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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

can u see the real me can ya can ya...........women are so much attractive without the over done make up.

every little is enough.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think women are deceiving themselves when they think certain make up fashions are better than minimal make up. Caked on contouring, solid brows, fake eyelashes all look bizarre to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree a women should be natural no need for discise be yourself and luv yourself peace out sisters x lol

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I happen to like make up and care not what everyone thinks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I prefer a natural look. What's with the eyebrows thing that girls are doing at the moment?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face. "

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

every woman is beautiful in her own way....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face. "

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Makeup, like clothing, can enhance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chill ladies no1 is saying not 2 just personal preference

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actually that's not true...some women are fricking hideous without make up!

I love it personally, usual wear minimal but sometimes use a trowel to cake it on

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

It's a matter of personal taste surely.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

Or not in my case! Lippy is the extent of my beauty regime! And occasionally silk eyelashes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

It's beyond constructive criticism it's downright rude. I don't make comments about women not wearing make up looking plain, not making an effort, being lazy etc so why the hell do those against make up feel the need to criticise those that wear make up?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

It's a matter of personal taste surely. "

You're right. That doesn't mean it's genuinely a bad choice. I know I wouldn't pander to a daughter of mine and not point out the fact that it's unflattering choice.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Oh god here we go again...I love make up and I'll contuine to slap it on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

I don't know as I'm not against make up. I personally think some women look absurd with over the top make up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

hardly ever wear it

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"can u see the real me can ya can ya...........women are so much attractive without the over done make up.

every little is enough.

Why do people enjoy having an issue with people wearing make it. I wear as much as i want and need that makes me feel comfortable and covers acne. Dont care wether people like you think its too much. Maybe i think some women wear not enough and need more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyman likes a bit of lippy round his cock sorry there is always 1

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"every woman is beautiful in her own way....

I disagree, some people, men and women are just vile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't wear that much makeup because I'm shit at ! take me as I am or don't take me at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh god here we go again...I love make up and I'll contuine to slap it on

Me too, plus I need all the help I can get to disguise lines, wrinkles ect

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh god here we go again...I love make up and I'll contuine to slap it on

Does that make you a slapper??

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"I think a woman should put what the hell she wants on her face.

They can, they do, some just shouldn't go so mad with it. Constructive criticism is fine

It's a matter of personal taste surely.

You're right. That doesn't mean it's genuinely a bad choice. I know I wouldn't pander to a daughter of mine and not point out the fact that it's unflattering choice. "

Great!

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Oh god here we go again...I love make up and I'll contuine to slap it on

Does that make you a slapper??

Yup

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

Yep and we're expressing ours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Only if u wanna be lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

So less is more for everyone? I look better with acne and a bit of lipstick?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

So less is more for everyone? I look better with acne and a bit of lipstick?"

Eh no, but make up that is true to your existing features is better than cakey mismatched foundation, dodgy eye liner, over lined lips, half stuck on lashes, and solid brows. Surely you can see the difference between OTT make up and make up that's fine?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

My mum thinks I'm vain because I moisturize my legs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

I like make up and I like wearing it. Sometimes it's therapeutic to do the make up regimen for a night out.

If you don't wear it, fine that's your choice, as is wearing it.

Although are we saying it's a question of too much on or the final makeup look looking terrible?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't."

If you're saying I'm being bitchy, I'm not. I just think some people apply make up poorly and it's a bad decision.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

So less is more for everyone? I look better with acne and a bit of lipstick?

Your argument seems to be against shit makeup, not makeup. So makeup which is good is positive, yes?

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

So less is more for everyone? I look better with acne and a bit of lipstick?

I see a difference in all. Its not one or the other its not minimal or caked on. Someone may have dark powder but not all of the other stuff you listed.

My brows are nice. I darken them but to the same shape. My eyelashes when i wear them are stuck on fine. I dont wear lipliner. I dont mismatch make up. And dont wear eye liner

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't.

If you're saying I'm being bitchy, I'm not. I just think some people apply make up poorly and it's a bad decision. "

Shit makeup is shit and good makeup is good?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"K people its not a critique!

Just we think less is more.

if you like the opposite thats fine.

great thing about this world is that you can voice your opinion.

So less is more for everyone? I look better with acne and a bit of lipstick?

I see a difference in all. Its not one or the other its not minimal or caked on. Someone may have dark powder but not all of the other stuff you listed.

My brows are nice. I darken them but to the same shape. My eyelashes when i wear them are stuck on fine. I dont wear lipliner. I dont mismatch make up. And dont wear eye liner

You see, what I said wasn't personal to you or anyone on here. I don't know how you apply your make up. I still think the type of application I described is a poor choice, and it doesn't matter if that's how they want to look - it's still dodgy.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't.

If you're saying I'm being bitchy, I'm not. I just think some people apply make up poorly and it's a bad decision. "

Some people not applying any is an equally bad decision

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't.

If you're saying I'm being bitchy, I'm not. I just think some people apply make up poorly and it's a bad decision.

Shit makeup is shit and good makeup is good? "

Yes. I'm not sure how people can take offense to that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I've never understood the bitchiness around this.

Some people prefer make up, some don't.

Some people are able to enhance how they look, some can't.

If you're saying I'm being bitchy, I'm not. I just think some people apply make up poorly and it's a bad decision.

Some people not applying any is an equally bad decision"

You're right.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What a ridiculous post .

I love my make up , and I cake it on as the op says . It's a part of what makes me , me !

If I feel better , more sexy , more confident with my make up on , then that's exactly what I will do - for me .

And there's not a person on this planet who could convince me that I look better with less or no make up on .

Oh , and I like many of the other women on this thread who wear make up , am quite happy to have pics on show

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Badly applied make up can make someone look worse than if they didn't wear make up. It's about knowing what suits you as a person...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Badly applied make up can make someone look worse than if they didn't wear make up. It's about knowing what suits you as a person..."

Careful, you may get called bitchy for having that view

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh I so agree. I have never liked a lot of make-up on a woman. Give me the natural look any day of the week.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Oh I so agree. I have never liked a lot of make-up on a woman. Give me the natural look any day of the week."

Pubic hair is natural......

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Badly applied make up can make someone look worse than if they didn't wear make up. It's about knowing what suits you as a person...

Careful, you may get called bitchy for having that view

Yeah, but anyone who protests to that would then agree that they apply makeup badly... No one admits to that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those 'caterpillar' eyebrows

what the hell are those things all about ?

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Really good comments but it was just a conversation between us and not that serious but wow ....people are passionate about it.

all we are saying...is give skin a chance.......

that was a joke,u know lennon,the bed thing,maybe thinking peas now.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"Oh I so agree. I have never liked a lot of make-up on a woman. Give me the natural look any day of the week."

Some women apply a lot of make up to achieve the "natural" look too. They're just really good at it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course."

Hold on, I'm not dictating what women should look like but I would say if I thought a look didn't suit someone. There's a difference. No one should be fragile enough to not be able to cope with that, it's ridiculous to pander to that kind of level.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh I so agree. I have never liked a lot of make-up on a woman. Give me the natural look any day of the week."

You'd be surprised how much make up can be required to get the natural look....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She should wear lots of she needs it, except if shes kissing me and on my bed sheets. Then that shit needs to come off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?"

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly. "

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly. "

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As long as she doesn't look like she has been gang-banged by Crayola, or call men fake. Pet hate!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

No, I'm saying if I felt someone's make up was off somehow, I'd say so. If they got upset over that then they're too fragile. Pandering to suspected fragility would be treading on egg shells because of the assumption everyone's an emotional wreck that can't cope with being told something isn't flattering.

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad? "

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?"

I'm going with the original call....just downright bitchy with no concern for other's feelings.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it. "

Well, one example was if my daughter wore dodgy make up. I'd tell her to reconsider it before leaving to see her friends. Another example would be a friend, if they had dry flakes from caked on foundation, I'd say so they can go fix it. Or a colleague meeting a client later, I'd say their eye liner was heavy and smudging so they had a chance to fix it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

whoooooooooooooooahhhhhhhh not saying that at all.

just a preference

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad? "
No i couldnt bring myself to be that rude , but thats just me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health."

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I prefer a natural look. What's with the eyebrows thing that girls are doing at the moment?

My granddaughter gave me those eyebrows tonight when she made me over. I look awful. The eye makeup is making my eyes sore and my nose run,which is why I don't wear it daily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?

I'm going with the original call....just downright bitchy with no concern for other's feelings.

I'm not sure why you're so touchy over make up. It's just make up. No need to call me names for thinking some people can't apply it properly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves. "

And part of personal presentation is what they say

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state. "

You look a state

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?

I'm going with the original call....just downright bitchy with no concern for other's feelings.

I'm not sure why you're so touchy over make up. It's just make up. No need to call me names for thinking some people can't apply it properly. "

It's gone beyond the make up issue. But telling someone their make up isn't to your taste isn't necessary and i can't think why else you would feel the need to point it out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves. "

So you think a person should present themself according to your taste? You've changed from saying you would tell a person if you thought their make up didn't suit them to saying you would tell them if it was smudged or flaking. In my opinion one is acceptable and one not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?

I'm going with the original call....just downright bitchy with no concern for other's feelings.

I'm not sure why you're so touchy over make up. It's just make up. No need to call me names for thinking some people can't apply it properly.

It's gone beyond the make up issue. But telling someone their make up isn't to your taste isn't necessary and i can't think why else you would feel the need to point it out."

I've explained why, I've given 3 examples. I don't see how any of those are bitchy, can you explain instead of just calling me bitchy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth. "

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves.

Oh come off it, there are general standards which are adhered to. No one wants unblended foundation on their jaw line. I would say to the person. I've had it said to me. I didn't cry and call someone bitchy over it, I just fixed it. It's not a big deal.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves.

glad I'm not the only one noticing the change in direction

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??"

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

Why would you presume to offer advice on someone else's taste?

I'm going with the original call....just downright bitchy with no concern for other's feelings.

I'm not sure why you're so touchy over make up. It's just make up. No need to call me names for thinking some people can't apply it properly.

It's gone beyond the make up issue. But telling someone their make up isn't to your taste isn't necessary and i can't think why else you would feel the need to point it out.

I've explained why, I've given 3 examples. I don't see how any of those are bitchy, can you explain instead of just calling me bitchy?"

Maybe they are just telling you you are bitchy so you can go and fix it. After all its about self presentation

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

These threads never go well

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

What you're saying if I understand you correctly, is that if someone doesn't look how you think they should they should consider changing to suit your taste or they're fragile and being pandered to?

Would you also not warn someone their breath is bad?

That isn't the same thing at all. Make up is a matter of personal taste, bad breath a matter of poor hygiene or ill health.

No it's not, both are parts of how a person presents themselves.

You said you would tell someone if you thought a look didn't suit them...I didn't call you blotchy, you come off it.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Or even bitchy

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would tell a person if their make up was applied badly or wrongly because I would not wish them to be picked on because of it...the same way if they had panda eyes etc. I wear make up and a lot of it and I would hope that someone would tell me that my make up looked crap. I did make professionally so am a bit OCD when it comes to my own make up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like make up, I enjoy contouring and fake eyelashes, I also draw beauty spots on, or stick diamanges on mu face. I like unusual make up looks and certainly dramatic looks.

I like the way make up transforms.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd. "

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I look at women and think they look terrible,if it was someone close to me I would say something. Sometimes you can't see it yourself when you apply it. The caked on look is popular,if someone likes caking it on that's their business. Some people still wear very old fashioned make up or make up that doesn't enhance their face. I look and the thought flashes across my mind,but as I'm not a make up expert and I don't wear make up often I don't give it a second thought. Their face,their business.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused."

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like make up, I enjoy contouring and fake eyelashes, I also draw beauty spots on, or stick diamanges on mu face. I like unusual make up looks and certainly dramatic looks.

I like the way make up transforms.

You obviously know how to apply it. I'd look like a clown if I tried to do your look.

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

I once had mine done at a rather posh spa , steve cracked up when he saw me and asked where his wife was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily. "

I'm not being nasty i just think telling people they look shit is a bitchy thing to do. You then twisted it to make it look like You meant if they had Lipstick on their teeth and I'm being nasty and picking on you. I'm just giving you my opinion. I would think you aren't to fragile to hear someone else's opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Literally every example against makeup cites fucking awful makeup.

Half the people you meet will wear makeup that you hardly notice: it simply enhances.

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

Ladies, ladies!!!

It's Saturday night... why are we arguing over such petty stuff?

I think everyone should wear what they're happy with. There's no right or wrong. I would like to think that my mates would tell me if my lippy was on my teeth but I would never criticise someone's choices in what they wear. If they look great I tell them, if they have their skirt tucked in their knickers I'd tell them. If they were wearing something I didn't like then I'd keep my trap shut.

I don't think it's kind or necessary to be mean to other people because your personal taste doesn't approve of theirs. Everyone has their own style.

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

Ladies, ladies!!!

It's Saturday night... why are we arguing over such petty stuff?

I don't think it's kind or necessary to be mean to other people because your personal taste doesn't approve of theirs. Everyone has their own style.

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

wow.

give peas a chance

Lennon wa sblue x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

Look back, I gave 3 examples - one was poorly applied foundation, one was heavy eyeliner and one was poorly applied make up. My lipstick comment was tongue in cheek. I also wouldn't say "you look shit", it's possible to be tactful.

I'm not being fragile, I just think it's mad to call me bitchy and get so upset over a non issue. I didn't insult you, I haven't called you names - I just simply said some people apply make up badly and I'd say so to them so they could rectify it. Your anger is clearly misdirected, unless you are this upset - in which case, you've missed out calling other users on this thread bitchy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

Ha ha. You are mistaking me for someone who is angry and upset. I'm not that emotionally attached to the forum. Very interesting insight though. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

Theres always people like this in here, those that are so fragile that anything other than 'omg hun you look stunning' is deemed to be offensive and insulting. In a word, theyre pathetic

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By *lues4play OP Couple over a year ago

Milton Keynes

norm put the brakes on not in any way being a dictator born free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

Theres always people like this in here, those that are so fragile that anything other than 'omg hun you look stunning' is deemed to be offensive and insulting. In a word, theyre pathetic"

I don't think they're pathetic, I just don't think saying to someone their make up isn't right is a bitchy thing to do and I don't think I should've been called it. Absurd.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's not ok for women (or men) to be telling other women (or men) how they should look. In my opinion of course.

Maybe they don't want your opinion shoved in their face?

Then they're also welcome to reject it and say that is how they wish to look. It can be discussed maturely and quickly.

But why the need to say anything? They clearly wished to look the way they did otherwise they wouldn't do it.

I wouldn't just keep quiet as its none of my business, I'd want to be told if I looked a state.

You look a state

How could you be so bitchy?! I WANT my lipstick on my teeth.

Lipstick on teeth isn't where you started with this. A bit of back tracking perhaps??

I was taking the piss out of your OTT reaction to my thinking some make up is ridiculous. I think this reaction is totally absurd.

I think you need to pick an Argument and stick to it. You're getting confused.

Are you aware of the point that you're calling me bitchy over a view that doesn't involve you? Perhaps you ought to reasses why you're being nasty unnecessarily.

Theres always people like this in here, those that are so fragile that anything other than 'omg hun you look stunning' is deemed to be offensive and insulting. In a word, theyre pathetic"

agreed

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By *isscheekychopsWoman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

This thread has hurt my Brain

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By *tarbeckCouple over a year ago

york

"This thread has hurt my Brain

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

love a good cat fight

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By *irtyGirlWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

I think there's zero need to call people names because you disagree with their opinion.

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By *B9 QueenWoman over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Feck me. It's only make up. It's not a Middle East summit.

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