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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"
Is a swingers site is it not? Lol |
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over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts "
Yes couples are sex addicts
Single men are desperate and needy
Single women are too fussy
As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one
Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet
And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home
I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself |
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over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"
f a b S W I N G E R S.....the clue as to what this site is about is in the name |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its a swingers site the clue is in the name just because some people use it as an easy way to get their leg over doesn't change the point of the site."
Might be the name but if you tap in to google nsa sex, Fabs pops up.
OP, the site can be whatever you want it to be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts
Yes couples are sex addicts
Single men are desperate and needy
Single women are too fussy
As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one
Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet
And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home
I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself "
Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm of on a date in 10 minutes. I've know the lady for years on here. We go out now and then , have a meal or go to the movies and then back to either my place or her's. We both enjoy each others company but do not want a relationship. Tonight it's dinner out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts
Yes couples are sex addicts
Single men are desperate and needy
Single women are too fussy
As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one
Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet
And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home
I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself
Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub "
So you think a man should buy you food and wine in return for your company
I am presuming the op means he is paying and have based my reply on that
I am also presuming that the op was offering wine and dine in a attempt to get a date on his financial ability rather than anything else |
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"
Do it! I've had way more socialising on this site than I ever had on dating sites - they only ever wanted a shag!! Oh the irony! |
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Plenty of ladies here like a meet that involves dinner, or something else social as well as the sex;
It's not " paying for sex" ; indeed usually they are wanting to go halves anyway...
But some of us like to have a proper social experience and interaction and not just a shag and go .
Others don't . Whatever floats your boat.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!
Is a swingers site is it not? Lol"
I've been out for dinner with quite a few meets! In essence they ARE dates. The only discernible difference between that and a 'normal ' date is that you KNOW you'll have great sex after dinner if you click! What's not to like? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!
Is a swingers site is it not? Lol
I've been out for dinner with quite a few meets! In essence they ARE dates. The only discernible difference between that and a 'normal ' date is that you KNOW you'll have great sex after dinner if you click! What's not to like? "
Despite my previous (tongue in cheek) post....I too have done this. I have made a number of really good friends along the way. I have prepared and cooked meals for a few. I have introduced more than one or two to family members etc. with one in particular I have spent many, many weekends in her caravan, been out (and in) for can't count how many meals etc.... But none of this has been with any ties (yet!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Google what is swinging, Wikipedia & every other site will tell you it's about sex so this site is a sex site. Swinging was created to wife swap "for sex" yes there is a social side to it but swinging is for couples to swap partners for sex. Singles are here for sex.
Say what you want but everyone knows what swinging is so it's more a sex site than anything else becuase that's exactly what swinging is. Loom it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Google what is swinging, Wikipedia & every other site will tell you it's about sex so this site is a sex site. Swinging was created to wife swap "for sex" yes there is a social side to it but swinging is for couples to swap partners for sex. Singles are here for sex.
Say what you want but everyone knows what swinging is so it's more a sex site than anything else becuase that's exactly what swinging is. Loom it up" look it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive upped my search to marriage.
people should have got to me when i was only looking for a relationship. will you marry me ? "
aw, only one smiley so i am very tempted indeed.
yes, i will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not looking to wine and dine anybody and I'm not sure many of the women are on here to find someone to wine and dine them anyway.
You'd go on Tinder if you were looking for that kind of dynamic, surely? Or is it just a white knight post? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not looking to wine and dine anybody and I'm not sure many of the women are on here to find someone to wine and dine them anyway.
You'd go on Tinder if you were looking for that kind of dynamic, surely? Or is it just a white knight post?"
Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it?"
No, people can want whatever they like, it's just a bizarre place to look for that kind of thing.
It's irrelevant anyway because it was only said as a form of white knighting and isn't really what the guy is here for at all. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it?
No, people can want whatever they like, it's just a bizarre place to look for that kind of thing.
It's irrelevant anyway because it was only said as a form of white knighting and isn't really what the guy is here for at all."
People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong."
I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting". |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.
I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting"."
We are not all that naive; honestly |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.
I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting".
We are not all that naive; honestly "
^this
What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights? |
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Regardless of what the site is or isn't, if you find someone you are attracted to physically, are compatible with sexually and you like them as a person and enjoy their company, then for me, I want to see that person again and again, like dating.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?"
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.
I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting"."
That's your opinion. Everyone else took it to mean the OP wanted to start a discussion and have decided to do just that, therefore it is not "irrelevant" |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."
I didn't say you had addressed me and actually, the response you quote wasn't directed at you either |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.
I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting".
That's your opinion. Everyone else took it to mean the OP wanted to start a discussion and have decided to do just that, therefore it is not "irrelevant""
Some always think the way they see the site and the way they use the site is the right way and everyone else is doing it wrong though. |
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over a year ago
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."
some post in the hope of a row |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."
Now, now; don't get into a huff
She has a point; some of us have been knocking around 'ere for a while and have 'seen it all'. You may not personally have had those intentions but many here do |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you.
some post in the hope of a row "
And some just say what they think without worrying whether others will get in a huff and chuck their toys out. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
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What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?
Double white knights? Platinum knights?
I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you. she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one"
I disagree with people I disagree with? Go figure. Shame on me
That's his definition of wanting a fight, apparently, disagreeing with him. Because clearly he's always right, so everyone else must be wrong.
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one
I had actually noticed her doing it to someone else in another thread. It's a shame that people are that unhappy. Hey ho!"
Says the person who got uppity and tried to start a row because someone disagreed with him over cuckqueening
Shame some people are so unhappy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I sport a tattoo that says; if you don't agree with me you're an idiot
That's not to say that people are idiots, just that they should agree
Each to their own I'd say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Good Lord; one week here and he already thinks he knows everything and everyone
Unlike some knuckle dragging clowns, she normally comes up with incisive comments"
It doesn't take a week to see the same person following people around the threads, trying to argue and then look at their profile and realise where the bitterness and angst comes from. It takes minutes. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"Good Lord; one week here and he already thinks he knows everything and everyone
Unlike some knuckle dragging clowns, she normally comes up with incisive comments
It doesn't take a week to see the same person following people around the threads, trying to argue and then look at their profile and realise where the bitterness and angst comes from. It takes minutes."
Yeah, tell us again what cuckqueening is oh font of all knowledge |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them. |
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them."
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I closed the matter when I stopped replying to her and she still keeps going on. So much anger. "
Oh yes, I can see you've stopped replying
So desperate to be right and to get the last word.
Carry on, I've got all night |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx"
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here |
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here "
It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here
It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.
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OK. Too far!! Could you be anymore patronising and rude?
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here
It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.
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You have no idea how I think or feel. I know you think you are an expert on the world and, after being here a week, this site, but you have an awful lot to learn.
The only one angry and unhappy is you because you don't like people disagreeing with you.
As I've pointed out, your angry, defensive, completely out of proportion reaction to someone calmly and perfectly reasonably disagreeing with you on the cuckqueening thread is clear evidence of that. (She was right incidentally and you have demonstrated you don't understand the concept of cuckolding or cuckqueening at all).
When you eventually grow up a bit and get a bit more life experience, you'll realise you didn't actually know it all.
For now, carry on the tin pot psychology if you like. It won't work because you haven't got a clue. You're quite funny though. |
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here
It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.
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That was uncalled for and really rude. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Lemme see... I have numerous veris from social meets with forum members and others. A couple of weeks ago I was in Sheffield for a big social meet and having a whale of a time. I stayed with a forum member who is a good friend and spoke to many site members.
The one that's been here a week, knows nobody, isn't old enough to have any real life experience and has no verifications is qualified, from a few words on a forum to decide I sit at home, alone and unhappy...
Brilliant.
Looks to me like it's not me that doesn't have any sort of life on here...
Let's not let facts get in the way though. As you were
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex."
I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer. |
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"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex.
I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer."
Is he bi....I'm starving |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its meet and fuk or social meet and fuck what ever people use it for..the thing is to many males messaging the same girl..by time your waiting for a replie I would of had a one night stand al ready with out being on here lol not much of a fuk sight ?? |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.
I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me
It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.
Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx
Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.
As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here
It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.
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What utter nonsense!!! |
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over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!
Do it! I've had way more socialising on this site than I ever had on dating sites - they only ever wanted a shag!! Oh the irony! "
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Here at least MOST men are brutally honest with their intentions, where as plenty of cod roe and tinder MOST just chat out of their arse and pretend they want a relationship. You can't help where you fall in love or find someone you share the most amazing connection. Some have found that in a traffic jam, frozen pea aisle and fab, who the fuck are we to judge where people wanna look for love...we don't find love, love finds us. |
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over a year ago
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts
Yes couples are sex addicts
Single men are desperate and needy
Single women are too fussy
As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one
Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet
And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home
I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself
Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub
So you think a man should buy you food and wine in return for your company
I am presuming the op means he is paying and have based my reply on that
I am also presuming that the op was offering wine and dine in a attempt to get a date on his financial ability rather than anything else "
Oh no, I was talking merely on enjoyment factor, nothing to do with the cost |
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Think I'm gonna go back to old fashioned methods........ Single nights at Asda, looking desperate at the smoochies end of night nightclub or 18-30 holidays (OK might not pass for that one) lol |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder."
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good... |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good... "
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site... |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site... "
I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site... "
Yeah I had a look at it a while back - that was my impression, and very thin on profile information too.
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...
I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks "
No it is a dating app and that was what it was set up as. |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...
I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks "
From friends experiences, it's more of a hook up site than dating ~ but I do think it varies depending on age. |
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"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...
Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.
Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...
Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...
I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks
No it is a dating app and that was what it was set up as. "
Right well I'm going to give it another month on here to find my soul mate then I'm off to Tinder |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
Well I'm on various sites I'vd made no secret I'd like something more permanent in my life,
I've had a fair few social meets, I'd be happy to have a social coffee or drinks or a bite to eat ladies ..give me a message. |
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"Well this thread has been another outstanding success I see."
Is that sarcasm I detect? Surely not from you?
Anyway, I use it as a dating site, just no one tell Marc
-Courtney |
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"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"
The first rule of Fab is that there aren't any rules. You can do whatever you and your potential meet fancy. Surely that's the joy of it all.
I have no real interest in just randomly shagging women. That seems to work for some men but to me that would be incredibly boring. I'd rather have a wank than just rock up somewhere, shag and then go home. I need a little socialising beforehand. It adds some depth to the interaction and makes anything else that may happen later much more interesting. |
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