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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, I've been on FAB now for almost a month, and although I can see the potential people could get out of this site, I can put my hands up and say it hasn't worked for me. Infact far from. (I know it's been a month but here me out).
Now, don't think I'm slandering the site or people on it, but from what I've noticed you must have to be a certain specification to communicate with the women on here. (Again, not having a go) but let me elaborate.
From what I've experienced on my local news feed there's lots of women saying they're sick of men messaging without reading their profile, sick of men who aren't verified, no face photos and so on (just so you know we do read your profile. although I personally don't message after I find I haven't fit the criteria, that's not to say it isn't worth a shot from others that do.) consider it a compliment, get to know them.
I consider myself quite a polite person and I introduce myself in that manner, and I've seen in the past from just stating that I'd like to learn more about them, I've been blocked. Right off the bat, this has happened on numerous occasions and I hadn't even said anything (or hinting at anything) subjective, and this is with me adhering to these rules on their profile.
does anyone else know what I mean?
P.S "no newbies, you'll only be gone in a month" is possibly the most ridiculous thing I've read on here. Of course we're going to go if it won't let us message anyone.
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You have a veri, that's more than some single guys have!!!
See if there are organised socials in your area and attend. Join in on the forums, so people get to know you. This site takes a while to get your foot in the door
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you ask if you know what you mean but i am noit really sure what the point of your post is....what does the title mean 'membership imminent'?. Are you trying to decide if it it worth a fiver every 60 days? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My profile says I don't accommodate and don't travel and that I'm looking for men who live locally and can accommodate.
I'm not sure why I should get to know someone who lives in Glasgow for example, just because he sends me a message.
It just seems a complete waste of his time and mine to enter into a conversation with him so I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand what you're saying, OP. It's fine if the site isn't working for you. If I were a single guy, unless I were into something particularly kinky, I would just find casual sex elsewhere.
In some, I stress some, ways fab is a bit of a toxic environment. It isn't a natural way for people to meet, and I think it leads to frustration for lots of people. I hope you decide whether it's something you actually want to put time into and whether it's right for you.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not as such no, It was more of me going off on a little tangent. But it does seem this site can be an uphill struggle.
Just trying to find if other people have the same issues and just a bit of an underhanded hint to give new people the time of day.
I don't think I'll be paying again.
P.s thank you very much! You've got a smile out of me!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the "certain specification" men need to talk to women on here?
To talk to me you need to be aged between 20-50 ish,black or white or any hue in between,any height/weight/shoe size,have long/short/medium length hair or be bald,have any size cock and I must like your personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me to be interested enough to reply, the profile would have to be 'sexy', not a friend told me about this site, and I have not much else to do and not many mates |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the best advice I can give you is to perhaps just hang in there. Enjoy the banter of messaging peeps. Enjoy the forum n get to know everyone. If you don't put so much into getting a shag maybe a shag will come n find you x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you, I don't actually have to confidence to go to a meet, I'm just after a bit of NSA.
And thank you for the compliment "
How do you get nsa if youre not going to go for a meet? |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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I think, perhaps you are taking Fabs a bit too seriously.
I seem to be the exception in that I apparently find it much easier to have casual sex through Fabs, I absolutley suck at both casual and serious dating on dating sites.
I don't wonder if on Fabs, people are much more ready to accept me being a sarcastic twat, whereas on dating sites they get mortally offended... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Totally get what you mean, but I'm quite the reserved person. That profile is exactly how I intend people to find me. I don't want to post things like "i want to bend you over and obliterate you in front of an open fire" because personally I don't think anyone should need to.
(Given, I know that isn't the "sexy" you were defining, but do you get what I mean?) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think, perhaps you are taking Fabs a bit too seriously.
I seem to be the exception in that I apparently find it much easier to have casual sex through Fabs, I absolutley suck at both casual and serious dating on dating sites.
I don't wonder if on Fabs, people are much more ready to accept me being a sarcastic twat, whereas on dating sites they get mortally offended..."
Cheers Jim, I know what you mean. I just don't think the site is for me, I reckon I'm a bit too reserved for the site haha.
Thank you for your input though! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem you have, as with many who take issue with not getting regular or any meets, (not just single men, and not meaning to generalise) is that too much expectation is put on the site and those that are genuine and do meet.
"They expect" to get meets, instantly and regularly.
"They expect" members to jump into bed with them.
"They expect" members to interact with them.
I could go on and on, but generally there are far too many expectations of the site and the members (not just single women).
You are one piece of a puzzle on here, becoming annoyed that you don't fit every other piece amongst 1000's of pieces.
You try and fit a piece at a time, if you don't you move on.
Some pieces are limited in how they fit other pieces, some pieces are very versatile and fit a lot of other pieces.
Lower your expectations, take the site less seriously and enjoy it, or don't.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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Tree trunk?  |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"Totally get what you mean, but I'm quite the reserved person. That profile is exactly how I intend people to find me. I don't want to post things like "i want to bend you over and obliterate you in front of an open fire" because personally I don't think anyone should need to.
(Given, I know that isn't the "sexy" you were defining, but do you get what I mean?)"
I never do that shit. I'm not here for cheap textual thrills, I like actual sex, with people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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They may not be sexy to you, but they are sexy in there own way and some one will appreciate them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On your profile pic you look a lot like Justin Bobby from the Hills
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I'll take that as a compliment. Thank you, although I look nothing like him from another angle haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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A lot of Men/Women like "tree trunk fatties" And a lot are successful on here despite the ratio of Men to Women |
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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You have an extremely low opinion of some men and women |
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I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn ghey, it's not gay, just means your balls will never be empty thanks to the assistance of every (straight) ghey on here.
In all seriousness however, I've been on fab 4 years now and only the last 2 am I seeing the benefits of hanging in there. I've had some amazing times with other members but it's all down to putting the effort in and attending socials and getting myself known and out there.
Just remember, this isn't like an Argos catalogue where you select what you want and get it.
You're one of many many single guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
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lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
You have an extremely low opinion of some men and women "
I could have gone lower believe me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
They may not be sexy to you, but they are sexy in there own way and some one will appreciate them. "
Yes very true but not for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?"
I would find it too scary to go to a normal nightclub by myself too. The idea of walking into a club full of regulars on my own horrifies me, so I can understand why not everyone finds it an easy option. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same way about this site not being for me. I'm not into NSA.
The way most guys do it is leaving you feeling like a service...they make loads of effort for the first meet but after that it's like they cba any more and think they're in and can just hook up any time. This is probably what NSA sex is but i'm not keen and finding it boring, finding the guys lose their appeal when they don't make any effort also.
Idk, it's shit having a high sex drive and not finding anyone suitable to share that with. I dn't click with many on here either do the social side is shit for me too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you ask if you know what you mean but i am noit really sure what the point of your post is....what does the title mean 'membership imminent'?. Are you trying to decide if it it worth a fiver every 60 days?"
I think my main incentive to this post, albeit a very vague one was to
1) try and see how others have coped with this consistent uphill struggle of successfully messaging someone.
2) spread awareness that new users actually exist and given the time of day, they might actually be worth speaking to.
Obviously I can understand women on here get 20 messages a minute, but for men it's the opposite. We're lucky if we get a view in a week, and even then it wouldn't be accompanied by anything, so I can't justify spending money to be a verified member, to appease someone's rules for meeting if they won't give you the time of day to begin with. It's a constant catch 22. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk? "
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you ask if you know what you mean but i am noit really sure what the point of your post is....what does the title mean 'membership imminent'?. Are you trying to decide if it it worth a fiver every 60 days?
I think my main incentive to this post, albeit a very vague one was to
1) try and see how others have coped with this consistent uphill struggle of successfully messaging someone.
2) spread awareness that new users actually exist and given the time of day, they might actually be worth speaking to.
Obviously I can understand women on here get 20 messages a minute, but for men it's the opposite. We're lucky if we get a view in a week, and even then it wouldn't be accompanied by anything, so I can't justify spending money to be a verified member, to appease someone's rules for meeting if they won't give you the time of day to begin with. It's a constant catch 22. "
Not everyone requires membership or verifications. My partner and I both meet people on our own and together who don't have memberships or verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, just don't become a bitter person like some seem to on here."
Oh no, far from it. It isn't in my nature, I think it's just one of those where I can't justify investing. |
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
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"you ask if you know what you mean but i am noit really sure what the point of your post is....what does the title mean 'membership imminent'?. Are you trying to decide if it it worth a fiver every 60 days?
I think my main incentive to this post, albeit a very vague one was to
1) try and see how others have coped with this consistent uphill struggle of successfully messaging someone.
2) spread awareness that new users actually exist and given the time of day, they might actually be worth speaking to.
Obviously I can understand women on here get 20 messages a minute, but for men it's the opposite. We're lucky if we get a view in a week, and even then it wouldn't be accompanied by anything, so I can't justify spending money to be a verified member, to appease someone's rules for meeting if they won't give you the time of day to begin with. It's a constant catch 22. "
Just dive in and message people - normally they have written something I find interesting so I ask/take the piss out of that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have a unique look and wrote your OP with clear intelligence. I'm sure if you give it time and try out the forums along with the tried and tested clubs and socials route you will do well. Just keep at and perhaps broaden your search. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X"
I just didn't even get what it meant. Brown and barking? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X"
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tip: Don't just rely on one site for the action, instead use few sites. I have noticed that women are up for things differently, depending on what sites you use. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?"
Personally, I thought I would meet some genuine likeminded people, send a few messages, go for a drink and then just have casual sex now and again.
But there's women like "I will ONLY meet in clubs" on their profile which require you to spend £30 on the door, to then have a dress down rule imposed upon you.
That sounds terrifying, you've got to bare in mind I'm 28, I'm still in the category where I can go out "on the pull" but I don't because I'm not confident enough.
I was after a more relaxing environment. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?
I would find it too scary to go to a normal nightclub by myself too. The idea of walking into a club full of regulars on my own horrifies me, so I can understand why not everyone finds it an easy option. "
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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago
Hereford |
"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?
Personally, I thought I would meet some genuine likeminded people, send a few messages, go for a drink and then just have casual sex now and again.
But there's women like "I will ONLY meet in clubs" on their profile which require you to spend £30 on the door, to then have a dress down rule imposed upon you.
That sounds terrifying, you've got to bare in mind I'm 28, I'm still in the category where I can go out "on the pull" but I don't because I'm not confident enough.
I was after a more relaxing environment. "
Learning not to give a shit is quite empowering.
You can certainly meet people in the way you describe - I have. I'm not sure about turning up at a club by myself either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?
Personally, I thought I would meet some genuine likeminded people, send a few messages, go for a drink and then just have casual sex now and again.
But there's women like "I will ONLY meet in clubs" on their profile which require you to spend £30 on the door, to then have a dress down rule imposed upon you.
That sounds terrifying, you've got to bare in mind I'm 28, I'm still in the category where I can go out "on the pull" but I don't because I'm not confident enough.
I was after a more relaxing environment. "
There are women on here who will fit what you're looking for. Just don't message the ones only looking to meet in a club.
Good luck on here xxx |
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?
I would find it too scary to go to a normal nightclub by myself too. The idea of walking into a club full of regulars on my own horrifies me, so I can understand why not everyone finds it an easy option. "
But what is there to really be scared of? Go to the bar, order a drink and hang or find a seat. Talk to people or not, it's not like everybody knows everybody apart from you.
I rarely see someone I know but I bumped into Wasphunter recently and although we didn't get a chance to have a conversation, we know that we will eventually. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tip: Don't just rely on one site for the action, instead use few sites. I have noticed that women are up for things differently, depending on what sites you use."
Would you recommend any? I might have to give that a try! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences "
Having preferences is perfectly normal and acceptable, being rude about those that don't fit yours isn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
I just didn't even get what it meant. Brown and barking?"
Hehehe so if I coated myself in ronseal n woofed do ya recon id still get meets x  |
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Honestly OP aka Alex1988, bide you're time and relax and remember to expect nothing off this site mate..
cold messaging people is useless most off the time if some one is interested in you they will more or less approach you first chances are better with that..
best you can do is stick to forums/chat rooms or sometimes hit a forum social or a swingers club is you're best option, I know it's not exactly the best thing for me to say but I find it's more better there..
it will take a while for you to come across some one chances are but it can be worth the wait, think some off the guys who join up this place and become a bit soft tbh in the sense they want to be recognised and embraced by whoever it is they they want to meet then end up becoming demoralised by constant rejections over time..
some do have better success but the truth is some guys do sadly become soft over time on here and end up letting it get to them when they don't get what they want, its normal in a sense as some women do have that effect on us it's natural we want to be happy and have a good time with them but the truth is be a gentleman sure but don't expect much or miracles etc just sit back relax and watch how the show/events unfold.
that's just my take I know there will be a fair amount who disagree but that's just the way I see it, you will make off this site however way you wish to..
best off luck OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Honestly OP aka Alex1988, bide you're time and relax and remember to expect nothing off this site mate..
cold messaging people is useless most off the time if some one is interested in you they will more or less approach you first chances are better with that..
best you can do is stick to forums/chat rooms or sometimes hit a forum social or a swingers club is you're best option, I know it's not exactly the best thing for me to say but I find it's more better there..
it will take a while for you to come across some one chances are but it can be worth the wait, think some off the guys who join up this place and become a bit soft tbh in the sense they want to be recognised and embraced by whoever it is they they want to meet then end up becoming demoralised by constant rejections over time..
some do have better success but the truth is some guys do sadly become soft over time on here and end up letting it get to them when they don't get what they want, its normal in a sense as some women do have that effect on us it's natural we want to be happy and have a good time with them but the truth is be a gentleman sure but don't expect much or miracles etc just sit back relax and watch how the show/events unfold.
that's just my take I know there will be a fair amount who disagree but that's just the way I see it, you will make off this site however way you wish to..
best off luck OP "
Thank you very much for taking the time to write something that profound. I really will take note. Thank you! |
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Thank you very much for taking the time to write something that profound. I really will take note. Thank you! "
no worries buddy, I'm happy to try offer up some advice when and if I can even though I'm not all that experienced myself on this scene..
remember to NEVER let this place make you soft or turn you into some kind off sad sour puss or sissy/suck up because some woman didn't want to meet you or you don't fit their requirements for one reason or the other let them have their own reasons or ways of functioning their different from us in that sense they do things their own way kind off like how us men do things our own way..
it does get frustrating some times but you need to remember to not take it too serious. |
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"I've never understood why it's scary to go to a club.
Take Xtasia for example. It's a nightclub where some people somewhere may be having a shag.
OP, what did you think you would get out of joining Fab?
Personally, I thought I would meet some genuine likeminded people, send a few messages, go for a drink and then just have casual sex now and again.
But there's women like "I will ONLY meet in clubs" on their profile which require you to spend £30 on the door, to then have a dress down rule imposed upon you.
That sounds terrifying, you've got to bare in mind I'm 28, I'm still in the category where I can go out "on the pull" but I don't because I'm not confident enough.
I was after a more relaxing environment.
Learning not to give a shit is quite empowering.
You can certainly meet people in the way you describe - I have. I'm not sure about turning up at a club by myself either. "
I'm not sure, I think I'm just a little bit too passive. I'm like a dog chasing a car. I wouldn't know what to do with one when I caught it. Haha |
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"i want to bend you over and obliterate you in front of an open fire
Hello new status. haha let me know if it works. "
I can imagine it will earn me at least a couple of blocks. |
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences
Having preferences is perfectly normal and acceptable, being rude about those that don't fit yours isn't"
I was being descriptive not rude and this is a public forum where we express our views just as you have....no more no less.
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I'm not sure, I think I'm just a little bit too passive. I'm like a dog chasing a car. I wouldn't know what to do with one when I caught it. Haha"
I feel like that way too sometimes OP but the truth is just to go with the flow and I suppose relax...
I was told by a forumite I met at a forum social that I was tense and the truth is I was even though I behaved myself and socialised part off me was still kind off in paranoid/on guard mode and didn't really let myself cool it.. |
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"i want to bend you over and obliterate you in front of an open fire
Hello new status. haha let me know if it works.
I can imagine it will earn me at least a couple of blocks. "
haha I can't afford that unfortunately. |
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences
Having preferences is perfectly normal and acceptable, being rude about those that don't fit yours isn't
I was being descriptive not rude and this is a public forum where we express our views just as you have....no more no less.
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Your definition of being descriptive is interesting to say the least...
There seems plenty that have a "descriptive" view of your attitude now. Good luck with that lol |
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences
Having preferences is perfectly normal and acceptable, being rude about those that don't fit yours isn't
I was being descriptive not rude and this is a public forum where we express our views just as you have....no more no less.
Your definition of being descriptive is interesting to say the least...
There seems plenty that have a "descriptive" view of your attitude now. Good luck with that lol"
That's good and shows clarity and fairness in the forums ...we all cant agree with everything. |
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"That's good and shows clarity and fairness in the forums ...we all cant agree with everything. "
As you used the word "fairness" a quick definition for you.
"Fairness is the quality of making judgments that are free from discrimination. Judges, umpires, and teachers should all strive to practice fairness."
Just because it's a forum that people can post views on, it doesn't give licence to say anything. |
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"Most women on here are elevated well above what they could attain in the real world out there in public on a night out on the town .
Its a game of statistics , age, and gym body I find.
The men outnumber woman 50 to one and that means even ugly tree trunk fatties think they are attractive as some men will shag anything.
Tree trunk?
Ignore him. He's forgetting that us ugly tree trunk fatties have standereds n while men may just "shag anytging" is women won't. X
You haven't ignored me by replying lol and I'm fine with critism....preferences, preferences, preferences
Having preferences is perfectly normal and acceptable, being rude about those that don't fit yours isn't
I was being descriptive not rude and this is a public forum where we express our views just as you have....no more no less.
Your definition of being descriptive is interesting to say the least...
There seems plenty that have a "descriptive" view of your attitude now. Good luck with that lol"
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"That's good and shows clarity and fairness in the forums ...we all cant agree with everything.
As you used the word "fairness" a quick definition for you.
"Fairness is the quality of making judgments that are free from discrimination. Judges, umpires, and teachers should all strive to practice fairness."
Just because it's a forum that people can post views on, it doesn't give licence to say anything."
I'm afraid it does and I have. |
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