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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think its down to how you speak to people really . An not send msgs says can i fuck your wife ?
An try building friendships with people on the forums or in the chat rooms |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.
If you behave like a knob... You won't.
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But, think that some people think it's acceptable to mail 'want a shag' and can't understand why they don't get meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its down to how you speak to people really . An not send msgs says can i fuck your wife ?
An try building friendships with people on the forums or in the chat rooms"
give the guy a star  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not a single male, but to answer your question, in my opinion it's purely down to supply and demand.
The good guys seem to do ok, but the ones that winge are usually the ones that don't put the time or effort into promoting themselves.
There are loads of opportunities to have fun here, you just need to see the chance and take it.
But life is full of missed opportunities  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When there are lots (single males) to choose from and there are no price tags attached (well at least there shouldn't be) ladies and couples can afford to be choosy.
You aren't going to race down to poundland if every single shop/dept. store announces they are giving away freebies tomorrow are you???
....you'll find me in Ann Summers btw   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.
If you behave like a knob... You won't.
I completely agree!! I LOVE the single good guys!!! x "
And i second that belles
xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck "
and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!
xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored"
I'll be honest if someone sends me a message and it's nice well written even if they don't float my boat I'll reply back and say no thanks I'm not always rude honest x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck
and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!
xxx"
You said it oral I usually get "fancy a fuck ya slag" don't no one say please anymore?  |
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A lot of single males see swinger sites as (lets put it bluntly) an easy shag
truth is it is not
those of us that now how it works get somewhere (damn i started in the day before the net and and swinging if you did not know people in the scene was done by buying a magazine, replying to an add (with a SAE) and hoping you got a reply and it took weeks to get an answer
The internet has changed all that, as has todays society everyone wants everything right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love the single guys too but I do think alot don't know how to approach women so find it easier to say fancy a fuck
and going by your previous posts jan, they know even less how to approach you babe!!
xxx
You said it oral I usually get "fancy a fuck ya slag" don't no one say please anymore? "
fancy a fuck ya slag? Please |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"See, she got a result by saying please. Lol
does that mean i've pulled? "
I'd shag you even if you didn't say please. It's those legs they are so inviting x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not enough to just be a nice guy though.
The ladies have to fancy you, and if you are approaching couples, you need to befriend the husband too, because if he doesn't like you, you wont get anywhere either.
It's like looking for gold sometimes.
But it does happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays"
Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays
Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"
Thanks. Yours is good too. Plenty of pics always helps |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.
Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays
Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"
No it isn't always the above as my profile proves to a degree!
I've not changed my profile text since joining and it has served me well so far and as for plenty of pics..... my "Guiness Pants" pic does ok for me too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.
Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles. "
How do you know it was the same cock! LOL x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's the thing they put up a cock shot and think we are so desperate to see it for real.
Had one today 8 shots of the same cock at diiferent angles.
How do you know it was the same cock! LOL x"
I tineyed the lot of them no porn cocks on there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ...."
You need to promote yourself 1st with a nice profile then a great message then the attraction comes in x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ...."
Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Alot of the knob heads do spoil it for the other guys tho i think cause you can as nice as pie 2 one person an still get ignored"
Disagree! How one unsavoury man acts has no bearing on the next man. Each man is taken on his own merit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....
You need to promote yourself 1st with a nice profile then a great message then the attraction comes in x"
I`m not going to say wether I think thats right or wrong ...
I would say if I was a single male ...I would try and make myself attractive ....just like real life ... ....that does of course mean understanding what people find attractive ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for the single guys who send really crude almost abusive messages....do u think it crosses their minds that us girls (inc jan)will want to meet with a guy who treats us like that in a message?
makes me worry what they'd treat me like on the meet!!
no respect in a message = no respect on a meet! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....
Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive "
you are looking especially appealling tonight jack xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is there a difference between attraction and promotion ....
Not if you're short sighted, just take your glasses off and then everybody will be attractive "
haha...yeah ...some seem shortsighted alright...there`s an old saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"for the single guys who send really crude almost abusive messages....do u think it crosses their minds that us girls (inc jan)will want to meet with a guy who treats us like that in a message?
makes me worry what they'd treat me like on the meet!!
no respect in a message = no respect on a meet! "
Agreed!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never had a problem on here being a single male.
I behave as I would in 'normal life'- be courteous, be respectful, don't take it all so seriously, have fun in the forums and most of all ... be yourself! It's worked for me and I've made some truly wonderful friends and had some equally amazing experiences!
It's all good from my side of the bed! |
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"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays
Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile"
Agreed - that IS a very good profile. Hats off to you, Mike. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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I don't think I would have been here for so long if the site was "anti single male"...
I still you make of the site what you make of it.... nice guys will do well, treat people the way you would like to be treated and good things will come your way...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Think us guys can get a bit of grief sometimes but you have to remember that couples and single ladies get inundated. I remember this and move on. I'm never rude. Politeness pays
Great profile too single guys out there having problems this is the profile you need. Plenty of pics and a great written profile
Agreed - that IS a very good profile. Hats off to you, Mike."
Cheers _arambar. Its evolved into what it is now. Seems to work...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe survival for the fittest on FAB and other similar sites.
Hence I no longer give advice on profiles etc., as I believe those who are worth it would be self-sufficient enough to write a decent profile without help! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope... If you are a good guy you can do very well.
If you behave like a knob... You won't.
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It's that simple! 
Sadly, some don't take the time to separate the two. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some lovely singles here some lovely couples here ..... you have to take the good with the bad in both .... its like a candy shop ..pick and mix ....no one like the same thing. Do singles get a bad time on sites like this no more then some couples. Its Down to luck really ... if a person likes the look of you and read the profile and it ticks there boxers. |
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"Im very much loving the men today, but then i do everyday. But today more sowhy you horny , lol xx "
No more than normal, but some of my gentleman callers have been extra nice to me the last couple of days, especially today. Must be something in the air |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
Rushden |
There are single guys on this site???
I like what some of the guys have put and they may well live by what they have typed, but I suspect that some guys on here (the site) know what to do, but it is too much like hard work! We no longer meet singles (unless we already know them) but if we found the right one at the right time, could work for all of us. But what we need is for some of the guys to act (type) and follow through on what has been typed above!
In answer to the op... No, this site is not anti singles, but I really think they could do with a cull.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is hard as there are so many single males on here and as previously stated by another user that they can afford to be picky.
It can be frustrating trying to get a reply on chat, but what you've got to remember there are probably 100's of other uses trying for a response.
I think this is when single males get desperate and send 'wanna fuck'.
Be patient guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had more success as a single guy than we've ever had as a couple. It seems to be much more difficult to find 4 people who all fancy each other than it does for a single guy to find suitable playmates. |
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