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Time to be honest
And this is me putting myself out there
But seen as it's anonymous why not
I'm lonely n I just wonder when someone will come around for me.
I get attention on here n in the 'real' world I get told all the classics your a stunner any man would be lucky to have you intelligent bubbly blah blah...
But at the end of the day I'm alone
Im not looking for sympathy or owt just need to put it out there so someone can hear me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure you are not alone........
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In feeling that way. But as I can't see your hidden profile I feel unable to respond further....other than there is someone there for us all...and your avatar looks very attractive! |
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I think these things take time. It's an immediate gratification in today's society but in reality we all know it takes time. Rare for anyone to click with someone else so quickly. Fabs is a great way to make sure you dont jumps on too deeply with the wrong person because it is what it is, Nsa. The right person will come along, but I personally wasn't ready to let someone into my life as a cure for any loneliness, I love my own company and need it .... only when I am not trying to fill a yawning gap, can I let someone come in, in that way I feel I have something to offer too. With all of that said, we met on here and the rest is history ... we knew from the moment we met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear you feel like that - I hope you can find someone to be there for you in the not too distant future.
I remember on Valentines Day messaging on the forum that I hoped those singles that were looking for a partner found someone in the year ahead. Caused a bit of consternation and some bizarre blocks by now UNLOS members of the forum who took offence as they were 'happily single' .. but not all singles are happy to be alone and I hope that those looking for someone to 'be there' for them can find an appropriate soul mate.
Good luck OP - I'm sure there is someone out there who is just perfect for you  |
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I'm 34 this year been single over 3 years
Every guy iv ever dated had either cheated on me or found out they were married...
Like I said I'm not looking for sympathy n I am a strong woman but that mask is sometime hard to wear all the time
I guess this is my therapy
Sorry if I'm being a bummer I really am but iv never told anyone any of this coz I'm the bunny happy girl and sometimes speaking to space is helpful |
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"It can be cathartic writing stuff and having people you don't know and won't ever meet acknowledge the situation at least. "
Yea thanks ... I know il regret it later
Il feel the fool
Leaving myself vulnerable n open
Thanx |
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"I guess I am happy but some days I just look around n think wow this is it...I'm happy in my own company but I just don't understand it sometimes why it is like this ...
Sorry"
You're not very old.....plenty of time. Use your time valuably and have experiences and do things. Don't worry too much about what you don't have - concentrate on enjoying what you do have. That's my personal philosophy anyway. |
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"It can be cathartic writing stuff and having people you don't know and won't ever meet acknowledge the situation at least.
Yea thanks ... I know il regret it later
Il feel the fool
Leaving myself vulnerable n open
Thanx"
As important this thread is to you, you know it will fall off the page and be replaced with a 'fuck smog avoid' thread. Why shouldn't you say stuff in 'public'? Loads of people do. The trick with dealing with the responses is that it's just patterns of pixels. |
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"Time to be honest
And this is me putting myself out there
But seen as it's anonymous why not
I'm lonely n I just wonder when someone will come around for me.
I get attention on here n in the 'real' world I get told all the classics your a Istunner any man would be lucky to have you intelligent bubbly blah blah...
But at the end of the day I'm alone
Im not looking for sympathy or owt just need to put it out there so someone can hear me.. if you want something you have to take a risk to get it xx          "
Not strictly true because when I purchased a loaf of bread from M&S today, it was risk free. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm just used to being on my own, I only ever want to be alone really. Not sure how that helps lol
There's a difference between being alone and being lonely."
Ok? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi OP, your post is so familiar to me. I've been on my own almost 6 years and have only had a handful of dates in that time, and every single one of them has turned out to be married / psycho / idiot.
I know exactly what you mean.
I keep telling myself I'd rather be on my own, and sometimes lonely, than be with the wrong person.
Hope you feel better soon xx |
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"Hi OP, your post is so familiar to me. I've been on my own almost 6 years and have only had a handful of dates in that time, and every single one of them has turned out to be married / psycho / idiot.
I know exactly what you mean.
I keep telling myself I'd rather be on my own, and sometimes lonely, than be with the wrong person.
Hope you feel better soon xx"
Thank you I am kool Bridget jones moment
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Have you tried volunteering locally to you to perhaps meet up with others who are maybe in the same life situation ? It is ok chatting on here or other social networks but not the same as socialising in person.
We all need someone in life just to be a friend . We hope you find a friend or friends soon. |
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