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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A couple of times on the forum I've seen a single guy written off as "a player".
In fact I've even been personally warned off a different guy on here because "he's a player".
It's a swingers site. Isn't that the point? Or am I missing some hidden meaning in that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bearing in mind the general 'purpose' of the site, whether or not a member is a 'player' should be completely irrelevant, what with things such as verifications especially? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a player promises more than they give (exclusuvity, a relationship, etc.) Some gals are looking for a more monogamous swing (some guys too); they end up "played" by silver-tongued "gents" that say all the right things.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The term implies that the male in question will 'play' women into bed, but the need to play is nullified when the women are here for the same reason."
I thought it meant they lead women on when they're dating or whatever, when they just want to fuck her then they won't have any interest after
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"I think a player promises more than they give (exclusuvity, a relationship, etc.) Some gals are looking for a more monogamous swing (some guys too); they end up "played" by silver-tongued "gents" that say all the right things.. "
That's what I thought the term player means  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought it meant they lead women on when they're dating or whatever, when they just want to fuck her then they won't have any interest after "
Yes, to 'play' is to lead a woman on, into bed.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"The site is the game and we're all playing it"
This 
It actually really bugs me/us when some people try and warn you off a certain person. Errrm we can make our own minds up thanks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here I would class a player as someone who says all the right things but continually changes the goal posts and never comes up with the goods. Loves the thrill but has no bottle 
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The term player used in this context means a manipulator / liar / fantasist.
So I still think you can be on a swingers site and be called a player.
It's not the number of shags you've had but the way in which you got those shags that earns you the label.
If people are straight from the off they can't be called a player. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think a player promises more than they give (exclusuvity, a relationship, etc.) Some gals are looking for a more monogamous swing (some guys too); they end up "played" by silver-tongued "gents" that say all the right things.. "
Yes, it's guys who use women and deceive them - plenty of those on here, plenty of gullible women too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interesting, so a woman with over 300 fuck veris are not a player? lol."
having lots of sexual partners is not to me what makes a player.. To me a player is a guy/girl who lies to get what they want... May say they want one thing but don't mean it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does Player have a different meaning in swinging, just in "normal" life a player is someone who sleeps with one girl then moves on to the next but isn't that what swinging is ? |
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A player would ordinarily be someone who's not strictly honest, saying and doing whatever they wish to get someone to shag them.
Fab works best where we have full honesty between partners, where we are equals and all gain the sexual fulfilment that we need. A player wouldn't really care about their partner's satisfaction - just ensuring that they have scored and got what they wanted. |
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"The term player used in this context means a manipulator / liar / fantasist.
So I still think you can be on a swingers site and be called a player.
It's not the number of shags you've had but the way in which you got those shags that earns you the label.
If people are straight from the off they can't be called a player. "
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"A player would ordinarily be someone who's not strictly honest, saying and doing whatever they wish to get someone to shag them.
Fab works best where we have full honesty between partners, where we are equals and all gain the sexual fulfilment that we need. A player wouldn't really care about their partner's satisfaction - just ensuring that they have scored and got what they wanted. "
This.... in my early Fab days I believed a 'player'. Wouldn't now! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The term player used in this context means a manipulator / liar / fantasist.
So I still think you can be on a swingers site and be called a player.
It's not the number of shags you've had but the way in which you got those shags that earns you the label.
If people are straight from the off they can't be called a player. "
totally agree - liar/ manipulator is the right description ... |
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"The term player used in this context means a manipulator / liar / fantasist.
So I still think you can be on a swingers site and be called a player.
It's not the number of shags you've had but the way in which you got those shags that earns you the label.
If people are straight from the off they can't be called a player. totally agree - liar/ manipulator is the right description ... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The term player used in this context means a manipulator / liar / fantasist.
So I still think you can be on a swingers site and be called a player.
It's not the number of shags you've had but the way in which you got those shags that earns you the label.
If people are straight from the off they can't be called a player. "
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