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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
You can get friend request here :D?
Probably something to do with Diva syndrome, no point worrying about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've blocked people in advance when I know them, or their real partners in some cases.
Even a few times from forum posts that make me realise we just wouldn't be compatible. But would have to be something quite extreme to be honest.
But as already been said they are making it easier for them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could be any one of the reasons already mentioned ,if i were you follow the advice to ignore it and dont let it bother you,so many on here are ignorant ,rude,impatient it WILL happen again unfortunately  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block people that keep coming up in my local search that I don't feel I am compatible with. It saves me from continually looking at their profile. Nothing against them I just have a type. |
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People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Could be any one of the reasons already mentioned ,if i were you follow the advice to ignore it and dont let it bother you,so many on here are ignorant ,rude,impatient it WILL happen again unfortunately "
It's not ignorant or rude that people block others and there's nothing unfortunate about being blocked by people who aren't interested in you. You're not going to meet them so why does it matter? It helps filter out people who wouldn't be interested which should make it easier to find those that are.
Calling people who block you ignorant and rude is petulant and childish. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
nowt strange as folk and theirs some strange folk here  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I message someone and get a no thank you or message is deleted or not replied to I block them so they don't keep coming up on my searches"
I do this as well  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I block loads of people for a wide variety of reasons.
Sometimes because they are local and keep posting photos I don't want to see in my local updates. Sometimes because I don't like their status messages. Sometimes because their forum posts show me they're not my type of person. Sometimes because of messages they send me. Sometimes because I read their profile and don't like their attitude.
And various other reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll drive yourself mad thinking about it, people block for loads of reasons just concentrate on the majority who haven't blocked you."
Ecellent point and advice
Its horses for courses with this site some people block you for no reason at all just ignore it......i certainly do.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"You'll drive yourself mad thinking about it, people block for loads of reasons just concentrate on the majority who haven't blocked you.
Ecellent point and advice
Its horses for courses with this site some people block you for no reason at all just ignore it......i certainly do.
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Nobody blocks for no reason. You may not know or understand the reason but they had one. |
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"People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking
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It's not their loss, it's their choice |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking.
It's not their loss, it's their choice "
Exactly. How can not meeting someone you don't want to meet be any sort of loss?
Perplexing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking
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Well it's not their loss really, is it? I mean they didn't want to have sex with you, so they're not losing anything at all by blocking you. In fact they're gaining something - some time back when they don't have to look at your profile again. |
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"Could be any one of the reasons already mentioned ,if i were you follow the advice to ignore it and dont let it bother you,so many on here are ignorant ,rude,impatient it WILL happen again unfortunately
It's not ignorant or rude that people block others and there's nothing unfortunate about being blocked by people who aren't interested in you. You're not going to meet them so why does it matter? It helps filter out people who wouldn't be interested which should make it easier to find those that are.
Calling people who block you ignorant and rude is petulant and childish."
I think it's a massive blow to the ego of some for reasons only they can answer because honestly, who genuinely thinks they'll appeal to everyone, aside from egomaniacs?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
I'm sure the reasoning is different for each individual?
I wouldn't bother wasting energy on something that's out of your control though |
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"People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking.
It's not their loss, it's their choice
Exactly. How can not meeting someone you don't want to meet be any sort of loss?
Perplexing."
...as I said... |
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"People have blocked us before and they don`t even know us! Maybe it`s our terrible taste in lingerie or maybe because we smoke? Who cares life`s too short and it is their loss !
Lets see how many people who won`t meet smokers want to be friends when we host a party
Enjoy life and fab without worrying about blocking
Well it's not their loss really, is it? I mean they didn't want to have sex with you, so they're not losing anything at all by blocking you. In fact they're gaining something - some time back when they don't have to look at your profile again."
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
They don't want to meet you for any number of reasons unknown to anyone but them. Try not to worry about it and concentrate your energy on those who are interested. It will make your fab experience all the better. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Could be any one of the reasons already mentioned ,if i were you follow the advice to ignore it and dont let it bother you,so many on here are ignorant ,rude,impatient it WILL happen again unfortunately
It's not ignorant or rude that people block others and there's nothing unfortunate about being blocked by people who aren't interested in you. You're not going to meet them so why does it matter? It helps filter out people who wouldn't be interested which should make it easier to find those that are.
Calling people who block you ignorant and rude is petulant and childish.
I think it's a massive blow to the ego of some for reasons only they can answer because honestly, who genuinely thinks they'll appeal to everyone, aside from egomaniacs?!! "
I don't think I'll ever understand it.
I also don't get those that say, "why did you block me? It's not like I'd ever want anything to do with you!". So how did you know you were blocked then, genius?  |
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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
We tend to block people who view our profile but do not meet our criteria for a meet, sounds a bit harsh I know but I like to read the profiles of the people who view our profile, we have found it was mostly the same people every day viewing it, so we blocked them and we found profiles that had been pushed out the listing ( only shows 100 )that did interest us, So am afraid that's our reason for blocking people ( who might be lovely people )but if there's no chance of ever meeting them then what's the point of having people who we might meet pushed off the list  |
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"Could be any one of the reasons already mentioned ,if i were you follow the advice to ignore it and dont let it bother you,so many on here are ignorant ,rude,impatient it WILL happen again unfortunately
It's not ignorant or rude that people block others and there's nothing unfortunate about being blocked by people who aren't interested in you. You're not going to meet them so why does it matter? It helps filter out people who wouldn't be interested which should make it easier to find those that are.
Calling people who block you ignorant and rude is petulant and childish."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My blocks come from my forum posts, used to make me think what's the point of blocking someone who doesn't even want to meet you but then realised a block from the forum is their way of saying, I don't like you or what you're about!
It's threads like this that make me aware of people who have blocked me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi, i never understand people blocking people they have had no contact with. We've noticed of late that we have been blocked by a couple of couples, plus somebody sent a feiend request then blocked when we didnt immediately accept it.
Whats all that about?"
ok let me give you an example a woman has on her profile big black cock only I know that rules out half to three quarters of the black guys but if you are white she doesn't need you or you her so block and you eliminate her from the process you don't know them so no harm done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive been blocked by a few people. one of them actually talks to me on the forums and knows she blocked me.
Its there right to do so, cant see a problem.
Ive done the same, move on and get over it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can never understand why adults get upset when someone blocks them"
it's a natural reaction eg 'you are beautiful' hopefully makes you smile and oh' I'm blocked 'fuck why what did I do to them ,it's just a jerk reaction a negative begets a negative ,like when the phone rings you missed the call and no number left but you keep wondering ,I wonder who that was or same when someone drives past you while you're walking on sidewalk and they wave but you didn't see who it was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really couldn't give a monkeys about who blocks us.
It's obvious that by blocking that they don't want any contact with us. That's fair.
Why would you want to contact someone who has no desire to be contacted by you ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really couldn't give a monkeys about who blocks us.
It's obvious that by blocking that they don't want any contact with us. That's fair.
Why would you want to contact someone who has no desire to be contacted by you ? "
this. Loads of people block me - they all have their own legitimate reasons I'm sure.
Mind you it does stop some pic perving opportunities which is the only downside  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really couldn't give a monkeys about who blocks us.
It's obvious that by blocking that they don't want any contact with us. That's fair.
Why would you want to contact someone who has no desire to be contacted by you ?
this. Loads of people block me - they all have their own legitimate reasons I'm sure.
Mind you it does stop some pic perving opportunities which is the only downside "
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Jims got "your mum" as his catchphrase...
I'm considering "your blocked"  |
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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"wouldn't worry about it. they're just making this site easier for themselves to use and is nothing to do with you."
Yep! If there`s someone who I don`t "fancy" I`ll put a block on to remind me not to look at them again! Handy if they use chat as well! |
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"I'm blocked by people I'll get over it  "
exactly, why worry about strangers blocking on a swingers site. It's just a tool to be used. I block all single males from emailing me with the filters, it just makes my life easier on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A guy sent me a message which I ignored as I'm not looking for that atm...then he sent me an angry message because I DID'T block him and ignored him instead!..First time I've had someone angry because I didn't block them lol Then he said people from Ayrshire are 'inbred'..I'm not even from Ayrshire lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I just found it weird. As an example, i was on the updates page and a profile appeared which looked appealing, so i clicked it to get told it wasnt available due to being blocked, or me blocking. It doesnt really bother me, just found it weird. Anyway, onwards and upwards as they say. Thanks for all your input |
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"I just found it weird. As an example, i was on the updates page and a profile appeared which looked appealing, so i clicked it to get told it wasnt available due to being blocked, or me blocking. It doesnt really bother me, just found it weird. Anyway, onwards and upwards as they say. Thanks for all your input"
They're not looking for couples, people over 30, straight...does it matter? They're not interested in you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I really couldn't give a monkeys about who blocks us.
It's obvious that by blocking that they don't want any contact with us. That's fair.
Why would you want to contact someone who has no desire to be contacted by you ?
this. Loads of people block me - they all have their own legitimate reasons I'm sure.
Mind you it does stop some pic perving opportunities which is the only downside .
Jims got "your mum" as his catchphrase...
I'm considering "your blocked" "
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I think I need to unblock everyone
