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Women asking for face pictures when they have none!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
Yes and less of your cheek |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
How do you know they don't have face pics? They may have some in private and will send in return if they fancy you?
Someone has to send first if neither of you has public face pics. Why shouldn't it be you?
If you expect the woman to send first, you're doing exactly what you're complaining about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a meet flag up today for a social, received quite a few messages and hardly any included a pic so I just deleted. I didn't have the time or inclination to ask for one tbh, and before you say it I have a face pic on view! lol I gave up in the end and deleted the meet. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
no you don't have to accept it....look for the women who don't ask for one  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I want to see a face pic I just ask.
Never found swapping a face pic to be an issue. In fact most ladies have sent one soon after we've gotten chatting and before I've needed to ask.
didn't think it was a particular issue on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I state on my profile that if you ask for face pic first then you should send with the message your asking with... Fancy them or not i always return the favour.
People that ask with no pic themselves either havent read my profile or just trying luck.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"How do you know they don't have face pics? They may have some in private and will send in return if they fancy you?
Someone has to send first if neither of you has public face pics. Why shouldn't it be you?
If you expect the woman to send first, you're doing exactly what you're complaining about."
Good Point x |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"I state on my profile that if you ask for face pic first then you should send with the message your asking with... Fancy them or not i always return the favour.
People that ask with no pic themselves either havent read my profile or just trying luck. "
I expect the person who sends the first message to send a face pic first.
If I message a guy, I usually send one with the first message.
If a man messages me but doesn't send a face pic then says "you first" if I ask, I decline and won't continue to chat. |
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If you go to hit on a lady in bar do you do it with a paper bag over your head?
If the answers no then why is sending a face picture with your initial message a problem? afterall it's an introduction so surely it's just polite to show the person who they may be speaking to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have plenty of face pics that anyone can see on here so I find it bloody annoying when I get messaged by people with no face pics.
I just delete their messages now, I think it's common courtesy to send one and I can't be bothered to have to tell them this. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Exactly... If genuine on the site then they should be no problem in sending pics"
But you don't send yours with a first message? It sounds like you wait for them to ask and then say "you first" because they asked?  |
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
I hate those messages where women/couples will ask you for a face pic. Not even a 'hello' or anything. It's bloody cheeky. They get ignored, simple as that.
As a man on here you don't have to just accept anything. If you want to do something then do it. If you don't then don't. Some think that simply because they are a woman or a couple that means they have some sort of entitlement that means they can act in often rude ways. Never feel you just have to accept it. |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
Northampton Somewhere |
I ask for a face pic really early on, if I like the look of them I'll return one. As others have said I'm unlikely to chat if they are reluctant to send one. And if I'm asked to send one first , well, I just think that's a bit cheeky  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks ladies and guys too.
It good to get all your views and thoughts.
Just being cautious about new unverified people. "
Everyone was new and unverified at some point though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not just women there are men that won't due to what their job is and there's a local couple to me who insist on seeing a face pic but won't send one back ...... But tell me I won't be disappointed well I prefer to decide for myself if I will be disappointed or not. If they are not prepared to swap face pics then I'm not interested. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks ladies and guys too.
It good to get all your views and thoughts.
Just being cautious about new unverified people. "
i found it easier to have no dealings with them as they come and go |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"They do it cos they got the upper hand and know most men would fuck anything lol."
No, they do it because they want to see a face photo.
What is difficult to understand about wanting to see who you're chatting to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do it cos they got the upper hand and know most men would fuck anything lol.
No, they do it because they want to see a face photo.
What is difficult to understand about wanting to see who you're chatting to?"
I can ask the same question to u? Why would we chat to a faceless profile if they seen us, but we wont see or they dont send a pic lol? |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"They do it cos they got the upper hand and know most men would fuck anything lol.
No, they do it because they want to see a face photo.
What is difficult to understand about wanting to see who you're chatting to?
I can ask the same question to u? Why would we chat to a faceless profile if they seen us, but we wont see or they dont send a pic lol?"
You don't have to.
Someone has to send first. If they don't fancy you, I'd expect them to end the message exchange. If they want to continue then they should send a pic back. If they don't, you are free to decline to chat further.
As I said above, I think the person who sends the first message should send a face pic first. |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
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If I message somebody I will attach face pics. If someone messages me and doesn't attach face pics I will ask for them - if they don't send them or do the whole 'I can send them by text but won't send any on here' thing I just stop the chat....life is too short and there are loads more people on here that are happy to show me what they look like so I don't waste my time and theirs with endless chat that goes nowhere  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do it cos they got the upper hand and know most men would fuck anything lol.
No, they do it because they want to see a face photo.
What is difficult to understand about wanting to see who you're chatting to?
I can ask the same question to u? Why would we chat to a faceless profile if they seen us, but we wont see or they dont send a pic lol?
You don't have to.
Someone has to send first. If they don't fancy you, I'd expect them to end the message exchange. If they want to continue then they should send a pic back. If they don't, you are free to decline to chat further.
As I said above, I think the person who sends the first message should send a face pic first."
That is a good point and I agree, the one contacting the profile first should send the pic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are loads of guys on here who wouldn't meet me. Some of them I'd like to meet.
Tell me again how that's me having all the power? "
It's a bunch of crap cooked up by blokes so they can blame some great inequality of power or whatever for their poor time in here.
Same as the 'those bad eggs on here spoil it for the rest of us' arguments...
It's cack.
it's as good for blokes here as for anyone else |
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If someone messages me with a profile which contains no pics or only cock pics I will ask for some actual pictures of him before chatting, but I do not ask for face pics, and will not return one at first just because that's what they happen to send. I tend to only share face pics if it looks like we might want to meet and at that point I specify - would you like to swap face pics?
The OP may have misunderstood what they were asking for initially, ie just something other than a cock!! |
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
You don't have to accept anything! If something on a profile offends you move onto the next. Trust me, it really is that simple!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone messages me with a profile which contains no pics or only cock pics I will ask for some actual pictures of him before chatting, but I do not ask for face pics, and will not return one at first just because that's what they happen to send. I tend to only share face pics if it looks like we might want to meet and at that point I specify - would you like to swap face pics?
The OP may have misunderstood what they were asking for initially, ie just something other than a cock!!"
Agreed if a meet is likely then exchange of face pic avoids any embarrassment. No one likes their pictures on the internet because of one persons malicious misuse. |
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"If someone messages me with a profile which contains no pics or only cock pics I will ask for some actual pictures of him before chatting, but I do not ask for face pics, and will not return one at first just because that's what they happen to send. I tend to only share face pics if it looks like we might want to meet and at that point I specify - would you like to swap face pics?
The OP may have misunderstood what they were asking for initially, ie just something other than a cock!!
Agreed if a meet is likely then exchange of face pic avoids any embarrassment. No one likes their pictures on the internet because of one persons malicious misuse. "
I could be a full length fully clothed one for all I care - I just need to talk to a recognisable human being! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone messages me with a profile which contains no pics or only cock pics I will ask for some actual pictures of him before chatting, but I do not ask for face pics, and will not return one at first just because that's what they happen to send. I tend to only share face pics if it looks like we might want to meet and at that point I specify - would you like to swap face pics?
The OP may have misunderstood what they were asking for initially, ie just something other than a cock!!
Agreed if a meet is likely then exchange of face pic avoids any embarrassment. No one likes their pictures on the internet because of one persons malicious misuse.
I could be a full length fully clothed one for all I care - I just need to talk to a recognisable human being!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
No, you don't have to accept it. Your choice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a large chunk of blokes on here that would fuck anything with a pulse (and some where that may be a negotiable requirement). Women however appear to have higher standards and would require an element of attraction first.
Understandably some people require discretion so will keep them private and share them in messages, but it's a candy shop for women here so if you wanna meet you gotta accept who is calling the shots here. If you won't, someone else will |
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If we send the first message, we will include face pictures.
If somebody messages us first, we expect them to include face pictures.
If they were the first to message us and we have to ask and get a "you first", they get deleted.
If we get a message with no face pictures but they ask for our's, they get deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Havent read the thread but question relating to it. If someone sends their face pic and your not interested do you send yours back? Is it rude not to?"
Its very rare i get a picture back. Its not rude. Why waste time replying to ppl your never gonna meet i guess |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?"
Whoever asks first should supply a face pic first |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Havent read the thread but question relating to it. If someone sends their face pic and your not interested do you send yours back? Is it rude not to?
Its very rare i get a picture back. Its not rude. Why waste time replying to ppl your never gonna meet i guess "
Exactly, if they send a face pic back and you fancy them then it's like "look what you could have won" and that's going to smart.
If you don't fancy them, well, maybe you'd feel a bit better but you're still not getting a meet so probably not much better.
If someone sends me a face pic and I don't fancy them, I don't usually send one back. If I message first and they don't fancy me, I don't expect one back.
Mind you, my face pic is often my av so people have some idea what I look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind sending face pics when talking for the first time but the problem I have is when they demand one or endless ones, especially if they haven't sent any back yet, it just seems plain rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Havent read the thread but question relating to it. If someone sends their face pic and your not interested do you send yours back? Is it rude not to?
Its very rare i get a picture back. Its not rude. Why waste time replying to ppl your never gonna meet i guess
Exactly, if they send a face pic back and you fancy them then it's like "look what you could have won" and that's going to smart.
If you don't fancy them, well, maybe you'd feel a bit better but you're still not getting a meet so probably not much better.
If someone sends me a face pic and I don't fancy them, I don't usually send one back. If I message first and they don't fancy me, I don't expect one back.
Mind you, my face pic is often my av so people have some idea what I look like."
i always feel a bit rude but yeah i usually dont return it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many women ask for face pictures from men when they themselves dont. Is this hypocritical or do men just have to accept it?
Whoever asks first should supply a face pic first"
Definitely, unless like me you have face pics in public which anyone can see  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They do it cos they got the upper hand and know most men would fuck anything lol."
He has a point. I've only been blanked by one male profile after sending a face pic and blocked by one other. |
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