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over a year ago
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Are you a negative swinger? This is something that has dawned on us the last few weeks, we look for reasons to meet rather than reason to meet, this is a very negative way of looking at things, so we are trying to change our out look, who else is the same? |
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"do you mean reasons not to meet? otherwise I don't understand the question  "
I thought the same, then wonder which side of the "rather" that would fit, then I saw something shiny and forgot the question  |
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We have learned over the years that there are certain signs that mean a meet won't work for us, we look for those to avoid disappointment on both sides. I don't look on it as negative though just realistic  |
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"do you mean reasons not to meet? otherwise I don't understand the question
Oh now come on Foxy .... they look for reasons to meet rather than reason to meet....... clear now ?"
clear as mud ma'am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going "
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to? |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going "
I don't, I think if you feel a certain way you should go with it. |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?"
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide? |
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"Ha ha ha sorry we look for reasons not to meet rather than meet"
Not negative unless you are seeing lots of positives but not going for it because of one minor negative. L and I get one weekend a month one together average, so we stopped meeting except for existing friends as there just isn't enough time to be making plans. ultimately dropping to a single profile cos I a weird and like the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?"
Yes if its just a lol. Im sure though there were other reasons, i hope x |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?"
Would you be able to let it slide if you met them and they actually said "Lolz"? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?
Yes if its just a lol. Im sure though there were other reasons, i hope x"
It wasn't just lolz but they whole tone of the mail that ended in lolz, |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?"
Nah just block them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?
Yes if its just a lol. Im sure though there were other reasons, i hope x
It wasn't just lolz but they whole tone of the mail that ended in lolz, "
Then i wouldnt worry about it xx |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?
Yes if its just a lol. Im sure though there were other reasons, i hope x
It wasn't just lolz but they whole tone of the mail that ended in lolz, "
Well there you are then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?
Would you be able to let it slide if you met them and they actually said "Lolz"? "
Good question, maybe? If we had been chatting for a while, this is why we are looking at becoming slightly more easy going |
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"Negative or just catious?
A bit of both maybe? But the slightest annoyance and we lose interest, think we should be more easy going
I guess it depends on the person but at least maybe they are making sure they are meeting only those they want to?
We have probably missed out on some really nice people though, simply because they wrote lolz in a message, think we should let stuff like that slide?
Would you be able to let it slide if you met them and they actually said "Lolz"?
Good question, maybe? If we had been chatting for a while, this is why we are looking at becoming slightly more easy going"
I think I know where you're coming from. In our experience though our first instincts have usually been right and if something puts us off no matter how seemingly insignificant we don't go any further. I always look at a person's facial expression and base my initial decision on that...I know I'm odd  |
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"Are you a negative swinger? This is something that has dawned on us the last few weeks, we look for reasons to meet rather than reason to meet, this is a very negative way of looking at things, so we are trying to change our out look, who else is the same?"
I'm not a swinger |
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We are very easy going , and don't really care much about what's written .
If they're fit and our type ( which is a very broad spectrum ) we will meet and see how it goes .
No regrets , we have walked away a few times , but in the main our easy going outlook has worked well for us .
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