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how come most of the women on here dont reply
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ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here |
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
'help you out' ........ sweet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think your mistake is believing this to be a 'sex site' a lot on here like the social side as well and your profile is all about your cock and cumming. Your pics are good though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but i am trying im messaging couples and females but not every one is relying and most of them just say no... im not even looking for a straight fuck meet.. i could do with a social meet "
If that's the case maybe change the wording of your profile to reflect this x |
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
You need to state you want profile advise, you'll then be told exactly what's wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I think your mistake is believing this to be a 'sex site' a lot on here like the social side as well and your profile is all about your cock and cumming. Your pics are good though x "
I'd have to agree with Alabama |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
re read your profile then re-do all of it after your 2nd line which reads:
we could get a hotel room....
remove all; after hotel room and start again
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leave as is, but I would change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
Maybe it's because you come across as whingy and entitled?
Nobody owes you a fuck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It says on your profile that you are straight but it also says that you like being deepthroated.......
Do your meets need to bring dildos or a veggie option ?"
That means he likes his cock down a woman's throat Granny. It's a modern thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You're a decent looking lad and I'm sure popular out there in 'real life'.
It usually takes a while to get established in here - so take your time to get known and be positive and engage with people - the forums is a great way to start.
And I know you haven't asked for profile advice but the 'if I don't get a meet I'm leaving' status won't help ..
Good luck fella. I hope things perk up for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
No one is going to shed a tear, I am afraid.
If you want to get interest, improve your profile. No one is begging for it. Plenty more out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Although people have said it's not a 'sex site' in essence, it is. This explains the ratio of guys to couples and especially single females.
A thick skin, patience and persistence are the keywords. Similarly, 'outcome indifference' - that is to say you aren't really that arsed if you get meets or not because your life if full of interesting stuff anyway - that's a benefit of advancing years, especially if your male. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
Firstly threatening to delete your account isn't going to bother alot of people. I'd remove the status update personally.
Your profile is fine and your photos are good. It just often takes time and patience and a bit of luck with contacting the right people at the right time.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It says on your profile that you are straight but it also says that you like being deepthroated.......
Do your meets need to bring dildos or a veggie option ?"
Get rid of the 'deep throat bit' too much info for an introduction.
Yours photos are surprisingly good. I always find Charming & subtle guys easier to respond to. Remember people - 'less is more' Good luck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thank you every one i have now changed my profile text and i hope i will have better luck "
Seen worse. Seen better. It has little to do with luck and much more to do with attitude and presentation.
Looks a bit too male-aggressive for me but others might like it. I am before the boy-band man thing.
Maybe men would be more interested in that sort of look? I don't know, I am an old geriatric fucker. |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
As a single guy, 9 weeks without a meet really isn't that long. There's thousands of guys on here all jostling for attention. It's better to just play it cool.
You're a good looking guy with decent photos on his profile, and you can accommodate. Just be patient, and always remember that no one is simply entitled to free sex! It does take work. |
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"It says on your profile that you are straight but it also says that you like being deepthroated.......
Do your meets need to bring dildos or a veggie option ?
That means he likes his cock down a woman's throat Granny. It's a modern thing."
I know what it is Petunia.... it says HE likes BEING deeped... not he likes doing deepth......
pfffffffft |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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Don't just rely on messaging people on here. Get yourself know in other ways. Go along to the Manchester socials (see Meets and Events Forum), and make friends in the Northern Swingers chat room. You won't get immediate sex, but the more people who know you (for good things!) the better. |
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I posted a meet last sat and was flooded with messages fro, single guys. By the time it took me to reply to one and recive another 5+. So I started deleting without replying the ones to far away to travel to then the ones who's profile says they can't acom then it was ones that didn't have anything more than a few words in the opening message.
Sometimes it can just be that the person you are mailing is reciving far to many messages to handle so you really need to make yourself stand out from the crowd. Unfortunately there is no right way to do this but plenty of wrong ways. Patience is the key xxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"thank you every one i have now changed my profile text and i hope i will have better luck "
you might wanna run a spell and grammar checker through it as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't just rely on messaging people on here. Get yourself know in other ways. Go along to the Manchester socials (see Meets and Events Forum), and make friends in the Northern Swingers chat room. You won't get immediate sex, but the more people who know you (for good things!) the better."
This ! |
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"It says on your profile that you are straight but it also says that you like being deepthroated.......
Do your meets need to bring dildos or a veggie option ?
That means he likes his cock down a woman's throat Granny. It's a modern thing."
Ting ! Penny just dropped. |
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"ive been on here for couple of months now and dont seem to get along with any one what exactly do you need to do to get a meet of here ????
im about to delete my account at the end of the week if i still dont get a meet please some one help me out here"
Do you want me to wank you off and then verify you? I shan't, actually.
"If you can't stand the heat, stay out of the kitchen" - unless, of course, it's air conditioned and has good ventilation etc. |
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