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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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For all the men on here moaning about not getting meets, reply's lack of verifications etc, my advice is get out there to clubs socialise talk to single ladies and couples. Do some networking and make connections the longer you leave it the worse your chances are. |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things. |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"He's absolutely right though that's what single guys need to do make an effort to  "
He is, and as often as not the single guythreads have that advice in a post socials clubs etc..
the guys who do make the effort don't complain because they're having the fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
I don't often go clubs.
I don't look like brad Pitt.
I'm happy here.
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
Most guys in clubs don't look like Brad Pitt, and a good many women aren't necessarily into that sort of look anyway ... it's not all about looks |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
I don't often go clubs.
I don't look like brad Pitt.
I'm happy here.
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yeah this doesn't apply to you then only for the men constantly moaning and whinging. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
There are lots of people who meet privately, we're one (well 2) of them. Met lots of lovely men and couples without the need or clubs or socials.
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
There are lots of people who meet privately, we're one (well 2) of them. Met lots of lovely men and couples without the need or clubs or socials.
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yeah I know there is, but this site can be very superficial for some, just think trying the club scene could help the chances of getting private meets etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People don't always get what they want in life.
Complaining about it won't change that fact.
The people who tend to do well in here and in life in general are the ones who aren't the complainers.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it thursday already? lol.
no men moaning has been changed, this one is advice which is normally monday ..connie x "
That is right. Different days for different things lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
I don't often go clubs.
I don't look like brad Pitt.
I'm happy here.
yeah this doesn't apply to you then only for the men constantly moaning and whinging."
Oh...ok then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
I don't often go clubs.
I don't look like brad Pitt.
I'm happy here.
yeah this doesn't apply to you then only for the men constantly moaning and whinging.
Oh...ok then "
You look lovely. |
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"For all the men on here moaning about not getting meets, reply's lack of verifications etc, my advice is get out there to clubs socialise talk to single ladies and couples. Do some networking and make connections the longer you leave it the worse your chances are."
My advice is to not give advice to those moaning or seeking advice, competitions tough enough as it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
I don't often go clubs.
I don't look like brad Pitt.
I'm happy here.
yeah this doesn't apply to you then only for the men constantly moaning and whinging.
Oh...ok then
You look lovely."
I've been practicing  |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Has anyone thought that those who complain have lack of money or confidence or feel a bit self-conscious?"
I think some of them are deluded and believe there is some kind of magic answer to be found in the forums or a lady will see there whinging and take pity and want to meet them but I think it only repels the women on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best advice is to be handsome and have a huge penis!"
Ah, i always thought the rules of any online dating/sexing
1. Be attractive.
2. Don't be unattractive |
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem"
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
Just Brad Pitt?
or what about;
Lou Diamond Phillips
Emilio Estevez
Charlie Sheen
Casey Siemaszko
Anthony Kiedis (point break roll)
Keanu Reeves
Vincent Klyn
Kevin Bacon, ,
Sean Penn,
Kiefer Sutherland,
Tom Cruise,
C. Thomas Howell,
Matt Dillon,
Patrick Swayze,
or
if you want someone super cool
Sam Elliot
just to name a few
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
There are a lot of men on here who don't look like Brad Pitt who do ok. |
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"Tip: Don't just rely on one site, use few
shag people in everyday life, have this in addition to that"
That's the most important ;
If you join here for nonstop clunge, then you are going to be disappointed;
Get your fucking from al the " normal" sources; this just provides the ( very) occasional extra.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone thought that those who complain have lack of money or confidence or feel a bit self-conscious? I think some of them are deluded and believe there is some kind of magic answer to be found in the forums or a lady will see there whinging and take pity and want to meet them but I think it only repels the women on here."
Is asking for advice whinging? |
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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago
Batley... (near Leeds) |
"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home."
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!! |
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!"
The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
If you're as lovely and "decent" as you think you are you should shine like a beacon amongst all the dross. |
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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago
Batley... (near Leeds) |
"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!
The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
If you're as lovely and "decent" as you think you are you should shine like a beacon amongst all the dross."
Nah I don't think of myself like that at all but you are clearly "gods gift to all womankind". |
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!
The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
If you're as lovely and "decent" as you think you are you should shine like a beacon amongst all the dross.
Nah I don't think of myself like that at all but you are clearly "gods gift to all womankind"."
I'm sorry, are you now saying you don't consider yourself to be genuine and decent?
As for me thinking I'm "God's gift to all womankind", I most certainly do not. There's plenty that will reject me due to my height, skin pigmentation, being a smoker, not pandering to their fragile egos, and maybe a quite a few more things. But you know what? I don't whine about it and blame others, I meet the ones who have excellent taste and judgement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For all the men on here moaning about not getting meets, reply's lack of verifications etc, my advice is get out there to clubs socialise talk to single ladies and couples. Do some networking and make connections the longer you leave it the worse your chances are."
Good marketing hint  |
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By *arlock69Man
over a year ago
Batley... (near Leeds) |
"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!
The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
If you're as lovely and "decent" as you think you are you should shine like a beacon amongst all the dross.
Nah I don't think of myself like that at all but you are clearly "gods gift to all womankind".
I'm sorry, are you now saying you don't consider yourself to be genuine and decent?
As for me thinking I'm "God's gift to all womankind", I most certainly do not. There's plenty that will reject me due to my height, skin pigmentation, being a smoker, not pandering to their fragile egos, and maybe a quite a few more things. But you know what? I don't whine about it and blame others, I meet the ones who have excellent taste and judgement"
Considering I can't even get a reply to the messages I send it doesn't matter if I consider myself as decent or I consider myself as a complete bastard or even if I consider myself as a lemon cheesecake...You might not whinge about it but you certainly have a go at those who do genuinely just want to vent their spleen on an open forum. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course."
How about the weird men that already have a girlfriend /wife? What do they do to get more meets? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course."
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?"
Go "outside" and meet "people". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How about the weird men that already have a girlfriend /wife? What do they do to get more meets? "
God only knows! Why on earth would they want more?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
You're so beautiful Clem."
Beautiful? Maybe. A prick? Definitely.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things."
Stud muffin |
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people"."
You sound like George Michael now.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
You sound like George Michael now. "
Had a dream about him and Andrew last night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people"."
I don't like people you speak of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
I don't like people you speak of"
Hmmm I'm going to have to refer you to my primary statement |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin "
you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification "
They don't help though do they. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
You sound like George Michael now. "
...he's often found meeting on Hampstead Heath |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they."
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men... |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people"."
Don't want to.
Then again, I also don't want a girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they."
There were 2 women who put threads up on a site used by 1000's of men. Getting a social verification doesn't guarantee sex;I've seen men who have loads of social verifications,all saying what nice men they are,but nobody wants to fuck them. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men..."
I'm going to. Just to buck the trend.
I just need a name.
Buck perhaps. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not everyone verifies or displays. he doesn't have the green tick but is photo verified"
So what? He seems a nice guy. He's not personally attacking someone on a forum.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin "
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men...
I'm going to. Just to buck the trend.
I just need a name.
Buck perhaps."
Daveiant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! "
Your nose is growing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
I don't like people you speak of
Hmmm I'm going to have to refer you to my primary statement "
Stop being weird?
I don't know how. And it is not by going outside. I tried that, there were people. I didn't like it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
I don't like people you speak of
Hmmm I'm going to have to refer you to my primary statement
Stop being weird?
I don't know how. And it is not by going outside. I tried that, there were people. I didn't like it."
I know what you mean! There's some nutters out there! Stay in! Bar the door! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would advise single men to stop being weird and get a girlfriend! But that's just my opinion of course.
How does one stop being weird?
Also, How does one get a girlfriend?
Go "outside" and meet "people".
I don't like people you speak of
Hmmm I'm going to have to refer you to my primary statement
Stop being weird?
I don't know how. And it is not by going outside. I tried that, there were people. I didn't like it.
I know what you mean! There's some nutters out there! Stay in! Bar the door! "
That's advice I can get on board with |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! "
making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones |
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"People don't always get what they want in life.
Complaining about it won't change that fact.
The people who tend to do well in here and in life in general are the ones who aren't the complainers.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men...
I'm going to. Just to buck the trend.
I just need a name.
Buck perhaps.
Daveiant."
That actually made me laugh.
I'm going to have to now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's absolutely right though that's what single guys need to do make an effort to "
And that's often the advice given...along with sorting out their profile/pics etc....but do they listen?
Meanwhile the rest of us just get on with it and have fun! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Who are we picking on for not having a green tick?
The guy not being an ass."
You have a tick.
Am I going to have to read back through the entire thread and check everyone to work it out?
Sod that.
I'm going with Cheeky's suggestion and getting the vodka.
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones "
Owned? Haha I don't think so I could get verified when ever I wish and I only meet top quality women like the last one I met
Not everyone has profiles for the same reason, believe it or not some guys on here are not too bothered about meets unless it's something different to there day to day life (like my profile reads) I mainly use the site for the forums.
Verifications are hardly a reflection of someone's sex life.
Anyway you obviously got a bit upset about a bit of banter! Haha
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
Owned? Haha I don't think so I could get verified when ever I wish and I only meet top quality women like the last one I met
Not everyone has profiles for the same reason, believe it or not some guys on here are not too bothered about meets unless it's something different to there day to day life (like my profile reads) I mainly use the site for the forums.
Verifications are hardly a reflection of someone's sex life.
Anyway you obviously got a bit upset about a bit of banter! Haha
Chill Winston!"
I'm not upset far from it actually just think it's laughable that you were trying to take the piss out of me so I give it back. Seems pointless to me to be a gold member and just use the site for the forums though. |
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Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure. |
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem"
Is that why they (the fakers) then resort to creating a fake single woman profile? |
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure."
yeah everyone has there own preferences but the majority of people on here only want to meet verified people.
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
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Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
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"Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure. yeah everyone has there own preferences but the majority of people on here only want to meet verified people."
If people need verifications to know if someone is real or not then their intuition isn't working very well. Even a verification isn't 100% proof that someone will turn up. Your own process of elimination and probing will tell you who is genuine or not.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
Owned? Haha I don't think so I could get verified when ever I wish and I only meet top quality women like the last one I met
Not everyone has profiles for the same reason, believe it or not some guys on here are not too bothered about meets unless it's something different to there day to day life (like my profile reads) I mainly use the site for the forums.
Verifications are hardly a reflection of someone's sex life.
Anyway you obviously got a bit upset about a bit of banter! Haha
Chill Winston! I'm not upset far from it actually just think it's laughable that you were trying to take the piss out of me so I give it back. Seems pointless to me to be a gold member and just use the site for the forums though."
You know how he uses the site how exactly? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
Owned? Haha I don't think so I could get verified when ever I wish and I only meet top quality women like the last one I met
Not everyone has profiles for the same reason, believe it or not some guys on here are not too bothered about meets unless it's something different to there day to day life (like my profile reads) I mainly use the site for the forums.
Verifications are hardly a reflection of someone's sex life.
Anyway you obviously got a bit upset about a bit of banter! Haha
Chill Winston! I'm not upset far from it actually just think it's laughable that you were trying to take the piss out of me so I give it back. Seems pointless to me to be a gold member and just use the site for the forums though."
A gold member - Its peanuts and why not support the site? The forums are the main reason I'm here But I will meet if I get talking to someone a bit special, I wont just meet anyone.
There's plenty of places to get sex outside fabs - fabs is just a tiny part of wear I meet women. You're right though maybe I should just meet a few and up my verifications so I appear more successful! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure. yeah everyone has there own preferences but the majority of people on here only want to meet verified people.
If people need verifications to know if someone is real or not then their intuition isn't working very well. Even a verification isn't 100% proof that someone will turn up. Your own process of elimination and probing will tell you who is genuine or not.
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Remind you of a certain snake charmer recently? |
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"Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure. yeah everyone has there own preferences but the majority of people on here only want to meet verified people.
If people need verifications to know if someone is real or not then their intuition isn't working very well. Even a verification isn't 100% proof that someone will turn up. Your own process of elimination and probing will tell you who is genuine or not.
Remind you of a certain snake charmer recently? "
Oh him, made me buy a fully loaded box meal the bugger! Can't be too harsh he's probably still grieving! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And I'm not saying I get loads of messages or meets etc most of my verifications are from clubs I'm lucky if I get a few messages a month but leaving re_iews and getting yourself out there can help and lead to good things.
Stud muffin you taking the piss? If you are you've been on here for 8 months an no verifications shows you most certainly aren't a stud muffin
Yeah you got me! I'm an ugly monster that has no sex life and my life revolves around fabs! I'm actually a Virgin! making a joke again, you got owned fella people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
Owned? Haha I don't think so I could get verified when ever I wish and I only meet top quality women like the last one I met
Not everyone has profiles for the same reason, believe it or not some guys on here are not too bothered about meets unless it's something different to there day to day life (like my profile reads) I mainly use the site for the forums.
Verifications are hardly a reflection of someone's sex life.
Anyway you obviously got a bit upset about a bit of banter! Haha
Chill Winston! I'm not upset far from it actually just think it's laughable that you were trying to take the piss out of me so I give it back. Seems pointless to me to be a gold member and just use the site for the forums though.
A gold member - Its peanuts and why not support the site? The forums are the main reason I'm here But I will meet if I get talking to someone a bit special, I wont just meet anyone.
There's plenty of places to get sex outside fabs - fabs is just a tiny part of wear I meet women. You're right though maybe I should just meet a few and up my verifications so I appear more successful! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The best advice is to be handsome and have a huge penis!"
Well apart from the handsome bit and the huge penis bit, I'm all of those things! Woohoo, bring on the pussy!  |
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men..."
Surely it helps to know that someone turns up when they say they will, looks like their pictures and isn't unable to hold a conversation? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Verifications do more harm than good. I don't like seeing guys verifications because chances are who they've met previously will put me off wanting to meet them. I search this place for unverified guys who I like to think of as pure. yeah everyone has there own preferences but the majority of people on here only want to meet verified people.
If people need verifications to know if someone is real or not then their intuition isn't working very well. Even a verification isn't 100% proof that someone will turn up. Your own process of elimination and probing will tell you who is genuine or not.
Remind you of a certain snake charmer recently?
Oh him, made me buy a fully loaded box meal the bugger! Can't be too harsh he's probably still grieving!"
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men...
Surely it helps to know that someone turns up when they say they will, looks like their pictures and isn't unable to hold a conversation?"
Coffee is coffee. Sex, well that's a whole new ball game. Who the fuck wants to meet the "I'm a good boy, i went for a coffee with a woman" guy. I want to meet the guy who went for a coffee and by the time he left he had half a dozen phone numbers and 2 of the waitresses were pregnant. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i wish to make a complaint. about this Norwegian blue parrot i was sold....
There's nothing wrong with that parrot...."
I'll tell you what's wrong with it. It's dead that's what's wrong with it... |
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"What if they don't like the club scene?
Then there are some forumites who offer coffee social meets so that they can get that initial verification
They don't help though do they.
Ill tell you why. When we meet as a couple we want to know that someone will turn up FOR SEX not for coffee. 2 completely different things. Also i know it's a man, men don't need a veri to say "he's a man". No women pretend to be men...
Surely it helps to know that someone turns up when they say they will, looks like their pictures and isn't unable to hold a conversation?
Coffee is coffee. Sex, well that's a whole new ball game. Who the fuck wants to meet the "I'm a good boy, i went for a coffee with a woman" guy. I want to meet the guy who went for a coffee and by the time he left he had half a dozen phone numbers and 2 of the waitresses were pregnant. "
Well, that was a trip to Starbucks I'll never forget! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think men today don't have enough social support and so resort to the forums? They can't get help from their missus, when she doesn't know he's even a swinger. "
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!
The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
If you're as lovely and "decent" as you think you are you should shine like a beacon amongst all the dross.
Nah I don't think of myself like that at all but you are clearly "gods gift to all womankind".
I'm sorry, are you now saying you don't consider yourself to be genuine and decent?
As for me thinking I'm "God's gift to all womankind", I most certainly do not. There's plenty that will reject me due to my height, skin pigmentation, being a smoker, not pandering to their fragile egos, and maybe a quite a few more things. But you know what? I don't whine about it and blame others, I meet the ones who have excellent taste and judgement
Considering I can't even get a reply to the messages I send it doesn't matter if I consider myself as decent or I consider myself as a complete bastard or even if I consider myself as a lemon cheesecake...You might not whinge about it but you certainly have a go at those who do genuinely just want to vent their spleen on an open forum."
It's cool if you want to vent about your lack of success and blame it on everything but your own inadequacies. And I'm not having a go as such, I'm just trying to help you see the problem lies within. I'm helpful like that.. |
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
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I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time. |
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time."
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted "
I waste a fuck of a lot of my own time on here |
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted "
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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
Most guys in clubs don't look like Brad Pitt, and a good many women aren't necessarily into that sort of look anyway ... it's not all about looks"
Hahahahahahaha Hahahahahahaha
That's a cracker.
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted "
You also never whinge |
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted
You're my favorite waste of time.."
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted
You're my favorite waste of time..
I feel a song coming on "
Hanky starts strumming.....
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The women who whinge about time wasters need to look at their selection criteria.
Wow!! That moved the blame away from the single guy in one easy statement!
What do you advise couples who get tired of timewasters (if such a beast exists) then?
I'm not saying that time wasters do not exist, I'm saying that those that complain about them; single men, single women, couples, TVs/TGs (I think I've covered everyone) should look at their selection process if they think their time is consistently being wasted.
There's plenty on here who regularly have meets and never complain about wasted time.
Never had my time wasted
You also never whinge"
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha"
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"What if they don't like the club scene? well unless they look like Brad Pitt or something there pretty much fucked and not in the way they wanna be haha
Who says Brad Pitt is good looking "
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By *r.Blonde OP Man
over a year ago
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"Do you think men today don't have enough social support and so resort to the forums? They can't get help from their missus, when she doesn't know he's even a swinger.
Do you think the OP has a Mrs?"
no I don't not looking for 1 for a while |
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"Too many guys are either fake and/or time wasters which spoils it for the few genuine and decent guys...That's the problem
What, exactly, is a "fake" guy? A woman pretending to be a man?
And how does a time waster spoil it for you or the rest of the "decent" guys?
I've news for all you blokes that moan about others spoiling it for you . . . They don't!
Your lack of success is due to a myriad of reasons: women may not find you attractive; women may think you're boring; maybe a combination of the two plus a whole lot more.
Basically, stop whinging and look closer to home.
Yes fake profiles and time wasters do spoil it for decent guys...if not then alot of women lie about that on their profiles then!!"
Could someone, once and for all explain, for the love of God, how fakes and timewasters spoil it for the decent guys.
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