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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer to get to know the woman a bit before jumping in the bed.
So more FWB rather than NSA.
I think knowing the other person adds a layer of excitement"
Yeah I'm the same, I won't jump into bed with a complete stranger and atleast give whoever some moral respect and dignity not just use em like a piece of meat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dunno if i'm honest.
i like NSA and not having the hassle of a relationship but i want to feel respected. only guys who are amazing in bed and have good aftercare can get away with NSA really. the ones who fuck off as soon as they've cum are awful (and rare thank god) and i don't even class them as NSA, they're users. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no interest in dating anyone, I have Marc for that.
But I do like to get to know the people we meet and repeat meets are preferable. So I'm cool with nsa, but I would prefer a bit of friendship with the sex  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I've made no secret that I'd like a lady in my life, I'm on a couple of dating sites as well as here at the moment nsa doesn't have the same appeal... |
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"The last three dates I went on ended up in bed.
What's a date?
It's a prelude to fucking. Or have I got that wrong...?"
It's supposed to be a prelude to a relationship - which may well include fucking!! |
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"I've made no secret that I'd like a lady in my life, I'm on a couple of dating sites as well as here at the moment nsa doesn't have the same appeal... "
Yes, I'm lucky to have fb/fwb 'meanwhile', but I would like a relationship so I may have to endure some dating lol!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA. |
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"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA. "
I don't tend to arrange meets with someone I wouldn't date I thought I was weird doing this X |
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"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA. "
It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them.  |
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By *hav02Man
over a year ago
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"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA.
It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them. "
you don't have to date them, but at least just be able to get along and have a laugh...otherwise it's just a "cum and go" lol |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
I only meet folk I'm attracted to,. If I'm not comfortable in a social setting with the lady.. I'm going to feel very awkward if and when we're nude...  |
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"I don't think you should have sex with someone who you wouldn't consider dating even if you aren't looking to date, I mean standards should be the same whether dating or NSA.
It's not just standards though - I sometimes meet gorgeous young men for instance, but I would not date them.
you don't have to date them, but at least just be able to get along and have a laugh...otherwise it's just a "cum and go" lol"
Exactly, and I'm not interested in that. I'm just saying there's plenty of reasons you might meet with someone who you would not date without them being 'below' your normal standards somehow. Horses for courses. |
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