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My 'off' switch is as fully functional as my 'on' switch, and I can never really tell what it will be that will flip either - however long the list I make there'll always be something else to add.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My 'off' switch is as fully functional as my 'on' switch, and I can never really tell what it will be that will flip either - however long the list I make there'll always be something else to add. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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guys i find unattractive looking.
boring guys who only talk about sex or meeting.
too old looking or too young looking.
topping from the bottom.
saying they read/complimenting my profile when they haven't read it.
saying they want what i want when they don't.
liars.
being attached/invested in someone else.
manipulative behaviours.
selfish.
having a small dick.
wanting my kinks without even knowing me.
neglectful.
unable to form intimacy.
probably more stuff, i am fairly fussy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex shots on their profile
Stupid sayings like work hard play hard and partner in crime
Telling me I'll love their tongue and fingers
Being married or attached
Arrogance and having an ego
Copy and paste messages
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"guys i find unattractive looking.
boring guys who only talk about sex or meeting.
too old looking or too young looking.
topping from the bottom.
saying they read/complimenting my profile when they haven't read it.
saying they want what i want when they don't.
liars.
being attached/invested in someone else.
manipulative behaviours.
selfish.
having a small dick.
wanting my kinks without even knowing me.
neglectful.
unable to form intimacy.
probably more stuff, i am fairly fussy.
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It always amuses me when "fussy" is used to describe desires such as not being lied to, not wanting to meet attached people, not wanting to be or feel manipulated, not being interested in people who tell you what you want to hear etc.
Fussy is wanting a guy who is 6' 2", mixed race, with a body fat of exactly 9%, who drives a blue coupé and works as a journalist.
Wanting someone honest, decent and into the same things you are is not fussy.
Fussy is one of the words that has a different definition on fab than it does elsewhere. |
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Pushiness. First and foremost. If a man is pushy online, no way I'd trust him in person. Big turn off.
Other than that, disrespect and crude talk when I've asked him not to be (I'm not a prude, I just prefer not to hear certain things stated directly). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Crudeness ,lack of manners, assuming that I can meet immediately !
Messages like "I've got an empty house for the next hour ( notes drive time is 30 minutes) fancy a fuck ? "  
"I'm attached - partner doesn't know that I'm playing away -naughty me .....fancy a shag ?"
Jack the Ripper jokes ...WTF ???
Profiles that state that person in question is 'fabulous' self confessed 'attractive' this Screams out "I'm so fabulous ,attractive & amazing that I may not notice that you've entered the room ..... It's all about me me me ! A big pass on that one for me ,confidence is attractive ,arrogance is a major turn off! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"guys i find unattractive looking.
boring guys who only talk about sex or meeting.
too old looking or too young looking.
topping from the bottom.
saying they read/complimenting my profile when they haven't read it.
saying they want what i want when they don't.
liars.
being attached/invested in someone else.
manipulative behaviours.
selfish.
having a small dick.
wanting my kinks without even knowing me.
neglectful.
unable to form intimacy.
probably more stuff, i am fairly fussy.
It always amuses me when "fussy" is used to describe desires such as not being lied to, not wanting to meet attached people, not wanting to be or feel manipulated, not being interested in people who tell you what you want to hear etc.
Fussy is wanting a guy who is 6' 2", mixed race, with a body fat of exactly 9%, who drives a blue coupé and works as a journalist.
Wanting someone honest, decent and into the same things you are is not fussy.
Fussy is one of the words that has a different definition on fab than it does elsewhere."
yeah i don't usually feel that fussy if i'm honest but it felt like i typed out loads there and the more i typed the fussier i felt. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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and yet we will continue to receive all these messages still. and then continue to listen to those men complain that they get nowhere on here lol
thank you ladies for confirming I'm not just 'up my own arse' as many have said.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"guys i find unattractive looking.
boring guys who only talk about sex or meeting.
too old looking or too young looking.
topping from the bottom.
saying they read/complimenting my profile when they haven't read it.
saying they want what i want when they don't.
liars.
being attached/invested in someone else.
manipulative behaviours.
selfish.
having a small dick.
wanting my kinks without even knowing me.
neglectful.
unable to form intimacy.
probably more stuff, i am fairly fussy.
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Most of these !
Not forgetting the fatal " can I ask you a question " & cut & paste messages that are a pet hate of mine!! |
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Men who say they want to try new things, well I don't. 
Arrogant or too serious, acting immature. Long fingernails, too scruffy.
Men who aren't polite and well mannered.
Men who mention looks a lot, theirs or anyone elses.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
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don't find them attractive
too pushy
Tell you what they think you want to hear,easily sussed
too crude pictures and attitude
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
don't find them attractive
too pushy
Tell you what they think you want to hear,easily sussed
too crude pictures and attitude
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
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No OP. You are not picky. In fact I think you've held back on quite a few things!
I have quite a list. (takes breath)
Here goes...
More pictures of conquests than the person on the profile
Cock shots on profile
Textspeak... Misinterpretations can arise from this... English please.... I too have problems with autocorrect doing weird stuff messing up spelling. I accept that people may write as they speak, and it can change written grammar somewhat. I can deal with that. Just don't give me bloody Textspeak. Please.
One liner messages like 'hi', 'how ya doing', 'fancy a shag',
One liner profiles
Profiles that say 'fill in later'... Just shows they are too lazy to describe themselves
Profiles that say ' ask me for more info'... Please see above
Pictures of messy rooms, toilet bowls, asses being splayed apart with hands/fingers.... No no no
Pictures of unkempt growth of body hair. As one fabber put it 'take your sausage to a barber'.
Pictures older than 6 months. Instant reason to say no. Am I supposed to make a decision from pics which are years old? A lot can happen to your body (and your face).
Friend requests when I have NEVER communicated with you previously. A wink is one thing, but a request?? Errr... No.
No veris.
Blokes claiming that the missus have given permission... Really?
Expectations that fab is really instashag. No I'm not going to meet up with you on the next 10 minutes. Nor today either. Not next week...
Now....
Breathe..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Someone who thinks incessant unoriginal one-liners makes him "funny"
Pushiness
Crudity
Obesity
Lack of effort in pics
More than one cock pic
Public pics of him fucking other people
Cheating
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
don't find them attractive
too pushy
Tell you what they think you want to hear,easily sussed
too crude pictures and attitude
"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
No OP. You are not picky. In fact I think you've held back on quite a few things!
I have quite a list. (takes breath)
Here goes...
More pictures of conquests than the person on the profile
Cock shots on profile
Textspeak... Misinterpretations can arise from this... English please.... I too have problems with autocorrect doing weird stuff messing up spelling. I accept that people may write as they speak, and it can change written grammar somewhat. I can deal with that. Just don't give me bloody Textspeak. Please.
One liner messages like 'hi', 'how ya doing', 'fancy a shag',
One liner profiles
Profiles that say 'fill in later'... Just shows they are too lazy to describe themselves
Profiles that say ' ask me for more info'... Please see above
Pictures of messy rooms, toilet bowls, asses being splayed apart with hands/fingers.... No no no
Pictures of unkempt growth of body hair. As one fabber put it 'take your sausage to a barber'.
Pictures older than 6 months. Instant reason to say no. Am I supposed to make a decision from pics which are years old? A lot can happen to your body (and your face).
Friend requests when I have NEVER communicated with you previously. A wink is one thing, but a request?? Errr... No.
No veris.
Blokes claiming that the missus have given permission... Really?
Expectations that fab is really instashag. No I'm not going to meet up with you on the next 10 minutes. Nor today either. Not next week...
Now....
Breathe..... "
oh believe me all and I mean ALL of them are on my list too .. I just wanted to give a few examples ... long hair is also on mine too .. on men of course  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want everyone to agree that the 'cum' cock shot is vile."
100% agree ... and what on earth is it with photos of men Cumming in a condom and thinking that's appealing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is it distasteful pics ?
one liners ?
too many veris? not enough veris?
accent?
just curious because I'm starting to feel like I'm way too picky
No OP. You are not picky. In fact I think you've held back on quite a few things!
I have quite a list. (takes breath)
Here goes...
More pictures of conquests than the person on the profile
Cock shots on profile
Textspeak... Misinterpretations can arise from this... English please.... I too have problems with autocorrect doing weird stuff messing up spelling. I accept that people may write as they speak, and it can change written grammar somewhat. I can deal with that. Just don't give me bloody Textspeak. Please.
One liner messages like 'hi', 'how ya doing', 'fancy a shag',
One liner profiles
Profiles that say 'fill in later'... Just shows they are too lazy to describe themselves
Profiles that say ' ask me for more info'... Please see above
Pictures of messy rooms, toilet bowls, asses being splayed apart with hands/fingers.... No no no
Pictures of unkempt growth of body hair. As one fabber put it 'take your sausage to a barber'.
Pictures older than 6 months. Instant reason to say no. Am I supposed to make a decision from pics which are years old? A lot can happen to your body (and your face).
Friend requests when I have NEVER communicated with you previously. A wink is one thing, but a request?? Errr... No.
No veris.
Blokes claiming that the missus have given permission... Really?
Expectations that fab is really instashag. No I'm not going to meet up with you on the next 10 minutes. Nor today either. Not next week...
Now....
Breathe..... "
Oh yeah, so it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Got any apples?"
I gave those up ages ago. It got embarrassing when no one wanted them, even with a bj included. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?"
Can i join you? I need both...I've been sat in standstill traffic desperately needing a wee...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is some Women love some of the things described, You wont please everyone,
It is all just about preferences,
Just like some Men don't like open leg pics, Cum filled pussy pics or Women pouting or sticking their tongue out in pictures |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Got any apples?
I gave those up ages ago. It got embarrassing when no one wanted them, even with a bj included. "
Dammit. I've decided I prefer apples to cake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Can i join you? I need both...I've been sat in standstill traffic desperately needing a wee......"
Of course. Although I'm not sure beer or whisky would help your situation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Can i join you? I need both...I've been sat in standstill traffic desperately needing a wee......
Of course. Although I'm not sure beer or whisky would help your situation. "
It's ok, she's wee'd now.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Can i join you? I need both...I've been sat in standstill traffic desperately needing a wee......
Of course. Although I'm not sure beer or whisky would help your situation. "
I'm home and had a wee now...although i did start searching through the car for something i could wee in if it came to it....wondering if a waitrose carrier bag would contain it without leakage...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming he fits what I'm looking for physically the things that would put me off are verifications from people that look a bit ropey, seeing pictures of previous conquests. Minor things are spelling and grammatical errors. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this another "moan about people" thread?
Welcome to the forums. Beer or whisky?
Can i join you? I need both...I've been sat in standstill traffic desperately needing a wee......
Of course. Although I'm not sure beer or whisky would help your situation.
I'm home and had a wee now...although i did start searching through the car for something i could wee in if it came to it....wondering if a waitrose carrier bag would contain it without leakage... "
Empty coffee cups are your friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most women are not into gym guys, they think we spend most of our time there lol.
And do you?"
Yes I do, it is my 2nd home, well just going 3 to 4 times a week you know. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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"Literally anything for me and it can be so trivial. I'm fickle"
This is me - I can have the same message two days running but one will get the no thank you and the other will get the okay let's talk depending on my mood for the day.....I do genuinely feel sorry for some of the people who message me and get a blast of hormones in response |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Literally anything for me and it can be so trivial. I'm fickle
This is me - I can have the same message two days running but one will get the no thank you and the other will get the okay let's talk depending on my mood for the day.....I do genuinely feel sorry for some of the people who message me and get a blast of hormones in response "
I have sometimes thought it's all very much mood based with women too .. that is so me |
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