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I have shagged a few men in saunas, they approached me we had a bit fun, however once they had cum they where gone leaving me with a big hard erection.
No wonder women have issues with men, sex is mutual, not I'm done I'm off or rolling over, I always like to finish what I started and if that's eat pussy or suck cock til you cum then that's fine by me |
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"I have shagged a few men in saunas, they approached me we had a bit fun, however once they had cum they where gone leaving me with a big hard erection.
No wonder women have issues with men, sex is mutual, not I'm done I'm off or rolling over, I always like to finish what I started and if that's eat pussy or suck cock til you cum then that's fine by me"
Fuck 'em. |
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"I have shagged a few men in saunas, they approached me we had a bit fun, however once they had cum they where gone leaving me with a big hard erection.
No wonder women have issues with men, sex is mutual, not I'm done I'm off or rolling over, I always like to finish what I started and if that's eat pussy or suck cock til you cum then that's fine by me
Fuck 'em."
Think he did ????? |
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I've never been but I've always asumed gay sauna's would be about getting satisfaction rather than quality sex. If my assumption is right maybe it's where you are meeting men thst is the issue? |
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"I've never been but I've always asumed gay sauna's would be about getting satisfaction rather than quality sex. If my assumption is right maybe it's where you are meeting men thst is the issue?"
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"I've never been but I've always asumed gay sauna's would be about getting satisfaction rather than quality sex. If my assumption is right maybe it's where you are meeting men thst is the issue?"
Saunas and the smaller number of gay sex venues are the equivalent of swingers clubs. One could chat, share a drink and shag, filtering your partners to those who best match up. Or get stuck in and see how it ends up. The seeming gentlemen may be worse than eager hot rod guys who could be ideal unselfish partners.
Are the guys online, like fabguys any better?
Meet at home, lock the door and use handcuffs may work for some as an approach. |
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"I've never been but I've always asumed gay sauna's would be about getting satisfaction rather than quality sex. If my assumption is right maybe it's where you are meeting men thst is the issue?"
i was going to say that meeting guys in a gay sauna is hardly the place if your looking for mutual gratification get yourself on a one meet op
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All you men that are slating me, are you selfish shaggers?
You read the profiles of single women where men have stalked them and hounded them because they have been told no. Just move on.
Makes all us singles guys sound like weirdos.
I'm here to give and receive sexual pleasure.
Maybe I'm supporting the women and seeing it from their prospective. |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"All I can say is this whinge has got my a very nice meet with an absolutely stunning lady. Looking forward to enjoying some time with her in May  "
Hope she cums first |
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Love how dismissive some of you are being. No honestly 
When I started to play with blokes again after a 12 year hiatus, I'd forgot how selfish many can be.
Now, my house rule is I come first. I'm far more accommodating once my first one is out the way and care less if it's the only one |
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"All you men that are slating me, are you selfish shaggers?
You read the profiles of single women where men have stalked them and hounded them because they have been told no. Just move on.
Makes all us singles guys sound like weirdos.
I'm here to give and receive sexual pleasure.
Maybe I'm supporting the women and seeing it from their prospective."
the way i answered your post was because of your scenario. If you had posted "every time i have a private one to one meet with a guy" my answer would have been completly different. Ive never been to a gay sauna i dont have to ive spent my life hearing about what goes of there, there nototious for "straight" guys to just go wanting just their cocks sucked and to spunk, bit like going to an adult cinema and expecting guys to be there for more than there own sexual gratification
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I struggle to understand yr expectations from a gay/bi sauna...guys cum, guys go ,guys hang around.Without any negotiations taking place,surely it is the norm to cum yr cocoa and bugger off...
Why not move on to the next guy and cum yrself?
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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if I am horny, I go to a sauna. I have little interest in ensuring we both have fun, I play in a group and I do my thing and then I leave.
I pay my entry, I bang out my frustrations and I go home happy
and I couldn't care less if I ever see them again or if they cum |
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lol not gay, but ive seen this at saunas, i notice there have been guys getting a woman and randomly, asking can another guy or guys come in(less pressure),
the unspoken rule is generally if 1-1 let her come 1st, if in a group setting get yours and let another guy do his thing,
the funniest thing ive seen was me n 2 guys and a sexy girl at rios, the asian giving a lady a good seeing too,she tells him shes gonna cum, he proceeds to slow down and kisses her for honestly about 10 minutes, at one point she opens her eyes and is looking at me and the other guy like  (mid kiss)
but most go to saunas to cum and be pleasured, ive even been told to eat a lady, she came over my face a few times and sent me out with a boner, i felt violated lol but it was sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and very happy if he thinks I am a selfish wanker......
I've shot my load
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Exactly this .
It's common sense , and the op should simply see it for what it is .
There are plenty of scenarios like gangbangs , bukkake , greedy girl nights where it's all about the cum , and reciprocation isn't necessary .
Gay saunas come into this category too . A place where there is no judgement , no expectation and an opportunity to cum and go .
If you want to cum , then cum !
There are plenty of guys who love to please and those who love to be pleasured . Perhaps you are unsure where you sit , and your expectations are too high ? |
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"All you men that are slating me, are you selfish shaggers?
You read the profiles of single women where men have stalked them and hounded them because they have been told no. Just move on.
Makes all us singles guys sound like weirdos.
I'm here to give and receive sexual pleasure.
Maybe I'm supporting the women and seeing it from their prospective."
I didn't slate you (I can't see any slating you). I offered a theory, which others seem to agree with why this might be happening.
I fail to see how that makes me a selfish shagger. Or comparable to stalkers and weirdoes. Or incapable of showing empathy to women in a different scenario.
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