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meets on my travels !!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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posted a similar thread a good while back and had some interseting feedback !!!
I travel all over the UK carrying out site surveys !! so am in different locations daily,
For example yesterday I was in Bath in the morning then Slough at lunchtime then back to Liverpool.
So my question is !! if I was in your area and contacted you a day or 2 before and asked you if you fancied a social meet maybe lunch or a coffee would you be offended.
I just see it as a chance to meet some nice people off here have a chat !!! maybe some fun lol !!! but the main thing would be to put the real face to the avatar.
All comments greatly appreciated.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We tried arranging a meet whilst travelling somewhere last year. All fixed up or so we thought, we had explained that we're not normally down that way. Got nearer to the meet and heard nothing, just though oh well never mind. Then two weeks ago he mailed us and asked if we'd like to catch up with him sometime. Had to point out that geographically we were over 200 miles away and wouldn't travel that far just for a meet.  Bit different for you though, if you're travelling anyway you've got nothing to lose really. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol"
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We tried arranging a meet whilst travelling somewhere last year. All fixed up or so we thought, we had explained that we're not normally down that way. Got nearer to the meet and heard nothing, just though oh well never mind. Then two weeks ago he mailed us and asked if we'd like to catch up with him sometime. Had to point out that geographically we were over 200 miles away and wouldn't travel that far just for a meet. Bit different for you though, if you're travelling anyway you've got nothing to lose really."
well thats my thoughts as well !!! and to be honest I expect to be disapointed now and then anyway.
Just thought rather than sitting on my own in a costa it might be nice to meet with people from here.
we shall see
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
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Awesome  He was my one and only but got swayed by Robin Hobb  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If we'd been in communication and you were in my area and it was just a social meet, I wouldn't have a problem with it.
If however you were in your hotel and trawling through who's online and contacted me, then I would be offended as I'd assume you'd want to wine and dine me in the hope of getting me back to your hotel for a shag.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
Awesome He was my one and only but got swayed by Robin Hobb "
ha traitor feist is definitely my fave !!! his new one is out in March I think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nothing wrong with being wined and dined and shagged just sounds like a date to me.
Me I just want the shag "
well there is nothing wrong with having your tea and cake lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing wrong with being wined and dined and shagged just sounds like a date to me.
Me I just want the shag
well there is nothing wrong with having your tea and cake lol"
Now a cuppa and a slice of cake now your talking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
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Sooooo your a thief then????....lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
Sooooo your a thief then????....lol"
ha ha not really lol only steal people hearts lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like to have chatted with a prospective meet first so, no I dont do "off the cuff meetings""
thats fine and obviously the right thing for you, but don't forget this is a social meet in the main !!! local coffee shop/cafe and a natter lol
But I do see where you are bcoming from. |
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"We tried arranging a meet whilst travelling somewhere last year. All fixed up or so we thought, we had explained that we're not normally down that way. Got nearer to the meet and heard nothing, just though oh well never mind. Then two weeks ago he mailed us and asked if we'd like to catch up with him sometime. Had to point out that geographically we were over 200 miles away and wouldn't travel that far just for a meet. Bit different for you though, if you're travelling anyway you've got nothing to lose really.
well thats my thoughts as well !!! and to be honest I expect to be disapointed now and then anyway.
Just thought rather than sitting on my own in a costa it might be nice to meet with people from here.
we shall see
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OMG you said Costa - my second home lol. And a Raymond Feist fan aswell. Yep, I'd be there.
Generally, I'd be happy to have coffee with people from here if they were in my area - why would I be offended. I'd be flattered to be asked.
Wolf would be the same.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would meet people in the area.
Though got to say only if they messaged a couple of days before, so I could get a feel for them through messages.
Wouldnt meet some guy in a hotel room after 2 messages. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would meet people in the area.
Though got to say only if they messaged a couple of days before, so I could get a feel for them through messages.
Wouldnt meet some guy in a hotel room after 2 messages."
well thats not what I was talking about lol and you are worth more than 2 messages lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We tried arranging a meet whilst travelling somewhere last year. All fixed up or so we thought, we had explained that we're not normally down that way. Got nearer to the meet and heard nothing, just though oh well never mind. Then two weeks ago he mailed us and asked if we'd like to catch up with him sometime. Had to point out that geographically we were over 200 miles away and wouldn't travel that far just for a meet. Bit different for you though, if you're travelling anyway you've got nothing to lose really.
well thats my thoughts as well !!! and to be honest I expect to be disapointed now and then anyway.
Just thought rather than sitting on my own in a costa it might be nice to meet with people from here.
we shall see
OMG you said Costa - my second home lol. And a Raymond Feist fan aswell. Yep, I'd be there.
Generally, I'd be happy to have coffee with people from here if they were in my area - why would I be offended. I'd be flattered to be asked.
Wolf would be the same.
Vixen"
costa and feist thats a good double then lol.
So next time I am up your way odr down your way !!!!lol I will send you a message. |
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By *horacleCouple
over a year ago
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
Awesome He was my one and only but got swayed by Robin Hobb
ha traitor feist is definitely my fave !!! his new one is out in March I think"
BAH Fitz Chivalry Farseer could take Pug any day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends, if you mention you have booked a hotel room, no chance but a coffee during lunchtime, yes please, normal coffee, no sugar thanks  "
well I often pass your neck of the woods so may just take you up on that !!! and no hotel rooms I promise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Costa is ok so is a cuppa @ home ..
I travel about daily - occassionally meeting can work out but most don't seem keen..
Thing is I travel about to the areas again too having A fair patch...
People tend to assume your just after a quick one off ...
Be great to have arrangements and I can do overnights too if required.
Rather have a drink in company ...
Enjoy meeting new people anyway (don't intend on fucking all)
Get the offer to provide electrical/plumbing skills at times ...
Personally I'd say its a bit like cold call sales...
Do correct me if I am wrong
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Is your name in reference to a charactor in the Raymond E Fiest books or am I just being a total geek lol
Ha ha nope you are not being a geek it is from the Feist books
Awesome He was my one and only but got swayed by Robin Hobb
ha traitor feist is definitely my fave !!! his new one is out in March I think
BAH Fitz Chivalry Farseer could take Pug any day "
Pug is to strong for Fitz lol and don't forget he is an Adept in both the greater and lesser paths of magic....
By the way have you read a book called Hiero's journey Stirling e Lanier if not look it up it's ace |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"costa and feist thats a good double then lol.
So next time I am up your way odr down your way !!!!lol I will send you a message.
Feel free lol
Vixen"
definitely but just need to know which part of the country you are in lol.
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"definitely but just need to know which part of the country you are in lol.
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Lol, we are nr Dumfries (sw scotland) but Wolf works in Gloucestershire at the moment which is why it shows both on our profile. Sometimes I go down there for a few days.
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