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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having enjoyed comments from my last topic I thought I'd pose another!
This is mainly aimed at singletons as I can't vouch for couples. Having chatted with a few ladies on here it seems us guys send them hundreds of messages which can lead to non replies and then abuse and so on.
It appears to me that it's us guys that do all the chasing!! I've been on and off here for a few years now and I don't think once have I ever received a message from a lady.
I love the chase, but for the ladies it seems a bore. So perhaps FAB could stop the guys from messaging and just have the ladies doing the chasing?
Any guys agree with me??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had a couple of massages from ladies but on the whole it's me that sends them, just the natural order of things male chases the female, it's just a shame I am a slow runner lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is why we don't bother looking. and im glad people stopping pushing the look for yourselves' when you get pissed off at your inbox.
Mens profiles often have nothing but a cock on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No chance of me sending a first message. 99% of the avatars are blank or a cock pic and there's no way I'm messaging people when I don't know what they look like !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No chance of me sending a first message. 99% of the avatars are blank or a cock pic and there's no way I'm messaging people when I don't know what they look like !!! "
This goes for me too. I'd only message those whose face I could see and not many on here show their face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd search more often if I could make the within 5 miles profiles stay off my screen. I get ill eyes from scrolling through the hundreds I'm not interested in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I message if someone catches my eye but as I'm not actively looking it's not often at the moment.
OP, don't hold your breath that it will ever change as it won't  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having enjoyed comments from my last topic I thought I'd pose another!
This is mainly aimed at singletons as I can't vouch for couples. Having chatted with a few ladies on here it seems us guys send them hundreds of messages which can lead to non replies and then abuse and so on.
It appears to me that it's us guys that do all the chasing!! I've been on and off here for a few years now and I don't think once have I ever received a message from a lady.
I love the chase, but for the ladies it seems a bore. So perhaps FAB could stop the guys from messaging and just have the ladies doing the chasing?
Any guys agree with me??
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hehe hey unless you are a god amongst men you may never receive a message ,the traits that get you noticed humour and personality would have no value       |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having enjoyed comments from my last topic I thought I'd pose another!
This is mainly aimed at singletons as I can't vouch for couples. Having chatted with a few ladies on here it seems us guys send them hundreds of messages which can lead to non replies and then abuse and so on.
It appears to me that it's us guys that do all the chasing!! I've been on and off here for a few years now and I don't think once have I ever received a message from a lady.
I love the chase, but for the ladies it seems a bore. So perhaps FAB could stop the guys from messaging and just have the ladies doing the chasing?
Any guys agree with me??
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Erm, then you wouldn't be able to chase any ladies. Am I missing something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No chance of me sending a first message. 99% of the avatars are blank or a cock pic and there's no way I'm messaging people when I don't know what they look like !!! "
Me too...i offen browse, but thats it now, as in your other post OP, alot men either block or delete too.
Id never message a guy with just his cock on display, its a bit like going in the supermarket and searching for the best looking cucumber!! |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Women are holding all the cards lol"
Oh do give it a rest.
We hold as many cards as we are given and no more.
If we had all the cards, there are a few disinterested parties I'd have met by now! |
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I contact chaps on here but only those with cracking profiles. Nice write up, decent variety of pics and ideally a verification or two.
OP, your only public pic is of your wang and you're married. It'd be a no from me.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening!  |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening! you've been saying that ever since I've been on here ,if you want to meet maybe you ought to change your approach just a tad their are lots of really nice guys on here ,if the profiles are missing a bit of detail so what ,stick your neck out meet a few for socials in public places ,nothing like the real thing ,a text message or an essay for a profile tell you nothing"
Who on earth wants to meet someone that thinks their cock is their most interesting, appealing feature and the image they should use to represent themselves?
And why should anyone lower their standards to allow for men who can't be arsed to make any effort?
I don't think she should have to do all the work to try to find a decent bloke in the dross. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I contact chaps on here but only those with cracking profiles. Nice write up, decent variety of pics and ideally a verification or two.
OP, your only public pic is of your wang and you're married. It'd be a no from me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening! you've been saying that ever since I've been on here ,if you want to meet maybe you ought to change your approach just a tad their are lots of really nice guys on here ,if the profiles are missing a bit of detail so what ,stick your neck out meet a few for socials in public places ,nothing like the real thing ,a text message or an essay for a profile tell you nothing 
Read the above! I said not exactly enticing, so I am hardly going to message them am I?
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my point was based on many messages I've seen you pen in forums where you said you havnt met for 6 months ,their comes a point where you must say to yourself ,the way I'm approaching this isn't working maybe I should be a little more flexible or leave the site ,they cant all be two lines with a cock pic ,I have a lot of relatives in Scotland and many are lovely I'm not saying they are on here but they would appear to be typical of scotsmen  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening! you've been saying that ever since I've been on here ,if you want to meet maybe you ought to change your approach just a tad their are lots of really nice guys on here ,if the profiles are missing a bit of detail so what ,stick your neck out meet a few for socials in public places ,nothing like the real thing ,a text message or an essay for a profile tell you nothing
Read the above! I said not exactly enticing, so I am hardly going to message them am I?
Exactly. It's not Blind Date!"
Exactly! So would the message go like this?
I know you have a crap profile and your only pic is your cock, however, I thought it is the most fantastic cock I have ever seen so thought I would give you a chance just in case there is more to you than your cock |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
I believe her. An alarming number of local male profiles here are 1-2 lines and a silhouette/cock pic(s).
It might be a rural/remote area thing. Norfolk men are not known for their finesse. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening! you've been saying that ever since I've been on here ,if you want to meet maybe you ought to change your approach just a tad their are lots of really nice guys on here ,if the profiles are missing a bit of detail so what ,stick your neck out meet a few for socials in public places ,nothing like the real thing ,a text message or an essay for a profile tell you nothing
Read the above! I said not exactly enticing, so I am hardly going to message them am I?
Exactly. It's not Blind Date!
Exactly! So would the message go like this?
I know you have a crap profile and your only pic is your cock, however, I thought it is the most fantastic cock I have ever seen so thought I would give you a chance just in case there is more to you than your cock "
No, no...
Your profile is shit but your photo is the least off-putting of the large number of cocks I've perused today. My eyes are about to bleed but since I haven't had a shag in ages, I'm messaging in the desperate hope there's something even slightly appealing about you.
That should do it |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I have tried to do my own searching, unfortunately, most mens profiles in my area are 2 lines long - saying here for fun and only have a cock pic! Not exactly enticing is it?
So maybe it should be mandatory for men to make an effort with their profiles and pics......Somehow I cant see that happening! you've been saying that ever since I've been on here ,if you want to meet maybe you ought to change your approach just a tad their are lots of really nice guys on here ,if the profiles are missing a bit of detail so what ,stick your neck out meet a few for socials in public places ,nothing like the real thing ,a text message or an essay for a profile tell you nothing
Read the above! I said not exactly enticing, so I am hardly going to message them am I?
Exactly. It's not Blind Date!
Exactly! So would the message go like this?
I know you have a crap profile and your only pic is your cock, however, I thought it is the most fantastic cock I have ever seen so thought I would give you a chance just in case there is more to you than your cock
No, no...
Your profile is shit but your photo is the least off-putting of the large number of cocks I've perused today. My eyes are about to bleed but since I haven't had a shag in ages, I'm messaging in the desperate hope there's something even slightly appealing about you.
That should do it "
Thanks Dee
I'll C&P that for sending out a few messages later tonight, seeing as I am soo desperate for a shag of late |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is why we don't bother looking. and im glad people stopping pushing the look for yourselves' when you get pissed off at your inbox.
Mens profiles often have nothing but a cock on them."
Mine is currently being renovated as I got bored with it. I do have more pics than the basic "cock shot" though lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is why we don't bother looking. and im glad people stopping pushing the look for yourselves' when you get pissed off at your inbox.
Mens profiles often have nothing but a cock on them.
Mine is currently being renovated as I got bored with it. I do have more pics than the basic "cock shot" though lol"
I know not everyone has them but most guys do. It's fairly depressing looking for yourself. |
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