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over a year ago
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...some slightly odd girls.
Not necessarily a bad thing, I loves me a weirdo.
Over the course of the last two weeks or so I've received three messages on the fishing site (I know, how have I reached those heady heights? No, really?)
One girl with a blood fetish who wanted to poke me with things.
One approached me about Tripsolagnia, the joy of having your hair shampooed, not going to lie, I was tempted by this.
The third was just funny. She thought I was transgender, but said she was into that and that I was pretty, so I've got that going for me, which is nice.
No real reason for this, just musing out loud. |
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over a year ago
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"Oops....... I thought you were a woman.
Sos... I should read more.
It's not something that bothers me.
I wasn't trying to bother you. It is a small picture after all. "
I know, it is a small picture, and it is mostly hair. |
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"One approached me about Tripsolagnia, the joy of having your hair shampooed, not going to lie, I was tempted by this."
Well that's a new one on me, better start stocking head and shoulders, would that go in the fetish section ? |
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there."
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile. 
The profiles are funnier though. |
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though."
Don;t close your a/c - I for one find you delightful |
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""One approached me about Tripsolagnia, the joy of having your hair shampooed, not going to lie, I was tempted by this."
Well that's a new one on me, better start stocking head and shoulders, would that go in the fetish section ?"
It was new to me too, yeah, i think it belongs in the fetish section.
Though I would never let Head & Shoulders touch my hair. |
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though."
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it. "
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
Don;t close your a/c - I for one find you delightful "
I won't be closing any of my accounts. I find me rather delightful too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
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are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently. "
Ladies either have nothing or the same generic things like down to earth, bubbly, laid back etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently.
Ladies either have nothing or the same generic things like down to earth, bubbly, laid back etc.
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awesome. my profile probably stands out then.
i have on my likes and everything.
spounds like 1990s dating though, them ads in the papers where all the women were bubbly and everyone had a GSOH. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently.
Ladies either have nothing or the same generic things like down to earth, bubbly, laid back etc.
awesome. my profile probably stands out then.
i have on my likes and everything.
spounds like 1990s dating though, them ads in the papers where all the women were bubbly and everyone had a GSOH."
It pretty much is, everyone seems to be looking for a partner in crime too. And don't even get me started on the use of the word banter.
You put your likes? That's something that is very rare.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently.
Ladies either have nothing or the same generic things like down to earth, bubbly, laid back etc.
awesome. my profile probably stands out then.
i have on my likes and everything.
spounds like 1990s dating though, them ads in the papers where all the women were bubbly and everyone had a GSOH.
It pretty much is, everyone seems to be looking for a partner in crime too. And don't even get me started on the use of the word banter.
You put your likes? That's something that is very rare.
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see that partner in crime a lot on here as well.
yeah: cuckolding, 3sums, genuine fun people. sorry i know the fun people is a cliche...that's why i put genuine on the front because 'fun' people isn't enough for me.
my profile is ok i think:
Not interested in NSA. Also, not interested in married/attached guys.
I like Ind techno, and almost all music. I dont have a TV and don't watch TV. I'm introverted, guarded and honest. If you get me to open up you won't be disappointed. I'm kinky, but wary. I'm not superficial and don't like superficiality. I'd like to be made to feel special but not with bullshit. I'm more intelligent than i'll let you know about. i hate using proper grammar and type without capitals so i can type fast.
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By (user no longer on site)
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""One approached me about Tripsolagnia, the joy of having your hair shampooed, not going to lie, I was tempted by this."
Well that's a new one on me, better start stocking head and shoulders, would that go in the fetish section ?
It was new to me too, yeah, i think it belongs in the fetish section.
Though I would never let Head & Shoulders touch my hair."
Me neither. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"POF is more funny than on here for messages. it's why i haven't deleted my account there.
I agree, it's pretty much why I haven't closed my account, I get some great reaction to my profile.
The profiles are funnier though.
not while looking for men it isn't, their profiles don't have much on them and they always say 'choose together' for the first date thing, which is nice i suppose. but yeah the messages are worth it.
Ladies profiles are as bad, the amount that have 'Just ask' on them is slightly ridiculous. I can't spin yarns with that.
are they? i haven't bothered looking but might do now.
i found my exes profile on there, he is female apprently.
Ladies either have nothing or the same generic things like down to earth, bubbly, laid back etc.
awesome. my profile probably stands out then.
i have on my likes and everything.
spounds like 1990s dating though, them ads in the papers where all the women were bubbly and everyone had a GSOH.
It pretty much is, everyone seems to be looking for a partner in crime too. And don't even get me started on the use of the word banter.
You put your likes? That's something that is very rare.
see that partner in crime a lot on here as well.
yeah: cuckolding, 3sums, genuine fun people. sorry i know the fun people is a cliche...that's why i put genuine on the front because 'fun' people isn't enough for me.
my profile is ok i think:
Not interested in NSA. Also, not interested in married/attached guys.
I like Ind techno, and almost all music. I dont have a TV and don't watch TV. I'm introverted, guarded and honest. If you get me to open up you won't be disappointed. I'm kinky, but wary. I'm not superficial and don't like superficiality. I'd like to be made to feel special but not with bullshit. I'm more intelligent than i'll let you know about. i hate using proper grammar and type without capitals so i can type fast.
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It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier. |
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"It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier."
nobody tries starting a conversation off it really, i think a lot of guys aren't interested and anything more than NSA or have poor social skills. i do alright looking for guys on there though. because that site forces you not to have cock pics you can see what guys look like and then message them. |
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"It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier.
nobody tries starting a conversation off it really, i think a lot of guys aren't interested and anything more than NSA or have poor social skills. i do alright looking for guys on there though. because that site forces you not to have cock pics you can see what guys look like and then message them."
You can't start a conversation with girls, either their profile has nothing or they just don't want to talk to you. It's very difficult. I stopped caring a while back, it's been liberating and I've had more attention since changing my profile to a rant about how much I hate online dating. Go figure |
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"you didn't say what the girl with the blood fetish wanted to poke you with?  "
According to her profile, she likes to play with knives, needles and branding pens/irons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier.
nobody tries starting a conversation off it really, i think a lot of guys aren't interested and anything more than NSA or have poor social skills. i do alright looking for guys on there though. because that site forces you not to have cock pics you can see what guys look like and then message them.
You can't start a conversation with girls, either their profile has nothing or they just don't want to talk to you. It's very difficult. I stopped caring a while back, it's been liberating and I've had more attention since changing my profile to a rant about how much I hate online dating. Go figure"
haha, i laughed at that rant profile bit for some reason. could be why?
i also whinge about online meeting on my profile here and get loads more messages now, i think people can relate to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"you didn't say what the girl with the blood fetish wanted to poke you with?
According to her profile, she likes to play with knives, needles and branding pens/irons."
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"The third was just funny. She thought I was transgender, but said she was into that and that I was pretty, so I've got that going for me, which is nice."
male to female or female to male?  |
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"It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier.
nobody tries starting a conversation off it really, i think a lot of guys aren't interested and anything more than NSA or have poor social skills. i do alright looking for guys on there though. because that site forces you not to have cock pics you can see what guys look like and then message them.
You can't start a conversation with girls, either their profile has nothing or they just don't want to talk to you. It's very difficult. I stopped caring a while back, it's been liberating and I've had more attention since changing my profile to a rant about how much I hate online dating. Go figure
haha, i laughed at that rant profile bit for some reason. could be why?
i also whinge about online meeting on my profile here and get loads more messages now, i think people can relate to it."
I tried to make it funny, it is just a rant, where I probably insult about 90% of the members but the point of it is that it's me, if they don't see the humour, we wouldn't match, if they do, then that could work.
I do think it might echo some people feelings of online dating.
Just had to have a laugh at your profile, there's a world weary tone to it. |
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"The third was just funny. She thought I was transgender, but said she was into that and that I was pretty, so I've got that going for me, which is nice.
male to female or female to male? "
Male to female actually, she did specify. |
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"It at least has something to go off and not the same generic stuff. You can ask a question or two from it. Start a conversation, that's all a profile really needs, a little something to start talking. if more people were honest about themselves, then that conversation would be easier.
nobody tries starting a conversation off it really, i think a lot of guys aren't interested and anything more than NSA or have poor social skills. i do alright looking for guys on there though. because that site forces you not to have cock pics you can see what guys look like and then message them.
You can't start a conversation with girls, either their profile has nothing or they just don't want to talk to you. It's very difficult. I stopped caring a while back, it's been liberating and I've had more attention since changing my profile to a rant about how much I hate online dating. Go figure
haha, i laughed at that rant profile bit for some reason. could be why?
i also whinge about online meeting on my profile here and get loads more messages now, i think people can relate to it.
I tried to make it funny, it is just a rant, where I probably insult about 90% of the members but the point of it is that it's me, if they don't see the humour, we wouldn't match, if they do, then that could work.
I do think it might echo some people feelings of online dating.
Just had to have a laugh at your profile, there's a world weary tone to it."
yeah. that's good if it gets you people that 'get you'. i can chat to anyone but don't actually click with many people or have conversations where i feel like i do, despite being able to chill out with just about anybody. downfall of being a weirdo really and 'unique'.
and yeah i am a bit weary of looking for guys online. used to find it easy until i had masses of guys offering themselves up to me, now it's much harder for some reason.  |
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"yeah. that's good if it gets you people that 'get you'. i can chat to anyone but don't actually click with many people or have conversations where i feel like i do, despite being able to chill out with just about anybody. downfall of being a weirdo really and 'unique'.
and yeah i am a bit weary of looking for guys online. used to find it easy until i had masses of guys offering themselves up to me, now it's much harder for some reason. "
I get that, I can talk to most people but it's rare to find someone that I connect with. Definite downfall of being a weirdo.
To much choice? Plus, where's the fun if it's offered up to you easily? |
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"yeah. that's good if it gets you people that 'get you'. i can chat to anyone but don't actually click with many people or have conversations where i feel like i do, despite being able to chill out with just about anybody. downfall of being a weirdo really and 'unique'.
and yeah i am a bit weary of looking for guys online. used to find it easy until i had masses of guys offering themselves up to me, now it's much harder for some reason.
I get that, I can talk to most people but it's rare to find someone that I connect with. Definite downfall of being a weirdo.
To much choice? Plus, where's the fun if it's offered up to you easily?"
i like easy tbh, too much choice is confusing. you start comparing too much and being too fussy maybe and not spending (enough) time on one person who might be right for you.
hope you find someone awesome on POF anyway. i'm not hopeful myself but am willing to be patient. |
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"yeah. that's good if it gets you people that 'get you'. i can chat to anyone but don't actually click with many people or have conversations where i feel like i do, despite being able to chill out with just about anybody. downfall of being a weirdo really and 'unique'.
and yeah i am a bit weary of looking for guys online. used to find it easy until i had masses of guys offering themselves up to me, now it's much harder for some reason.
I get that, I can talk to most people but it's rare to find someone that I connect with. Definite downfall of being a weirdo.
To much choice? Plus, where's the fun if it's offered up to you easily?
i like easy tbh, too much choice is confusing. you start comparing too much and being too fussy maybe and not spending (enough) time on one person who might be right for you.
hope you find someone awesome on POF anyway. i'm not hopeful myself but am willing to be patient."
Thank you.
My hopes aren't high of finding someone but you never know. X |
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"yeah. that's good if it gets you people that 'get you'. i can chat to anyone but don't actually click with many people or have conversations where i feel like i do, despite being able to chill out with just about anybody. downfall of being a weirdo really and 'unique'.
and yeah i am a bit weary of looking for guys online. used to find it easy until i had masses of guys offering themselves up to me, now it's much harder for some reason.
I get that, I can talk to most people but it's rare to find someone that I connect with. Definite downfall of being a weirdo.
To much choice? Plus, where's the fun if it's offered up to you easily?
i like easy tbh, too much choice is confusing. you start comparing too much and being too fussy maybe and not spending (enough) time on one person who might be right for you.
hope you find someone awesome on POF anyway. i'm not hopeful myself but am willing to be patient.
Thank you.
My hopes aren't high of finding someone but you never know. X"
you're welcome. all this thinking has made me really tired now. |
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Aye it's a funny old game the online dating malarkey.I've had more messages n lasses wanting to meet me on pof since I deleted what I thought was an honest n well written profile blurb with two sentences......I'm not completely crazy,only at about 70% so far.Let's chat n you can find out for yourself.
I'm embracing my craziness now.....n so are they!lol  |
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