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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do see on lots of profiles won't play with overweight people, Asian, blacks do these offend you?
Me I don't care what colour someone is but personally I wouldn't play with someone who was too overweight.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing offends me. People can say what kind of people they want. Easier than having to delete the ones they don't want without a reply anyway...
I'm not even going to get into the fat v thin debate... but i'm always careful to type the web address carefully... lol |
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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago
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One man's 'overweight' is another man's 'full bodied lady'.....
TBH I find the term fat as offensive. If somone doesnt 'do it for you' be honest and say, no thankyou. But you dont have to hurt their feelings; its a lot worse leading them on then dropping them.
Oh, and ofr us, its definately personality that wins, if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One man's 'overweight' is another man's 'full bodied lady'.....
TBH I find the term fat as offensive. If somone doesnt 'do it for you' be honest and say, no thankyou. But you dont have to hurt their feelings; its a lot worse leading them on then dropping them.
Oh, and ofr us, its definately personality that wins, if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
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My feelings precisely!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does not bother me at all.. if they have no bbw, or ask for people with normal BMI... then I know not to bother them.. ( although this does not affect Master as he is in fantastic shape..mmm.. sorry sidetracked)
Anyway, no, Plenty of people that want to come play.. I dont want to play with all sorts of people but took it off as I was getting more abuse than if I just said "not for me" when I got the message.
Katie. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i turn down men by the dozens every day because they are not my type fo verious reasons, so why would i be offended if someone does not like me?
This is an adult site and as adults we have to accept we are not for everyone, just like not everyone is for us
I never have any problems meeting on here and i get sone really good looking guys meeting me so why would i be bothered about the ones who dont want to?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is down to personal preference. Chris doesnt find thin women attractive and a woman under a size 14 doesnt do it for him. He likes big boobs and really rounded full bottoms, certainly not flat bums. I prefer curvier girls too, im not keen on the catwalk model type figure. But id like to be smaller than i am, not overly skinny, id be happy at going down one dress size. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
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now that i never get, i dont mind anyone turning me down for sex because they dont fancy me but to just blank you because of this i never get 
Do people feel they cant talk to those they do not fancy because they feel they are leading them on? do they feel that if they become friends the other person will think maybe im in with a chance now we mates? so think its best not to be sociable to them?
Have they not stopped and thought the person they dont fancy may not actually fancy them either and are happy to just be friends 
i know people say its upto other what they do, be being the type of person who will talk to and be friends with anyone, not matter what they look like and even if i dont want sex with them, i find this kind of attitude just plain bad manners |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I speak to all sorts and made great muckers on here too some are srt8 men I'd never sleep with some are couples who are too far away I speak to people and make friends with them because I want to not what they look like x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?"
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight |
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?"
I guess that would be the people who made up the phrase... just like the 'big is beautiful' slogan. |
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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight"
errrr define ' overweight'.......
and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true. |
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true."
Some of us understand it's just a handy term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight
errrr define ' overweight'.......
and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed "
over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol
now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes
over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true.
Some of us understand it's just a handy term."
No, I understand that. All I wondered was who started it and why. And now I know. Thanks for all the answers, even the patronising ones... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true.
Some of us understand it's just a handy term."
and thats the top and bottom of it
none big people always seem to take offence by the phrase BBW and have to question the beautiful bit
but to me BBW should not be taken so litteral its just a handy way to let people know your a big lass |
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true.
Some of us understand it's just a handy term.
No, I understand that. All I wondered was who started it and why. And now I know. Thanks for all the answers, even the patronising ones..."
You're welocme... even though if you did understand it, it kinda makes your previous comment a contradiction.
But as long as it's all clear now hey. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we've had meets with people others would consider 'overweight' & 'underweight' and even 'average'.
To be honest their dress size was never a defining factor in how the meets went.
much more interested in peoples personality.
I do like big tits tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have always found it a bit odd that i like women of all sizes, i have never based a meet on the size of a womam but i do not find big men attractive, and i would turn down a guy for a meet if he was over weight
ive thought about this many times and i have no idea why i can find big women attractive but not men  |
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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
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Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here
Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here
Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground."
I pm ya an ya dont fancy me xx |
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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago
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" if peeps are so shallow that they wont talk to you because you are too fat or thin, they probably so vain that they'd be a crap shag too lol
Bollox, if someone pm's me and I dont fancy them what is the point in chatting...Im not looking for bestest buddies on here
Its diferent on the boards tho, I will speak to anybody (well apart from gingers...shudders)but then I dont use the boards as a hunting ground.
I pm ya an ya dont fancy me xx "
Thats called stalking sugarlump LOL xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BBW isnt always refered to as big and beautiful....
Some use it as big BUSTY women....
Ooh I like that version lol"
tust you , xxx your a tit man then , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A bbw for me would be someone about 18 stone "
fem size8
32d dress size
toned and very attractive
would rather be bigger but cant put on weight
not happy 
who really gives a shit about who finds what attractive,you have to love yourself to play this game
look at the people not the sizes |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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Have to say that the average to slightly plump people appeal to us the most, probably because we fall into that category ourselves!
As to preferences, I would say the superthin may have trouble. We have attended two party's where the same couple were, he was really oversize, she was so stick thin she honestly could have passes for a Belsen inmate, so imaciated.
The hubby played with a few of the ladies quite happily, but none of the men attending wanted sex with the lady (ashamed to say I too would not) When she laid down, every rib and even her hip bones were quite visible. Fortunately one of the ladies stepped in and saved the situation  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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36dd bust so size 14-16 up top, 8-10 at the bottom, no hips or bum....face like a bulldog chewing a wasp!
If I can get a shag there's hope for everyone.
I like the person and their wit before I like the body... it's a bonus if the guys are over 6' and fit as fuck and the ladies are curvy....but only a bonus, engage the mind the rest will follow in my case. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"BBW isnt always refered to as big and beautiful....
Some use it as big BUSTY women....
Ooh I like that version loltust you , xxx your a tit man then , lol "
haha I'm an everything man. I like what i like lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight
errrr define ' overweight'.......
and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed
over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol
now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes
over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW "
Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's what I thought. Just find it funny that people refer to themselves as it when if anyone else included 'beautiful' in their description it would appear a bit arrogant. But BBW just gets accepted as true.
Some of us understand it's just a handy term.
and thats the top and bottom of it
none big people always seem to take offence by the phrase BBW and have to question the beautiful bit
but to me BBW should not be taken so litteral its just a handy way to let people know your a big lass"
Usually the same people who take umridge at the term "professional" on profiles! |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight
errrr define ' overweight'.......
and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed
over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol
now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes
over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW
Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! "
fuck if she is fat then god help me!!! although I did get called a bag of bones last week!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me! "
ah but now your moving onto media world, thats a whole new ball game
anyone over 6 stone is fat in the glossies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how BBW caught on? Surely not all BW can also be beautiful? And who makes that decision?
bloody hell lol
BBW does not mean all big women are beautiful lol its an american tearm made up by people who think big is beautiful
Of course there will be some minger big women just like there are some minger thin people
its just an expression to let other know your over weight
errrr define ' overweight'.......
and for your information I'm built for comfort not speed
over weight is any weight thats above your idea BMI lol
now some may argue what a BBW is as everyone has their own ideas of whats fat and whats not, ask 20 people what sized a BBW starts from and you will get several different replies based on their own tastes
over weight and BBW is not the same, i wouldnt say someone who was only a stone over their idea weight was a BBW
Read an article today and someone commented that Cheryl Cole was fat! Now I ask you! I'd love to know how they'd describe me!
fuck if she is fat then god help me!!! although I did get called a bag of bones last week!!!!!"
wonder if it was the same guy i got called a bonney w***e lol |
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"36dd bust so size 14-16 up top, 8-10 at the bottom, no hips or bum....face like a bulldog chewing a wasp!
If I can get a shag there's hope for everyone.
I like the person and their wit before I like the body... it's a bonus if the guys are over 6' and fit as fuck and the ladies are curvy....but only a bonus, engage the mind the rest will follow in my case. "
apart from the fact I'm under 6' and no where near fit can I volunteer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"36dd bust so size 14-16 up top, 8-10 at the bottom, no hips or bum....face like a bulldog chewing a wasp!
If I can get a shag there's hope for everyone.
I like the person and their wit before I like the body... it's a bonus if the guys are over 6' and fit as fuck and the ladies are curvy....but only a bonus, engage the mind the rest will follow in my case.
apart from the fact I'm under 6' and no where near fit can I volunteer "
Humour...first starter for ten! |
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
Harwich |
If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all.
It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all.
It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet.
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I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. |
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all.
It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet.
I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. "
Lol oooooooooo we have had a couple of those once we have said no. They aint offensive, just rather funny lol. |
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all.
It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet.
I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. "
much as I would like to compliment you on being the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on or being a emaciated skanky skinny bitch, I can't see your blooming profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone didnt like me because I was fat/BBW/whatever it doesnt offend me at all.
It gets offensive when people are rude about the fact that im big/fat/rotund....but thankfully that hasnt happened on here yet.
I've had a few abusive messages in my time here. Usually they start off saying you are the sexiest female I have clapped eyes on, amazing how quickly I become an emaciated skanky skinny bitch once I say thanks but no thanks. "
i think all women get such messages at some point
i got called a two bit usedd whore by one guy because i said no thanks to him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing on a profile really offends me, people are who they are, regardless of whether I like them or not.
However, I *do* wish there were someway to enforce (of course I realise there isn't) a good full body shot that lets you see what someone is actually built like. After all, one persons BBW is anothers obese and one persons Slim is anothers anorexic.
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
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"Nothing on a profile really offends me, people are who they are, regardless of whether I like them or not.
However, I *do* wish there were someway to enforce (of course I realise there isn't) a good full body shot that lets you see what someone is actually built like. After all, one persons BBW is anothers obese and one persons Slim is anothers anorexic.
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I can see where your coming from but not everyone is as comfortable with their body to be able to do that.
I put my clothes size on my profile....what more do ya need |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put my clothes size on my profile....what more do ya need "
I'm male! Female clothes sizes? May as well write in Icelandic.
I understand of course that a lot of people would be uncomfortable with a body shot but hey, there;s very little other price to pay around here, right?
Maybe it's time for people to make an effort and present an honest to god example of themselves
(yeajh yeah, us included!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im as fat as they come,,, do i care? Probs not as much as i should do?
Do i mind if some people dont want to meet me? Nah,, dust off my shoulder and move on.
Im certainly not everyones cup of tea! Hell lets just embrace diversity and be greatful of it.. what a boring place we'd be in if we were all the same. |
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"Im as fat as they come,,, do i care? Probs not as much as i should do?
Do i mind if some people dont want to meet me? Nah,, dust off my shoulder and move on.
Im certainly not everyones cup of tea! Hell lets just embrace diversity and be greatful of it.. what a boring place we'd be in if we were all the same. "
very true cute. and we are all different.
some do and some dont like big or skinny or tall or short etc etc the list goes on. for me i need some atraction but dont need a super model. i can find a skinny person attractive and a big person. but the personality wins me over. if someone is a prat then it dont matter how they look. and cute ur fit hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day it does not matter what sized you are if your a woman on the swinging scene you will always get a meet, there are enough men on here to go round all of then women 10 times over
I find it makes more sence to concentrate on those who do like you rather than waste your time worrying about those who dont
so long as your happy with yourself thats all that matters |
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I'm fat and have no problems in people saying that they wouldn't want to meet me because of it Honesty is the best policy and if someone is willing to give a reason as to why they may not want to meet then that is a good thing in my book. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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I see lots saying no bi guys...
they have my utmost respect as that is their choice.
no offence taken.....
however,if written in an offensive way, I would block and move on as they wouldn't be people I would want to converse with either face to face or via mail. ( and there are a few I have blocked for that ) |
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