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over a year ago
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well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
yes.. Your a traitor!   |
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Thats good news - I hope it's a fantastic meet 
Fab is great site but use it in conjunction with all other available tools .. Have fun I hope it's a good 'un for you  |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
That you are on two sites ? |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
Yep, you been missing out big time! don't slam the door on your way out  |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
Mr.ddc"
See I miss all this. Good point ! |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
Could you pm me the site out of interest plz |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That you are on two sites ?"
3 sites |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
Could you pm me the site out of interest plz"
It's plenty of fish  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's a dating site, but you are married I wish you married sort would stop going on bloody dating sites to get laid.... "
I know I know the shame of it all |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
Mr.ddc
See I miss all this. Good point ! "
Very good point! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
I told you not to tell anyone you were meeting me!! Im calling it off now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
Mr.ddc
my varies are with people I've met with the wife very genuine so they are lol
See I miss all this. Good point ! "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
I told you not to tell anyone you were meeting me!! Im calling it off now"
Spoilt sport. We all wanted the full details after. Didn't your wax go well? |
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"It's a dating site, but you are married I wish you married sort would stop going on bloody dating sites to get laid....
I know I know the shame of it all "
I was actually half serious why use a dating site to get laid the clue is in what the site is for and that's dating...I'm going to get off me soap box but it does annoy me slightly married people using dating sites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
I told you not to tell anyone you were meeting me!! Im calling it off now
Spoilt sport. We all wanted the full details after. Didn't your wax go well?"
Wax? Huh? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a dating site, but you are married I wish you married sort would stop going on bloody dating sites to get laid....
I know I know the shame of it all
I was actually half serious why use a dating site to get laid the clue is in what the site is for and that's dating...I'm going to get off me soap box but it does annoy me slightly married people using dating sites "
POF has loads - my friend is getting good at spotting them now. She looks on their FB if gets that far - then sees they're in a relationship !
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"It's a dating site, but you are married I wish you married sort would stop going on bloody dating sites to get laid....
I know I know the shame of it all
I was actually half serious why use a dating site to get laid the clue is in what the site is for and that's dating...I'm going to get off me soap box but it does annoy me slightly married people using dating sites "
Well, it's our fault for not putting out on "sex sites"...  |
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"It's a dating site, but you are married I wish you married sort would stop going on bloody dating sites to get laid....
I know I know the shame of it all
I was actually half serious why use a dating site to get laid the clue is in what the site is for and that's dating...I'm going to get off me soap box but it does annoy me slightly married people using dating sites
POF has loads - my friend is getting good at spotting them now. She looks on their FB if gets that far - then sees they're in a relationship !
Sarah "
I do it all the time as most post pictures off their Facebook so you see their surname the amount that have in a relationship on FB it just annoys me, I know married people are on here that's the nature of the site but just leave dating sites along and let genuine daters....date. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
Does the person on the other site know you're married? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
I give in, does it tell you something? |
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
I told you not to tell anyone you were meeting me!! Im calling it off now"
Haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
Mr.ddc"
nothing dodgy about my verifications but if you were to question mine maybe then everyone else would have to be under scrutiny |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ?
That your 4 verifications are now looking a little dodgy?
Mr.ddc
nothing dodgy about my verifications but if you were to question mine maybe then everyone else would have to be under scrutiny "
Only people who claim they can't get one meet of this site yet have several veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is infinitely easier for guys to get meets (or dates if one prefers) on the fish site than it is here.
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Quite correct, but then they are completely different online environments and the two should not be confused.
FAB is a good representation of the different way, broadly speaking, men and women view the sex/reproductive transaction. Hence the the ratio of men to women/couples on here.
It also explains the 'princess syndrome' of some of the women on here. Their sense of entitlement and 'power' stems from their relative scarcity. How many times do you see 'not meeting' on a single fem profile? However, the love the attention and validation that comes with that.
Of course, there are always exceptions, but the general rules apply. |
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"It is infinitely easier for guys to get meets (or dates if one prefers) on the fish site than it is here.
Quite correct, but then they are completely different online environments and the two should not be confused.
FAB is a good representation of the different way, broadly speaking, men and women view the sex/reproductive transaction. Hence the the ratio of men to women/couples on here.
It also explains the 'princess syndrome' of some of the women on here. Their sense of entitlement and 'power' stems from their relative scarcity. How many times do you see 'not meeting' on a single fem profile? However, the love the attention and validation that comes with that.
Of course, there are always exceptions, but the general rules apply."
I'm not a princess  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is infinitely easier for guys to get meets (or dates if one prefers) on the fish site than it is here.
Quite correct, but then they are completely different online environments and the two should not be confused.
FAB is a good representation of the different way, broadly speaking, men and women view the sex/reproductive transaction. Hence the the ratio of men to women/couples on here.
It also explains the 'princess syndrome' of some of the women on here. Their sense of entitlement and 'power' stems from their relative scarcity. How many times do you see 'not meeting' on a single fem profile? However, the love the attention and validation that comes with that.
Of course, there are always exceptions, but the general rules apply."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not judging you chap but I couldn't be on a dating site if I was just looking for casual sex, let alone if I was married.
I have thought about using one, but it would be a lie for me to do so, so I don't (hate to think of someone believing it was one thing and turned about to be another, I.e. a potential relationship when I don't do relationships).
That said, to each his own and I hope it all works out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does she know your married and on a swinger site ? Or is it a date ?
she's fully aware i'm married
Does your wife know though "
my wife certainly does know , you see too many people judge the married man who is allowed to play far to quickly without the facts of their relationship and it's nearly always the married man who gets slated, my wife, just to the put the story right has got herself a regular playmate which by me is fine as long as she is happy with her choice of playmate then that's good enough for me , now i'm to find one who will be told the truth in what we do as a Cpl i'm not here to give bs to people just the truth whether they like it or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This site, that site, dating site....Makes no difference. I'm still sat here with my cock in my hand. I tried POF last summer and it was all the same annoying people from Match and Tinder. Best stick with this one lad, less likely to have a 50 something toothless Romanian gypsy turn up on your door step, I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does she know your married and on a swinger site ? Or is it a date ?
she's fully aware i'm married
Does your wife know though
my wife certainly does know , you see too many people judge the married man who is allowed to play far to quickly without the facts of their relationship and it's nearly always the married man who gets slated, my wife, just to the put the story right has got herself a regular playmate which by me is fine as long as she is happy with her choice of playmate then that's good enough for me , now i'm to find one who will be told the truth in what we do as a Cpl i'm not here to give bs to people just the truth whether they like it or not "
Then fine...i wish you luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not judging you chap but I couldn't be on a dating site if I was just looking for casual sex, let alone if I was married.
I have thought about using one, but it would be a lie for me to do so, so I don't (hate to think of someone believing it was one thing and turned about to be another, I.e. a potential relationship when I don't do relationships).
That said, to each his own and I hope it all works out."
what ever or whenever I get to meet people they will always be told up front what i'm here for it's then up to them if they wish to meet or not but lie is something I will not do no matter what i'm not that kind of bloke as my wife knows only to well |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does she know your married and on a swinger site ? Or is it a date ?
she's fully aware i'm married
Does your wife know though
my wife certainly does know , you see too many people judge the married man who is allowed to play far to quickly without the facts of their relationship and it's nearly always the married man who gets slated, my wife, just to the put the story right has got herself a regular playmate which by me is fine as long as she is happy with her choice of playmate then that's good enough for me , now i'm to find one who will be told the truth in what we do as a Cpl i'm not here to give bs to people just the truth whether they like it or not
Then fine...i wish you luck "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This site, that site, dating site....Makes no difference. I'm still sat here with my cock in my hand. I tried POF last summer and it was all the same annoying people from Match and Tinder. Best stick with this one lad, less likely to have a 50 something toothless Romanian gypsy turn up on your door step, I think "
i'm not leaving this site mate been on a while it's a bit like deserting your football team not happening lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is infinitely easier for guys to get meets (or dates if one prefers) on the fish site than it is here.
Quite correct, but then they are completely different online environments and the two should not be confused.
FAB is a good representation of the different way, broadly speaking, men and women view the sex/reproductive transaction. Hence the the ratio of men to women/couples on here.
It also explains the 'princess syndrome' of some of the women on here. Their sense of entitlement and 'power' stems from their relative scarcity. How many times do you see 'not meeting' on a single fem profile? However, the love the attention and validation that comes with that.
Of course, there are always exceptions, but the general rules apply.
I'm not a princess "
I did not say 'you' were. However, how many times do you see the term 'princess' incorporated into the username of single fem profiles on here? Far more than you see 'prince' added to a single guy profile - unless they liked a particular 80's popstar.
Single fem scarcity creates value on here. But the extent to which it does can only be on here. |
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Mr.ddc
nothing dodgy about my verifications but if you were to question mine maybe then everyone else would have to be under scrutiny "
To be fair to you, I understand now that you meant 'no meets as a single guy', whereas your main veris are with your wife as a couple, but I didn't think it was allowed to use couple veris as a single guy, hence they're still, er 'interesting'?
It's also worth pointing out that it always takes time to settle in here, people expect instant results but it's not like that. I think we waited two months before our first meet.
I hope your meet on the other site goes well, but we happen to like this site, so I sometimes get a little over-defensive when people slag it off.
Good luck
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
UNLOS here is five, four, three ..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does she know your married and on a swinger site ? Or is it a date ?
she's fully aware i'm married "
Is it the Rochdale Allotment Appreciation Vegetable Growers site? Beware of Phyllis is all I can say. My prize cucumber was gone in the morning. |
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By *arksMan
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
The woman who delivers the tesco shopping does not constitute a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr.ddc
nothing dodgy about my verifications but if you were to question mine maybe then everyone else would have to be under scrutiny
To be fair to you, I understand now that you meant 'no meets as a single guy', whereas your main veris are with your wife as a couple, but I didn't think it was allowed to use couple veris as a single guy, hence they're still, er 'interesting'?
It's also worth pointing out that it always takes time to settle in here, people expect instant results but it's not like that. I think we waited two months before our first meet.
I hope your meet on the other site goes well, but we happen to like this site, so I sometimes get a little over-defensive when people slag it off.
Good luck
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A lot of veri's on here are 'interesting' I don't think his are any more interesting than anyone else's.
I've seen veri's on single profiles before where it says they've met with others like partners / FB's, don't really see it's any different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr.ddc
nothing dodgy about my verifications but if you were to question mine maybe then everyone else would have to be under scrutiny
To be fair to you, I understand now that you meant 'no meets as a single guy', whereas your main veris are with your wife as a couple, but I didn't think it was allowed to use couple veris as a single guy, hence they're still, er 'interesting'?
It's also worth pointing out that it always takes time to settle in here, people expect instant results but it's not like that. I think we waited two months before our first meet.
I hope your meet on the other site goes well, but we happen to like this site, so I sometimes get a little over-defensive when people slag it off.
Good luck
A lot of veri's on here are 'interesting' I don't think his are any more interesting than anyone else's.
I've seen veri's on single profiles before where it says they've met with others like partners / FB's, don't really see it's any different."
does it really make a difference where or how I've got my veris is it a case that I have and I've shown i'm a genuine guy ? |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
Yes, no one on here wants to meet you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
how much you paying though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site, that site, dating site....Makes no difference. I'm still sat here with my cock in my hand. I tried POF last summer and it was all the same annoying people from Match and Tinder. Best stick with this one lad, less likely to have a 50 something toothless Romanian gypsy turn up on your door step, I think "
Just reading that reminds me that there is a guy I bumb into every now and then When working and he is on POF.
Is about 60 and does not have a good tooth in his head
Mine arn't perfect but nowhere near that bad
make me giggle a bit when he goes on about how many he has interested in him, bet he does not have any piccys wuth his gnashers on display |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site, that site, dating site....Makes no difference. I'm still sat here with my cock in my hand. I tried POF last summer and it was all the same annoying people from Match and Tinder. Best stick with this one lad, less likely to have a 50 something toothless Romanian gypsy turn up on your door step, I think
Just reading that reminds me that there is a guy I bumb into every now and then When working and he is on POF.
Is about 60 and does not have a good tooth in his head
Mine arn't perfect but nowhere near that bad
make me giggle a bit when he goes on about how many he has interested in him, bet he does not have any piccys wuth his gnashers on display "
I do like nice teeth! That's why I like seeing a pic with someone smiling. In case they could be a gurner.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? "
I've noticed this as well, on fab people tend to have an enlarged ego but on other sites it's relaxed and friendly.
I joined fab almost 8years ago, I was much MUCH fatter back then but got at least 4 meets a month which isn't a lot but I was happy, about 3years ago it all changed on fab! I don't know what happened but it's dire on here now. I come on fab and can't get anything for months at a time but this week alone I have had 2 blowjobs, had sex twice, and a 69r! All from another site but the 69 was from Facebook of all places.
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We used to go regularly to a certain restaurant for lunch, over time the quality of the food deteriorated so we stopped going since we weren't getting what we wanted. I feel we would be foolish to keep returning to this restaurant when experience has shown us that it no longer meets our requirements. |
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"We used to go regularly to a certain restaurant for lunch, over time the quality of the food deteriorated so we stopped going since we weren't getting what we wanted. I feel we would be foolish to keep returning to this restaurant when experience has shown us that it no longer meets our requirements."
Just spit it out,what are you trying to say?! |
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"We used to go regularly to a certain restaurant for lunch, over time the quality of the food deteriorated so we stopped going since we weren't getting what we wanted. I feel we would be foolish to keep returning to this restaurant when experience has shown us that it no longer meets our requirements.
Just spit it out,what are you trying to say?! "
Well we did spit it out that's why we didn't go back .
If you keep going back to something that isn't working when there are alternatives that do work it shows that hope can still triumph over experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well what a turn up for the books I join another site and within two days i'm arranging a meet been on this site 3 months and I can't get one meet does this tell me something ? I've noticed this as well, on fab people tend to have an enlarged ego but on other sites it's relaxed and friendly.
I joined fab almost 8years ago, I was much MUCH fatter back then but got at least 4 meets a month which isn't a lot but I was happy, about 3years ago it all changed on fab! I don't know what happened but it's dire on here now. I come on fab and can't get anything for months at a time but this week alone I have had 2 blowjobs, had sex twice, and a 69r! All from another site but the 69 was from Facebook of all places.
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So it's win/win then isn't it?
For us, we like the social side here too. In our opinion you don't get that on sex sites.
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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Just my opinion, ofcourse: I don't think they fare any better elsewhere; not on any other site, nor in the big wide world out there
They are just trying out a bit of reverse psychology; they think, afterall, what have they got to loose
But the fact of the matter is that they do loose out amongst some of those women who read these forums and some of those probably think of them as sad little whingers; I know that I think like that about them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It tells me you have a worse memory than me.
you lost me on that one "
You explained it now. Your verifications on this single profile were from when you met with your wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does make me think that other sites,supposedly for dating,are being used by men who don't really want to date and,by pretending they do,they are getting sex or blow jobs from unsuspecting women,who won't be getting a boyfriend at the end of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It does make me think that other sites,supposedly for dating,are being used by men who don't really want to date and,by pretending they do,they are getting sex or blow jobs from unsuspecting women,who won't be getting a boyfriend at the end of it. "
Definitely.
One site i used is paying women to use it because they all left as it's just a hookup site (the profiles and messages are awful on there).
You even get knobs add you on facebook to try and get dirty chat or cam sex. Game sites are the same, i stopped using them.
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