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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You would trust someone before using restraints/handcuffs etc, Assuming you liked them enough for a repeat meet and are into that sort of thing, 3rd 4th meet or save it for a bf or trusted fb ?
And couples the fact that your partner is present would you do it on a first meet ?
I have always liked the idea of rubbing massage oil all over a Woman then using various sex toys and watching her cum over and over, Having sex and starting again,
I'm not sure if I could be tied up completely, Maybe the hands but not hands and legs as the thought of not being able to move freaks me out a little
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over a year ago
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I had a bad experience with restraints while I was at a club so I'm a bit weird about them now. I would only do it with someone after at least one meet, probably more. I've only used them once on a meet, though I hope to try out more permutations. |
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I would have to know somebody for an awfully long time. I'm more than happy to be helpless and vulnerable with Mr N and if he's present with other people but one to one with another person is unlikely to ever happen. |
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"I had a bad experience with restraints while I was at a club so I'm a bit weird about them now. I would only do it with someone after at least one meet, probably more. I've only used them once on a meet, though I hope to try out more permutations. "
I should note that this is assuming Marc is present. Without him there it wouldn't happen at all. |
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Ermmmmm along time but I have no time span...I guess you just get a feeling of who you can trust to do it, however you may know someone for a long time and they may take the piss I think I just go by caution and that you really don't know people fully. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a bad experience with restraints while I was at a club so I'm a bit weird about them now. I would only do it with someone after at least one meet, probably more. I've only used them once on a meet, though I hope to try out more permutations.
I should note that this is assuming Marc is present. Without him there it wouldn't happen at all. "
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"Ermmmmm along time but I have no time span...I guess you just get a feeling of who you can trust to do it, however you may know someone for a long time and they may take the piss I think I just go by caution and that you really don't know people fully. "
I suppose after each meet your trust in them goes a little further but I get what you're saying about not really knowing someone |
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"Ermmmmm along time but I have no time span...I guess you just get a feeling of who you can trust to do it, however you may know someone for a long time and they may take the piss I think I just go by caution and that you really don't know people fully.
I suppose after each meet your trust in them goes a little further but I get what you're saying about not really knowing someone"
I learnt my lesson with that, don't get me wrong I love being restrained but I have only met one man who I would let him do it...which is a shame as I love it  |
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I have always liked the idea of this, but like others, have that trust issue. Rather than cuffs, I purchased some velcro restraints. They kinda give me the sense that I'd still be able to get free if needed. Still to have them used on myself, but used them on a guy who I had met several times previously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr G - I love being restrained and using cuffs etc. But I trust him implicitly.
Would we do it with someone else there and how soon. With another lady - yes. With another man - not as yet.
Cuffs that Velcro are a good option I'm thinking if you just want to try it out lightly - as you can unfasten easily if you're uncomfortable at all.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have always liked the idea of this, but like others, have that trust issue. Rather than cuffs, I purchased some velcro restraints. They kinda give me the sense that I'd still be able to get free if needed. Still to have them used on myself, but used them on a guy who I had met several times previously."
I probably would only have the velcro restraints used on me as well for the same reason, And with a couple or in a MFM when we needed to have a rest we could always leave a couple of sex toys with/in her while we had a pint and watched
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"I doubt few singles would be up for it straight away. Why leave yourself so vulnerable to a stranger? I'd have to know someone quite well first. My safety is paramount."
Bloody hell where you been hiding |
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The ladies I've met from fab I've trusted from the first time.
I mean what's the worst they could do while I was tied, spreadeagle, unable to stop them...
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Totally not the same thing but I dated a guy a few years back and it was the first time he stayed over, he was a really bad snorer so I went and got my nasal spray for blocked noses and sprayed it up his nostrils, he woke up to me leaning over him holding the spray between my fingers like a syringe, I've never seen a guy look so frightened and thinking if it had been the other way round it would've frightened me too! |
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"The ladies I've met from fab I've trusted from the first time.
I mean what's the worst they could do while I was tied, spreadeagle, unable to stop them...
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A reason to keep my legs free 
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would trust a lady on the first meet because its a fantasy of mine. In case of emergency I know how to break out of several type of cuffs, police issued including (don't ask me how). |
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"I would trust a lady on the first meet because its a fantasy of mine. In case of emergency I know how to break out of several type of cuffs, police issued including (don't ask me how)."
You been watching those Facebook how to break out of videos? |
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"I would trust a lady on the first meet because its a fantasy of mine. In case of emergency I know how to break out of several type of cuffs, police issued including (don't ask me how).
You been watching those Facebook how to break out of videos? "
No, let's just say I had an accident when I was younger |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally not the same thing but I dated a guy a few years back and it was the first time he stayed over, he was a really bad snorer so I went and got my nasal spray for blocked noses and sprayed it up his nostrils, he woke up to me leaning over him holding the spray between my fingers like a syringe, I've never seen a guy look so frightened and thinking if it had been the other way round it would've frightened me too!"
You penetrated his nose without permission |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"I doubt few singles would be up for it straight away. Why leave yourself so vulnerable to a stranger? I'd have to know someone quite well first. My safety is paramount.
Bloody hell where you been hiding "
Been busy and kind of on a fab break. Life gets in the way. |
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