested despite the wheels.

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By *ishopstippleMan over a year ago

Purley

" Omg. You're gorgeous. What level are you? I'm assuming sci?

Good on you mate, more power to your elbow

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple over a year ago

Andover

Great profile, great pics and your flat out gorgouse with a great attitude.

If we were what you were after we would be working very hard at getting your attention.

Have a great time here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey hun, I sometimes use crutches after a horse riding accident when I was 15. To be truthful it does bother some ppl and I just use that as a measure of their narrow minded/twattyness. I have plenty of fun with great people. If they can't see past the chair then it's their loss.

X x x"

Thank you

Oh damn, yes I met many people in hospital who'd had horse riding accidents, does it cause you pain? x

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Alas you're a bit on the young side for me (and miles away!) but you're deliciously cute. Am I allowed to say cute?! Handsome then!

Your wheels wouldn't worry me at all.

Haha thank you very much, indeed you may say cute

That's nice to hear that it wouldn't worry you! You have a really cool profile picture by the way

Thanking you very much! I love your attitude too. If you were closer I'd be tempted to ignore that whole age thing!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A hottie is a hottie

lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" Omg. You're gorgeous. What level are you? I'm assuming sci?

I'm t6/7/8 incomplete. 25 years post. You can cure me too. Until then remember the social model of disability.

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By *ed LipstickWoman over a year ago

Fucksville

X x x

Thank you

Oh damn, yes I met many people in hospital who'd had horse riding accidents, does it cause you pain? x"

Only a little hun. It's more of a nuisance really and always sets off the metal detectors at the airport

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" I'm t6/7/8 incomplete. 25 years post. You can cure me too. Until then remember the social model of disability.

You'll be first on my list haha!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone's the same in bed I'm sure I'd have no problem with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

BTW Thank you to everyone who commented and for all the quick responses, I didn't want to spam the forum with individual thank yous, but I've read all the comments and you've no idea how much I appreciate them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a wheelchair user, T4 complete. I haven't really had any issues (obviously some people are not into the idea, and that's totally cool with me).

I don't think I'd meet you op, just because the logistics of two wheelchairs scares me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A very close relative is badly disabled but has a good sex life. Can understand other issues why women wouldn't want to stay with someone who wants/needs round the clock care but he's happy.

Good luck mate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Welcome to the forums

Cute and brains.

I've met a guy in a chair previously. Not an issue.

Enjoy what fab brings you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" Only a little hun. It's more of a nuisance really and always sets off the metal detectors at the airport

Yes, airports are always interesting hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just seen your profile.

Somehow I think that smile is going to get as big as your willy soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" I'm t6/7/8 incomplete. 25 years post. You can cure me too. Until then remember the social model of disability.

You'll be first on my list haha!"

Good chap.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

if i had to help you move about (lift anything) then that would put me off as i have joint problems and it would fuck up my arms doing this. but it's not the wheelchair or being in one that would bother me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

wouldn't bother me .. and yes you are cute indeed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very close relative is badly disabled but has a good sex life. Can understand other issues why women wouldn't want to stay with someone who wants/needs round the clock care but he's happy.

Good luck mate"

I'd be surprised if the op needs 'round the clock care'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are there so many hot guys in the UK!! You all need to move here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"if i had to help you move about (lift anything) then that would put me off as i have joint problems and it would fuck up my arms doing this. but it's not the wheelchair or being in one that would bother me."

Ah I see, I have quite a strong upper body so wouldn't need any help, can drive and am completely independent but flights of stairs are my arch-nemesis so that is always tricky :p

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

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Broke my back and pelvis last year and was told I might struggle to walk properly again but fortunately I've made a full recovery so I can relate a bit to your situation people treating you differently and such when I was still the same person. You seem like a nice guy and glad your not letting it stop you having fun good luck fella

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"wouldn't bother me .. and yes you are cute indeed

Thank you, I love your pictures 3

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By *oddyWoman over a year ago

between havant and chichester

nice to see a sexy local lad posting here xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yummy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why are there so many hot guys in the UK!! You all need to move here!

I'm 1/4 Irish and your profile has definitely given me a reason to visit

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Broke my back and pelvis last year and was told I might struggle to walk properly again but fortunately I've made a full recovery so I can relate a bit to your situation people treating you differently and such when I was still the same person. You seem like a nice guy and glad your not letting it stop you having fun good luck fella

Thank you, yes absolutely but it's been a blessing in disguise in many ways

Ouchhh, glad you've made a full recovery!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you?

Oh god leave his bum hole alone

Think I should explain my fetish for bathing people!

Op you've got a really handsome face and a decent penis. For a purely sexual meet with you giving full consent I would do things to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why are there so many hot guys in the UK!! You all need to move here!

I'm 1/4 Irish and your profile has definitely given me a reason to visit "

You'd be more than welcome

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't put me off either. For me it's more about personality and your profile is very funny and refreshing. Your pics are amazing too. Brains and good looks!! I need a lay down

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Nope wouldn't bother me..if there's a connection there's a connection..alas too.young for me

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

"Just seen your profile.

Somehow I think that smile is going to get as big as your willy soon

Welcome to fab & the forums!! If distance wasn't an issue then I wouldn't say no!!

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By *rank n BettyCouple over a year ago

Not meeting

"Just seen your profile.

Somehow I think that smile is going to get as big as your willy soon

Welcome to fab & the forums!! If distance wasn't an issue then I wouldn't say no!!

That was JG x

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By *eryBigGirlWoman over a year ago

East Yorkshire

If anyone can't see past the wheelchair than its clearly their loss!! Welcome to the mad world of the fab forums

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

Thank you, yes absolutely but it's been a blessing in disguise in many ways

Ouchhh, glad you've made a full recovery!"
thanks, good too hear it mate your getting some admirers now

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By *tretchygirl and tintinWoman over a year ago

Dartford

It wouldn't put me off at all. Good luck on here OP I suspect you'll have a queue of ladies, ypu have a sense of humour, a handsome face and a lovely looking cock so definitely my kind of guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you're obviously not my type but if I were to meet a woman who used one then it's not a problem at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah I see, I have quite a strong upper body so wouldn't need any help, can drive and am completely independent but flights of stairs are my arch-nemesis so that is always tricky :p"

that's good you've got your independence, i'm losing mine a little with the inability to carry/push heavy things but finding ways to get it back.

am sure you'll have some luck on here, and seem popular already lol, plus you've a lovely smile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP do you realise there are 30.000 men and only 2000 ladies on here. And you have just taken 98% of them. We will all fight over the remaining 2%.

Good luck mate you sound a great guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"that's good you've got your independence, i'm losing mine a little with the inability to carry/push heavy things but finding ways to get it back.

am sure you'll have some luck on here, and seem popular already lol, plus you've a lovely smile.

Thank you, you're a sweetheart 3 Sorry to hear that, I hope you improve and get enough help! xx

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

Welcome and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP do you realise there are 30.000 men and only 2000 ladies on here. And you have just taken 98% of them. We will all fight over the remaining 2%.

Good luck mate you sound a great guy "

Hahaha, wow had no idea it was that many! Thank you, best of luck to you too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP do you realise there are 30.000 men and only 2000 ladies on here. And you have just taken 98% of them. We will all fight over the remaining 2%.

Good luck mate you sound a great guy "

lol Jane

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP do you realise there are 30.000 men and only 2000 ladies on here. And you have just taken 98% of them. We will all fight over the remaining 2%.

Good luck mate you sound a great guy

Hahaha, wow had no idea it was that many! Thank you, best of luck to you too

"
Well I may of exaggerated a little bit. To make it a tad funnier

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By *llen n SebbCouple over a year ago

Walkinstown

I bet it wouldn't stop girls sitting on your cock.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol Jane

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

Bit young, but fabulous profile and v damn handsome. I wouldn't let the wheels get in the way nope. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"that's good you've got your independence, i'm losing mine a little with the inability to carry/push heavy things but finding ways to get it back.

am sure you'll have some luck on here, and seem popular already lol, plus you've a lovely smile.

Thank you, you're a sweetheart 3 Sorry to hear that, I hope you improve and get enough help! xx"

thanks. i get help from my kids now, luckily i had 4 and they're great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bit young, but fabulous profile and v damn handsome. I wouldn't let the wheels get in the way nope. Xxx "

Thank you! I love your pictures 3 3

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you? "

Haha i was about to say he sounds like he was made for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd meet you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not in the slightest OP. Now please bring yourself to the north coast so I can ravish you

And if you ever need any help scrubbing your back I'm well trained

H xx

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By *nvictusMan over a year ago

Beeston

Well you're the wrong gender for me, but no, it wouldn't phase me at all.

Good luck, old boy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody great profile and inspiration to others. I read stuff like this and realise just how lucky I am and how unlucky others are. I broke my neck T6/7 three years ago. Other than slight problems I recovered slowly to almost 100%.

Good luck, you'll do fine.

JJx.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reckon you're going to have to do a UK tour OP. East Mids first please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah I see, I have quite a strong upper body so wouldn't need any help, can drive and am completely independent but flights of stairs are my arch-nemesis so that is always tricky :p"

Mate, the darleks made a career out of it and have nothing on you

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

You're very cute plus funny but like sassy said being a larger lady myself I wouldn't be much use. I certainly wouldn't have a problem meeting someone who is otherwise abled (is it okay to use that term?)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you?

Haha i was about to say he sounds like he was made for you"

What the fuck!? When did you come back?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Bloody great profile and inspiration to others. I read stuff like this and realise just how lucky I am and how unlucky others are. I broke my neck T6/7 three years ago. Other than slight problems I recovered slowly to almost 100%.

Good luck, you'll do fine.

JJx. "

Thank you!! It's not about which cards you're dealt, it's about how you play them

Glad you've recovered so much, you're looking great btw

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

For me this is fantasy: nothing more, nothing less. You would not be for me as a playmate, your wheelchair being one of things that would exclude you. Note exclude not put off.

None of us has universal appeal...I wouldn't touch Brad Pitt with somebody elses bargepole for example.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

How about getting mechanical supporting legs like the guy in Prometheus? Or do they only work in the film?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you?

Haha i was about to say he sounds like he was made for you

What the fuck!? When did you come back?"

Today :p

Well made the account last saturday but you have to wait a week to post lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'd meet you

3 I'd meet you too, you're gorgeous x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Mate, the darleks made a career out of it and have nothing on you

From now on when I'm near stairs, I'm gonna say 'Exterminate, Exterminate'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Reckon you're going to have to do a UK tour OP. East Mids first please

I'd love to, will let you know when I'm touring ;D

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Not in the slightest OP. Now please bring yourself to the north coast so I can ravish you

And if you ever need any help scrubbing your back I'm well trained

H xx"

Will let you know when I'm on my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your pics are fantastic and your profile is shit hot. No it wouldn't make a blind bit of difference. Mrs A x

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

I would

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My niece is in a wheelchair and I'd hate to think people would avoid her because of it. Like the other ladies have said, you are very cute

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

Wouldnt put me off

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

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. A good profile with a positive can do attitude and good pictures as well. You are getting lots of compliments on this forum , so I don't think you should have any problems .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not in the slightest OP. Now please bring yourself to the north coast so I can ravish you

And if you ever need any help scrubbing your back I'm well trained

H xx

Will let you know when I'm on my way

Ill stick the kettle on

H x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

For me this is fantasy: nothing more, nothing less. You would not be for me as a playmate, your wheelchair being one of things that would exclude you. Note exclude not put off.

None of us has universal appeal...I wouldn't touch Brad Pitt with somebody elses bargepole for example.

Absolutely! The only thing I don't want is for people to feel like they'd offend me by saying they have their own preferences. Thank you for your response

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By *ofUs4UCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

If you were closer I'd jump your bones. You are gorgeous

(her)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wouldn't put me off in the slightest...you have a great profile, your personality shines through and you're bloody gorgeous!

Add the North West to your tour please x

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By *ubbykittenWoman over a year ago

Kent

I think you are clearly an inspiration and brave guy who is also incredibly handsome and i note a very hot body!

If I were 20 years younger.....I would rugby tackle you out of that wheelchair and into my bed in 30 seconds or less!

Something tells me that after your post, you are going to be a very busy guy from now on!!!!

Have fun!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must day he is a handsome guy.good luck sir

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not a turn off at all..

You dear are a turn on

Happy hunting xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I must day he is a handsome guy.good luck sir

Say*

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As others have said, I really don't think you'll have a problem getting meets.

Many people will see past the chair and be interested in you as a person. It certainly wouldn't bother us.

Unlike many single guys you have a fun profile, that shows your personality and more than just cock photos.

The fact that you're also a good looking guy certainly won't do any harm

Nita

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

You asked people to be honest so here goes

I would not have any issue meeting you for a social evening. I have been out on dates with a guy who was in a wheelchair and his carer accompanied us. He is a charming guy, very intelligent and we met a number of times

His disability was quite severe but I just did not see it at all. I once visited his home and his daughter had half-prepared the meal and had left before I arrived. Together, we finished preparing the meal and spent a lovely Sunday afternoon together

As to anything else, I simply don't know how that works or how I would feel about that

But all that is hypothetical as although you are a really good looking guy, you are just far too young for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absoloutely not! You look deliciously yummy btw OP

A xx

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

11 great profile. Being in a wheelchair would make no difference at all to me.

I have met one or two people in a wheelchair and its not an issue to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, you're fit and hot. That's good...

And you might be an awesome fuck. It's hard to know - but that's the case with everybody.

But realistically if your legs don't work well then it's going to restrict what you can do in bed.

That may or may not be a problem. My fucking tends to be quite energetic and I like various positions where a guy would need to use his legs, but that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be open to someone saying 'well I can't do C, but how do you fancy trying Y?'

A creative brain can make up for a multitude of bodily malfunctions. I proberbly wouldn't meet you for a one off fuck, but I may well build something more than a one off with you. If that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would not have any problems meeting with you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Absoloutely not! You look deliciously yummy btw OP

A xx"

Thank you, great pictures and I love your smile

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you guys, really didn't expect to get so many amazing responses! Wasn't even really sure how these forums worked haha! You've all made my day, thanks to everyone who replied

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By *isa 59Woman over a year ago

Newcastle

I certainly wouldn't let your wheels put me off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i`d want a go in it if thats cool bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you? "

Sorry I only just saw this message! I certainly wouldn't say no

You look gorgeous!

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By *illycarrolCouple over a year ago

n/cle on tyne

what a refreshing lovely post no nastys judging just a load of empathetic people with lovely msgs to the OP, theres some lovely people on here

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By *o30Woman over a year ago

Lincoln

"Thank you guys, really didn't expect to get so many amazing responses! Wasn't even really sure how these forums worked haha! You've all made my day, thanks to everyone who replied

you're very welcome, I'm sure you'll be rather popular x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hell you're going to have to go on tour at this rate, you're a very popular guy

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You are absolutely lush, in EVERY way! You will have no problems on here: looks, personality, humour and charm... Have fun lovely xxxx

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By *izzy.Woman over a year ago

Stoke area

Great profile, fun personality. I would have no issue with your wheelchair. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Would I have to help you in the shower and wash you and dry you?

Sorry I only just saw this message! I certainly wouldn't say no

You look gorgeous!"

Haha it's fine, everyone on here knows I like to wash people and do inappropriate things.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me either, you look lovely and you have a decent profile. Too young for me but oh so cute, in a sexy way!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"what a refreshing lovely post no nastys judging just a load of empathetic people with lovely msgs to the OP, theres some lovely people on here

I think it's cos he's pretty.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think it's cos he's pretty.

Haha thank you, you look amazing btw

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By *ongtalljonMan over a year ago

North Wales

No.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Another no issue from me too. I prefer to know a person and their personality than base things on looks or disabilities etc, that's what attracts me to people. Great profile you have as well

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Haha love it

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

What a nice thread, at least the op now has lots of people who want to meet him, he will be busy for a quite a while with all these nice ladies,,,,,,,and at least he will not be posting...Why can I not get a meet........

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

I did have a little giggle reading your profile. So I'm sure if that's translates as some cheeky banter in your messages you'll do fine OP

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

This is one of the reasons that I love Fabs and find it hard to leave - I have a colostomy and whilst I wouldn't call it a disability (I hardly notice it), when I first camew to Fabs I really worried that it would put people off, meeting people as a single guy was supposed to be hard enough for those without slight mutilations going on...

But the good news is that I've had loads of fun on here and met some really loveley perverts and my colostomy has put the grand total of zero people off (so much so, that I don't often remember to mention it these days).

Fabs has been really good for my self-esteem and I hope it works the same way for you, fella.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"This is one of the reasons that I love Fabs and find it hard to leave - I have a colostomy and whilst I wouldn't call it a disability (I hardly notice it), when I first camew to Fabs I really worried that it would put people off, meeting people as a single guy was supposed to be hard enough for those without slight mutilations going on...

Fabs has been really good for my self-esteem and I hope it works the same way for you, fella.

You learn something new about a forum user everyday....good on you for being so open

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op lovely! Not time to read the whole thread - but you're certainly not the only disabled person on fab! I've met a man with a cholostomy bag who seems to get plenty of meets - and I'm currently planning a social with a guy with one leg!

It will matter to some - it won't to others - but you've certainly helped yourself as much as you can with an amusing, well written profile - and you're very cute!!

Good look lovely - I wish you every success - and welcome to the forums!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hotlisted you, OP!

Local too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fabs has been really good for my self-esteem and I hope it works the same way for you, fella.

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By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

We used to meet a couple where the guy was in a wheelchair, had some fantastic times with them. So no, someone in a wheelchair would not put us off, however your age would. Just to say you are a very good looking young man, enjoy your time on here!

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By *alcon43Woman over a year ago

Paisley

I have to agree with other posts. You are a fine looking young man. With such a positive outlook. Too young for me.

I used to work beside a guy who due to illness ended up in a wheelchair. We used to have such a laugh about the different sports he'd tried. Glad to see you have a sense of humour too.

Block anyone that gives you abuse - they aren't worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd probably want to do you if I were single.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think it would matter to me too much

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By *llen n SebbCouple over a year ago

Walkinstown

Neuroscience ?

If you haven't shaved your head and pretend to be Charles Xavier for Halloween, you're missing a golden opportunity.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Sadly I'm too old *sob. Your profile and pictures are great and I'd definitely enjoy meeting you.

Now what number in the queue am I? Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oooo, hello

I totally agree with the majority of responses you have recieved. Cute, funny & with brains. What's not to like?

Good luck & if you are ever in the South West, pop in any time

(some people are worth meeting, even if they are outside my prefered age ranges)

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By *elsh_lass74Woman over a year ago

South Wales

I have met 2 guys from here that have been in wheelchairs. Made no difference what so ever. Both like you OP, were independent.

So I'd meet you if you were ever in south wales! Very handsome and around the age I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Neuroscience ?

If you haven't shaved your head and pretend to be Charles Xavier for Halloween, you're missing a golden opportunity."

Hahaha, I had thought of that but would need a fancier wheelchair. I did dress up as Andy Pipkin from Little Britain once though

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you to everyone replying, you're all so awesome and friendly!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op. What a great thread

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I join the queue of women who think the OP is damn sexy with a great sense of humour?

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By *ady LickWoman over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I think you're going to be popular on here. How good looking??

Ps I live in a bungalow

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

This thread makes me very happy indeed.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

We all have aspects of ourselves that's likely to mean we won't appeal to everyone but I'm sure there are many people who you'll find here. You're an attractive guy and your personality seems promising - I'd pursue things if you messaged me, for example - hope that helps your expectation levels. I look forward to seeing you more in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It depends on the person. A wheelchair wouldn't put me off if I liked the person.

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple over a year ago

Surrey

"Bit young, but fabulous profile and v damn handsome. I wouldn't let the wheels get in the way nope. Xxx

Thank you! I love your pictures 3 3

Thank you sweetie xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a great thread! Loved reading this, restored my faith in the forums!

OP you are going to have a great time on here, and well deserved..... gorgeous and a great attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fair plat mate, great profile! Put mine to shame!! Im sure you will have much fun with ladies here

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By *cduck and Blue eyesCouple over a year ago

nr chester

Hey mr sexy chops, that a flippin awesome profile, we are too old for you, and we are not meeting singles but omg if carling made swingers then you would be right up there, I am sure you will be snapped up by all these sexy young single ladies or couples on here, so get some meets up, and good luck mr, not that you'll need it, keep us posted how it goes though, Mrs cmy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah I see, I have quite a strong upper body so wouldn't need any help, can drive and am completely independent but flights of stairs are my arch-nemesis so that is always tricky :p"

Daleks have the same issue I believe. If the medical stuff doesn't work out try engineering so u can levitate in ur chair xxx

Hope u have a fab time here. Just too far away for me xx

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Most people can overlook the wheelchair, it all depends on how you are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now that's how you write a good profile !

Maybe some guys who are struggling might want to read the op's profile , brilliant

And to the op it would not put us off at all

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By *km45Man over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Well done OP on a great thread. Wishing you the best of luck on fab.

If I met a lady who used a wheelchair it would not both me as it's all about how we get on and not there disability.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's wheely good

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A fabulous profile gorgeous looking guy and after this thread you come across as a genuinely lovely gent ....

If I lived closer my age limits would be out the window

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

And that, all you guys asking for profile advice and moaning about getting meets, is how to do it.

And on that note, we endeth this thread knowing that the OP is gonna get plenty of sex and that I, yet again, have finished a thread.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I will admit, due to your humour I would respond to a message from you despite you being under my preferred age requirement, there is nothing better than a decent profile

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