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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

don't meet them

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

Totally agree, not nice at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Scrap that - you have. I didn't see it buried in the text.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

Haha totally agree. It also makes no difference what you put on your profile. People who cheat will try and deceive regardless. Sick of them myself. Fortunately met some genuinely nice honest people at swinging club.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

What if they say their wife is really into it and supports them, just isn't there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have it on my profile i don't want to meet them. They still message me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

but the 'single women' doing the same are ok?

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"but the 'single women' doing the same are ok?"

No they are not.

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

block guys, send your message to men who take your fancy and ask them 'are you married'...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"block guys, send your message to men who take your fancy and ask them 'are you married'..."

But then what would people complain about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't let it bother you. Done!

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

I don't meet them - I do however resent the time and energy it takes to root the cheating shits out. You know, some people don't care if someone is married or not - and I'm cool with that. Honestly - to each his or her own. But having been cheated on in the past, I know how excruciating that pain is and I do NOT ever want to be complicit in another woman's pain. So if someone says "searching a single guy that is truly single" in their requests, then FFS respect that - fucking hell, I don't respond to anyone that wants a hot 30 year old body - because I don't have that - what has happened to our integrity as a species??

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By *eavenscentitCouple over a year ago

barnstaple

"block guys, send your message to men who take your fancy and ask them 'are you married'..."

No need you find out soon enough lol

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I have it on my profile i don't want to meet them. They still message me."

Yes. And they writhe and wriggle and lie.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Why define cheats by gender?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't meet them - I do however resent the time and energy it takes to root the cheating shits out. You know, some people don't care if someone is married or not - and I'm cool with that. Honestly - to each his or her own. But having been cheated on in the past, I know how excruciating that pain is and I do NOT ever want to be complicit in another woman's pain. So if someone says "searching a single guy that is truly single" in their requests, then FFS respect that - fucking hell, I don't respond to anyone that wants a hot 30 year old body - because I don't have that - what has happened to our integrity as a species?? "

the internet in general has made it easier for people to cheat, lie and be something they are not.

fucking hate it myself.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

My ex cheated on me and I don't hate him. Why such strong emotions on behalf of strangers?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"I- what has happened to our integrity as a species?? "

nothing, it just got easier on the web but people have still cheated on others

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Why define cheats by gender?"

Because men are simply awful, darling.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

I'm probably missing the main, salient point, but isn't Bourguignon the one with wine? I thought Stroganoff was cream, with just a dash of Brandy.

There's probably even a 'Fun guy/fungi' joke in there too, but I sense you're not in the mood...

{shrugs}

Mr ddc

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By *imiUKMan over a year ago

Hereford

"I- what has happened to our integrity as a species??

nothing, it just got easier on the web but people have still cheated on others

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Integrity as a species? What the actual fuck?

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By *ungBlackTopMan over a year ago

salford

hahaha excuse me but there are plenty of women on here that will ONLY meet men that are in relationships/married and playing away from home so it's not only men that are cheating scum bags. It's the nature of the site, just need to suck it up (no pun intended) because integrity you will not find on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You sound bitter.

Top your wine up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP is only looking for single men, thereofre this topic is about single men who are not single men.

Isn't that hard to grasp...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Why define cheats by gender?"

Maybe because the OP us a straight woman and is looking to meet men?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I- what has happened to our integrity as a species??

nothing, it just got easier on the web but people have still cheated on others

Integrity as a species? What the actual fuck?

"

A complete crock of shite....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

Any thoughts on single women that are cheating on their wives and husbands?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

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Her husband knows according to her profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me. "

Most definitely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Her husband knows according to her profile

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I see, so they all say don't they lol

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By *litheroevoyeurMan over a year ago

Clitheroe

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

Any thoughts on single women that are cheating on their wives and husbands?"

I think the wine might have had a sedating effect.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me. "

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

What about those who are open on fab as opposed to those fakes who lie??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Why define cheats by gender?

Maybe because the OP us a straight woman and is looking to meet men?"

I wouldn;t know, I never looked at it. Just read the sweeping generalisatiuon that was her opening post.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

Any thoughts on single women that are cheating on their wives and husbands?"

As bad as the males.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't meet them - I do however resent the time and energy it takes to root the cheating shits out. You know, some people don't care if someone is married or not - and I'm cool with that. Honestly - to each his or her own. But having been cheated on in the past, I know how excruciating that pain is and I do NOT ever want to be complicit in another woman's pain. So if someone says "searching a single guy that is truly single" in their requests, then FFS respect that - fucking hell, I don't respond to anyone that wants a hot 30 year old body - because I don't have that - what has happened to our integrity as a species?? "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me. "

Exactly!

Have some more wine - turn the computer / phone off put music on and dance

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me. "

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

Ohh the absolute fucking irony

anyone got a pot or a black kettle

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"What about those who are open on fab as opposed to those fakes who lie?? "

i'd like them not be slagged off.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

From what i can gather the op is talking about the ones that hide the fact they are married and not the ones with it on their profiles for us to make our own minds up.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"OP is only looking for single men, thereofre this topic is about single men who are not single men.

Isn't that hard to grasp..."

Yup, duh - men complain about women, women complain about men, and neither have any obligation to present a gender balanced _iew!!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

I'm probably missing the main, salient point, but isn't Bourguignon the one with wine? I thought Stroganoff was cream, with just a dash of Brandy.

There's probably even a 'Fun guy/fungi' joke in there too, but I sense you're not in the mood...

{shrugs}

Mr ddc"

Don't make assumptions lol - I add wine to almost everything

my stroggie has vino tinto, homemade sour cream and portobello mushrooms

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about the seemingly perfect "happy couples" on fab who are open and have a fabulous marriage but one or both of them are lying and cheating still, have secret single accounts or slip their numbers to people at parties/clubs/meets even though they swing together....no let's not go there

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By *erfectman122Man over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Have to agree with you there meet many a cheater they have there reasons which do not make it right at all

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple over a year ago

Derbyshire

"

Mr ddc

Don't make assumptions lol - I add wine to almost everything

my stroggie has vino tinto, homemade sour cream and portobello mushrooms

"

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

"

Don't be silly - I clearly state I am married - surely you can understand the difference between Hotwife swinging with husband's full knowledge (nay, ENCOURAGEMENT) and cheating, non?

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

The rant is about people who waste her time pretending to be single when they are cheats. I have had the same myself - it is very annoying to find you have been talking under false pretenses.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

Don't be silly - I clearly state I am married - surely you can understand the difference between Hotwife swinging with husband's full knowledge (nay, ENCOURAGEMENT) and cheating, non?"

Yes I understand the difference... However if your husband is present or may participate in your meets.... you should have a MF Couple Profile not a Female profile.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Have to agree with you there meet many a cheater they have there reasons which do not make it right at all

"

Honestly, I have more respect for the guys and girls that say "this is the situation at home, I'm married" etc. Honesty. Integrity. Allow people an informed choice!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm truly single....... Hence I can accommodate at home (rather than hotel). Majority of the cheats cannot accommodate. So easy to spot them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

Don't be silly - I clearly state I am married - surely you can understand the difference between Hotwife swinging with husband's full knowledge (nay, ENCOURAGEMENT) and cheating, non?

Yes I understand the difference... However if your husband is present or may participate in your meets.... you should have a MF Couple Profile not a Female profile.

"

Yeah I agree - if your husband is using your profile and reading the messages it should be a couples one. Female profiles are for women who meet alone.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

Don't be silly - I clearly state I am married - surely you can understand the difference between Hotwife swinging with husband's full knowledge (nay, ENCOURAGEMENT) and cheating, non?

Yes I understand the difference... However if your husband is present or may participate in your meets.... you should have a MF Couple Profile not a Female profile.

"

We do - for our couple meets. This is a different realm and therefore a different profile, and it's all clearly spelled out yes?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"The rant is about people who waste her time pretending to be single when they are cheats. I have had the same myself - it is very annoying to find you have been talking under false pretenses."
thats exactly what i thought and it is totally unexceptable. I cant understand why they are being defended

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Kind of like the 'female' profiles who state

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

Glass houses... Stones ... and all that

Don't be silly - I clearly state I am married - surely you can understand the difference between Hotwife swinging with husband's full knowledge (nay, ENCOURAGEMENT) and cheating, non?

Yes I understand the difference... However if your husband is present or may participate in your meets.... you should have a MF Couple Profile not a Female profile.

We do - for our couple meets. This is a different realm and therefore a different profile, and it's all clearly spelled out yes? "

Nope... your female profile that youve posted from clearly states...

"My husband may sometimes (with prior agreement) be there to participate." ....

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By *iewMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Angus & Findhorn

"Have to agree with you there meet many a cheater they have there reasons which do not make it right at all

Honestly, I have more respect for the guys and girls that say "this is the situation at home, I'm married" etc. Honesty. Integrity. Allow people an informed choice! "

Honesty, Integrity

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"...

Yeah I agree - if your husband is using your profile and reading the messages it should be a couples one. Female profiles are for women who meet alone."

Actually I think what would be untoward and deceitful, would be not stating that hubby may read when he does. Everything is above board and clearly stated with us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i'm a married man, however we do have a couples profile and my wife has her own profile, we both have permission to play alone with who ever we want, i would never cheat on my wife, i love her too much and value my marriage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meh....*shrugs and walks off muttering "not my problem"

More wine might help.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The rant is about people who waste her time pretending to be single when they are cheats. I have had the same myself - it is very annoying to find you have been talking under false pretenses."

I understand that but if we all ranted about what we find annoying, false pretences etc etc, the lounge would be filled up with rants.

Rant day is Thursday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...

Yeah I agree - if your husband is using your profile and reading the messages it should be a couples one. Female profiles are for women who meet alone.

Actually I think what would be untoward and deceitful, would be not stating that hubby may read when he does. Everything is above board and clearly stated with us. "

You even say you want messages to b addressed to both of you! I'm not saying anything is untoward or deceitful but how does that not suggest a MF profile?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"The rant is about people who waste her time pretending to be single when they are cheats. I have had the same myself - it is very annoying to find you have been talking under false pretenses.

I understand that but if we all ranted about what we find annoying, false pretences etc etc, the lounge would be filled up with rants.

Rant day is Thursday

"
i thought everyone did rant anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*Closes eyes, bows head, shakes head, and leaves*

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"You sound bitter.

Top your wine up!"

Lol!! Done xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm truly single....... Hence I can accommodate at home (rather than hotel). Majority of the cheats cannot accommodate. So easy to spot them?"

Or have a child/children that live with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't believe someone has named others, totally out of order.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

Any thoughts on single women that are cheating on their wives and husbands?"

No, because I am not looking for/ getting messages from them! PS. Always love reading your posts xx

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Fucking hell, talk about judgemental! I don't condone cheating (men or women) but every person is different and has unique circumstances.

I don't mind sex with married men and I don't judge them. Now meeting for sex is completely different from having an affair where you actually do damage by taking the family man's affections away from his family ("home wrecker").

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

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Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

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By *ucianpoundCouple over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

We are the lucky ones that have strong open relationships, also perhaps having partners who both enjoy sex to the full without reserve. We have so many ' vanilla friends ' whose sex lives seem to have ceased.

As regards ' cheaters ' , (strange how swingers have their own moral code) we have never come across any over the years. Perhaps we are a little more careful of reading between the lines.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

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Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Fucking hell, talk about judgemental! I don't condone cheating (men or women) but every person is different and has unique circumstances.

How exactly is it judgemental?? on't mind sex with married men and I don't judge them. Now meeting for sex is completely different from having an affair where you actually do damage by taking the family man's affections away from his family ("home wrecker"). "

How exactly is it judgemental then

?? I absolutely agree with you - if someone is married and swinging unbeknownst to their partner, then whatever - their life, their morals. But if someone states in their profile that they are ONLY interested in contact from/meeting truly single guys, then the deception is unwarranted.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married."

Right. So please clarify for me how cheating equatrs to swinging with partner's encouragement and knowledge?????

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"The rant is about people who waste her time pretending to be single when they are cheats. I have had the same myself - it is very annoying to find you have been talking under false pretenses.

I understand that but if we all ranted about what we find annoying, false pretences etc etc, the lounge would be filled up with rants.

"

It is mostly!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married.

Right. So please clarify for me how cheating equatrs to swinging with partner's encouragement and knowledge????? "
I think it's cos of your single female profile, like how would we know you have his permission ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married.

Right. So please clarify for me how cheating equatrs to swinging with partner's encouragement and knowledge????? I think it's cos of your single female profile, like how would we know you have his permission ?"
encouragement not permission sorry lol

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"We are the lucky ones that have strong open relationships, also perhaps having partners who both enjoy sex to the full without reserve. We have so many ' vanilla friends ' whose sex lives seem to have ceased.

As regards ' cheaters ' , (strange how swingers have their own moral code) we have never come across any over the years. Perhaps we are a little more careful of reading between the lines."

Yes I agree about the weird moral code - " honour amongst thieves" and all that lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"block guys, send your message to men who take your fancy and ask them 'are you married'...

But then what would people complain about

"

They'll find something

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married.

Right. So please clarify for me how cheating equatrs to swinging with partner's encouragement and knowledge????? "
It wouldn't be cheating there, but as it would be hard for others maibe to believe if someone say they have permission I think if they got a single profile, although if a couple they would understand.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"The irony is that you got wife in your name, so who is cheating? lol

Seriously Mr Penge? You do understand the term "swinging" right?

Hi and yes I do understand the term, there are many scenarios within the swinging community for those who is married.

Right. So please clarify for me how cheating equatrs to swinging with partner's encouragement and knowledge????? I think it's cos of your single female profile, like how would we know you have his permission ?"

Cause you can call him and hear his heavy panting?? Lol

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And actually I agree with the OP - I doubt I would ever be a married swinger, but if I were, and I had a single profile, damn straight my husband would have free access to it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fucking hell, talk about judgemental! I don't condone cheating (men or women) but every person is different and has unique circumstances.

How exactly is it judgemental?? on't mind sex with married men and I don't judge them. Now meeting for sex is completely different from having an affair where you actually do damage by taking the family man's affections away from his family ("home wrecker").

How exactly is it judgemental then

?? I absolutely agree with you - if someone is married and swinging unbeknownst to their partner, then whatever - their life, their morals. But if someone states in their profile that they are ONLY interested in contact from/meeting truly single guys, then the deception is unwarranted. "

Personally I think your opening post is pretty judgmental. Your subsequent posts far less so

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

It's probably best to say 'I hate the cheatING' not I hate the cheaters.

I despise deception in all forms.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it time for cake yet?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it time for cake yet? "

It's way past cake, more wine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd better keep out of this one although it is making for some good reading

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"Fucking hell, talk about judgemental! I don't condone cheating (men or women) but every person is different and has unique circumstances.

How exactly is it judgemental?? on't mind sex with married men and I don't judge them. Now meeting for sex is completely different from having an affair where you actually do damage by taking the family man's affections away from his family ("home wrecker").

How exactly is it judgemental then

?? I absolutely agree with you - if someone is married and swinging unbeknownst to their partner, then whatever - their life, their morals. But if someone states in their profile that they are ONLY interested in contact from/meeting truly single guys, then the deception is unwarranted. "

You wrote "I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers."

IF you meant you hate married men committing adultery and they're "fuckers" to say the least, you're judgemental as hell

IF you meant you hate married men who lie and pretend to be single (and are committing adultery) then I'll agree with you - I dislike liars, I'm quite OK with any truth.

The bulk of this thread is filled with judgemental, vitriolic shit about adulterers. Like I said, everyone's circumstances are unique, who are we to pass a verdict on them.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I'd better keep out of this one although it is making for some good reading "

Why stay out of it? I have zero issue with partnered people playing away if they are truthful about it - and for that I commend you. This thread is about people contacting me and lying and saying they are single and yet they are cheating, when they know that is one of my conditions.

I get that there are "reasons" people stray. I have no issue with that. To each his or her own! It's the LYING and DECEPTION I hate, especially as I have specifically said interested only in truly single guys.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Fucking hell, talk about judgemental! I don't condone cheating (men or women) but every person is different and has unique circumstances.

How exactly is it judgemental?? on't mind sex with married men and I don't judge them. Now meeting for sex is completely different from having an affair where you actually do damage by taking the family man's affections away from his family ("home wrecker").

How exactly is it judgemental then

?? I absolutely agree with you - if someone is married and swinging unbeknownst to their partner, then whatever - their life, their morals. But if someone states in their profile that they are ONLY interested in contact from/meeting truly single guys, then the deception is unwarranted.

You wrote "I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers."

IF you meant you hate married men committing adultery and they're "fuckers" to say the least, you're judgemental as hell

IF you meant you hate married men who lie and pretend to be single (and are committing adultery) then I'll agree with you - I dislike liars, I'm quite OK with any truth.

The bulk of this thread is filled with judgemental, vitriolic shit about adulterers. Like I said, everyone's circumstances are unique, who are we to pass a verdict on them."

Good catch and yes, my vino over-rode my ability to be clear: I truly have no issue with those who play away and are honest about it - I do have a big issue with liars who tell me they are single, as that is one of my clearly stated no-go zones. Thank- you for encouraging clarification.

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I fucking hate [insert group of people here].

Anything else but cheaters in those square brackets and the thread is removed? Yes or no?

Actually, I checked: You're allowed to have a thread about "fucking hating" ketchup which is stuck in the bottle, sandwiches cut the wrong way and cheaters.

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By *otgirl32Woman over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"

I think we should all get pissed and stick Top Gun DVD on.

I feel the need for speed "

I totally agree

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple over a year ago

in Lancashire

"what has happened to our integrity as a species?? "

was it something to do with an apple..?

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers! "

Nope! You're not lol xx

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"what has happened to our integrity as a species??

was it something to do with an apple..?

"

I think I read somewhere it was likely a fig

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers!

Nope! You're not lol xx"

More wine and I might be lol - I'm too old though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

that's not a nice thing to say, where is your hubby by the way

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know."

I hate this kind of post. I really see no need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know."

I take it you know and they told you in confidence?

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers!

Nope! You're not lol xx

More wine and I might be lol - I'm too old though "

Nah - you're just too married lol x

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

that's not a nice thing to say, where is your hubby by the way

"

Right here, chuckling away at how annoyed with myself I will be tomorrow

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers!

Nope! You're not lol xx

More wine and I might be lol - I'm too old though

Nah - you're just too married lol x"

But I'm not one of those fuckers though lol X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know."

Oh god, I admit it. I'm married!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Why define cheats by gender?

Because the op is a woman meeting men. The cheating women probably aren't an issue for her. Can't stand cheaters - male or female. "

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"So I think my status is in the clear although not everyone's cup of tea which I understand - I don't think I'm one of those fuckers!

Nope! You're not lol xx

More wine and I might be lol - I'm too old though

Nah - you're just too married lol x

But I'm not one of those fuckers though lol X "

Nope.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Oh god, I admit it. I'm married!

"

I bloody knew it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I focus my thoughts on enjoying my own relationships. Seems preferable to sticking a nose into other people's crap.

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x"

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves "
.

Exactly xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thats great news for us single males who just have a cat

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx"

Hoes the back of your neck? Xx

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I focus my thoughts on enjoying my own relationships. Seems preferable to sticking a nose into other people's crap.

"

No preference then on sticking a snotty note into someone else's thread hmm?

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By *reakShow90Man over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "
deffo know what you mean if your lucky and have a wife why cheat? Even if you like swinging it's still not cheat if you both enjoy it

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x"

Exactly the honest approach people appreciate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx

Hoes the back of your neck? Xx

"

In need of kissing lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I focus my thoughts on enjoying my own relationships. Seems preferable to sticking a nose into other people's crap.

No preference then on sticking a snotty note into someone else's thread hmm?

"

None whatsoever. Having seen so much judgemental high minded tosh in one place... it seemed the perfect place to stick it - so there it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am open and honest in my profile and leave it upto who ever reads my profile to decide, honest in my dishonesty .

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. deffo know what you mean if your lucky and have a wife why cheat? Even if you like swinging it's still not cheat if you both enjoy it

"

I honestly couldn't give a toss about who cheats or why - I totally get that there are "reasons" people do what they do and have no issue with that - none whatdoever. I only take issue with the lying - guys stating they are single (knowing I specifically am looking only for truly single men) and then finding out I've been lied to!

Anyways, the wine's wearing off and this drum's beating timeframe has expired.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am open and honest in my profile and leave it upto who ever reads my profile to decide, honest in my dishonesty .

"

It's the best way to be Taff those who want to judge can judge, we all have our reasons xx

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"I focus my thoughts on enjoying my own relationships. Seems preferable to sticking a nose into other people's crap.

No preference then on sticking a snotty note into someone else's thread hmm?

None whatsoever. Having seen so much judgemental high minded tosh in one place... it seemed the perfect place to stick it - so there it is

"

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy meeting marrieds providing its with their partners consent, the wedding ring normally gives it away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so anyway OP..my cat said its ok..lets shag..but she insisted no hubby to come along..

in fact my cats on holiday to barbados with a friend and its just me here...we can phone chat if that helps and she will say "meow" in approval

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be fair I've been to Market Harborough and I can understand why you'd want to be d*unk during the afternoon.

and the morning

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx

Hows the back of your neck? Xx

In need of kissing lol xx"

If only the bit between east and west wasnt so far I'd be nibbling away now X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be fair I've been to Market Harborough and I can understand why you'd want to be d*unk during the afternoon.

and the morning

"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx

Hows the back of your neck? Xx

In need of kissing lol xx

If only the bit between east and west wasnt so far I'd be nibbling away now X

"

Mmmm if only xx

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By *hiterabbit6Couple over a year ago

Sexytown, Moray

"I'm truly single....... Hence I can accommodate at home (rather than hotel). Majority of the cheats cannot accommodate. So easy to spot them?

Or have a child/children that live with them."

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By *estlands4Man over a year ago

Sidmouth

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx

Hows the back of your neck? Xx

In need of kissing lol xx

If only the bit between east and west wasnt so far I'd be nibbling away now X

Mmmm if only xx

You'd let me then? Like to take this private lol xx

"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I admit I have a partner, guys have their choice then whether to message me or not x

Hear hear just be honest then people can decide for themselves .

Exactly xx

Hows the back of your neck? Xx

In need of kissing lol xx

If only the bit between east and west wasnt so far I'd be nibbling away now X

Mmmm if only xx

You'd let me then? Like to take this private lol xx

"

Possibly lol x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know."

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet."

You are so right Roxi, and when I'm asked why I explain honestly x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet."

Do you not think it's absurd that a stranger they fuck is more respected by being given the option and knowledge rather than being honest with their partner/spouse? That's arse about face, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet.

Do you not think it's absurd that a stranger they fuck is more respected by being given the option and knowledge rather than being honest with their partner/spouse? That's arse about face, isn't it?"

I'm not referring to their partner I'm referring to informing the rest of the forum.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm truly single....... Hence I can accommodate at home (rather than hotel). Majority of the cheats cannot accommodate. So easy to spot them?

Or have a child/children that live with them."

Or live with family as they are sole carer for elderly relatives

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous."

I think this is the driver for the vocal outrage - I STILL HAVE MORALS etc. etc.

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous."

If you are referring to me, I am not outraged by anyone's breach of their wedding vows. Couldn't care less. I am outraged by people outright lying to me about it. Do you grasp the difference?

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

I think this is the driver for the vocal outrage - I STILL HAVE MORALS etc. etc."

Well most koalas do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

I think this is the driver for the vocal outrage - I STILL HAVE MORALS etc. etc.

Well most koalas do.

"

A koala has no morals. None at all, the little bastards just eat, shoot & leave.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

I think Fuckers is the wrong adjective...

You are too polite Miss

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

I think this is the driver for the vocal outrage - I STILL HAVE MORALS etc. etc.

Well most koalas do.

A koala has no morals. None at all, the little bastards just eat, shoot & leave."

"Little" being the operative word?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"

To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

I think this is the driver for the vocal outrage - I STILL HAVE MORALS etc. etc.

Well most koalas do.

A koala has no morals. None at all, the little bastards just eat, shoot & leave.

"Little" being the operative word?

"

I've never seen a big one. So yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think it best to be honest in this lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ok so I'm d*unk, and admittedly haven't read all of the posts..... but dare I try to summarise this by saying the problem is deceit to us on here, not what your personal circumstance are.

I personally would have reservations playing with someone who wasn't single (note the non gender specific language here) as a matter of personal preference for reasons which in not prepared to go into on here. However i do not, and never have done, judge anyone for being on here. tgis is surely the one place in cyber space where we should all be open minded and non judgemental, and welcome everyone no matter if they match our preferences.

The only issue I would ever have is if someone on here deceived me, because there is truly no need to be anyone but your absolute self here. If someone tells me they're single, fine. If someone tells me they're married, fine. If someone tells me they're single when in fact they are not, THEN there's an issue.

I'm off to top up my glass. Love to you all xx

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

I take it you know and they told you in confidence?"

Some yes, others I know from other sources. My point is at least some are honest about it.

It doesn't make it 'right' but people having a go should realise they are very possibly having a pop at 'friends' too.....

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet."

That is EXACTLY my point

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By *anky_PankyWoman over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet.

Do you not think it's absurd that a stranger they fuck is more respected by being given the option and knowledge rather than being honest with their partner/spouse? That's arse about face, isn't it?

I'm not referring to their partner I'm referring to informing the rest of the forum."

Wasn't planning on informing anyone of anything by the way!!

My point was that you don't always know and in fact it's their business / problem - not anyone else's.

I tell people so they can make an informed choice. Many many don't.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think it best to be honest in this lifestyle.

"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm married & would never hide the fact or try to - it's damn near impossible to get my wedding ring off now anyway & even I were to it still looks like I'm wearing one lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I openly admit that I'm married so people have a choice (although I NEVER accept abuse for it as has happened in the past).

You'd be amazed how many forum regulars don't admit it though....

And most of you would never know.

Imo, it's really no one else's business apart from the people they're planning to meet.

Do you not think it's absurd that a stranger they fuck is more respected by being given the option and knowledge rather than being honest with their partner/spouse? That's arse about face, isn't it?

I'm not referring to their partner I'm referring to informing the rest of the forum.

Wasn't planning on informing anyone of anything by the way!!

My point was that you don't always know and in fact it's their business / problem - not anyone else's.

I tell people so they can make an informed choice. Many many don't....."

That's the way it should be but I'm sure there are a few that don't inform at any stage.

Also bear in mind, what people say in a forum & what people actually do in reality can be poles apart.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...

Yeah I agree - if your husband is using your profile and reading the messages it should be a couples one. Female profiles are for women who meet alone.

Actually I think what would be untoward and deceitful, would be not stating that hubby may read when he does. Everything is above board and clearly stated with us.

You even say you want messages to b addressed to both of you! I'm not saying anything is untoward or deceitful but how does that not suggest a MF profile? "

good to see the profile was changed accordingly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm generally just a bad liar, when it comes to emotions.I end a relationship when I dont feel happy.I have never cheated on a partner...to me it makes no sense.

I've played with cheating spouses many times...though I have the opinion I feel its more acceptable when people are mid aged..ie had kids,sex life is dull etc etc.. but I'd add many of those I've met, dont try to justfy what they do..and I never ask why..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't meet them - I do however resent the time and energy it takes to root the cheating shits out. You know, some people don't care if someone is married or not - and I'm cool with that. Honestly - to each his or her own. But having been cheated on in the past, I know how excruciating that pain is and I do NOT ever want to be complicit in another woman's pain. So if someone says "searching a single guy that is truly single" in their requests, then FFS respect that - fucking hell, I don't respond to anyone that wants a hot 30 year old body - because I don't have that - what has happened to our integrity as a species?? "

This

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By *issBehavingxxWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

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Yeah I agree - if your husband is using your profile and reading the messages it should be a couples one. Female profiles are for women who meet alone.

Actually I think what would be untoward and deceitful, would be not stating that hubby may read when he does. Everything is above board and clearly stated with us.

You even say you want messages to b addressed to both of you! I'm not saying anything is untoward or deceitful but how does that not suggest a MF profile?

good to see the profile was changed accordingly. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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To be morally outraged by unknown people's breach of their wedding vows seems bizarre when that person's own sexual behaviour in the general public's _iew would be seen as equally morally outrageous.

If you are referring to me, I am not outraged by anyone's breach of their wedding vows. Couldn't care less. I am outraged by people outright lying to me about it. Do you grasp the difference?

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Should not your post have said l hate men who lie to me? You see l grasp the difference.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Who cares if it's just sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm pissing myself laughing at the guy who's cock shot actually looks like a face!!!

Fucking awesome work fella

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By * PillowsWoman over a year ago

stevenage

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Actively hating complete strangers who have nothing to do with you seems like a massive waste of energy to me. "

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers. "

Ok. Take another sip

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok so I'm d*unk, and admittedly haven't read all of the posts..... but dare I try to summarise this by saying the problem is deceit to us on here, not what your personal circumstance are.

I personally would have reservations playing with someone who wasn't single (note the non gender specific language here) as a matter of personal preference for reasons which in not prepared to go into on here. However i do not, and never have done, judge anyone for being on here. tgis is surely the one place in cyber space where we should all be open minded and non judgemental, and welcome everyone no matter if they match our preferences.

The only issue I would ever have is if someone on here deceived me, because there is truly no need to be anyone but your absolute self here. If someone tells me they're single, fine. If someone tells me they're married, fine. If someone tells me they're single when in fact they are not, THEN there's an issue.

I'm off to top up my glass. Love to you all xx"

Minx if you can say all that full of wine youve got my vote as president of the hangon hubby I'm on Facebook chatting to an old school friend club!!!! Pfffffffffft well done girl xxx

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By *anaduABCMan over a year ago

Dublin

"Who cares if it's just sex?

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Yep

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most people form an emotional attachment when having sex especially with regulars. Lying and deceiving breaks all the rules that friends should have. If they are open about being married and you go ahead that's one thing. I just can't abide liars.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Okay so too much wine tonight whilst cooking the stroganoff but goddamn I hate the "single males" that are cheating on their wives. Fuckers.

What about the single women cheating on their husbands?

Cus it's easy to attack men on these site's. The lady's get away with it.

Why define cheats by gender?"

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By *reenEyedWife OP Couple over a year ago

Market Harborough

"Most people form an emotional attachment when having sex especially with regulars. Lying and deceiving breaks all the rules that friends should have. If they are open about being married and you go ahead that's one thing. I just can't abide liars. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm pissing myself laughing at the guy who's cock shot actually looks like a face!!!

Fucking awesome work fella

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I'm now trying to find Dickface.

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