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What is Swinging to you?
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Swinging is being free to select the who the when and where of sex free from commitment , jealousy and judgement.
In other words. It's like a restaurant. You look at the menu and order what's to your taste that meal and you don't belong to any other diners and you don't have to eat what they want.
I think it's viewing the act of sex as natural and fun and not something sinful to be scared of. |
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It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!! |
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over a year ago
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Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other
Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex
Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy name attached :D |
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"It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!!"
Iterrupt ? |
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"Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other
Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex
Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy
name attached :D "
So if you're a single bloke. ...is it not Swinging? |
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"It's just a lot of people seem to use fab their way...whilst under the guise of being a swinging site. Of course everyone is entitled to use it however they choose. I was just wondering how others interrupted it I supppse!!
Iterrupt ?"
Thanks. ..you gave yourinterpretation |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Swinging regarding straight couples is simply to swap lover but always return to each other
Swinging as a bisexual person.. simply to swing into action with the opposite sex
Swinging as a straight single person.. just a recreational hobby with a fancy
name attached :D
So if you're a single bloke. ...is it not Swinging? "
If you're a single bloke it's swinging, if you a single woman it's swinging, if you are a couple it's swinging - if you are having casual sex with people who identify as swingers.
You will find people who want to say 'it's only swinging of you are a couple', etc...but that's because they want to stick a label on something they do that others can't use. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't class myself as a swinger. We enjoy the company of a single male or female to enhance an already great sex life but not interested in the social aspect of it. It's all about the sex for me |
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I once got told in a club, by a couple, that I wasn't a swinger as I'm single and that you can only be a swinger if you have a partner to 'swop'. Strangely it didn't stop them spending the whole evening trying to convince me to play with them! |
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the only part of the word 'swinging' i can relate to single straight men/women is that we swing from partner to partner
just like every other straight person after a shag... but by the pure nature of this site im hoping it means that folk are more aware of the safety aspects of playing with a higher number of partners than perhaps a person who rarely goes out to pull the occasional person when pissed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me fab is a place where I can make friends n get nsa sex with no judgement. I don't class myself as a swinger as I'm not part of a couple nor have i yet meet with a couple of been to a club but doesn't mean to say I won't become a swinger should the above opportunities arise |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the only part of the word 'swinging' i can relate to single straight men/women is that we swing from partner to partner
just like every other straight person after a shag... but by the pure nature of this site im hoping it means that folk are more aware of the safety aspects of playing with a higher number of partners than perhaps a person who rarely goes out to pull the occasional person when pissed "
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I'm single and I'm a swinger - absolutely! My definition of swinging is someone who has sex with multiple people with no intention of cultivating a relationship. That person could be single, married, attached. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm single and I'm a swinger - absolutely! My definition of swinging is someone who has sex with multiple people with no intention of cultivating a relationship. That person could be single, married, attached."
totally agree in some aspects with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Swinging is being free to select the who the when and where of sex free from commitment , jealousy and judgement.
In other words. It's like a restaurant. You look at the menu and order what's to your taste that meal and you don't belong to any other diners and you don't have to eat what they want.
I think it's viewing the act of sex as natural and fun and not something sinful to be scared of."
What a great description !
The only thing we would add , is they you can go as often as you want to this restaurant , and have as many meals as you like  |
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