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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"
I agree... |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"
Maybe we should suggest that to admin  |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)"
it's dead that site. plus anyone who messages me never has any pics of themselves, just stupid pervert cartoons and shit like that on their page. or their dick.
i'm only still on it do i can get alerts to when munches or socials are on local to me. |
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over a year ago
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"Shinbari
ive heard of shibari but not shinbari "
....lets his dragonfly harness slip of his shoulders to the floor......
my bad, apologies for my spelling mistake, I will go sit in the corner..  |
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over a year ago
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Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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That is so horny.  |
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
That is so horny. "
Yes it does get the juices a-flowin'
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)
Maybe we should suggest that to admin "
Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)
Maybe we should suggest that to admin
Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's"
Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)
Maybe we should suggest that to admin
Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's"
Why should that matter to admin? |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)
Maybe we should suggest that to admin
Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's
Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear"
I just don't get some people. Nobody is forcing them read it. I'm really surprised of how closed minded some people are.
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I used to play with a girl from Cardiff is was good sport to scare the vanillas in the dungeon at the clink!
Things I love, restraint with orgasm control by electric play estim and violet wand.
Heavy impact play with a pain slut
I would love to find a girl game for some extreme enema play I would love to see her water baby grow with belly inflation  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
That is so horny.
Yes it does get the juices a-flowin'
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Oh crumbs  |
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over a year ago
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Have few I love more than others. Love: wax play (on males and females), flogging, blindfolding, biting - especially bums (love seeing my male sub wince when doing this), and a little bit of spanking now and again.  |
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A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back  |
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"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back "
Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).
And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr  |
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"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back "
Really sexy stuff
Mrs  |
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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That sounds awesome
I've not tried much but if someone flogs me just right I'm in a dream world for ages after  |
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"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back
Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).
And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr "
I've just heard over and over again the complaints about how poor the forums are in there, as far as I can see there are no forums just a post for lots if subjects from a 20 year old sub and 90000 guys under it saying "good girl" ffs  |
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Not sure of a favourite and still so much to try.
Restraint - bondage or collar & leash, clamping, blind folds - tie & tease,
candle/ice play, caning, whipping, paddling, flogging & spanking.
Lots more besides.
Sarah
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over a year ago
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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That sounds delicious, would love to indulge in wax play again, its been a while! I adore wearing a collar and lead they instantly make me feel super sexy yet incredibly submissive at the same time. |
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"CP, strap-on
We really should have a devoted BDSM forum what with all the kink being posted lately (and yes I am on that other Fet site but it doesn't have the interaction we have here)
Maybe we should suggest that to admin
Has been done before but seems there were protests from vanilla's
Why would anyone protest about a forum they don't have to read.... oh dear
I just don't get some people. Nobody is forcing them read it. I'm really surprised of how closed minded some people are.
Mrs "
The big problem is that the forums can be read by anyone ....
So the more extreme stuff doesn't put the site in a good light on the internet if people read about some of the weird shit ...
And that's the way it is |
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"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back
Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).
And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr
I've just heard over and over again the complaints about how poor the forums are in there, as far as I can see there are no forums just a post for lots if subjects from a 20 year old sub and 90000 guys under it saying "good girl" ffs "
Ha!!
Don't think a devoted Fab Kink page is required but maybe a BDSM room in chat or board on these forums would be nice? |
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"A bdsm forum, would bring people flocking to fab from the other site, and a whole fab fetish site like fab swingers or fab guys or fab flirts would pretty much destroy the other one in this country.
As for my kinks?
Don't be so lazy, go and have a look at my profile, I'll be here waiting when you get back
Really don't think it would. There are plenty of kink people I know who want nothing to do with swingers (mores the pity).
And Fab Guys has hardly killed of Grindr
I've just heard over and over again the complaints about how poor the forums are in there, as far as I can see there are no forums just a post for lots if subjects from a 20 year old sub and 90000 guys under it saying "good girl" ffs
Ha!!
Don't think a devoted Fab Kink page is required but maybe a BDSM room in chat or board on these forums would be nice?"
Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks  |
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Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks "
As in wooden not chicken ? Now I'm intrigued as to what you do, do with them.
Hairbands around nipples work well too.
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Yeah then I can tell all and sundry what I like to do with 8 elastic bands and a pair of drum sticks
As in wooden not chicken ? Now I'm intrigued as to what you do, do with them.
Hairbands around nipples work well too.
Sarah "
Wooden, and I don't do breast torture, I've not seen enough evidence that it can be dismissed from the list if things that cause breast cancer.
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
That sounds delicious, would love to indulge in wax play again, its been a while! I adore wearing a collar and lead they instantly make me feel super sexy yet incredibly submissive at the same time. "
I'm Glad you like it. I like the idea of you in collar and lead too!  |
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Hairbands around nipples work well too.
Sarah
Wooden, and I don't do breast torture, I've not seen enough evidence that it can be dismissed from the list if things that cause breast cancer.
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I think like with anything , you have to treat it with care. We always do.
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The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed. |
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"The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed. "
Yes IC was the place I made several friends and learned a lot about various kinks. It was a real shame when it closed. The fet site isn't a patch on IC but at least our friends migrated over to it so we can keep in touch |
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"The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed. "
Very much miss IC. Learnt a lot and met some wonderful people from there. What's replaced it just doesn't have the same community spirit  |
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"The sad thing was the main free kink site, that shall not be named. killed off what was the really wonderful and UK focused Informed Consent, I presume I can say it's name as its now defunct, without IC we wouldn't have half the fet seen we have in the UK it was a true community resource and is sadly missed by those of us who remember it from the start, it must have been closed 5 years now but is still missed. "
I (Mr) used to use IC, learned a great deal from it and made some good friends.
Really can't be bothered with the other one. So many dramas and fall-outs it makes these forums look like a Buddhist retreat  |
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"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name
Is that the twisted monk?
No, just a kinky butler "
I am sure he says that at the end of each one of his training videos, along with reminding us all to have our safety sheers in case things go wrong  |
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It is something that has only recently floated my boat to be honest. I love the look of a helpless woman all strussed up.
As long as they enjoy it all is good.
I wouldn't mind being tied up and dominated by a few ladies on here  |
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"Safe sane and consensual, remember it, and say it till you hear it like you hear your own name
Is that the twisted monk?
No, just a kinky butler
I am sure he says that at the end of each one of his training videos, along with reminding us all to have our safety sheers in case things go wrong "
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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Mr A take note x |
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
Mr A take note x"
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I do love a bit of hair pulling, the firm but gentle grip, controlling as you lean in to whisper directions or tease with promises of what's to come. Pulling her head back onto my shoulder, to kiss or bite her neck, maybe apply a little pressure to her throat with my spare hand, press her against the wall or bed so she can't move. Such a simple restraint, not overly kinky or taboo but easy to do it wrong- get it right with someone who loves it though and watch them melt with pleasure  |
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Love heavy impact play and single tails best.
Ps I love the other site people are talking about, it's great for making friends and finding events and if you join groups for your area, or about subjects your interested in I find it very useful for answering questions |
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Our tastes on bdsm can be seen on our pics. Breasts torture in all its various forms is Sara's fave. I love to give her a good whipping. We also use needles, scalpels , wax, and occasionally branding. |
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Spanking....riding crop....breast and nipple 'torture' lol .....riding crop.....riding crop....role playing mixed in.....and her in heels ....stockings....retro 6 strap suspender belt.....and some very red lipstick  |
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"I do love a bit of hair pulling, the firm but gentle grip, controlling as you lean in to whisper directions or tease with promises of what's to come. Pulling her head back onto my shoulder, to kiss or bite her neck, maybe apply a little pressure to her throat with my spare hand, press her against the wall or bed so she can't move. Such a simple restraint, not overly kinky or taboo but easy to do it wrong- get it right with someone who loves it though and watch them melt with pleasure "
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"Scarlett in stockings and killer heels on all fours, collared, leashed making her way up the stairs in front of me as I hold her lead, watching her sexy ass and pussy all the time.
Then blindfolding her, putting music through her ear buds and gagging her as I drip hot wax all over her sexy ass and body from all angles, watching her squirm from her senses being deprived as I change from the heat of the wax to the ultra cold of an ice cube touching her sensitive bits until she can't take it anymore and her legs and arms begin to buckle.
#ColdShowerRequired
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