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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have a male friend who I introduced to fab when he was single. We have been friends for a couple of yrs now.
Anyhoo we had a meet the other night as it has been a while since we had caught up with each other. He text and after a wee chat he decided to come for "coffee"
A good time was had by all until earlier I got a message from his pregnant gf through fbook calling me a whore for fucking him.
1. I thought he was single again as a few months ago he changed his status on fb to single.
2. I didn't know she was pregnant.
So I didn't reply, just blocked her from fbook. Unfriended him and unfriended him here.
Bad karma for me now I think. |
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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago
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No bad karma for you. You didn't do a bad thing. You thought he was single, really he was in a relationship and shortly to become a dad.
Bad karma for him, for lying and cheating. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He's an arsehole pure n simple!! Thinking he could have his cake n eat it!! Think you're better off without him as a "friend". Unfortunately it's people like him that spoil things for the genuinely nice and decent guys I'm sure that are out there!! I'm yet to find one myself!! I would say onwards and upwards hun!! You dint need people like him in your life.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he changed his relationship status to single, is that because he's single? I mean, you probably still don't want to be involved in that drama anyway but it's not like people haven't broken up on bad terms before.
Regardless, no bad karma there - at least, not for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If he changed his relationship status to single, is that because he's single? I mean, you probably still don't want to be involved in that drama anyway but it's not like people haven't broken up on bad terms before.
Regardless, no bad karma there - at least, not for you "
Thats a good point  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're a whore through fucking him so is she. I might have told her that before I blocked her. It's impossible to be 100% sure someone is single,don't dwell on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Playing devil's advocate here, are you sure he wasn't single and she's not just an ex with a really bad case of sour grapes ? Can't see any mention on the post about what he said about it all.
Just asking as I had an ex a few years ago who did something similar to a girl I was seeing, despite the fact we'd been broken up for almost 6 months |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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Did either of you not mention his new single status during your wee chat before he came over? What difference does it make to you that she's pregnant? As was asked above - what did he say about it all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he changed his status to single then maybe he is & she's not accepting it. Could that be a possibility?
I always think it's irrational behaviour when the 'wronged' party feels the need to rant at another woman, confront the guy you're with, they are the one who has fucked up after all.
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