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They want to meet me at my home. Have I done anything wrong
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had contacted a couple and had a chat in the midnight. Asked for my telephone number which I gave to them. Soon later she called me and wanted to see me at my home. That time I couldn't accommodate them. Later she asked me whether I was an Asian to which question I said "yes" she was not interested.
Two weeks later, soon after I uploaded my third picture she contacted and said she wanted to use my cock as it seemed to be think. I reminded her that I was an indian cock but she was happy with it.
We had a few chat they want to come to my home. I said to her to just meet at costa coffee that very close to me home then we start from there.
They were not willing to see me in a public place or in a shop but she still want to try my cock. Husband only will watch. So many times I said to meet only once outside. I really felt nervous to give my home address.
Very last two days ago, they want to meet me at my home. I said to them, I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there. Suddenly they said no no no no. Then blocked me. Do you think I have done anything wrong. ???
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Sometimes I get dismayed and disheartened at the rudeness some blokes will tolerate in the name of sex.
I wish more of them would realise that no one wanks their cock with the skill and knowledge that they themselves do. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides...."
I don't see him asking them to jump through hoops. He's offered alternatives to his home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You said you wanted to meet in a public place first which is a reasonable condition. If anybody tramples all over someone else's boundaries then they're not worth meeting anyway. Have to respect people's limits. You did the right thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides...."
Why is he game playing because he don't want to give out his address? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They should respect your boundaries. Men deserve respect as much as women. Im the first to slate some men for thier behaviour, but i felt they were not accepting of your boundaries and if a man was like that to me he be blocked |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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Why is he game playing because he don't want to give out his address?"
if someone said to you... "I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there"
would you meet them there..... because if you would i think you would be in the minority.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why is he game playing because he don't want to give out his address?
if someone said to you... "I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there"
would you meet them there..... because if you would i think you would be in the minority...."
Yes, it is a bit weird.
On the other hand, we always meet socially first. Not going to invite bunny boilers to my house. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides....
I don't see him asking them to jump through hoops. He's offered alternatives to his home. "
I am 100% genuine and real. Also I am having a professional job. So I need to be very careful. I could accommodate but I was so scared. Thanks for the messages. |
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides....
I don't see him asking them to jump through hoops. He's offered alternatives to his home.
I am 100% genuine and real. Also I am having a professional job. So I need to be very careful. I could accommodate but I was so scared. Thanks for the messages. "
You were right to be wary of anyone who wouldn't meet you in a neutral location before being invited to your home. I would always advise against giving a stranger from the internet your home address, it's common sense. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
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Why is he game playing because he don't want to give out his address?
if someone said to you... "I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there"
would you meet them there..... because if you would i think you would be in the minority....
Yes, it is a bit weird.
On the other hand, we always meet socially first. Not going to invite bunny boilers to my house."
the problem with bunny boilers is you never know until you look in the pot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why is he game playing because he don't want to give out his address?
if someone said to you... "I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there"
would you meet them there..... because if you would i think you would be in the minority....
Yes, it is a bit weird.
On the other hand, we always meet socially first. Not going to invite bunny boilers to my house.the problem with bunny boilers is you never know until you look in the pot"
Just look in Snowy's eyes on the social, if he is trying to send you frantic signals, don't ignore them (frantic signals include him sliding a paw across his throat, nervous twitching and boarding up his own hutch) |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
Glasgow/London |
You've done nothing wrong.
I think guys get a raw deal here. Plenty of us are genuine, but so many women/couples seem to want to take advantage and abuse our goodness.
My general rule is, if they behave suspicious, I've still got my hands, lol |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"I had contacted a couple and had a chat in the midnight. Asked for my telephone number which I gave to them. Soon later she called me and wanted to see me at my home. That time I couldn't accommodate them. Later she asked me whether I was an Asian to which question I said "yes" she was not interested.
Two weeks later, soon after I uploaded my third picture she contacted and said she wanted to use my cock as it seemed to be think. I reminded her that I was an indian cock but she was happy with it.
We had a few chat they want to come to my home. I said to her to just meet at costa coffee that very close to me home then we start from there.
They were not willing to see me in a public place or in a shop but she still want to try my cock. Husband only will watch. So many times I said to meet only once outside. I really felt nervous to give my home address.
Very last two days ago, they want to meet me at my home. I said to them, I got a house which on the market to sale. Take an appointment through agency so that I can come over but no bed there. Suddenly they said no no no no. Then blocked me. Do you think I have done anything wrong. ???
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Anything from anyone that makes you hmmm or suspect or even land in forums asking for advice should spell something out.
As for giving out your personal info/address to complete strangers, people you've never met before, dont do it. Meeting people local to you and heading back to yours is one thing. Giving your address to people you've met times before away from yours is another thing. However as already said 'giving out your personal info/address to complete strangers, people you've never met before, dont do it'.
What you've described simply sounds like a pisstaker. Genuine cpls/fems wanting real, genuine meets will not have you with all out suspicion seeking advice on a forum.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides...."
How on both sides? He doesn't want them at home without a public meet first, seems fair enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not an attack... more an observation...
they want you to jump thru hoops..... you want them to do the same...
is end really worth all the angst....
if you can't accom you can't accom.... if they don't want to meet socially first, they don't want to meet socially....
it feels like there is game playing going on..... on both sides....
I don't see him asking them to jump through hoops. He's offered alternatives to his home.
I am 100% genuine and real. Also I am having a professional job. So I need to be very careful. I could accommodate but I was so scared. Thanks for the messages. "
Stick to your guns mate, you are in the right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds very dubious to us. If someone won't meet us in a public place to start - we wouldn't meet them full stop. Good enough to shag means good enough to be seen with in Costa coffee. It's a coffee shop - no-one knows why you're there.
You had a lucky escape, probably fantasists anyway.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds suspect to me. I'd give them a wide berth if they contact again.
Odd that they wouldn't meet in a public place. "
Honestly? I don't.
Experience has shown many couples don't either do socials or will refuse to meet elsewhere.
Demanding you go straight to their house as "our family and friends live nearby and we don't want them knowing what we do".
Hoops to jump through - "my way or the highway".
They are the ones actively seeking the single bi-fem but expect all the rules their way too!
I don't have an issue with the privacy/discretion.
I have an issue with walking into something I have no idea of what is going to potentially occur.
All the veri's in the world can't help you when it's hubby and friends rather than the wife. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Only thing you done wrong is not blocking them after they weren't interested last time, and continuing this farce . "
I haven't blocked them. They blocked me. |
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"Only thing you done wrong is not blocking them after they weren't interested last time, and continuing this farce .
I haven't blocked them. They blocked me. "
You can block them yourself even though you're blocked to stop them contacting you.
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Sounds to me like they wanted Indian cock but were embarrassed to be seen with you. It was probably both of their fantasies to see her have sex with a foreign guy.
You weren't going to just meet them without a social which is fully understandable so they moved on.
You were right not to give anything away if it didn't feel right. |
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"Only thing you done wrong is not blocking them after they weren't interested last time, and continuing this farce .
I haven't blocked them. They blocked me. "
I'd still block them as it seems clear that they are wrong for you. As others state, always stick within your own boundaries. |
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