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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you believe in an afterlife?
Or do you think once your dead your dead and that's it ?
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Haven't got a clue, but one things for certain, we're all gonna find out one day!!
Oh how we love these happy threads!! lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like to think there's a lot more than any of us can comprehend on our limited intelligence.
But basically all theories are just that....speculation. I'll revive this thread in about 50 years and let you know the answer  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a great discussion point, isn't it?
Are we dead, do we think we are dead, are we dead to one life, one dimension?
Are the ancient civilisations right in believing in the afterlife?
Is it a collective with energy?
I think we are allowed individual thought generally nowadays and we are forming what suits us at different stages of our maturity.
I would like to think my friends and family are with me .....guiding me....that sits comfortably with me.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your a long time dead, start enjoying life!!
I've been worried to death the last few weeks, got results of my MRI tonight and turns out I need a small op rather than anything major  happy you bet I am , thought I was a goner after reading goggle doctors
Wine o'clock - unlesh the beast |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"YOU'RE !!
Sorry I'm dyslectic, had no idea gramma police were's watching
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Don't apologie....that's great news and must have been a big worry...enjoy your wine  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"YOU'RE !!
Sorry I'm dyslectic, had no idea gramma police were's watching
Don't apologie....that's great news and must have been a big worry...enjoy your wine "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"YOU'RE !!
Sorry I'm dyslectic, had no idea gramma police were's watching
Don't apologie....that's great news and must have been a big worry...enjoy your wine "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When we're dead that's it. And if I'm wrong so be it. But assuming I'm right at least I won't have spent my life preparing for an afterlife that never happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We come from nothing, spend years roaming around to fulfill a life with pointless shit without having a break down and then die. Get buried or cremated and poof, we're gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if there is an afterlife why has nobody come back and told us about it?
I believe that although our physical bodies die, our souls (had to type that carefully!) move on to and into another body and so it goes on..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When we're dead that's it. And if I'm wrong so be it. But assuming I'm right at least I won't have spent my life preparing for an afterlife that never happens.
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Along similar lines, I've always wondered why mediums don't ever contact great, great, great, great family members. I'd be much more interested to hear what they had to say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having had a few experiences with the paranormal i believe something happens to us, what that something is im not sure but death definitely isnt the end of our extistence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having had a few experiences with the paranormal i believe something happens to us, what that something is im not sure but death definitely isnt the end of our extistence"
Wish I could share your optimism, but I think it is. |
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"Having had a few experiences with the paranormal i believe something happens to us, what that something is im not sure but death definitely isnt the end of our extistence"
See you in the next life sweetie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i believe like every other animal on the planet we are born to reproduce and die, the soul purpose of us is to keep our species going
once we are dead there is no need for us anymore..........the end |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i believe like every other animal on the planet we are born to reproduce and die, the soul purpose of us is to keep our species going
once we are dead there is no need for us anymore..........the end "
'soul purpose'
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"I hope there is because I killed a pheasant today and I hope he has gone somewhere nice  "
As much as I believe in the afterlife.. if the pheasant was hit by a car and I,d been nearby he would certainly have gone somewhere nice in my cooker for tommorow.. I,d have got a bottle of red for the occasion. |
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"Having had a few experiences with the paranormal i believe something happens to us, what that something is im not sure but death definitely isnt the end of our extistence"
just bought a book on the ghosts of derbyshire from waterstones looks a good read.
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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"Do you believe in an afterlife?
Or do you think once your dead your dead and that's it ?
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You would think some of so-called psychic conmen and conwomen would have come up with some hard evidence by now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say hand on heart, once your dead your dead, I would love to believe in heaven and everything is lovely and you meet all your love ones again but as I get older and I've seen so many deaths and seen so many bodies in body bags or under cloths, I just see them as something that once lived and is now dead, you were bought into this world by your parents, you were grew, you wasn't a gift from God (OK people that struggle to conceive I can see where that phrase might come from) you were bought into this world by two people having sex and then you live hopefully to a grand old age and then your body gives out and you just die.
It's like a flower, it didn't exist before you planted it, it grows with feeding and then it dies, that's how I look at life
G x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think we can be confident the God & heaven stuff isn't likely.
That doesn't mean there isn't stuff beyond our current comprehension and therefore beyond this life. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to say hand on heart, once your dead your dead, I would love to believe in heaven and everything is lovely and you meet all your love ones again but as I get older and I've seen so many deaths and seen so many bodies in body bags or under cloths, I just see them as something that once lived and is now dead, you were bought into this world by your parents, you were grew, you wasn't a gift from God (OK people that struggle to conceive I can see where that phrase might come from) you were bought into this world by two people having sex and then you live hopefully to a grand old age and then your body gives out and you just die.
It's like a flower, it didn't exist before you planted it, it grows with feeding and then it dies, that's how I look at life
G x "
The flower analogy was a good one but quite sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to say hand on heart, once your dead your dead, I would love to believe in heaven and everything is lovely and you meet all your love ones again but as I get older and I've seen so many deaths and seen so many bodies in body bags or under cloths, I just see them as something that once lived and is now dead, you were bought into this world by your parents, you were grew, you wasn't a gift from God (OK people that struggle to conceive I can see where that phrase might come from) you were bought into this world by two people having sex and then you live hopefully to a grand old age and then your body gives out and you just die.
It's like a flower, it didn't exist before you planted it, it grows with feeding and then it dies, that's how I look at life
G x
The flower analogy was a good one but quite sad "
Yeah it is. I have my way with words on the odd occasion lol |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I've spent today at a funeral and wake.
I know people here will (and have) ridicule me for this but I am a Christian and believe that there is something after this realm. Whether it's Gaia or God, energy or our souls or merely the legacy of the things we have done, the lives we have touched and the memories others hold of us I think we continue in some way.
I like to think that the friend who has died has joined the other two of our group who went before. The remainingr seven of us will join them and the ten of us will meet up, sing, dance and holiday together again in time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope there is because I killed a pheasant today and I hope he has gone somewhere nice "
Did the car behind stop and collect the "roadkill" gift you left? |
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By *errygTV/TS
over a year ago
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i would like to think theres a afterlife, ive seen strange things in my life that i cant explain, some claim to see ufos, no proof or if there is it is hidden from us,one thing is fact you will find out when you are dead |
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Most of the time I tell my self that when we die thats it no sleeping / resting no floating about watching over loved ones or stuck unable to let go / leave a room/building no stuck in limbo or gone to heaven /hell nothing ...
My brother died a few months back i do wonder if there is another existence after death would he be with my dad and other brother now And if so what sort of things would they be doing  then things start to get silly in my head.
I also prefer to not think there watching over me all the time or have the ability to cross over to communicate if that was possible i am pretty sure i would have had a visit before now from my dad telling me off for being rude
 all sorts of things go through my mind if i let my self think about what happens when we die and untill my time comes i guess i will never know for sure.
A confused (Mrs)  |
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"Do you believe in an afterlife?
Or do you think once your dead your dead and that's it ?
. I believe in the Bible and an afterlife . "
"I believe in the Bible".....
What, do you actually believe people's stories, or perhaps that what someone has worshiped in the past actually makes any sense anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not religious but I do believe in God and an afterlife but not in the traditional sense. It's a very deep subject that blows my mind if I try to make sense of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose! "
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose! "
What's the purpose of a flower?
I do wonder about the whole going to work and keeping busy stuff when we could just eat, play, reproduce and die.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do believe in something. Not god. Or supreme being. But a higher spirit. I believe we live many lives. Each life is a lesson. With each lesson your spirit grows. If we don't learn in one life it follows us to the next.
When all lessons are learned we our spirit becomes a superior spirit.
So yes I believe in afterlife. Not disclosing why I feel so. Would be opening myself up to ridicule. But I have my reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose!
What's the purpose of a flower?
I do wonder about the whole going to work and keeping busy stuff when we could just eat, play, reproduce and die.
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We try to figure out purpose into everything.
There is no purpose, were just cosmic dust floating around for 13 billon years!.
Genetically your predisposed to reproduce, just like a flower or a monkey, nobody ever questions the high purpose of flowers, four year olds kick them over while walking to school, where's the morality, something died, oh yes it's just human life that means everything!.
Your better than everything else because God said so and that gives you the morality to kick flowers over, squash spiders and eat cows!.
Because your special, your unique, your a one off, despite every single piece of evidence to the contrary.
Life's a bitch, one long struggle and then you die... But factually you get to make it one long struggle and you get to marry the bitch, and you get to moan about it and claim the next "life" will be better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all live on through our genes
My particular mix didn't survive after they were passed on. I'm sure I'll leave bits of DNA around the place though.
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That's why they have fluorescent lights at clubs innit?
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose!
What's the purpose of a flower?
I do wonder about the whole going to work and keeping busy stuff when we could just eat, play, reproduce and die.
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We try to figure out purpose into everything.
There is no purpose, were just cosmic dust floating around for 13 billon years!.
Genetically your predisposed to reproduce, just like a flower or a monkey, nobody ever questions the high purpose of flowers, four year olds kick them over while walking to school, where's the morality, something died, oh yes it's just human life that means everything!.
Your better than everything else because God said so and that gives you the morality to kick flowers over, squash spiders and eat cows!.
Because your special, your unique, your a one off, despite every single piece of evidence to the contrary.
Life's a bitch, one long struggle and then you die... But factually you get to make it one long struggle and you get to marry the bitch, and you get to moan about it and claim the next "life" will be better "
And moan that you can't get a meet on here. 
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"we all live on through our genes
My particular mix didn't survive after they were passed on. I'm sure I'll leave bits of DNA around the place though.
That's why they have fluorescent lights at clubs innit?
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I thought that was so you could see my bra.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we all live on through our genes
My particular mix didn't survive after they were passed on. I'm sure I'll leave bits of DNA around the place though.
That's why they have fluorescent lights at clubs innit?
I thought that was so you could see my bra.
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and there we have it - the purpose of life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe the mind is a wondrous thing that, when deprived of oxygen as one nears death, plays havoc with our consciousness and triggers areas of the brain not normally used.
So, in my humble opinion, visions of an afterlife or heaven (or even hell), of family members and other loved ones that have long since departed, of the long tunnel with a light at the end of it, even the feeling of an 'out of body' experience are all part of the brain and consciousness shutting down.
Those that are then brought back to life remember these experiences and think they've witnessed the afterlife.
My dear old Nan had dementia in her twilight years and saw all sorts of wonderful things all around us .. It's the mind playing tricks.
So my humble and frankly depressing conclusion to everything is when you're dead, you're dead.
I hope I'm wrong though and the afterlife is a fantastic place to be ... I just don't want to find out for a LONNGGG time yet! |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"We die and go back to the earth and universe where we melt back into what we came from.
we don't melt "
I feel like I do on hot days. I sometimes melt in the presence of some hot men.  |
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Death is final, cryogenics isn't for me.
The comfort of needing something else beyond this is lost on me. And as for getting by here, because the real deal life is after death, it seems inane and baffling.
We're physical energy and matter and archaic superstition can't magic up a reality that in any likelihood is different. Religion has comforted and help control the brilliance of the human spirit, often to our detriment. |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
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"if there is an afterlife why has nobody come back and told us about it?
I believe that although our physical bodies die, our souls (had to type that carefully!) move on to and into another body and so it goes on..... "
Hope I move into a body with long legs and bigger tits, been short changed this time around xxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could murder you for this thread. I just tried to switch off but then this got me thinking!! If we are born then die into nothing then what is our purpose? Somebody earlier said to reproduce but then the same question, reproduce for what reason? Why would we need to reproduce? To greater our technology? Lifestyle? What's the purpose!
What's the purpose of a flower?
I do wonder about the whole going to work and keeping busy stuff when we could just eat, play, reproduce and die.
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We try to figure out purpose into everything.
There is no purpose, were just cosmic dust floating around for 13 billon years!.
Genetically your predisposed to reproduce, just like a flower or a monkey, nobody ever questions the high purpose of flowers, four year olds kick them over while walking to school, where's the morality, something died, oh yes it's just human life that means everything!.
Your better than everything else because God said so and that gives you the morality to kick flowers over, squash spiders and eat cows!.
Because your special, your unique, your a one off, despite every single piece of evidence to the contrary.
Life's a bitch, one long struggle and then you die... But factually you get to make it one long struggle and you get to marry the bitch, and you get to moan about it and claim the next "life" will be better
And moan that you can't get a meet on here.
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If there's one thing that life's taught me, it's be happy that your alive, because most aren't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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energy can't be created or destroyed. our bodies are chemicals and electrical impulses, our brains also. it'd be nice to think it goes back into circulation, as it were. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that this life we are living right now is just a small part of a much bigger journey, one which is
way out of our current comprehension...we (our energy/souls) are just passing through |
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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago
CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly) |
"I'm certain that death is final
Succinct as per joe
Lol - it's a disturbing statistic but 10 out of 10 people die
How many attempts do cats have "
I'll have 3 vowels and 7 consonants please ..... don't think I spelt consonants right though xxxx Suzi |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Il find out when I die but.been witness to poltergeist activity in our old house in liverpool. But read recently that scientists reckon they have captured the soul leaving the body. "
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Where did you read that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do we believe their is this beautiful place called heaven that we go to when we pass over, nobody has come back to tell us of its wonder,if they did I expect there would be a mass suicide on earth , everyone would want to go to the perfect place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if there is an afterlife why has nobody come back and told us about it?
I believe that although our physical bodies die, our souls (had to type that carefully!) move on to and into another body and so it goes on..... "
Why would they come back maybe it's not possible , maybe it's to nice there and can't ruin the surprise what if to come back you would have to die there and then you can't return , what if we already came from there but can't remember |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, the after life was created to comfort those left behind and to make us less afraid of dying.
Sarah "
There is as much chance that your wrong as your right .
The universe is infinite with numbers making any thing possible in the laws of probability . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I believe in rebirth and karma.
I'm sure I've been here before (regressed by hypnosis)
And karma for this life, hence my bright outlook on life and I love giving pleasure which is where I gain most pleasure
Have a good day everyone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ahhhh but if you could be reincarnated as anyone in the forum who would you choose?"
That is a different thread lol but I'm thinking of s few lol me being one of them as I like me and am comfortable with who I am x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ahhhh but if you could be reincarnated as anyone in the forum who would you choose?
That is a different thread lol but I'm thinking of s few lol me being one of them as I like me and am comfortable with who I am x"
Is there another thread on this?damn i missed that...sorry |
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Along similar lines, I've always wondered why mediums don't ever contact great, great, great, great family members. I'd be much more interested to hear what they had to say."
Because they're all charlatans and frauds |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've spent today at a funeral and wake.
I know people here will (and have) ridicule me for this but I am a Christian and believe that there is something after this realm. Whether it's Gaia or God, energy or our souls or merely the legacy of the things we have done, the lives we have touched and the memories others hold of us I think we continue in some way.
I like to think that the friend who has died has joined the other two of our group who went before. The remainingr seven of us will join them and the ten of us will meet up, sing, dance and holiday together again in time."
ibelieve all this to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a spirit which is not ephemeral like a body, so yes, it cannot be subject to a physical death and has to go somewhere. "
This reminds me of the time I tried to drink moonshine. |
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By *umourCouple
over a year ago
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"No, the after life was created to comfort those left behind and to make us less afraid of dying.
Sarah "
My dear old mum passed away in January, she had dementia and at the end she really wanted to die. She remembered no one and liked no one and eat nothing and drank very little. She was a believer as a Salvation Army Officer, but not me!
I was told that my dear old mum would now be whole again in heaven and have all of her faculties. She would be meeting up with all of her friends and family who went before!
Load of old bollocks! If there were a god, why would he let a devoted subject suffer like this? It was not even that stupid phrase "It is our fault because he gave us free will!! It was an illness!
No, once we die we are gone forever. Yes I have had strange things happen, but not enough to change my mind. And if we are souls that go round and round, where did the extra ones come from? There are billions on the planet and in prehistoric times, there were maybe just thousands.
Sadly, I am nearer than most on here, tell ya what. If there is an afterlife, I'll come back and post on here! (Just like that famous medium, Doris Stokes said she would do. Come back and let us all know..Didn't happen!)  |
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