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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't see the point and if the site definition of 'women having sex while men watch and then men having sex with their own partners' ... definitely no.
Seems a bit one sided ...
Why kiss and touch someone and not see it through ?
might suit some tho .... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we see it as a bit like a live porn to be honest but respect your opinion and we feel its more about making friends and having a laugh were not ready to full swop yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soft swing is "everything bar penetration" with playmate, or basically just the petting / foreplay.
I wouldn't have a problem with it, because I can get all my kicks and satisfaction though petting, and I like to think I could satisfy most ladies too in the same way. Women are different animals though, and I would suspect that most are like Kate who says she would feel unfullfilled. We're not voyeurs and we are both straight so think we would be sitting around a bit twiddling our thumbs, lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can only talk from my own experience. We have been swinging for just over a year but only had full swap meets since end October.
We couldnt have gone head first into it all, we found the best way for us was to take baby steps and progress as and when we become more confident. It took us 4 months to actually touch another couple, we were just playing with each other in clubs but in public rooms.
My advice would be to only go as far as you feel comfortable with. Dont feel rushed because the other couple / single wants to go further. It will be you that will suffer with regrets afterwards if you've overstepped your comfort zone, not them.
There are lots of couples who are happy to soft swap. Even though we have indulged in full swap, we still have soft swap sessions with couples.  |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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We started out with soft swinging, like Jack said, that to us meant everything but penetration with the opposite partner.
We took our time and it was maybe 18 months before we did full swap, but you know what? Looking back on it that was a necessary step for us.
Its not for everyone, but now we would have second thoughts about going back to soft swap, it seems pointless to only have half the fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Completely understand different strokes for different folks.... However... To me ( honeybee) it would be like going into a sweetie shop looking at the jars of sweets ( age showing now!!!) and walking out. What I really like is leaving the shop with some liquorice sticks, packet of aniseed balls, chewing nuts and to finish on a gob stopper !!! |
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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago
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We like both but personally prefer full swop. When we first started we had our rules, but they have moved over the time we have been swinging. You have to take things at your own pace, there are lots on here who only soft swop xxxx Just keep having fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm a bit of a perv so I wouldn't mind just watching 
But I'm not obsessed with getting my end away, there's plenty of other ways of enjoying yourself without penetration so I personally wouldn't have a problem is someone just wanted to soft swing. It's all just another fun experience which is what I'm all about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can only talk from my own experience. We have been swinging for just over a year but only had full swap meets since end October.
We couldnt have gone head first into it all, we found the best way for us was to take baby steps and progress as and when we become more confident. It took us 4 months to actually touch another couple, we were just playing with each other in clubs but in public rooms.
My advice would be to only go as far as you feel comfortable with. Dont feel rushed because the other couple / single wants to go further. It will be you that will suffer with regrets afterwards if you've overstepped your comfort zone, not them.
There are lots of couples who are happy to soft swap. Even though we have indulged in full swap, we still have soft swap sessions with couples. "
wat she said  |
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