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some people are so abusive

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

As you are aware by mine and my partners profile name I am a tv. On joining the site we decided to say we are a male and female couple as when we do play i dress up as a girl and feel like a girl and only ever play together with me in girl mode. However a few people including 1 d******d in general decide to message me giving grief saying we should be down as a male couple and we are dirty faggots

this is after he has been fabbing our pictures and we declined his approach.

Do other people find the same problem after politely declining an invite

Sally x x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've been called a cocksucker before.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Report abuse and block them.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"I've been called a cocksucker before. "

Sockcucker

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i don't decline anyone and don't really get rude messages either.

it's your prerogative to label yourself as you want.

i could understand someones disappointment at thinking you were born a female when you were not but there's no need to be abusive about it. it's likely thy were abusive because you turned them down. many women turn from hottest woman on this stie to fat, ugly, whatever when they say on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can be whatever you feel like being. It's no ones business as long as you have it down on your profile. It's clearly stated so I don't see where the problem is. Just ignore those silly things and as mentioned before me. Report and block.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

when they say no. not on.

other spelling mistakes also available i noticed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm an ugly lanky cunt. Which is nice!

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By *uxom redCouple over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be what you want to be and bollocks to what others say. As long as your true to yourselves that's all that matters.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck them. You're both better than that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"when they say no. not on.

other spelling mistakes also available i noticed.

Eh??????? X x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fuck them. You're both better than that x"

Thank you x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry, I get similar things. Some guys get really crazy when they realise I don't have a penis and I'm ftm not mtf.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"when they say no. not on.

other spelling mistakes also available i noticed.

Eh??????? X x"

'On' and 'No'

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Be what you want to be and bollocks to what others say. As long as your true to yourselves that's all that matters. "

Thank you

x x

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS over a year ago

Epsom

Oh I've been called so many things now,I must be a Chimera....

Really hope they don't put you off. We're different and that upsets some peoples status quo.

Own it and use it like armour. Most pricks are just jealous that they can't come out or don't have the balls to wear a dress xx

Happy hunting

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Don't worry, I get similar things. Some guys get really crazy when they realise I don't have a penis and I'm ftm not mtf."

Oooh! Did Colgate ask?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"when they say no. not on.

other spelling mistakes also available i noticed.

Eh??????? X x"

i replied earlier, it had a few spelling mistakes...sorry, don't know why i didn't notice before i posted it. will post a corrected version.

i don't decline anyone and don't really get rude messages either.

it's your prerogative to label yourself as you want.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes, the common one is I'm up my own arse

I actually get more random abusive messages where I've had no contact with the person whatsoever. That's always a bizarre one!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't worry what others think, some just got a bad personality trais, you get some strange ones online.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As you are aware by mine and my partners profile name I am a tv. On joining the site we decided to say we are a male and female couple as when we do play i dress up as a girl and feel like a girl and only ever play together with me in girl mode. However a few people including 1 d******d in general decide to message me giving grief saying we should be down as a male couple and we are dirty faggots

this is after he has been fabbing our pictures and we declined his approach.

Do other people find the same problem after politely declining an invite

Sally x x

Ah, yes, the rejection message.

"You have great pics. Fancy a fuck?"

"No, thanks, not for us."

"You are an ugly fat bitch."

There are some seriously idiotic folk around. Just converse with the nice ones.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Never thought of this before!

There should be an option for couples same as with single profiles.

But as there's not I'd personally say it was a MM couple. Can't see why people would be upset/angry about it though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's a fair number of guys on this site who do the following:

1. Drool over photos

2. Message saying "wanna fuk?"

These guys don't read profiles. Not until you point it out to them.

I'm guessing he was one of those.

But there's no need for abuse - report and block.

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

this is after he has been fabbing our pictures and we declined his approach.

Do other people find the same problem after politely declining an invite

Sally x x

"
it's ok iam a bald freak so iam told lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Report abuse and block them.

As opposed to report, abuse and block them.

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

I think it is fair to say not everyone knows how to take a rejection well and express this in a not so pleasant manner.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up."

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !"

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

God, people can be wankers sometimes.

So sorry you've had to go through that. Yeah, report and block.

But also, reign in the knowledge that you're hot as fuck, and they just can't handle not having you.

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By *layfulserfMan over a year ago

Northolt

Sorry you have had abuse

Reading your profile it's quite clear that you are who you are

Maybe the abuser should learn to read and not just look at the pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"God, people can be wankers sometimes.

So sorry you've had to go through that. Yeah, report and block.

But also, reign in the knowledge that you're hot as fuck, and they just can't handle not having you.

Aw thank you

Your looking hot yourself

x x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me. "

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, you should report them and definately block.

Hope it didn't cause too much upset. Forget it. Be happy. Fab should be a fun, happy time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x "

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha."

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x"

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though."

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x"

it's school holidays for me so i blocked everyone for now.

not really got time to chat on here coz i get pestered a bit by my kids and am on and off fab all the time, plus have to nip out at random times. i've been ready for bed since about 6pm and knackered tonight, only 11 more days to go...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x

it's school holidays for me so i blocked everyone for now.

Its fine no need to explain. Sure we can get chance to chat in the future.

Ive been in bed since 8 o'clock , should really go to sleep instead of spending sleeping time on here. X x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x

it's school holidays for me so i blocked everyone for now.

Its fine no need to explain. Sure we can get chance to chat in the future.

Ive been in bed since 8 o'clock , should really go to sleep instead of spending sleeping time on here. X x"

same here. i'm usually not tired because i'm just supervising things and not doing much physically or being pestered.

gonna drink this brew then get in bed myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x

it's school holidays for me so i blocked everyone for now.

Its fine no need to explain. Sure we can get chance to chat in the future.

Ive been in bed since 8 o'clock , should really go to sleep instead of spending sleeping time on here. X x

same here. i'm usually not tired because i'm just supervising things and not doing much physically or being pestered.

gonna drink this brew then get in bed myself.

Carnt beat a good brew , well tell a lie a cock usually beats it

x x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive only ever had one abusive message I can think of, which was years ago from a forum member, and I replied in the same vein.

It doesn't bother me what people call me, I don't let people get under my skin on here, it's just an Internet site.

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By *lik and PaulCouple over a year ago

Flagrante

"Report abuse and block them.

This and don't let it get to you...the world is full of dickheads and Fab is no different....ignore them and enjoy yourselves...this is meant to be fun x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up.

Don't give up. We could start a thread called spot AFB's typos..... Hours of fun.

they I win !

i'm enjoying organising competitions at the moment actually.

social is a the prize for whoever spots the most.

but yeah my spelling is awful when i'm tired and really annoys me.

Thank you for fabbing our pictures

Love your tattoo's x x

you're welcome.

thanks for ignoring my bad spelling, haha.

Being as hot as you are , who care's about your spelling lol x x

hope that's why nobody ever comments on it.

thanks though.

Yep they will be to busy checking out your pictures to even notice lol

You are most welcome. I was going to pm you before but couldnt x x

it's school holidays for me so i blocked everyone for now.

Its fine no need to explain. Sure we can get chance to chat in the future.

Ive been in bed since 8 o'clock , should really go to sleep instead of spending sleeping time on here. X x

same here. i'm usually not tired because i'm just supervising things and not doing much physically or being pestered.

gonna drink this brew then get in bed myself.

Carnt beat a good brew , well tell a lie a cock usually beats it

x x"

my brew has gone cold so i will agree with you there.

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By *iamondjoeMan over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I've been called a cocksucker before. "

I was called a cunt three times on Thursday.

I'm a *bastard*, not a cunt!

ffs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this is after he has been fabbing our pictures and we declined his approach.

Do other people find the same problem after politely declining an invite

Sally x x

Just read this thread ..never been with a TV but I don't think that should be held against me .... I think he got rude mean and aggressive first cos you both refused him..and then realising the ass he fantasised about was genetically a guys...he needs to grow up ...and in fairness ye dodged a big wacky bullet with that muckhead... Yes everyone's entitled to their own opinions... But there's no need to be abusive to ppl ...full stop!! ..glad ye didn't meet..he sounds like an ignorant fucktard!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nice bum hole photo, like a star fish

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By *horehouseCouple over a year ago

dissatisfied

You should have a male couple profile as that is what you are .. it is be misleading to have a male / female profile ...we block TV'S from messaging us .. people like you have found a way round the system do the right thing and get the right profile for your gender

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

It has something to do with the fragile single man's ego, he thinks he is God's gift to women and of course TV's. He thinks people should be grateful he has messaged them, when someone says no to him it is considered a personal insult. Personally the poor little bloke shouldn't be on an adult site if he can't accept rejection. Just block and move on.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

I'm sorry you have been so badly abused here. So much for sexual liberation and freedom of expression.

Consider yourself hugged, hun xx

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By *andS66Couple over a year ago

Derby

It's wrong for anyone to abuse you.

I also, however, think you should advertise as a MM couple, making it specific in your profile that you only meet dressed up.

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By *educerMan over a year ago

Brentwood

Block the haters and move on, not sure why people do it but clearly a lot more idiots in the world than any of us could have ever imagined......

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

this is after he has been fabbing our pictures and we declined his approach.

Do other people find the same problem after politely declining an invite

Sally x x

Personally I find it odd a male couple only wanting to meet single men having m/f profile. That said single women who only meet with their boyfriend present, single men who are really married also have me

too. I wouldn't dream of messaging them to be rude though: that's totally out of order.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You should have a male couple profile as that is what you are .. it is be misleading to have a male / female profile ...we block TV'S from messaging us .. people like you have found a way round the system do the right thing and get the right profile for your gender "

'People like you' ?! What century are you in?

They do have the right profile. Until Admin adds more Couple types.

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

As above - report, block and move on although I'm not sure what admin do at that point?

I know of a male on here that has threatened and abused me and also given some seriously nasty abuse to another lady I know, yet is still appearing to be functioning as normal on fab (despite needing mental help).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"i don't decline anyone and don't really get rude messages either."

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

'People like you' ?! What century are you in?

Thank you sweetie

x x

They do have the right profile. Until Admin adds more Couple types.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are entitled to have whatever profile we choose to have. Its not that misleading when our profile name states tv and boyfriend. Also if they read the profile it states so on that aswell. Please explain what you mean by people like me?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"omg still has at least one spelling mistake...i give up."
Why? I cant spell well but will never give up.

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

Best bet is to report and block

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