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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know its a supply and demand thing but there seem to be allot of ladies on here with a very high opinion of themselves. Manners are free |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just block people who are rude. even report them if they're offensive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know its a supply and demand thing but there seem to be allot of ladies on here with a very high opinion of themselves. Manners are free"
I am rude in real life too .... made it okay so far though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a very high opinion of myself....I'm the dogs.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just the ladies:
I'm a complete twat. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Yes, indeed, manners are free, but we all have a different perspective on things and what you perceive to be bad manners may not be bad manners at all.
In what way do you believe women are not demonstrating manners to you OP? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a shame really..we all here for the same thing and no one is better than anyone else, I'm my opinion anyway..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Self esteem and confidence is a good thing. Unnecessary rudeness isn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kepp your heels your head and your standards high. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
*looks self up and down*
Yep, still awesome. Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? It's by far preferable (to me, at least) than when I have a low opinion of myself.
How could anyone in their right mind not have a high opinion of me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kepp your heels your head and your standards high."
Oh god, I'm in trouble here  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Meh. I have a high opinion of myself. I follow the RuPaul directive in that respect, plus I happen to know I bloody rock. I'm also well mannered (unless the situation warrants bad behaviour). The two things aren't mutually exclusive. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Self esteem and confidence is a good thing. Unnecessary rudeness isn't."
As we know, however, the definition of "rudeness" is flexible on here. It covers everything from extreme verbal insults to not fucking someone when they ask. |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I rock but gently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are full of their own self importance too...
Good for a giggle tho lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know its a supply and demand thing but there seem to be allot of ladies on here with a very high opinion of themselves. Manners are free"
This is the nature of the internet unfortunately.
Typing out what you want to say can be a mine field. I find that if someone lacks manners or humility on here its a major turn off...instant block.
This forum is fantastic for ing out the people that we would and wouldn't want to meet... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hilarious really how some act. Get a grip. If I get knocked back I respond with that's fine you won't hear from me again. This seems to flick the switch |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Hilarious really how some act. Get a grip. If I get knocked back I respond with that's fine you won't hear from me again. This seems to flick the switch"
That sounds unlikely, if that's all you say. But still, if it's a problem, don't reply to no thanks messages. There's no need. They've said no, they don't want to hear from you again. They won't care if you say thanks or not. They might prefer you don't.
Or block them. It will mean you won't accidentally contact them again and it will take them out of your search results. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Only being polite |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only being polite"
That is polite.. A friendly no worries or I won't contact you again is good manners. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Only being polite"
See, I think it's no more polite than accepting a no thank you and ending contact there. I don't see why thanking someone for turning them down is polite.
Having said that, I can't see why anyone would go off on one just because you say ok, I won't contact you again, let alone a lot of women, as you seem to be saying happens to you.
I've never heard any other guys complain about this. I've heard a lot of complaints, from men, women and couples, but this is a new one.
It sounds a bit odd. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
If you take "no thanks" to mean thank you, I'm not interested, it could actually be seen as bad manners to contact them again.
They don't want contact from you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Good manners cost nothing ...
Lost on some people though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a high opinion of myself. I know I'm getting on a bit and I'm fat and not very fit. I also know that men like sex and they like the way I do it,which is why I'm here. I have a choice of quite a lot of men,being that most are here for sex too and don't mind that I'm old and fat. Between us we've had some good to great sex. Ain't life grand |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
What is good manners is often down to perspective. There isn't a manual for what is "good manners" on here.
Sending a message on someone who has clearly shown they are not interested in continuing contact could be seen as rude.
Some people are so determined their way is right, that they'll insist on doing it, even if that's not what the other party wants. That doesn't seem like politeness to me.
I'd say politeness is not bothering someone who has said they are not interested in you any further. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I don't have a high opinion of myself. I know I'm getting on a bit and I'm fat and not very fit. I also know that men like sex and they like the way I do it,which is why I'm here. I have a choice of quite a lot of men,being that most are here for sex too and don't mind that I'm old and fat. Between us we've had some good to great sex. Ain't life grand "
If you send a no thanks message to a guy, do you think it rude if he doesn't respond with a "thanks for replying message"? Would you prefer he did send one, or that he didn't?
I know it's hardly a big deal, it's just another click of the delete button, but I'm curious how others see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is nothing I'll manned in sending someone a friendly.."no worries " or "thanks anyway"...
Shows you were brought up right and your a friendly human being.
Again lost on some people.... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't see how my reply could be viewed as bad manners. I always speak and treat people the way I would like them to to treat or speak to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't see how my reply could be viewed as bad manners. I always speak and treat people the way I would like them to to treat or speak to me"
To people with manners your reply is fine... To those that struggle acting with manners it would be seen as odd...
I wouldn't worry... We find the block button a fantastic function when reading some comments con here lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I do use the block button. Just funny how people react |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Debating with some people on here is like playing chess with a pigeon.
No matter how you play their still gonna shit on the board and strut round like they won lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do use the block button. Just funny how people react"
Leave them to it mate... |
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"I rock but gently "
Like Neil Diamond? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
What is lost on some people is that some people might, for some reason, not want another message.
I'd say good manners is seeing situations from the other person's/people's perspective and doing what they are happiest or most comfortable with. Not refusing to consider what anyone else might want and insisting your way is right.
Like I said, what is "good manners" isn't clearly defined on here and what different people consider "polite" can vary a great deal.
Debrett's, I'm pretty sure, doesn't cover NSA sex and swinging websites. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Don't see how my reply could be viewed as bad manners. I always speak and treat people the way I would like them to to treat or speak to me"
They've said no thanks though. That is effectively, "I don't want to exchange messages with you".
Why message someone who has said they don't want to exchange messages with you? How can that be polite? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just delete all unsuitable people, simple. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I do use the block button. Just funny how people react"
I find it odd. I've never heard another guy say this is a common problem after sending a thanks for the reply message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Oh dear.
What I think is polite is polite because I say so, and never mind if it's what someone actually wants...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Eh, ok then. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I didn't say it was a common problem just it had happened to me a few times. I must agree to disagree with some of the posts and respect the opinions. I will continue to be polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Manners cost nothing.. Is an individual was that bothered about getting a "thanks for your time any way" type message (to which they would be being way to hyper sensitive). Then they could always just block the person..
Frankly I don't think people would mind a friendly message saying thanks anyway lol....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol"
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm totally up my own arse. If you so much as glimpse my profile and you're not exactly what I'm looking for that second, then you're blocked  ))))) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there."
You think the guy would be thinks that just because he messages you a friendly " no worries... Won't message again"??
If you were that keen to stop all contact ...why not just block after you read the message?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm totally up my own arse. If you so much as glimpse my profile and you're not exactly what I'm looking for that second, then you're blocked )))))"
Lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there."
Yes, basically, you told me you're not interested but look, I'm going to do what I want anyway. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there.
You think the guy would be thinks that just because he messages you a friendly " no worries... Won't message again"??
If you were that keen to stop all contact ...why not just block after you read the message??"
Why not just accept that someone isn't interested and leave them alone without forcing them to block.
(Oh, you know guys also complain, a lot, bitterly, about being blocked, right? It's "rude" apparently) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe I should refrain from being polite and nice to people and turn into a proper twat?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What a negative way to look at life...
Lol sad... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there.
You think the guy would be thinks that just because he messages you a friendly " no worries... Won't message again"??
If you were that keen to stop all contact ...why not just block after you read the message??"
Because then they're forcing me to be mean when I don't want to be. If I was polite enough to send a no thanks response if they then respond to that I have to delete their message which will make them think I'm rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I should refrain from being polite and nice to people and turn into a proper twat?? "
There isn't anything wrong with what you do ...its sad that people find a problem where there isn't one.
Says more about them than you mate... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Maybe I should refrain from being polite and nice to people and turn into a proper twat?? "
Or see it from other perspectives and realise your idea of polite might not be the same as everyone else's. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there.
You think the guy would be thinks that just because he messages you a friendly " no worries... Won't message again"??
If you were that keen to stop all contact ...why not just block after you read the message??
Because then they're forcing me to be mean when I don't want to be. If I was polite enough to send a no thanks response if they then respond to that I have to delete their message which will make them think I'm rude."
But is that really gonna mess up your day... The vague chance a stranger might think your being rude?
If a guy is rude to you after you said no thanks then you would have every right to think " he's rude"...but to get the hump cus he said " no worries I'll not message..." Seems like a real waste of energy.. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Messaging people who don't want to hear from you sounds like more of a waste of energy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment."
Agreed... Boggles the mind how some people think if they type enough their opinion matters more lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I should refrain from being polite and nice to people and turn into a proper twat??
There isn't anything wrong with what you do ...its sad that people find a problem where there isn't one.
Says more about them than you mate..."
It's the op thats finding the problem, he's moaning about people kicking off or being rude or whatever after he messages them again despite being told no thanks. What would his ideal response be then to him saying no worries you won't hear from me again? Does he want them to say ok thanks, and then him say no worries again. The only thing people can do to that is block or delete the message which then brings him here moaning and starting threads about how people don't appreciate follow up rejection messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Messaging people who don't want to hear from you sounds like more of a waste of energy."
If people are that bothered ...then they should just block the sender...
Problem sorted...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have already posted that I respect others opinions as they should respect mine. We are all different with varying outlooks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I should refrain from being polite and nice to people and turn into a proper twat??
There isn't anything wrong with what you do ...its sad that people find a problem where there isn't one.
Says more about them than you mate...
It's the op thats finding the problem, he's moaning about people kicking off or being rude or whatever after he messages them again despite being told no thanks. What would his ideal response be then to him saying no worries you won't hear from me again? Does he want them to say ok thanks, and then him say no worries again. The only thing people can do to that is block or delete the message which then brings him here moaning and starting threads about how people don't appreciate follow up rejection messages."
Think the op is baffled by the hyper sensitive nature if some people...
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment.
Agreed... Boggles the mind how some people think if they type enough their opinion matters more lol"
Some people really cannot cope with being wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment.
Agreed... Boggles the mind how some people think if they type enough their opinion matters more lol
Some people really cannot cope with being wrong."
Agreed...
Some people are like the tab off a milk bottle or lint from a dryer...
Meaningless |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Have already posted that I respect others opinions as they should respect mine. We are all different with varying outlooks."
They respected you enough to reply, (another common complaint, women not replying), so why not respect their wish for no further communication by leaving them alone?
Look at it this way...
If women find they get unwanted follow up messages after replying with no thanks, they may stop replying.
Would you prefer a reply, or no reply (and possibly being blocked)?
Personally, I don't care if guys send a thanks for replying message. I just delete it. It used to annoy me but I had to learn to accept it to stay sane here. I don't want those messages though and they do annoy some women. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment.
Agreed... Boggles the mind how some people think if they type enough their opinion matters more lol
Some people really cannot cope with being wrong.
Agreed...
Some people are like the tab off a milk bottle or lint from a dryer...
Meaningless "
Oh no, everyone is good for something. Some people may not be the brightest but can provide endless amusement. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or just block the person that's offending you with their rude "no worries" reply...
Astonishing the levels of self importance on here lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's quite funny when people are so entrenched in their beliefs that they can't see any other perspective or any other possibilities, even when the evidence is clearly laid out.
"But I think this, so this is right, even though I can't find anything to support it and the evidence disagrees with me"
Gotta love fab!
Endless entertainment.
Agreed... Boggles the mind how some people think if they type enough their opinion matters more lol
Some people really cannot cope with being wrong.
Agreed...
Some people are like the tab off a milk bottle or lint from a dryer...
Meaningless
Oh no, everyone is good for something. Some people may not be the brightest but can provide endless amusement."
Have to disagree ... Some people are literally good for nothing lol... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners "
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm not bothered in the slightest if people block me. Just don't get the abuse from me doing what I perceive to be polite. Now I have been educated but will still never understand the female mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If ladies on Fab don't want anything to do with a person that's messaged them.Then why not use the block feature. Every ones a winner baby. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? "
You forgot sexy  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Love it! The person so full of self-importance they think their idea of manners and politeness is the correct one and the only one, accusing others of self-importance for daring to disagree!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a little patience
Take that - patience https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=273eSvOwpKk |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy "
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Have a little patience
Take that - patience https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=273eSvOwpKk"
Ah Shag sometimes you really make me laugh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself? "
Lol ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself."
Well no one else seems to, so may as well be me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a little patience
Take that - patience https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=273eSvOwpKk
Ah Shag sometimes you really make me laugh! "
Thanks its fun and also its a good tune as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself."
You forgot humble too....ohhh wait...
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I'm not bothered in the slightest if people block me. Just don't get the abuse from me doing what I perceive to be polite. Now I have been educated but will still never understand the female mind"
We're all different
Some women don't want thanks for replying messages, some don't care.
Some women do get a lot of messages every day though. A 'thanks for replying' from everyone they turn down could be quite a few messages to have to go through and delete. Add that to the 'but why?' messages, the 'please give me a chance' messages, the 'well you're a fat, ugly bitch and I didn't want to meet you anyway' messages...
Some guys are very bothered if they get blocked. I don't understand that, myself. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself.
You forgot humble too....ohhh wait...
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God, you really can't handle you were wrong.
The thread closed. Get over it. It's done!
Unreal... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself.
Well no one else seems to, so may as well be me "
Then they're idiots x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"If ladies on Fab don't want anything to do with a person that's messaged them.Then why not use the block feature. Every ones a winner baby."
Except the guys posting on here complaining about being blocked. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself.
You forgot humble too....ohhh wait...
God, you really can't handle you were wrong.
The thread closed. Get over it. It's done!
Unreal..."
Wtf...
lol who cares about a silly thread...
Hahaha did it get to you that much someone actually disagreeing with you..."cus I study law" lol..
This is a completely different topic which you seem to have hijacked cus your bored maybe??
Very sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If ladies on Fab don't want anything to do with a person that's messaged them.Then why not use the block feature. Every ones a winner baby.
Except the guys posting on here complaining about being blocked."
The op never complained about being blocked...!! Omg lol |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself.
You forgot humble too....ohhh wait...
God, you really can't handle you were wrong.
The thread closed. Get over it. It's done!
Unreal...
Wtf...
lol who cares about a silly thread...
Hahaha did it get to you that much someone actually disagreeing with you..."cus I study law" lol..
This is a completely different topic which you seem to have hijacked cus your bored maybe??
Very sad"
I see you didn't manage to find out what I'm studying then, despite being told. Why am I not surprised?
You are trying to bait me. It was entertaining but it's going to be boring for the other users of the forum. So, enough. The thread is closed. We both had our say, people can judge for themselves.
I'm going to be ignoring you. Any further digs at me will be reported. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for all the opinion's I am very sorry but I have decided after considering everything and everyone's viewpoint. I will continue to be polite and well mannered and will not be a twat if that's ok |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe I earned my right to have a high opinion of myself doesn't mean I have no manners
Damned right.
I'm intelligent, well-educated, tenacious, brilliant, witty, imaginative and generally awesome.
Why wouldn't I have a high opinion of myself?
You forgot sexy
Oh yes, that too
Thank you x
I agree you should also have a high opinion of yourself.
You forgot humble too....ohhh wait...
God, you really can't handle you were wrong.
The thread closed. Get over it. It's done!
Unreal...
Wtf...
lol who cares about a silly thread...
Hahaha did it get to you that much someone actually disagreeing with you..."cus I study law" lol..
This is a completely different topic which you seem to have hijacked cus your bored maybe??
Very sad
I see you didn't manage to find out what I'm studying then, despite being told. Why am I not surprised?
You are trying to bait me. It was entertaining but it's going to be boring for the other users of the forum. So, enough. The thread is closed. We both had our say, people can judge for themselves.
I'm going to be ignoring you. Any further digs at me will be reported."
Please don't threaten us with the "reported" line we could do exactly the same. Your a rude arrogant woman. Good luck with that attitude you will go far I'm sure.
We blocked you 24 hours ago. We have no wish to interact with you at all...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all the opinion's I am very sorry but I have decided after considering everything and everyone's viewpoint. I will continue to be polite and well mannered and will not be a twat if that's ok"
Good for you mate... Don't let small minded negative people change you!
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Thanks for all the opinion's I am very sorry but I have decided after considering everything and everyone's viewpoint. I will continue to be polite and well mannered and will not be a twat if that's ok"
Absolutely, you do what you want and sod whether it's welcome or not.
To me, that last message is effectively giving that person the finger. It's saying yeah, I know you aren't interested but I am going to message you again anyway. It smacks of a control or dominance thing. It's like having to have the last word.
That, to me, seems more like rude behaviour than leaving someone who wants to be left alone without further, unnecessary, communication and not filling up their mailbox with unwanted junk, possibly blocking access to older messages they do want to get to.
But you do as you want, just don't be surprised when women don't reply, because they've found they get fewer follow up messages. Or when they just block you.
It is only possible to see the most recent 75 messages in the mailbox, so it only takes 75 new messages before every previous message is inaccessible without having to go through and delete the newer ones. Some women receive many, many more than 75 messages every day. They don't want extra, unwanted ones to deal with too.
Imposing that on someone because it suits you does not sound very polite to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Polite people will always use manners...
Rude people see manners as chore...
Always be humble and polite...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You are entitled to your opinion and I respect that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are entitled to your opinion and I respect that "
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"Manners cost nothing.. Is an individual was that bothered about getting a "thanks for your time any way" type message (to which they would be being way to hyper sensitive). Then they could always just block the person..
Frankly I don't think people would mind a friendly message saying thanks anyway lol....
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Actually I would. As it inevitably leads to follow up messages. Why would you continue contacting someone who has said no?
I've seen messages on here from men moaning they'd been blocked after receiving a "no thanks" message as they were unable to reply!
I don't block after sending a "no thanks" message but I do if they contact me again. (Other options of dealing with unwanted messages are available).
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"Manners...politeness... Generally being nice... To some people its natural... Others have to over think and question the reasons were people do such simple things...
Fantastic lol
If some bloke messaged me and his dick was too small or he wasn't want I find physically attractive if I tell him no thanks thats me saying I don't want to hear off you again. If he messaged me again to say alright then you won't hear off me again, to me that's like him saying ner ner I'm messaging you again anyway just to pull your pisser.
I'd say the polite people are the ones that just gracefully accept your response and leave it there.
You think the guy would be thinks that just because he messages you a friendly " no worries... Won't message again"??
If you were that keen to stop all contact ...why not just block after you read the message??"
Yeah...and that leads to threads from them bemoaning the fact they were blocked from sending a "thanks for the no thanks" message by rude up their own arse people! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Don't look at myself as rude or up my own arse and certainly not bothered by people who block me. Some of the response's just reinforce my initial status. This is my opinion and not fact. |
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I was nice to someone once... I said no thank you... That resulted in a 'why'? 
9 messages later from them (and me ignoring them) I had to block.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course I have a high opinion of myself...if I don't rate me, who the hell else is going to? |
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You should see some of the messages we receive. Copy and paste/Can I fuck your misses/Do you take it up the assis. Honestly it's no surprise really! |
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Another message has just arrived in my inbox...from somebody I have said 'no thank you' to at least 4 times before..
So, I wonder... Do I be polite to this thing that can't take no for a answer...or do I just go for the delete button... Or completely kill it with 'Block'...
Op, what do you think I should do??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can't speak for others but I have never and I mean never sent another message after my response. By the way on the occasion's I had the problem's the initial contact was made by the lady and it was after we had chatted a wile. |
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"Thanks for all the opinion's I am very sorry but I have decided after considering everything and everyone's viewpoint. I will continue to be polite and well mannered and will not be a twat if that's ok
Good for you mate... Don't let small minded negative people change you!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another message has just arrived in my inbox...from somebody I have said 'no thank you' to at least 4 times before..
So, I wonder... Do I be polite to this thing that can't take no for a answer...or do I just go for the delete button... Or completely kill it with 'Block'...
Op, what do you think I should do???"
I still get a shit load of messages even though I'm not actively looking, this is on my profile too.
I can see in the opening lines of some they've asked why I haven't replied, well in theory I've already told you that I'm not going to reply...
There's no right or wrong answer, I only block people who are rude to me, if they want to keep messaging they just get bulk deleted like the rest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a message yesterday. I replied with our standard 'thanks but you're not what we're looking for.' I got a reply telling me I still could have given him a try. I mean, what is there really to say to someone who thinks that way?
OP, I understand what you're saying, and there are women on here who think very highly of themselves. But there are also men who feel entitled to sex and couples who have a superiority disorder. Just don't let anything from strangers bug you and you'll be happier.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Message filters and block buttons work really well...
If the tools are their to help your experience on Fab be more pleasant and you don't use them...then its your problem |
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"Debating with some people on here is like playing chess with a pigeon.
No matter how you play their still gonna shit on the board and strut round like they won lol"
Oh that is just fabulous, I need to make a note of that analogy lol!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Funny how it's the men insisting it's polite to send follow-up messages even though a lot of the women are saying they don't want them.
Not one woman has said they see it as polite for a guy to send a follow-up message. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
To a lot of people on here, not doing what others want, or feel entitled to is "rude" and "arrogant". Their way is the only way. When they say people should be polite or nice, they mean people should do what they want. It's ironic they accuse others of arrogance and a high opinion of themselves when they are so arrogant themselves they believe they are always right and their way is the correct way.
*shrug* |
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"I know its a supply and demand thing but there seem to be allot of ladies on here with a very high opinion of themselves. Manners are free"
it has got nothing to do with supply and demand, its just people being people surely? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure why guys want a woman to say no thanks. If she deletes your message then it's obvious she's not interested. I think it's kinda humiliating for a woman to confirm that. I'd rather have my message deleted and that be that |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Not sure why guys want a woman to say no thanks. If she deletes your message then it's obvious she's not interested. I think it's kinda humiliating for a woman to confirm that. I'd rather have my message deleted and that be that"
I don't understand why some people are so hung up on getting a reply.
I've come to the conclusion that some feel that no reply suggests they weren't 'worth' replying to, like someone who looks through you when you speak to them and walks away. They think confirmation that someone isn't interested is at least acknowledgement of their existence.
I can sort of see why people want to be acknowledged, even if it's in a no thanks message. I don't really understand why some get so hurt and offended when a total stranger doesn't acknowledge them. It seems a bit over-sensitive, like their self-esteem depends on strangers actively recognising they exist.
Some guys also worry if they don't get a reply that their message got accidentally missed or overlooked for some reason.
I find it a bit odd. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I honestly thought this thread had run its course but it seems not. All I said was I couldn't understand why the abuse. Ok now I can see by peoples posts that it annoys some and that's fair enough. I have never moaned complained or thought I was totally in the right. I accept peoples point of view. I also think they should accept mine. Everyone's perception of the world and the people that are in it are different that is what make it such an interesting place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly thought this thread had run its course but it seems not. All I said was I couldn't understand why the abuse. Ok now I can see by peoples posts that it annoys some and that's fair enough. I have never moaned complained or thought I was totally in the right. I accept peoples point of view. I also think they should accept mine. Everyone's perception of the world and the people that are in it are different that is what make it such an interesting place"
Mate you will never win with some of the cranks on here...forums are some of the only interaction they get lol.
Your doing nothing wrong so leave the moaning people too it.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I honestly thought this thread had run its course but it seems not. All I said was I couldn't understand why the abuse. Ok now I can see by peoples posts that it annoys some and that's fair enough. I have never moaned complained or thought I was totally in the right. I accept peoples point of view. I also think they should accept mine. Everyone's perception of the world and the people that are in it are different that is what make it such an interesting place
Mate you will never win with some of the cranks on here...forums are some of the only interaction they get lol.
Your doing nothing wrong so leave the moaning people too it.
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This died 3 days ago. You are keeping it going now. Give it a rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol ....pot...kettle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Debating with some people on here is like playing chess with a pigeon.
No matter how you play their still gonna shit on the board and strut round like they won lol"
pretty sure I know who you mean always sticking their trotters in, and they drone on and on and on |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Droning on and on like resurrecting old threads to have snide little pops at people?
Just because their ickle feelings and egos got hurt when someone disagreed with them days before on a totally different thread?
Using childish little insults like "trotters". Just trying to be insulting and start trouble.
Bless. There are some really fragile little egos on here.
Now grow up. Both of you. |
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Seems like a sensible place to leave it now. |
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