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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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apparently there is an "avoid list" on here. Would it be nice to know how people can put you in that list and who check their reports . any infos ? thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There isn't one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's called the block list.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i've never heard of it and i fuck and chat to a lot of people. doubt many people are using that list (if it exists). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ooooo never heard of this |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
 I would love to be on it, or thankful I am |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Reckon I'm on a fair few avoid lists then.  |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I have been assured by a Platinum Member that my name is on the list.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Reckon I'm on a fair few avoid lists then. "
probably not as many as me...
I use my hotlist like an avoid list.... does that count? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmm....even if such a thing existed i would avoid those that took notice of such a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well in that case is not fair that Platinum members can ruin the experience here of other members |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh hang on is it when people post nasty/wierd/odd forum posts n we all say "now we know who to avoid"? |
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Yes its definetly available to platinum members only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The people who tell you there isn't one are lying - they just don't want you to know if it's existence. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must be on it lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use my hotlist as my avoid list...
and just in case I forgot why I put someone on it I make a note, just in case...
once an administrator, always an administrator |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My name is written on it in capitals and underlined in red three times.  |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"well in that case is not fair that Platinum members can ruin the experience here of other members "
OP there is no such thing as a platimum member and theres no 'avoid list' - both are just things that people say to wind others up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"well in that case is not fair that Platinum members can ruin the experience here of other members "
It's part of the perks of Platinum membership. They get to read the threads that have been removed too.  |
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"well in that case is not fair that Platinum members can ruin the experience here of other members "
what makes you think your on some non existant avoid list
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ell it does not look like . people i never spoke with and were here since few days made reference to such a list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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because people answered my firs message to them referring to it just before blocking me |
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"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times "
did they say avoid list or block list
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The block list? I'm on some peoples.....some peoples are on mine. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times "
They are talking out of their arses, if they are being abusive report the messages and then block. Otherwise just ignore them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Easy fix - just change your name. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"because people answered my firs message to them referring to it just before blocking me "
I think they are just talking about blocking you. There really isn't an avoid list. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times "
Block and move on. Only way forward. |
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"The people who tell you there isn't one are lying - they just don't want you to know if it's existence."
A conspiracy theory, I simply love it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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avoid. i repeat it. people i never dealt with before. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times
They are talking out of their arses, if they are being abusive report the messages and then block. Otherwise just ignore them."
That  funny when it's your bottom avatar. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"avoid. i repeat it. people i never dealt with before. "
OK. Fine. You win, it exists. |
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"avoid. i repeat it. people i never dealt with before. "
ok everyone is able to block someone so you will be on their personal block/avoid list there is no central database you pop up on
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sorry but how can it be if I never spoke or written to these people before. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"avoid. i repeat it. people i never dealt with before.
OK. Fine. You win, it exists. "
did someone just end up on the avoid list.........  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id love to know what the message is if it gets onto the 'avoid list' every time |
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It may well be that certain people talk about certain people, as people do ... I certain have a very extensive block list because I frequent the forums, and I am sure I am on a lot of people's lists too ... I am not here to be popular though, but to find like minded people, and these are few and far between |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"id love to know what the message is if it gets onto the 'avoid list' every time "
One can only imagine!  |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
Welcome OP
You're not on the avoid forum list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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oh I would send it to you but it seems i'm too young for you |
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"sorry but how can it be if I never spoke or written to these people before. "
hang on are you saying people youve never messaged are messaging you just to say your on an avoid list and youve never spoken to them or do you mean after youve sent a first message
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"avoid. i repeat it. people i never dealt with before.
OK. Fine. You win, it exists.
did someone just end up on the avoid list......... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no avoid list. But if multiple people are continually telling you that they have heard you should be avoided then maybe for whatever reason you have got yourself a reputation? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well some people i'm quite sure were here for not so loon to have created such an effective network here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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daje. it happens 4 times in few months and they all referred to the "avoid list" |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"well some people i'm quite sure were here for not so loon to have created such an effective network here "
Truly who cares about other people's bitching, just leave them be and chat to people who want to chat with you.
Makes Fab life angst free.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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message vary since i do not like copy paste but they are ok no rude stuff |
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"Reckon I'm on a fair few avoid lists then.
probably not as many as me...
I use my hotlist like an avoid list.... does that count? "
Me too.. also the private message feature on profiles is very handy. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
ps... Have you got yourself into a tizzy over anything else, as people may have noticed and commented |
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"daje. it happens 4 times in few months and they all referred to the "avoid list" "
do you go to clubs or parties up your way?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes they answered referring to the list and then blocked me after my first message to them |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
As an aside, it seems I am on the OPs 'avoid' list |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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never met anyone from here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an aside, it seems I am on the OPs 'avoid' list "
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
"never met anyone from here "
Keep getting involved and you will soon get yourself known.
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbf I think op has come up with a new fab feature. |
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"never met anyone from here "
well in that case just assume they are talking about personal block lists nothing to worry about
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"It's called the block list. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Avoid list?? Damn I want to see that list
However reality is, there is no such list but people do talk to each other, so if you've been rude, stood someone up etc previously then unfortunately word can get around in certain circles. However most people have the ability and sense to make up their own minds |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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sorry if i was i their block list i could not write to them. and we are speaking of people i never spoke or messafged before. block list is ok. is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists that i do not like. |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
I'm on it, it's a badge of honour |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
" is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists
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It doesnt |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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not convinced. 2 of them suscribed since very few days. that shocked me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry if i was i their block list i could not write to them. and we are speaking of people i never spoke or messafged before. block list is ok. is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists that i do not like. "
**Sigh** |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not convinced. 2 of them suscribed since very few days. that shocked me "
No such list exists. Maybe they are people returning who you have messaged on previous profiles and they don't want contact with you. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
OP, I feel something may have been lost in translation.
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Angus & Findhorn |
Half full glass or a half empty one.....
Your choice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been assured by a Platinum Member that my name is on the list.
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I didn't tell you that! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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not really the simplest solution. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
" is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists
It doesnt"
You sure?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing devil's advocate here, if you message someone who has filters set to not accept for example single males does the system send an auto response of "you are on our avoid list" maybe???
Mrs rsc |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"not convinced. 2 of them suscribed since very few days. that shocked me "
Next time you get one, all you need to do is take as much notice of it as you have done to the answers in this thread and your problem will be solved |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes they answered referring to the list and then blocked me after my first message to them "
It's called "taking the piss" there really is no such list! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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no i never do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Avoid avoid avoid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or are they warning you about a big hole........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sorry if i was i their block list i could not write to them. and we are speaking of people i never spoke or messafged before. block list is ok. is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists that i do not like. "
You know people can put you on a block list after they've spoken to you. You can be blocked at any time |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
" is the existence of a shared/common avoid list if exists
It doesnt
You sure? "
It does now |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Playing devil's advocate here, if you message someone who has filters set to not accept for example single males does the system send an auto response of "you are on our avoid list" maybe???
Mrs rsc"
No. It sends a 'you cannot message this person due to XYZ' warning. |
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"not convinced. 2 of them suscribed since very few days. that shocked me "
so how come none of us know about the list
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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yes, thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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oh that's useful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Playing devil's advocate here, if you message someone who has filters set to not accept for example single males does the system send an auto response of "you are on our avoid list" maybe???
Mrs rsc
No. It sends a 'you cannot message this person due to XYZ' warning."
Ahh ok thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I made the list.. You're all on it...... And anyone who doesn't use reply +quote, are on it, in red capitals.. At the top |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's pretty shite if that's what you've been lead to believe.
Everyone can block & as a single man use this tool to your advantage.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times "
I have seen some women on the forum say that they discuss people with their friends and decide who to avoid. Perhaps they mean something similar?
Either way it's not worth worrying about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've just had a quick look at the list and it seems quite a few people in here are on it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"apparently there is an "avoid list" on here. Would it be nice to know how people can put you in that list and who check their reports . any infos ? thanks "
There isn't one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some are even on it twice. |
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"well it is not nice when you write to someon and they answer insulting you saying that u are in such a list in the last montha it happened to me 3 or 4 times
I have seen some women on the forum say that they discuss people with their friends and decide who to avoid. Perhaps they mean something similar?
Either way it's not worth worrying about. "
Avoid anyone who copies their friends .... they don't have a mind of their own .... that's my advice, but don't follow it because you'll be copying me then.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just had a quick look at the list and it seems quite a few people in here are on it. "
I wish people would learn to read it then as i still get asked if i want to meet  |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"Some are even on it twice."
Only twice? I must try harder.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some are even on it twice."
If your on it twice does that mean we have to avoid ourselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some are even on it twice."
He's checking his list, he's checking it twice.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i am not worried. i wanted to check if soneon knew something about. if it has to do with the site i think some admin should tell u. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've just had a quick look at the list and it seems quite a few people in here are on it. "
Can we be on it?? We like a good list!! |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"well in that case is not fair that Platinum members can ruin the experience here of other members "
Take no notice, there is no platinum membership and no list.
Some people might talk to each other about other people for most of us like to make our own mind up so don't do that.
Welcome to the forum, stick around and join in. |
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