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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not looking for that "someone"

I'm not into monogamous relationships any more

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As my grandmother used to say there is a lid for every pot..... unless ur a milk pan.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not looking for that "someone"

I'm not into monogamous relationships any more

Haha so funny

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"As my grandmother used to say there is a lid for every pot..... unless ur a milk pan. "

Think I'm a milk pan then

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm not looking for that "someone"

I'm not into monogamous relationships any more

Ok is there someone who doesn't mind my flange meeting another sausage and his sausage can meet another flange

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"As my grandmother used to say there is a lid for every pot..... unless ur a milk pan.

Think I'm a milk pan then

I'm a catering milk pan

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

Yes, but what are you willing to compromise on or sacrifice, out of a thousand people chances are you will get along with at least 1 or 2 people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think so, just don't know where in the world he is and with my luck he's already someone else's.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I hope so

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I think so, just don't know where in the world he is and with my luck he's already someone else's. "

You will find it I just think you need to chill out on your expectations of him....I wanted something that didn't exsist and had to just be open to it all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there's more than one person. And it can change over a lifetime - it's partly down to life experiences and timing ! Oh and luck.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe so. My own experience and that of friends (many of whom were convinced they'd never find Mr or Mrs right) suggests that sooner or later cupids arrow strikes everyone.

Not all relationships last but that arrow tends to hit everyone at least once in their lives

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By *om and JennieCouple over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I thought I'd found mine. Obviously not!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

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By *llie RoseWoman over a year ago

By the seaside

If there is mine must live on the other side of the world.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman over a year ago

Portsmouth

Mines just lost, and being a man, won't ask for directions

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

I really believe that to be true!

Finding that person is a different ball game altogether tho

But it's something I'm a firm believer in x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As my grandmother used to say there is a lid for every pot..... unless ur a milk pan. "

Really tickled me

hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe there is a certain period of your life when you can meet the right person, whether it is for life as some, a few decades or even a few years. That person is right for them at that point.

I'm lucky, I've been in love a couple of times, and whilst it may not have worked out between use, I have my family from it, and I will always love them because of what they gave me.

Whether i find that again, I live in hope

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By *-ManMan over a year ago

Kark

3 years ago I would of said yes

2 years ago I would of said no

1 year ago I didn't know

Now I don't care cause if it's going to happen, it will happen when it's ready, I'm just going to enjoy myself in the meantime!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not looking for that "someone"

I'm not into monogamous relationships any more

Ok is there someone who doesn't mind my flange meeting another sausage and his sausage can meet another flange

Certainly a concept that would appeal to me and many others. Pretty milk pan.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon"

You will be ok

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm not looking for that "someone"

I'm not into monogamous relationships any more

Ok is there someone who doesn't mind my flange meeting another sausage and his sausage can meet another flange

Certainly a concept that would appeal to me and many others. Pretty milk pan. "

Thanks

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

I really believe that to be true!

Finding that person is a different ball game altogether tho

But it's something I'm a firm believer in x"

Well I'm not sure if he is out there but it's been fun looking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon

You will be ok

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By *outhfulPowerMan over a year ago

Hemel

I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"3 years ago I would of said yes

2 years ago I would of said no

1 year ago I didn't know

Now I don't care cause if it's going to happen, it will happen when it's ready, I'm just going to enjoy myself in the meantime! "

Good for you lovely

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you make enough compromises.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon

You will be ok

You seem a "normal" guy with a great arse and a good personality you will meet your saucer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon

You will be ok

You seem a "normal" guy with a great arse and a good personality you will meet your saucer

Not looking. Happily single (well okay definitely the 2nd part; working on the 1st part

)

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, probably many people. Just sometimes we sabotage it happening and miss the chance.

Most people meet someone in their neighbourhood/social group/at work etc. so either they are all very good at accepting what's in front of them or there are people around us all the time and some of them will be right for us if we just open our eyes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think there's more than one person. And it can change over a lifetime - it's partly down to life experiences and timing ! Oh and luck.

Sarah

This

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By *egasus NobMan over a year ago

Wandsworth

"I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??"

I don't know about having to find them but yes, I am sure there are many - there are so many people in the world it's simply logical.

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes."

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"My granny used to say "for every saucer there is a teacup"

Think I might be a mug...

Nice arse though

Seriously, where do I go with that?

Lost for words (for once) Devon

You will be ok

You seem a "normal" guy with a great arse and a good personality you will meet your saucer

Not looking. Happily single (well okay definitely the 2nd part; working on the 1st part

I'm sure it will saucer out ok

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By *outhfulPowerMan over a year ago

Hemel

Logic always wins

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

I don't do such things

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

I don't do such things

But if they were aliens they might have wiped your memory of it happening

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

I don't do such things

But if they were aliens they might have wiped your memory of it happening

I think I wiped their memory it's called jäger

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I believe there is a certain period of your life when you can meet the right person, whether it is for life as some, a few decades or even a few years. That person is right for them at that point.

I'm lucky, I've been in love a couple of times, and whilst it may not have worked out between use, I have my family from it, and I will always love them because of what they gave me.

Whether i find that again, I live in hope

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By *arksMan over a year ago

in the centre

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

I don't do such things

But if they were aliens they might have wiped your memory of it happening

I think I wiped their memory it's called jäger

Evil stuff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??

I don't know about having to find them but yes, I am sure there are many - there are so many people in the world it's simply logical.

Aren't there more men than women in the world? Surely that means some of us will get left behind

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

I hope so. Otherwise I'm gonna die old and lonely with nothing but my alsatians and Celine Dion...

Or is that Bridget Jones?

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Not on here, all the cups and saucers are chipped and cracked and the pots and pans dented. In the real world. ...yes.

Shit is fab not real life

so all the people I've been meeting are aliens

Did it involve probing ??

I don't do such things

But if they were aliens they might have wiped your memory of it happening

I think I wiped their memory it's called jäger

Evil stuff

No shit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've just watched that too. No I don't think there is someone for everyone at all and I just see that comment as a romantics idea

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I hope so. Otherwise I'm gonna die old and lonely with nothing but my alsatians and Celine Dion...

Or is that Bridget Jones? "

You have me

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I've just watched that too. No I don't think there is someone for everyone at all and I just see that comment as a romantics idea"

I'll just put my romance novel down then

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By *educedWoman over a year ago

Birmingham

"I hope so. Otherwise I'm gonna die old and lonely with nothing but my alsatians and Celine Dion...

Or is that Bridget Jones?

You have me

You're all I need.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm a miserable fucker n more than happy on my own I just need to find my self a panda

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??

I don't know about having to find them but yes, I am sure there are many - there are so many people in the world it's simply logical.

Aren't there more men than women in the world? Surely that means some of us will get left behind"

Nah, there's more grumpy old men that want to be alone than women lol!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have grown to find Fred so attractive .. is he my lid ?? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think there necessarily is. I believe it's just we feel like there's only one person but there are many people out there you just have to go out and find them ??

I don't know about having to find them but yes, I am sure there are many - there are so many people in the world it's simply logical.

Aren't there more men than women in the world? Surely that means some of us will get left behind

Nah, there's more grumpy old men that want to be alone than women lol!

"
Ok, makes sense

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Everyone has a happy ever after . Some people are lucky enough to find it , some people aren't .

Some people spend their lives regret losing it after spending so long looking for it x

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By *artytwoCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We have always believed that there is someone for everyone.

It's just that sometimes we can quite believe that the people who wink/message/friend invite us are so deluded to think we would be interested in them as we clearly state our preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

You have your chicken hanging out your bra, what more do you want lol.

Inbox me tho it maybe me ha

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By *ty31Man over a year ago

NW London

No.

But having said that, Donald Trumps ex wife was a supermodel and Eva Braun was a bit of a looker so maybe there's hope for everyone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

No there is not someone for everyone.

It's one of those roses round the cottage door platitudes. A bit like .... well he wasn't good enough for you... there's tons more fish....... yada yada yada.

It's shite talking as the Bee Gees say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

"
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Yes! xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Everyone has a happy ever after . Some people are lucky enough to find it , some people aren't .

Some people spend their lives regret losing it after spending so long looking for it x"

Your second line undermines your first premise. As does your second.....

Let me rephrase for you ......

Not everyone has a happy ever after.

There. Glad to help xx

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By *andy_tomMan over a year ago

wolverhampton

Mr right is out there, but theres more mister wrongs than mister rights, .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Yes! xx"

No there isn't.

Statistically there are 1,000,000 more females in the UK than there are males. So ..... very many of you better join a harem. And there can be someone out there for every two of you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Yes! xx

No there isn't.

Statistically there are 1,000,000 more females in the UK than there are males. So ..... very many of you better join a harem. And there can be someone out there for every two of you."

Are they the over 80's though ? It'll be Harem bingo !

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Yes! xx

No there isn't.

Statistically there are 1,000,000 more females in the UK than there are males. So ..... very many of you better join a harem. And there can be someone out there for every two of you."

Maybe they aren't British then.

Statistically there are more men in the world.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Yes! xx

No there isn't.

Statistically there are 1,000,000 more females in the UK than there are males. So ..... very many of you better join a harem. And there can be someone out there for every two of you.

Maybe they aren't British then.

Statistically there are more men in the world.

Do your eyes hurt when they keep rolling like that?

If there are more men in the world then there isn't someone for everyone. Monogamy assumed n all that.

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By *odareyouMan over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

I don't know with any certainty, it won't stop me lookingand hoping though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As my grandmother used to say there is a lid for every pot..... unless ur a milk pan. "

Think I must be the milk pan then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Yes! xx

No there isn't.

Statistically there are 1,000,000 more females in the UK than there are males. So ..... very many of you better join a harem. And there can be someone out there for every two of you.

Maybe they aren't British then.

Statistically there are more men in the world.

Do your eyes hurt when they keep rolling like that?

If there are more men in the world then there isn't someone for everyone. Monogamy assumed n all that. "

Monogamy

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Personally I think that there are loads of compatible people for everyone.... they just need to find them. If there was just one "someone" for each, we'd be looking for ever.

Cal

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Fred who ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

Fred who ?"

The dishy Maitre D - not Flintstone...

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By *ettyboop61Woman over a year ago

St Neots

Been looking for years....will never find him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think there is proberbly over 100,000 perfect partners for each person just depends whether you meet them or not .

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By *isscheekychops OP Woman over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Been looking for years....will never find him

Maybe that's where you are going wrong.....maybe just enjoy life and keep your eyes open but don't look

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seem to meet fewer and fewer people these days that I'd like to spend more than a few hours with!

Even good friends and family.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely is and more than one.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"Definitely is and more than one. "

Well then they are not someone special.. like ..... THE one and only .. are they?

Monogamy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm not questioning on my behalf but Fred always says it on first dates....soooo is there?

The lovely Fred will do for me thank you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely is and more than one.

Well then they are not someone special.. like ..... THE one and only .. are they?

Monogamy."

I meant someone special in a lifetime there's more than one, did not mean at same time!

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