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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks Guys, I've been chatting to a couple, who dont have any pics on their account, for a while now, to the point of arranging a meet but now I've seen face pics I find I dont fancy her. I was feeling as though I was duty bound to go ahead with the meet. |
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"Thanks Guys, I've been chatting to a couple, who dont have any pics on their account, for a while now, to the point of arranging a meet but now I've seen face pics I find I dont fancy her. I was feeling as though I was duty bound to go ahead with the meet. "
you're never duty bound to do anything |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For heaven's sake man: you're not duty bound to do anything! Imagine meeting and not being able to perform...can't see the point!
Oh...and it's not shallow to not find someone attractive. Put it down to experience and next time see pics up front to save wasting time on people you don't find attractive.
Good luck and have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, Unlike some people on Fab, I can't just jump into bed with anyone, I have been called shallow many times but as it has been said there has to be an attraction otherwise what is the point, I ask for face pics upfront and send one in return, if I do not get one within the first couple of days, I move on as I believe they have something to hide, some hope by setting up a report and chatting for a few weeks, it will make you overlook the fact that they don't match your preferences and you will go for their personality, this doesn't work for me, I have tried twice, if you are worried about offending them, just say something like " I am really sorry but ...... you are the spitting image of my sister in law and it would be too weird" |
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"Would you meet someone (either single or couple) if you didnt fancy them?"
Quite a few guys do… but you won’t get them admitting it on here because it will set half the women off in a paranoid frenzy. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"??????????? Would you? I honestly dont believe I could. I need to think wow look at her, not Arrgh!! look at her. "
can i say be aware of something here....
you might not fancy them... but they could still be here reading what you are writing about them!!
there are nice ways of saying "no thank you!" of course you are no obligated to do anything... but there are nicer ways of letting people down gentley...
do i think opening up a thread on it is that.... no.....
if the situation was reversed and the couple had posted that, how would you be feeling right now? Not having a go at you personally but there are more tactful ways of doing things |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"??????????? Would you? I honestly dont believe I could. I need to think wow look at her, not Arrgh!! look at her.
can i say be aware of something here....
you might not fancy them... but they could still be here reading what you are writing about them!!
there are nice ways of saying "no thank you!" of course you are no obligated to do anything... but there are nicer ways of letting people down gentley...
do i think opening up a thread on it is that.... no.....
if the situation was reversed and the couple had posted that, how would you be feeling right now? Not having a go at you personally but there are more tactful ways of doing things"
True and apologies if they do read this, but thought I needed a bit of advise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your not obliged to shag them. God man if that was the case we'd have to shag everyone. Not a nice thought at all
I wouldn't shag someone just cause I like them
I need to fancy them to |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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yes, but not a play meet. If I got on well enough with them online/phone then yeah I would meet them socially, but they would know in advance that there would be nothing more than that |
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