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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've my first social tonight, from this site, yay!
But, I'm having one of those 'down on yourself days' and feel pretty shitty about my appearance.
How do you all cheer yourself and get yourself in the right mind frame for meeting someone (you definitely want to bang) on a day like this?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wash and blow dry my hair and straighten it, I get my nails done put my best knickers on and Chanel 5 and a smile  "
You'll need Chanel too cover the smell of all them peas and bacon !
I wear Chanel as well. The aftershave that is. Got too go...! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wear something you know looks good, regardless of how you're feeling right now.
Have a girlie day getting ready.
Put on loud music, have a kitchen disco to lift your mood.
and you're good to go!!
Have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've my first social tonight, from this site, yay!
But, I'm having one of those 'down on yourself days' and feel pretty shitty about my appearance.
How do you all cheer yourself and get yourself in the right mind frame for meeting someone (you definitely want to bang) on a day like this?
Thanks in advance, sorry if it's the wrong place "
Put on some favouite music wack up the volume and have a good dance releases endorphins and is sure to lift your spirits and give you some get up and go |
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I just concentrate on getting ready on time, I don't expect too much then im not disappointed because you just don't know how it will work out.
sometimes meet someone nice and they make me feel fantastic, then other times someone totally wrong for me makes me feel awful.
Try not to think about yourself all the time, concentrate on them. |
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Do some exercise and pamper yourself. Be a social butterfly once you're there.
And don't load expectations of finding someone for later. Just accept it for what it os - a chance to meet a few of us in the flesh. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find "jump in the line" by Harry bellafonte always gets my mood up! You can't feel shit to salsa (coming from someone who listens to Slipknot, disturbed, rammstein... You get the picture). |
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"I've my first social tonight, from this site, yay!
But, I'm having one of those 'down on yourself days' and feel pretty shitty about my appearance.
How do you all cheer yourself and get yourself in the right mind frame for meeting someone (you definitely want to bang) on a day like this?
Thanks in advance, sorry if it's the wrong place "
Trust me you'll be worrying about your appearance 100x more than the bloke will, just smile at him and all will be well. |
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"I've my first social tonight, from this site, yay!
But, I'm having one of those 'down on yourself days' and feel pretty shitty about my appearance.
How do you all cheer yourself and get yourself in the right mind frame for meeting someone (you definitely want to bang) on a day like this?
Thanks in advance, sorry if it's the wrong place "
Firstly - Well done - getting that first meet feels great doesn't it...!?
Secondly - You are probably just nervous about the meet, hence you are thinking (more than usual maybe) that you won't match up to his expectations. Well, it doesn't matter what he's expecting, you can only be you
As others have said - pamper yourself, do something nice for yourself, not for anyone else. Chill, relax, whatever it takes.
You will I am sure more than meet his expectations (if he has any), and then you will have been worrying for nothing...
And once again, well done, and happy 'banging' (maybe...! )
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"You look fine to me ,go out and and grab the bull by horns.have a few confidence drinks so your relaxed .but who am I to give advice im a bloke lmao  "
You see a pic of her tits and she looks fine? You prescribe drinking to relax, her meet will be chuffed...not!
Op, nerves are all part and parcel of the experience: he'll be nervous too. Don't overthink it, have a good soak/shower in your favourite smelly, dress to impress you and think how lucky he is!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone feels this way. Don't set your own expectations too high, that way you can be pleasantly surprised. Relax, have fun and most importantly, enjoy yourself "
Perfectly put |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sign out of fab. Go the gym. Then a nice grooming session. A little of the aftershave. Behind my ears and a spray on each thigh. some nice clothes then im in the mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As others have said pamper yourself wear your favourite perfume and dress to impress and don't go with expectations this way you won't be disappointed if nothing comes of it,nerves are just part and parcel of meets just don't feel pressured to do anything your not comfortable with and hope you have a great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Are you meeting the most beautiful/handsome/hot man in the world? Probably not,so get ready as usual and hold your chin up,smile and walk confidently up to him and say hello. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you all for the replies
I'm actually meeting another woman so little different I think? Or not?
Definitely gonna have a quick pamper and know what I'm gonna wear which I feel I look awesome in, haha. Probably have a quick work out and turn the music UP to get the endorphins going
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"Thank you all for the replies
I'm actually meeting another woman so little different I think? Or not?
Definitely gonna have a quick pamper and know what I'm gonna wear which I feel I look awesome in, haha. Probably have a quick work out and turn the music UP to get the endorphins going
Woop woop "
Now that's more like it - you sound more upbeat about things.
And no, doesn't make a difference whether you are meeting a man or a woman...
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