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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses"  for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.
Am i over-reacting? is this common? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We wouldn't insult someone in such a way. However we would be happy to travel or pay for local accommodation if they can't accommodate if we liked someone |
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"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses" for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.
Am i over-reacting? is this common? "
How much per mile were they offering? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?  "
Nobody would ever accuse you of cynicism. |
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"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again? "
Not as cynical as me as I thought the OP had woken up from a nap and dreamed it all. Single guys can't give it away allegedly but people are throwing wonga at the OP during these austere times!
Yeah! Right! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses" for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.
Am i over-reacting? is this common? "
maybe thay was thinking you was still at collage why you had that name ...... and not alot of money ... maybe that was all .. just looking to help you ,, not sure ... i hope you said to them what you put here ... in a letter ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"had a few people on here, that after i've turned them down, offer to pay me "any travel expenses" for me to go meet them. these are all people living locally so travel expenses were hardly an issue. Basically feels like im being offered money for sex, treated like a whore.
Am i over-reacting? is this common? "
Don't worry though...I feel your pain. Its just a cross I have to bear from being a total sweetheart  |
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"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again? "
Ooof - you said what I had thought.
But then I read the OP again, and he doesn't mention that it's women he's turning away so I figured it must be some unwanted male attention that he's been getting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not overreacting...merely advertising how 'popular' you are by stating that people are so desperate to meet you. Hmm...am I being cynical again?
Ooof - you said what I had thought.
But then I read the OP again, and he doesn't mention that it's women he's turning away so I figured it must be some unwanted male attention that he's been getting. "
yeah, thats it. and they offer the money, AFTER i already said no. |
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