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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
You're obviously including yourself in this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive full respect for them. Whats not to like about a lady enjoying herself without that nasty emotion called jealousy. Its only sex and they wont ever have her heart  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Have you ever done it ? And if the female half likes watching her guy with another woman , does she not love him?
Sex and love aren't mutually exclusive.
Sarah
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Thanks OP for more coming out of my situation.
Hopefully we find and establish the right answer together.
Can I still be involved and give my outlook and deep intuition which I believe in. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?
Thanks OP for more coming out of my situation.
Hopefully we find and establish the right answer together.
Can I still be involved and give my outlook and deep intuition which I believe in."
I am not sure this is the same thing as your question, but then I am having a very confusing morning on here so it could be me  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
I am confused |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Personally I feel it will always bother him in both cases when you agreeing on swing or not if there is still Love left!
In my case he sends me away and resentfully I start to send him away now as well, I feel our Love is Shaky ice. I am expressing him all my doubts fears etc.but I deeply feel he is done as well. I will give him a space more than ever and see from there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Do you love your wife OP?
You can answer this yourself if it's a 'yes' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?
I am confused "
I think its starting to get confusing when word Love appears and we all get stuck. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?
I am confused
I think its starting to get confusing when word Love appears and we all get stuck."
Nope, thats not it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone has issues like jealousy or mutual emotional issues then I'm not sure they should even be trying to swing.
Surely it would just make things worse especially if one of the partners stars to really enjoy themselves with someone else |
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Or maybe they can enjoy seeing their partner with someone else as they can see it for what it is ... NSA sex and just fun . That they can trust their partner not to run off because a guys flopped his dick out and they have confidence not only in them self but in the relationship .
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If someone has issues like jealousy or mutual emotional issues then I'm not sure they should even be trying to swing.
Surely it would just make things worse especially if one of the partners stars to really enjoy themselves with someone else "
Thats what I want finally enjoy truly emotionally our company first and sex Along the Way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?
Or maybe they can enjoy seeing their partner with someone else as they can see it for what it is ... NSA sex and just fun . That they can trust their partner not to run off because a guys flopped his dick out and they have confidence not only in them self but in the relationship .
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I believe a truly lovable and full of satisfying sex in marriage with one person but you have to match not always you are on the same wave getting older you realize the waves are changing I mean your natural rythm etc, start to Like more mostly morning sex more but partner tends more to evenings just naturally our body needs changing Along the waves and cry selfishy to be satisfied.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swinging is completely separate from my marriage . It's just purely a fun addition ,which would stop at any time either my husband or I decided . Wouldn't give it a second thought . "
I can not make Love so easily giving away I do not know what it is it just does not give that satisfaction for me. I need all involved just fuck and go is for men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When its about sex I never relate to relationship as its nothing to do with it. just several lines online to find out wishes and if they match. But for me its not that satisfaction imagined at the end, I prefer all involved with one person, that fuck and go thing is emptying me not energizing. I also read women should not fuck and go to right and left, you start to feel empty..that works only for men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Speaking as a truly devoted couple, anyone we know in the vanilla world will testify that they don't know a more loving couple, the life we have , the banter and the fun is excellent , we both realised early on (been together 18 years) that just because we love each other doesn't mean we don't find other people attractive. Why have an affair and ruin a perfect relationship when we can say "oh I'd love to do him/her" and actually have our cake and eat it. Love doesn't come into it, it's sex and it's a hell of a lot of fun. Some things we keep for ourselves and won't do with another person, we certainly love each other . 
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
Quite the opposite - they trust them and want them to enjoy themselves. It's a form of ultimate love in my opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?
Quite the opposite - they trust them and want them to enjoy themselves. It's a form of ultimate love in my opinion. "
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
I think it depends entirely on your innate personality. Some people are OK with it or enjoy it and they can swing.
Others cannot, and so should not. Simples! |
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Love does not come into it as it is a pleasurable thing as my husband gets the most wonderful kicks when i am soft swinging as the thrill and sheer look of delight is glowing on my face!! and i did say delight  as much as he knows he is the one i am going home with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lust is not love . Sex is sex . After years together my husband get a kick and turned on seeing me having fun and us all having fun together can be very horny for everyone . Its nothing but a bit of sexy fun . |
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"this is a genuine question that I really don't understand. why do men enjoy seeing their partner having sex with another man. does this mean that they do not love them, because if they did it wouldn't it bother them?"
it does sound given that the above is from the female in the relationship that there may be answer's to questions only the 2 of you know..?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am the wife"
Apologies.
Do you think your husband doesn't love you because he allows you to swing as he watches?
I'd wager he loves you very much indeed to allow you the pleasure he can no longer give you. |
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