"To many messages saying nice cock love suck that winks..... So I do friend request and get blanked don't get it "
People have differing expectations upon chatting, friend requests and when they'll meet - usually a social-only meet first.
But it's realistic to assume that out of all the first tentative contacts that appear promising only a small number will progress to an actual social meet.
People get to know others and out the unwanted and unmatched. Single men are on a site where there's enormous choice and so some will do better than others.
Some will likely never ever do well here, based on probabilities.
As it's Easter it's timely to think of the old adage that covers chickens, counting and hatching. |
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I just had a conversation with a couple that was all sweet at first, the suddenly not so nice lol, just gotta learn whose a time waster and who isn't lol |
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Don't be disheartened. It will happen to everyone at some point, you get talking, then it will drop off. Some will arrange meets and cancel last minute, some will not even inform you that they have cancelled. Some will say they would like to meet but the distance is too far. Best today positive and look for another future hopeful. You will eventually pick up an offer in which both parties are unwilling to refuse. |
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"lol they blocked me for rejecting them lmao
how are they timewasters then?.....seems a bit of an overused label on here..."
Because they wasted my time? Who are you? |
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"lol they blocked me for rejecting them lmao
how are they timewasters then?.....seems a bit of an overused label on here... Because they wasted my time? Who are you?"
im just asking as i would class someone as a timewaster as someone who failed to turn up for a meet, or cancelled with a crap excuse. not someone that i decided,while just talking on here, that i didnt want to talk to...seems a lot of people are classed as time wasters if they reject someone ,or vice versa...surely its only during chatting to someone that you would decide whether to persue a contact or not.. |
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"lol they blocked me for rejecting them lmao
how are they timewasters then?.....seems a bit of an overused label on here... Because they wasted my time? Who are you?
im just asking as i would class someone as a timewaster as someone who failed to turn up for a meet, or cancelled with a crap excuse. not someone that i decided,while just talking on here, that i didnt want to talk to...seems a lot of people are classed as time wasters if they reject someone ,or vice versa...surely its only during chatting to someone that you would decide whether to persue a contact or not.."
Fair enough, but they didn't decide they didn't like me, she didn't like that I didn't feel grateful for her talking to me. I didn't want to meet her outside in the middle of the night in the pouring rain, she got all nasty that I didn't come running when she clicked her fingers. Kinda gutted I didn't block them first lmao |
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Maybe they're not time wasters but fantasists then. They have no intention of meeting just mucking you around. Thinking about it now it was probably the male half pretending to be the female lol |
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"I just had a conversation with a couple that was all sweet at first, the suddenly not so nice lol, just gotta learn whose a time waster and who isn't lol"
That doesn't necessarily mean they are timewasters... Maybe they thought the same about you and wanted to get out of the conversation  |
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"Who thinks a lot of people sit viewing this site sitting with a bottle making to many promises they are never going to keep"
Is that the game where you tie a pencil to some string, pin it to your back and then try to get the pencil tip into the bottle neck?
Just try to suss out the genuine people. They do exist.
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"I just had a conversation with a couple that was all sweet at first, the suddenly not so nice lol, just gotta learn whose a time waster and who isn't lol
That doesn't necessarily mean they are timewasters... Maybe they thought the same about you and wanted to get out of the conversation "
Like I said before, they had an attitude like they were doing me a favour talking to me. You really shouldn't comment on things you know nothing about, makes you look a bit silly fam |
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