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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When a random guy you've never chatted to before sends you a message with a couple of generic compliments and then demands that you friend invite him, and "don't be shy?".
Isn't that kind of rude? Insisting that the reason for me not inviting him could only possibly be because I'm shy?
I said I'm not shy, I just don't want to send you a friend invite.
He then called me rude?
I've heard rude things happen a lot on swingers sites...     |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fook, if I got upset after every abusive message I receive on here I would have left years ago lol "
Not upset. That would be this emoticon: 
I was just vaguely amused by it. Bless his little cotton socks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Woman accept my request lol
*sheepishly* oh ok then. i do as i'm told, i do. honest.
Good girl xxx "
Nope, apparently I'm bad and naughty. I've been told. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Fook, if I got upset after every abusive message I receive on here I would have left years ago lol
Not upset. That would be this emoticon:
I was just vaguely amused by it. Bless his little cotton socks."
I get some sort of abuse nearly on a daily/weekly basis, I just laugh it off and ignore them.....much better to not react to them, unless I am in a playful mood of course |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fook, if I got upset after every abusive message I receive on here I would have left years ago lol
Not upset. That would be this emoticon:
I was just vaguely amused by it. Bless his little cotton socks.
I get some sort of abuse nearly on a daily/weekly basis, I just laugh it off and ignore them.....much better to not react to them, unless I am in a playful mood of course "
Yeah I normally just ignore-delete. But that was a fairly new one on me (calling me shy) and I've been here on and off for a while.
My personal favourite which made me go  was when I was a total newbie and only been here about a week.
The very first message was along the lines of "meet me at midnight in McDonald's car park. IF I like the look of you, I will flash my headlights and you can come over to my car."
This from a guy with no photos or info on his profile.
Yeah, so obviously I was so excited to land a meet so fast!  |
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"When a random guy you've never chatted to before sends you a message with a couple of generic compliments and then demands that you friend invite him, and "don't be shy?".
Isn't that kind of rude? Insisting that the reason for me not inviting him could only possibly be because I'm shy?
I said I'm not shy, I just don't want to send you a friend invite.
He then called me rude?
I've heard rude things happen a lot on swingers sites... "
If a man calls you rude, tell him to fuck off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just for the record, I'm shy  "
I bet you're not. Your profile says you go to clubs? As a single male, that takes guts.
I go with my husband and hide behind him and don't speak to anyone all night usually. I can happily fuck and have lots of people watching us there, but anything beyond saying hello to someone is a bit scary.
Then again, if I'm one to one with someone, I'm definitely not shy. So depends on the situation. |
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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago
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"Just for the record, I'm shy
I bet you're not. Your profile says you go to clubs? As a single male, that takes guts.
I go with my husband and hide behind him and don't speak to anyone all night usually. I can happily fuck and have lots of people watching us there, but anything beyond saying hello to someone is a bit scary.
Then again, if I'm one to one with someone, I'm definitely not shy. So depends on the situation."
Not really, I find in clubs its easy to get lost in the crowd and being a single male, I rarely find my
self the center of attention, which suites me just fine |
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