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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol  |
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Good work 
I came out to my best friend when I was 18 as bi. We were d*unk, at the bottom of his garden.
He looked at me and said, "The farthest I'd ever go with you is mutual masterbation."
WTF?!
I'm baring my soul, nit making a pass!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im thrilled for you that it went well
I just long for the day where we dont have labels on sexuality and we can just be attracted to whoever we like..
3 x |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
He said "I'm gay"
"We know"
"How do you know?"
"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"
"Oh, am I that obvious?"
"To all your mates yes" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"He said "I'm gay"
"We know"
"How do you know?"
"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"
"Oh, am I that obvious?"
"To all your mates yes""
Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though |
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By *olgateMan
over a year ago
on the road to nowhere in particular |
"He said "I'm gay"
"We know"
"How do you know?"
"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"
"Oh, am I that obvious?"
"To all your mates yes"
Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though "
That could well have set the gaydar off  |
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"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol "
That was very brave of you and we'll done. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He said "I'm gay"
"We know"
"How do you know?"
"By watching you ignore women but check out every bloke that walks past"
"Oh, am I that obvious?"
"To all your mates yes"
Haha, apparently with me it was when I cut my hair to a 1cm long when I was 17. I just liked it that way though
That could well have set the gaydar off "
Apparently so lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol
That was very brave of you and we'll done. "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish"
I agree, I don't believe that at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish"
Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ? 
Congrats Fantasy, one
I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish
Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?
Congrats Fantasy, one
I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you
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Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish
Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?
Congrats Fantasy, one
I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you
Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight "
Us duck fanciers have to stick together |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish
Don't you just love sweeping generalisations ?
Congrats Fantasy, one
I'm glad it's all gone smoothly for you
Thanks Mr Duck, me and the duckies here are happy tonight
Us duck fanciers have to stick together "
We must certainly do  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Go you! And go your friend too!
I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.
You live and learn. "
Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you  |
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"Go you! And go your friend too!
I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.
You live and learn.
Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you "
I'm not. I lived and I learned that those who mind don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind. It's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Go you! And go your friend too!
I did that when I was 25 and my best friend of 15 years hasn't spoken to me since.
You live and learn.
Thanks DirtyGirl, I'm sorry it wasn't the same experience for.you
I'm not. I lived and I learned that those who mind don't matter. Those who matter, don't mind. It's all good. "
I thought your thoughts on that, totally true |
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"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I thought that these days it was highly acceptable for a girl to be bi these days. It seems most especially young ones have either dabbled in girl on girl play or have thought about and at least don't bat an high lid to it |
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By *MaleMan
over a year ago
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"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol "
Congrats |
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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago
The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales |
"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol "
Congrats hun, I wish I had the courage to tell my best friend...
Maybe one day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I thought that these days it was highly acceptable for a girl to be bi these days. It seems most especially young ones have either dabbled in girl on girl play or have thought about and at least don't bat an high lid to it"
Quite possibly, however many of us are still brought up in traditional, cultural and or religious families in which bi sexuality is still not accepted. That upbringing can make people, like myself, hide their sexuality for many years before having courage to tell people. |
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Fantastic news it could've gone the other Way
I told my bestie of whom I've known since school on my bday last Dec as had a friend over and caught me making out with her lol she was shocked "smiling" but very accepting as you say such a weight of your shoulders x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a guy at work who came out as gay, we knew as he is a friend and we don't care.
He was really touched when it turned out everyone at work was the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can out as bi to my best friend of 19 years today, and what a liberating experience it was. Her reaction, I've always known it but not wanted to question you on it, thank goodness you've finally admitted it to me!!
One happy girl here lol "
Really happy for you
Emma x |
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"In the great spectrum of all things sexual, there are very few 100% heterosexual people. Most are bi to a certain extent.
Utter pish"
I think the statement is entirely accurate.
As it says "most" you may be one of those who are 100% straight but in my experience, the majority of people have a certain amount of attraction to some extent toward the same sex.
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