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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say living alone like I'm a proper adult or nuffink lol just free house. Funny really, all the time I'm thinking can't wait to move back out again but now I have the house to myself... it's horrible.
The silence, just can't bare it! I make the slightest bang and it's the most horrific offence to my ears lol scared to make a squeak! It's lonely, depressing and miserable.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it. When I married my ex it was straight from my parents home so when I left him last summer it was the first time id lived alone ever! There is no way I'm living with anyone else ever again. I adore my freedom n the peace n quiet infact when anyone comes up the stairs (i live in a block of flats) I wanna open my door n scream at them hahaha x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an introvert, I love silence. When the kids are at their dad's and Lee's not staying, it's nice and peaceful - in some ways, I have the perfect set-up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Its the actual conversation with someone that gets me,
Maybe that's why I don't shut up when I go to work
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Definitely feeling that one! So isolated! I feel sad for people stuck in by themselves everyday, luckily I mix and mingle at work all day but if I didn't do that I'd soon fall into a depression! Oooooh dogs sneezing  company!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the actual conversation with someone that gets me,
Maybe that's why I don't shut up when I go to work
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Most people who come to visit me run away when they realise I like to talk to another human, probably a bit too much    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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before I had kids, solitude didn't bother me. mother worked away 3 days a week. middle of nowhere, no ambient noise, no traffic. When it's silent, it really is silent. When I brought my now ex back the first time ( townie) and turned the car off, her jaw dropped at the sheer silence...
now we're seperated and I'm back here, I can't hack the quiet at all! When the kids are here, fine. .. noisy fun.. as soon as they go.. the quiet hits. I just spend my time sorting things. . Garden, cars, bikes.. keeping busy.
can't sleep in silence either. . Have to have the tv or fan on, or a loop of the kids snoring, or use Nytol. yet at work I'd rather work solo.. Go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I;ve never really lived alone until last summer. Despite the fact that I've always liked solitude and my own space. I found it weird to begin with and would work late or find other distractions to not be home alone too much. But now I absolutely love it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hated it at first
but now i love it
oh and i got a cat "
This is where it starts.... nobody sees you for weeks, you've taken in 5 cats, listening to smooth fm all day and passing your pants  sounds horrific but I think I'm headed this way also |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol"
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in "
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now."
You have forgot falling down the stairs or chocking on a piece of food
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now."
AND TO TOP IT OFF I CAN HEAR A VAN JUST RUNNING OUTSIDE |
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now.
AND TO TOP IT OFF I CAN HEAR A VAN JUST RUNNING OUTSIDE "
They are coming to get you... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now.
AND TO TOP IT OFF I CAN HEAR A VAN JUST RUNNING OUTSIDE
They are coming to get you... "
Its a joke, I get myself proper worked up haha its actually pathetic. I laughed at myself when I woke up this morning, sure I'll laugh about it in work tomorrow telling them my dramatic life happenings at the minute! |
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now."
Man up man! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hated it at first
but now i love it
oh and i got a cat
This is where it starts.... nobody sees you for weeks, you've taken in 5 cats, listening to smooth fm all day and passing your pants sounds horrific but I think I'm headed this way also "
lol it really aint that bad |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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See your all like, "oh it's not that bad, it's great, it's fine". THERES SOMEONE IN THE BACK GARDEN WATCHING WAITING TILL I TURN THE LIGHT OUT TO SLEEP! If I'm in sky news tomorrow because someone's sliced my head off and put it in the oven then I'd like my gravestone to say, "He knew they was going to get him". |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"See your all like, "oh it's not that bad, it's great, it's fine". THERES SOMEONE IN THE BACK GARDEN WATCHING WAITING TILL I TURN THE LIGHT OUT TO SLEEP! If I'm in sky news tomorrow because someone's sliced my head off and put it in the oven then I'd like my gravestone to say, "He knew they was going to get him". "
deal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Will someone please go and camp outside his home for the night,put the man out of his misery . You will get used to it"
A frigging won't! I'm on the phone to social services tomorrow morning at 9am from works phone. Not having this shit! It's not safe! |
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now."
thats what i like about you, your never over dramatic about anything. Think about me dead in my bed being eaten by the cats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Will someone please go and camp outside his home for the night,put the man out of his misery . You will get used to it"
Well I do have a balaclava and a ax
I could do it
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now.thats what i like about you, your never over dramatic about anything. Think about me dead in my bed being eaten by the cats"
Its not right is it! Imagine being murdered by your cat!!! Domestic cats ya know have their wild tendencies and it really could happen!!! Do you think there's a phone number to call for people on their own at nights for reassurance lol? I've called my mate but she's in the pub and doesn't care. She's dead to me now. |
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"Will someone please go and camp outside his home for the night,put the man out of his misery . You will get used to it
A frigging won't! I'm on the phone to social services tomorrow morning at 9am from works phone. Not having this shit! It's not safe!"
I fear you may be a little old for social services |
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol
When I first move in to my house I would lay in bed at night and every noise would sound like someone trying to break in
This is my scenario! Why happens if someone breaks in, where can I escape, where's my nearest exit. Do "they" know I'm home alone. I swear I hear people knocking at the door as well and I have to mute the tele! What happens tomorrow morning when I'm up at 6 leaving the house for 7, do I need to make the house look lived in?! This is the worst week ever. Dying must be easier than living right now.thats what i like about you, your never over dramatic about anything. Think about me dead in my bed being eaten by the cats
Its not right is it! Imagine being murdered by your cat!!! Domestic cats ya know have their wild tendencies and it really could happen!!! Do you think there's a phone number to call for people on their own at nights for reassurance lol? I've called my mate but she's in the pub and doesn't care. She's dead to me now."
me and my cats wont sleep worrying about you, you best check in in the morning otherwise we will send a search party |
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"Will someone please go and camp outside his home for the night,put the man out of his misery . You will get used to it
Well I do have a balaclava and a ax
I could do it
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Oops I didn't mean that literally,but then again if he doesn't stop going on  |
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"Will someone please go and camp outside his home for the night,put the man out of his misery . You will get used to it
Well I do have a balaclava and a ax
I could do it
Oops I didn't mean that literally,but then again if he doesn't stop going on "
 if you dont i will brain him lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ALRIGHT ALRIGHT I'm over it now (actually I'm really not) there's no noises, I've double checked the back garden for peace of mind. Dogs in with me and I've asked a friend to message me at 6 tomorrow morning to check I'm OK. I'm going to get some shut eye now but if I HEAR ANYTHING the lights will be back on and I will be back here VERY promptly.
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"Sounds pathetic but I get scared at night trying to sleep! Hear all sorts! How pathetic is this!!!! Gonna see if my mate wants to move in tomorrow lol"
I often hear noise,s occasionally I get a visit but thats because (I believe such things).. but being family hopefully I don,t mind reasureing in some ways to me, could not stand silence 24/7 so its good to mix it up a bit thou the dark months can be long, after 11 years I,ve found my way a bit and realise things more time does all these things.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"ALRIGHT ALRIGHT I'm over it now (actually I'm really not) there's no noises, I've double checked the back garden for peace of mind. Dogs in with me and I've asked a friend to message me at 6 tomorrow morning to check I'm OK. I'm going to get some shut eye now but if I HEAR ANYTHING the lights will be back on and I will be back here VERY promptly.
Thanks all."
If it;s any consolation, I live in a flat and check the door is locked several times most days! |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
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I would do many, many degrading things to have a place to myself (as opposed to living with parents, I should stress).
Just having that ability to arrange your affairs the way you want, create a little nest for yourself...it's highly underrated, and I miss it dearly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the weekends my kids are at their dad's and I'm home alone. If it was long term though I'm sure I'd be bored!
Op I think you might need some help  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go CCTV. I have 4 cameras with night vision giving a compass coverage of entry/exit points (mostly for the cars sakes), and I also have a panning night vision wireless cam in the eaves at the front maintaining an eye on the approach road.
Totally frivolous, but it reassures the kids. I keep my leatherman under the pillow. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use to love living alone .... It never happens now and I can't wait ... Hate living with others... I like my personal space too much ... Saying that I never answered the door haha |
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I've lived on my own for 6 years, the thought of someone living with me getting in my personal space terrifies me!
The only time I don't like living alone is when I'm ill and want someone to make me chicken soup and look after me.
Oh and when the cats try and trip me up on the stairs, that shits me right up! |
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"Love it.
I am responsible to nobody;
I come and go as I please;
I have the time to do the things I want to do.
I socialise with people on my terms
And I am very content with my own company ...."
Definitely. Happiest I have ever been  |
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By *jj46Man
over a year ago
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When split from other half i moved out now she's moved out of property ive took over the house.took awhile but love it .plus I get to crank my guitar up .play my on my turntables or play ps3 without a mumble of a whinge.bring who i like back to house.  |
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living alone. 
lol