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I'm crap at reading and giving signals | |||
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"I frienzoned someone and they friendzoned me cause we didnt fancy each other now celebrating ten years of being a couple "Awww he is a special guy  | |||
"I'm friend zoned all the time on here ..
I'm crap at reading and giving signals "I seem to mess it up, come on too strong, am too cold and distant I can't get it right  | |||
then afterwards when we kinda fell out and the feelings werent as strong i couldnt stop thinking about her sexually  | |||
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"The friend zone is an imaginary place made up by cowardly guys who think basic human decency entitles them to attention, affection or sex from women, and that such an expectation is itself incompatible with basic human decency ..... Oops did I say that out loud "That's true, but there's a difference between that and liking someone who doesn't like you back | |||
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"The friend zone is an imaginary place made up by cowardly guys who think basic human decency entitles them to attention, affection or sex from women, and that such an expectation is itself incompatible with basic human decency ..... Oops did I say that out loud "So it's all down to the fellas to read the signals, risk making a total tit of themselves, risk spoiling a friendship, risk looking like they're taking advantage of a situation and making that first move with a female who won't say what she wants, thinks, or feels? And if they hesitate or miss an opportunity they are cowardly? | |||
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"The friend zone is an imaginary place made up by cowardly guys who think basic human decency entitles them to attention, affection or sex from women, and that such an expectation is itself incompatible with basic human decency ..... Oops did I say that out loud
So it's all down to the fellas to read the signals, risk making a total tit of themselves, risk spoiling a friendship, risk looking like they're taking advantage of a situation and making that first move with a female who won't say what she wants, thinks, or feels?
And if they hesitate or miss an opportunity they are cowardly? "... Or am I misreading the signals? | |||
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"Friend zoned is horrible. Only happens when genuinely like someone " | |||
I'd never heard of it before reading this thread...
Every day is a schoolday | |||
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I'd never heard of it before reading this thread...
Every day is a schoolday "Nor me, as I've completely misread the OP | |||
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"Have you ever put someone in the friends zone when they were interested in you, then think back later on in life and think why did I do that? The friend zone is a funny thing I seem to get friend zoned by men I'm interested in, and friend zone men who are interested in me..." I wouldn't have a clue if anyone was interested in me. I wouldn't even know if someone just wanted to be a friend. I don't read signals at all. It's a defence mechanism I have. I just don't go there, whether it be friends or something more. If you like me in any way then you're going to have to come straight out and tell me. | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship." okkkk...... | |||
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"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......"Well...that told you | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......
Well...that told you"It didn't tell me a thing, that's their opinion not mine. I have my own mind | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......
Well...that told you
It didn't tell me a thing, that's their opinion not mine. I have my own mind "Now, Ive been told | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......
Well...that told you
It didn't tell me a thing, that's their opinion not mine. I have my own mind
Now, Ive been told "Oh come here have a boobie Hug | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......
Well...that told you
It didn't tell me a thing, that's their opinion not mine. I have my own mind
Now, Ive been told
Oh come here have a boobie Hug "Too soon to motorboat? | |||
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"Have you ever put someone in the friends zone when they were interested in you, then think back later on in life and think why did I do that? The friend zone is a funny thing I seem to get friend zoned by men I'm interested in, and friend zone men who are interested in me..." I have never actually been in it but have placed a few in it ... Also have the tendency to make men I am interested think I friendzoned them | |||
"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......
Well...that told you
It didn't tell me a thing, that's their opinion not mine. I have my own mind
Now, Ive been told
Oh come here have a boobie Hug
Too soon to motorboat?"No I won't friend zone you | |||
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"I think that the "friend zone" Is an insidious pile of shit. If you're sulking for being "only" someone's friend, then you don't deserve their friendship. If you feel entitled to shag them, then you don't deserve their friendship. There's no such thing as the friendzone. There is friendship. okkkk......"From one of my favourite pieces of writing on the subject: "The friend zone perpetuates the myth that being “nice” doesn’t get you laid. Despite what friend zone apologists might tell you, the impulse to be a kind and decent person is not one that should be bitterly resisted; it’s not the equivalent of a giant chastity device, impeding your poor, helpless genitals from finding purchase at every turn." and "The friend zone posits that sex is the ultimate end of any relationship. Most people who complain about being in the “friend zone” tend to think that having sex with the object of their affections is the best, and only, way to get out of it. They believe that all the late-night heart-to-hearts and Chinese food pigouts during “Seinfeld” reruns and farmer’s market trips are ultimately for naught if it doesn’t result in hot, gooey, throbbing pelvis-bumping." and "Even if the friend zone did exist, there would be no reliable way to get out of it. Look, friendships are hard, and relationships are even harder, so wanting to have a relationship with someone you’re friends with is obviously the worst. As someone who has been both the friend zone-r and the friend zone-ee on numerous occasions, I can say that both positions are, for lack of a better term, shitty; where one side can be whiny and self-pitying and sexist, the other can be equally callous and contemptuous and cruel. What makes the friend zone even worse is that I’m pretty sure there’s nothing you can do to get out of it: most studies show that interpersonal attraction forms in the first few seconds after meeting someone, and without that initial, incontrovertible tug toward another person, it’s unlikely that it’ll ever develop, no matter how many shopping trips you go on or Gchats you have or John Hughes movies you watch. The only way you can make a friend a lover, or a lover a friend, is to be nothing less than completely honest about your intentions, and wait for them to melt in your arms or run screaming toward the nearest decontamination facility. However, there is hope, and it comes in the form of doing away with the friend zone altogether. If we stop dividing the people in our lives into categories of friends and lovers, assholes and nice guys, of those we’d have sex with and those we wouldn’t; if we stop living in fear of falling into a sexless, existential hell of our own making; if we start being truly honest with ourselves and the people we claim to love even more than ourselves, then we can learn “How To Get Out of the Friend Zone” by dismantling it entirely." | |||
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"I need a friend " Just call out my name, and you know where ever I am.............. | |||
"I need a friend Just call out my name, and you know where ever I am.............. "....I'll come running, to see you again.... | |||
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"I need a friend Just call out my name, and you know where ever I am..............
....I'll come running, to see you again...."winter spring summer or faaalllll all you gotta do is call... | |||
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"Have you ever put someone in the friends zone when they were interested in you, then think back later on in life and think why did I do that? The friend zone is a funny thing I seem to get friend zoned by men I'm interested in, and friend zone men who are interested in me..." Been there, done that, from both sides....  | |||
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"Have you ever put someone in the friends zone when they were interested in you, then think back later on in life and think why did I do that? The friend zone is a funny thing I seem to get friend zoned by men I'm interested in, and friend zone men who are interested in me..." nope you're either a friend or not with me ,zones don't come into it ,where's them two sexy red heads preferably with big fat botties or are they a myth  | |||
"is it really that bad a place to be, the friend zone. " Aye up, it's the sHaRIF of Nottingham. | |||
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